Can a sg guy and a PRC be friends? --- platonic friends without any sexual relations

[yanki1]

Originally Posted by oakleyeug

For a long long time I keep thinking when will it be my turn to have a family? When will it be my turn to have a house? I realized again I have been making a lot of stops and I really am sick of stopping in between already, I wanted to stop. But seems like fate playing a joke on me, just after break off I clinch a good sales fig, passed my audit with flying colors and best all the customer that I cannot close previously have called me back to enquire about the pricing and stuff like that.

Irony life rite? TO HELL WITH IT MAN.......

OAK

sometime life is like that. but still has to go on what to do. ren zhai jiang hu shen bu you ji.

[Sorin^^]

Originally Posted by oakleyeug

For a long long time I keep thinking when will it be my turn to have a family? When will it be my turn to have a house? I realized again I have been making a lot of stops and I really am sick of stopping in between already, I wanted to stop. But seems like fate playing a joke on me,Irony life rite? TO HELL WITH IT MAN.......

OAK

Bro relax man Bro, i'm sure ur turn to start a family will come. Meantime, u can concentrate earning tons of money leh, keke, since ur career is good now.

Relax, man man lai. For me i leave it to fate.(wonder if other bros agree boh) Like that more eng eng cheng cheng).

Cheers

[oakleyeug]

Originally Posted by Sorin^^

Bro relax man Bro, i'm sure ur turn to start a family will come. Meantime, u can concentrate earning tons of money leh, keke, since ur career is good now.

Relax, man man lai. For me i leave it to fate.(wonder if other bros agree boh) Like that more eng eng cheng cheng).

Cheers

Hey thanks no worries though, I am getting used to it but it is just when the mixed feeling stepped in. I don know if I should feel happy or sad?

Super mixed feeling and worst is when I wanna go out drink friends are just not by my side, haha maybe it is part of the deal when I come to China.

Now just need to vent out my anger and relax, think it is time for me to really call for relaxation. Have a tough road ahead of me, I just need to re-engerize myself for better future.

Oak

[hornyclown]

Originally Posted by oakleyeug

Hey thanks no worries though, I am getting used to it but it is just when the mixed feeling stepped in. I don know if I should feel happy or sad?

Super mixed feeling and worst is when I wanna go out drink friends are just not by my side, haha maybe it is part of the deal when I come to China.

Now just need to vent out my anger and relax, think it is time for me to really call for relaxation. Have a tough road ahead of me, I just need to re-engerize myself for better future.

Oak

hey bro since u gave good advice on my thread i also try to edge u on in your life...
c'mon life is full of ups and downs...and normally downs are more than ups
well cheer up bro

anyway i just went out with her.... and i still do not know what she wants
i think i will just bide my time and see how first ba

[oakleyeug]

Originally Posted by hornyclown

hey bro since u gave good advice on my thread i also try to edge u on in your life...
c'mon life is full of ups and downs...and normally downs are more than ups
well cheer up bro

anyway i just went out with her.... and i still do not know what she wants
i think i will just bide my time and see how first ba

Hey mate trust me understand the whole situation first before you actually make any commitment, you never know who you are dealing with.

Some of the ladies I met in China told me when they go to Singapore to study, most of them are afriad of Buaya and getting cheated. I realized most of them are virgins and driving a min of Mers S320 (2 door), try to find out more anyway to travel to China is cheap like shit now.

Air Tickets
To travel to 广州 cheapest by all means is take flight to HongKong (S$320), go to the tickets counter in Hongkong for a direct bus ride to 广州 (S$120 and it will take you 4 hours min to reach 广州) . Total spending you need to prepare are S$1000.

History
I learn a lot from the local China man, from understanding this is the history. China has a 5000 years history and after the culture revolt alot of things change, China people are kind by nature but after the opening of doors to the world they are cheated to the extend.

Extend means a lot of forigeners actually play and FO, leaving most of the people in China pissed off. The business unit also suffer cause they lack of exprience and they are not as cunning as the rest of the world. So they change again, alot of us heard stories in 1989 onwards and this is the time they really are agressive towards every prospects.

Hope that all these information helps, try to see if all these information allows you to do a fair judgement in your views.

Oak

[no_faith]

Originally Posted by oakleyeug

History
I learn a lot from the local China man, from understanding this is the history. China has a 5000 years history and after the culture revolt alot of things change, China people are kind by nature but after the opening of doors to the world they are cheated to the extend.

Extend means a lot of forigeners actually play and FO, leaving most of the people in China pissed off. The business unit also suffer cause they lack of exprience and they are not as cunning as the rest of the world. So they change again, alot of us heard stories in 1989 onwards and this is the time they really are agressive towards every prospects.

i din noe such info. learnt a bit again.

[dirtymonk82]

Originally Posted by hornyclown

I just made friend with a PRC waitress who is studying here part time in sg.
We kinda get along well and she is the conservative type.... got one time i just try to wipe her mouth off using my fingers cos her mouth is dirty from the food she ate and she got angry saying i am so rude din ask permission and touch her. I was shocked by this reaction and apologise...

Now... anyone got this kinda experience b4? being close friends with a PRC who is innocent in such a way?
But the funny thing is she allows me to her fren's condo and she swam while i sat there watching and we even bought groceries from supermarket....

Wow..didnt knew you start a thread here on this subject. Come give the bros here the summary after 2 yrs...hahhaa

[D.o.P]

Be decent friend, why not. Just careful don't overspent on her. If you want her, you must accept her family and relatives too. Find out her family background bit by bit.

[JediSkull]

I must say china gals are smart. If they'r here in sg. They'r here for a reason.

China lady workers
they'r cheap labour but pay is better than china. Some in factories actually sleep with engineers. My sgrean engineer frens who work in semi conductor industry always bonk those inexperienced fresh poly grads!

Poly n Uni China gals
Be it study hard, get good results and get a good job here.
Coz i FT student in poly, I realise that china gals are not shy about body contact. Can be very fun to be with. Like when they have questions, they would use their bodies n sit next to u and ask u nicely how to solve this problem. wah piangz, sometimes i really feel like doing the wrong things there n then! But most of these gals are looking at a good sgrean bf in uni or at least a rich china bf who's also studying in sg.

GL CAT100
SLYIEST OF THEM ALL! in china is RMB$100 come SG become SGD$100. screw one sgrean = screw 5 chinamen! worth coming to sg?!?! OF COZ!
sgrean guys mostly gentlemen somemore. play sure pay. plus all kia see wear protection. Its no wonder Gayland is swamped by them day by day!

How can it ever be platonic unless it is your colleague who is happily married and earning big bucks. Otherwise, they will always aspire to marry to sg or be mistress to sg men. Cannot be just fren nia ... and guess what sex is the only thing they can offer, so platonic relationship ... no way ... but there are always exceptions, but not much.

Originally Posted by no_faith

i din noe such info. learnt a bit again.

Wow bro, u go dig up a 2 year old thread .... anyway, I also agree wif most bros, platonic relationship ... chances is extremely slim ,...

[dap26]

Originally Posted by JediSkull

I must say china gals are smart. If they'r here in sg. They'r here for a reason.

China lady workers
they'r cheap labour but pay is better than china. Some in factories actually sleep with engineers. My sgrean engineer frens who work in semi conductor industry always bonk those inexperienced fresh poly grads!

Bro,thanks for those sharings of yr information..

[old_yet_horny]

Bro Hornyclown,

Forgive me for being frank..
You have not even reached the stage of calling yourself couples or there is no act or commitment of relationship so far.. There is no sacrifices here as yet from you..

So dun worry and just continue to be friends with this PRC gal.
Dun jump into conclusion that all PRC ladies are bad.. Just proceed with care.

Here's a list of duns that you may consider taking up before you can confirm that she is your steady GF (as in getting married type):

1) Dun buy her jewelries taht cost you 0.5 months of your pay even on special occasions.

2) Dun bring her to porsche places that cost you 1 week of your pay for dinners even on special occasions.

3) Dun not lend her big amount of money.

4) Dun just keep your focus on her, make more female friends outside.

The above are cushions for you to fall on if you failed..


This forum is full of peole who can give you their experience/advices although some may be rubbish but so far, bros here are giving quite sincere advises..

So just look around ya!

[Heart Break Kid]

Originally Posted by JediSkull

I must say china gals are smart. If they'r here in sg. They'r here for a reason.

China lady workers
they'r cheap labour but pay is better than china. Some in factories actually sleep with engineers. My sgrean engineer frens who work in semi conductor industry always bonk those inexperienced fresh poly grads!

Poly n Uni China gals
Be it study hard, get good results and get a good job here.
Coz i FT student in poly, I realise that china gals are not shy about body contact. Can be very fun to be with. Like when they have questions, they would use their bodies n sit next to u and ask u nicely how to solve this problem. wah piangz, sometimes i really feel like doing the wrong things there n then! But most of these gals are looking at a good sgrean bf in uni or at least a rich china bf who's also studying in sg.

If what you describe is true.. ho say liao, mi got chance to hook one liao

[just4fun]

If u want to maintain "just-a-friend" relationship...First thing first, you really need to ask urself this question..."this is wat u want"...Deep from ur heart (and i mean real deep) is this wat u want from her????

If u really want to maintain a friendship rather than a relationship...u must excercise control over urself...Which is impt...Those bros here whom are hurt before by PRCs...I believe to a great extent...fail to control their emotions...

To maintain a friendship...I dun think u will need to wipe off the watever stains on her face...just offer a tissue or even "siao ah!!!, ur face got curry lah...u hungry ghost si bo"... At least, this is how I treat my friend, regardless of their gender... Wat will she thinks of u if u alway behave in this manner???? U r such a gentleman...(as compared to the tiongkokkia in china whom are MCP) Can she resist it????

Also, I dun call my or sms my friend every now and then asking if she has taken her lunch, wat the fuck is she doing...Cos friendship dun warranty all these...At least for you whom are in the infant stage of friendship ( I believe there are bros here whom have friends of opp gender which they maintain very close bonds...but pls bare in mind....all these take times and not overnight)

As for buying of groceries...I think you may continue to do so, but pls bear in mind, and also deliver this meassage arcoss to her... I am doing it out of friendship and certainly not my obligations to alway do so... U may feel pitiful or rather find it hard for a gal like her to stay in spore and likes to offer a helping hand....Pls make it clear...

End of the day, make sure both of u know is going on....Have a clear mind... Maintain ur friendship as per this way... I mean if u want lah....Of cos, if u dun mind her as ur gf and vice versa...take watver I wrote and throw it inside a rubbish bin....

Just my worthless pcs of thoughts!!!

Just4fun