How to engage in a FB?

[84gunner]

Originally Posted by dnagene_gal

I only say as an example of 1K... But I know is more than that. Anyway alot of girls are all like that... You find it difficult to find such girls meh? Normally pretty girls know that they have what it takes... So they are not so despo like those average looking girls.

very good & rare 2 have such honest & direct words, especially from an SG gal.

So, indirectly, I should say the above mentioned gals are indirectly prostituting themselves for material returns, rather than direct exchange for cash!

[84gunner]

Originally Posted by Liv3vil

I have been wondering, bros here often talk bout having a FB before and even after marriage. But, is it so easy to find a FB? Normally FB started from a mutual friend then convert to FB?

I have been looking for a FB for quite sometime but dunno whether to approach my female friends or not. Wait kena slap.

Any 1 care to share your experience?

Approach yr female frens? Unless u went their pants / in between their legs oredi, wat makes u think they will even consider bonking wif u?

If u had bonked them b4, I dun think they're called "female frens" oredi? If u haven't bonked them b4, try 2 bonk the 1st, and then a few more bonks, b4 u even consider about FB!!!

I believe possibility of gf/wife starting from a mutual fren is higher, than FB!

[CyberRod]

Originally Posted by ~|@|~

anyways, not so easy to find FB... depends on fate, like finding your soulmate in sex. i found my last FB when i least expected it...

Absolutely agree... My last FB was in yr 2005 and I jus found 1... Known her thru a course, kept in touch, she MSN me 2 nitez ago and it jus happen...!

But of cos, we lay down the ground rules before each other so that it's agreeable by all parties... Just ironed out any possible complications and our action start next wk...!

Really depends on fate... Like looking for a gf...

[poison]

Why can't just find a long term relationship rather than a FB? FB - takes time.

[Michael]

Usually some FBs are a result from ONS... hahaha...

Anyway, it is NOT likely for friends whom you know for quite some time, coz if they wanna fuck you, they would have fucked you a long time ago... so usually if I met a new girl, after the 3-4 outing and still no sex, u will know she's not a FB/ONS type of girl... Those who are, you would have eaten them liao!

So the thing is, if it's a ONS/FB you're after, don't be close with the girl! And must fast fast go in!

[dnagene_gal]

Originally Posted by 84gunner

very good & rare 2 have such honest & direct words, especially from an SG gal.

So, indirectly, I should say the above mentioned gals are indirectly prostituting themselves for material returns, rather than direct exchange for cash!

You consider that prostituting???? Well I dunno, I am not one of those girls. But if this is what they want, let them be. Anyway pretty girls will show more value for themselves than not so pretty ones. For example, if you go clubbing, the tendancy of a not so pretty girl who throw herself to a guy is higher than a gorgeous sexy one.

[dnagene_gal]

Originally Posted by poison

Why can't just find a long term relationship rather than a FB? FB - takes time.

And you dont think that long-term r/s requires time too? OK! I know! You are the sort of guy whose gfs are those that can be fucked easily.. like within hours/days of being together!

I'm not being rude/crude to your past/current/potential gfs, but i admit i am being sacarstic to YOU. you already mentioned LONG-TERM RELATIONSHIP... You mean you can go with a girl on a LONG TERM BASIS despite not needing to TAKE TIME to understand her?

Then what are relationhips to you manns? And btw.... Being in a relationship, is not all about sex. Cos it seem to me you rather choose a Long-Term R/s than a FB cos its quicker to snag one and fuck her.

I'm just speaking from a girl's pt of view. If you dont like what I said, then so be it. I'm pretty annoyed by your statement.

[84gunner]

Originally Posted by dnagene_gal

You consider that prostituting???? Well I dunno, I am not one of those girls. But if this is what they want, let them be. Anyway pretty girls will show more value for themselves than not so pretty ones. For example, if you go clubbing, the tendancy of a not so pretty girl who throw herself to a guy is higher than a gorgeous sexy one.

Yup, if this is what many, if not most SG gals want, let them be. I'm outta the game in SG. Prefer 2 do watever I'm doing now, outside SG, making much more $$ than in SG, enjoying life much more than in SG, and of course, not to mention, much more obedient, submissive, gentle & virtuous gals compared 2 SG!!!

Well, we all know, guys have sex wif prostitutes in exchange for $$$. Rite? Isn't tat a material gain in exchange for sex? So, instead of asking for cash, the gals ask for other material stuffs, but isn't that still material gain, for having sex?

Maybe it makes those gals feel better, in the sense that they are not getting cash, like the prostitutes. The prostitutes can spend the cash in watever way they want. If the gals want some material items, such as some jewellery, watch, handbag, shoes, mobile phones, etc etc, instead of buying it with cash directly, she ask the guy to buy it for her. So literally, it's called a gift, not cash, so it's not defined as prostitution? But in reality, instead of giving a pre-define amount of cash, this guy is now paying an amount of $$ equal to the price of the merchandise. But, end of the day, the guy is still paying the $$$, albeit indirectly, instead of cash directly 2 the gal, he's paying for a merchandise item & then giving this merchandise item to the gal. For the gal, if she receives the cash, she can use the cash to buy those same merchandise item. But that act of receiving cash is defined as prostitution! So, by receiving a merchandise item, that's a gift, not cash, so it's not defined as prostitution! It juz makes things sound better, makes the gal feel she isn't prostituting, or low-class. That's wat I feel. SG gals juz like to hear nice things, see nice things. Even if it's fabricated or artificial, as long as it's nice & pleasant, ok liao. Most SGPeans can't accept negative comments.

It's similar to some niteclubs, where the guys buy flower garlands & hang on the gals' necks. Different garlands cost different prices. But, at the end of the nite, the gals go to the counter, changes the garlands in exchange for cash from the club (cashing out the garlands, like cashing out casino chips)!

[Chinapuss]

"Being in a relationship, is not all about sex..."

Well spoken and agree with you,dnagene_gal...

[Chinapuss]

Engaging in FB might meanz de guy gets (F)ree (B)onk and de gal gets (F)ree (B)racelet...both are happi...rite??

[dnagene_gal]

Originally Posted by Chinapuss

Engaging in FB might meanz de guy gets (F)ree (B)onk and de gal gets (F)ree (B)racelet...both are happi...rite??

No leh... If girl gets her FB then the guy must fork out $$ to buy his FB a FB... then its not a free bonk for him already.

Anyway I do not believe in the FB theory. Its totally bullshit imo. Whats sex without love? Its merely the pleasure for that moment, during the period of FB-ing. Afterwhich, what comes out of it? NOTHING. You will be simply left with nothingness... Even if the guys were to boast about their conquests.

[PS3SG]

How about both yourself & the gal are married but still need each other?

[dnagene_gal]

Originally Posted by PS3SG

How about both yourself & the gal are married but still need each other?

Hmmmprolly they are just flirty even aft mariage.. OR their respective partner is not satisfying them enough, hence they have to seek out for fbs. Well, I guess as long as both sides understand the golden rule of NOT disrupting the other partner's family/life, its okie. BUT of cos... It's better not to get involved with a married person. Cos when love starts coming in, all you are left with is heartache and tears.

[Kyser Soze]

Originally Posted by dnagene_gal

And btw.... Being in a relationship, is not all about sex. Cos it seem to me you rather choose a Long-Term R/s than a FB cos its quicker to snag one and fuck her.

I'm just speaking from a girl's pt of view.

Likewise for a man looking for a true relationship, it is not based solely on sex either.

[Schmi]

As a married man, if you had engaged with a married women and she's willing to give up her marriage to stick with you, what'll you do?