man... at least u are doing better now (except for the Gal part ) ... i'm going to lose my job end of the year.. my boss already gives me heads up that i will be retrenched...
btw.. will we get zapped for TCSS here?? guess we are hijacking pple's thread... ha ha ha..
Zapped.......I hope not......TS won't mind abit for old Kakis to catch up abit lah....TS hor???
Start looking out for a new job Seannie, I was also asked to leave my position due to high level Corporate politics. Job market is bad, maybe you should try the food or FMCG industry which is sort of recession proof or so to say. Try to avoid construction and property companies, semi-conductor and investment banks - industry that I felt the worst hit.
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Start looking out for a new job Seannie, I was also asked to leave my position due to high level Corporate politics. Job market is bad, maybe you should try the food or FMCG industry which is sort of recession proof or so to say. Try to avoid construction and property companies, semi-conductor and investment banks - industry that I felt the worst hit.
bro... u damn chun!!! i'm currently in the semicon industry!! ... really phui phui phui..
if i still young and no commitment, still ok.. but with wife and kid, need to pay mortage and car loan.. going to be tough man... somemore almost 40 already, how to look for job??..... sigh.. maybe need to sell my car... anyway.. now looking for jobs and cutting down on spendings...
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just my 5 cents advices. if this is the true facts that TS describe then you and your wife can bring your friend to vienam embassy to lodge a report and ask for assistances.
however, if there is no physical abuses by the husband you cannot file for a divorce as this is not ill treatment. maybe the husband is not well off to give her a luxury life in singapore.
next, if you wife's friend is persistent in getting a divorce, is she ready to give up her PR citizenship in singapore? and also all in all, no physical abuse by the husband i personally think getting divorced is a waste of time.
if your wife's friend really decided to leave this old man then she can buy a ticket and leave the home and go back to vietnam first. if the man refused to let her leave and confine her then she can make a police report.
this is only my advices which may not be applicable to the situation TS had described. thanks
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Originally Posted by X_plorer
This is a true fact, which happens few days ago. I was very very fed up, so i post this tread and ask for help for this Vietnam Lady who is a friend of my wife's.
My wife just brought me to see her friend last Sunday, there is this uncle who married my wife's friend last year. Which i thought my wife is blowing up the story only when i feel it myself, the gal went out with us for a meal together, then to catch up for a while with my wife, but her husband call up and ask where we are, then also ask for my wife's contact.
But here comes the trouble, he call around 10 min later asking where we are going, and ask a lots of question, going where, going to do what, etc..., then after 20 min, he called again, asking where is our exact location, what time coming back etc... then another 10 min called again, asking where is the exact location again, and another 10 min call again, which i n my wife dun even bother to ans, when total to 23 missed call from my mobile, dun how many missed call from her wife's mobile.
But that's not the worst, he calculate even a single cent with his wife that going here and there, like petrol cost to go here and there to eat, so expensive, how much it cost, then eat seafood expensive...etc. I can't even imagine, her wife requested just to eat 2 crab, and my wife told me that the husband didn't even buy for her to eat just because expensive, come on, how expensive is that?
And even she wanted to buy chat chat card to call back to Vietnam, she have to pay for herself.
Here comes the most annoying part. The husband will only give her household allowance after every 30 days in Singapore and will only give 10 days upon reaching 30 days, and she is suppose to work with him from morning 6am to 6pm giving her $50 daily only after work, only food, the husband will pay for her, but all the other things which the wife's need or other things, she would have to pay for herself. I even heard that her husband got a son and a daughter already, but only the son is staying with him. But he even collect rental from his son just because he is staying with him.
The gal told my wife that her husband change totally after marriage from day 1. Which i think, who can endure this type of treatment, is she his wife, or just treating her like a overnight booking working whore?
This uncle is a 60 plus old uncle and the gal is just 20 plus.. And he didn't even give a single cent to her family when married. He is such a miser till who can tolerate this kind of person and act. He is not poor, i seen his car, he can buy a korean car at around $70plus k and fully paid, and wanted to change car in a few months time, and his house also fully paid. But he can be so bastard..
So anyone can figure out who can help the gal to divorce the husband? But the issue is the gal do not have money to pay for the lawyer, but the husband would not file for divorce and pay for the fees neither.
If any bros here wants to know the address of this bastard son of a bitch, i can even find out. I only know he lives at AMK, Blk 547 or 5**, can't remember well, on the second level.
Any comments on this type of people?
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No problem but hi jacking my thread here.. Anyway.. TCSS is another way of relaxing sia...
Being retrenched is not the end of the day, but the start of another journey. The journey might be of humps, but it might be even smoother.. Life still have to goes on.. Strive when you can, work hard, but play even more hard..
That is why SBF is one of the ways to destress and enjoy..
just my 5 cents advices. if this is the true facts that TS describe then you and your wife can bring your friend to vienam embassy to lodge a report and ask for assistances.
however, if there is no physical abuses by the husband you cannot file for a divorce as this is not ill treatment. maybe the husband is not well off to give her a luxury life in singapore.
next, if you wife's friend is persistent in getting a divorce, is she ready to give up her PR citizenship in singapore? and also all in all, no physical abuse by the husband i personally think getting divorced is a waste of time.
if your wife's friend really decided to leave this old man then she can buy a ticket and leave the home and go back to vietnam first. if the man refused to let her leave and confine her then she can make a police report.
this is only my advices which may not be applicable to the situation TS had described. thanks
Thanks Bro for your advice.. Any way, the case is closed, she have gone back to Vietnam and would be coming back soon but without the acknowledgement of the old man, but with the intention of finding another man who can take care of her before settling with the marriage now..
Not my issue liao..
Just helping my wife to ask as she keeps asking me to help her if possible..
06-11-2008, 12:27 PM
) ... i'm going to lose my job end of the year.. my boss already gives me heads up that i will be retrenched... 
