The Edge Of Reason - Part 1

[Krungthep Lover]

Originally Posted by ryanlim

Chuwit's post : Post #14

Oh, that "CHUWIT", I thought the bro was talking about a quote from the real CHUWIT. Thanks for the enlightenment.

[Krungthep Lover]

Originally Posted by Maitong Kit Mak

Hi KT Lover,

Good FR from u ! 1 thing I do notice about Thai gals are that they are very "Jian4" in a way. Meaning that if u treat them nice, they won't give a shit or they won't treasure u at all, they won't necessary appreciate what u had done etc....BUT if u play along with them and learn the Thai guys way of treating the gals, like simply treat them like dirt of nothing even thou u love them etc...Just don't show them easily u love them(Eg, sometimes they call,just don't pick up the phone OR don't bother to call them too often OR if they call, just said u r busy and call back later etc), let them play the guessing game or let them fell that they need to do a lot more to get ur love etc.....that way, they will treat u truly...maybe, thou it depends.

These are some experience I had gather from some brudders and my past years of chionging in Thailand...Hope that helps...Any brudders out there disagee?

Thanks for the compliment. As for your observation, I may be wrong or have not been spending as much time there as you to have observed it, but I don't really subscribe to that train of thought. Like another bro said, you need to be yourself, have your own identity. Don't turn yourself into a beast just because you think that would get you what you want. Everyone of us would approach a similar situation differently, no one would react in identical ways, that's what makes us all unique individuals. Even if being "bad" to the gal will "win" her affections, I wouldn't do it. If that's what she wants then she's not what I want, and I would move on. Call me a sucker but I'm still very old-fashioned when it comes to such things, you know like holding the door open for the lady to walk out first. If I were a working gal and someone is considerate and shows me such little caring gestures, I would be touched. Especially when you spend everyday serving beasts who just treat you like a piece of meat. Don't you agree?

[Krungthep Lover]

Originally Posted by OceanEleven

The guru speaks again. So when are you gonna land your ass in LOS again?

What you had said may be true to a certain extent but one must remember, we are there to seek companionship, fun and enjoyment, may be be too keen to spend to much time on mind games. We are there to play, not to stay. Also, most Singaporean guys had too much respect for the opposite sex and being a gentleman we are, we might not bear to bring the beast in us on her.

Some of us may just wish to do the "wham-bam-thank-you-ma'am" routine 'cos of time constraints. However, some of us may be in it for a little more than that. If you asked any "hunter", they'll tell you that the fun is in the hunt and not the final killing. I'm a little like that I guess. Had I been successful in getting the gal out that night, I may not be that interested now. Call me "jian" like what a bro mentioned, but I'm actually having more fun now than if I had it easy. There's this element of doubt, will I, won't I, can I, can't I, going on now, and that just adds to the suspense. It keeps me on my toes and gets my brains working in miraculous ways.

Bro!! This is absolute prose, a literary breath of fresh air that doesn't rank of the usual wham bam, BBJ, AR thank you mam. Practically a Tolstoy of threads. Keep it flowin.

[Krungthep Lover]

Originally Posted by Maitong Kit Mak

Hi Brudder,

I guess u r rite as well...Really depends on ones mentality, for fun or into mind games...hehehe! Yeah, I guess as well most of them had too much respect for the opposite sex...sometimes we just got to tighten our heart...thou I know some brudders is able to...u should know who...seems like he's got the beast/devil mixture in him...potentially.

Btw, I may be going to Taiwan & Bkk in late Apr..hope to see u there

To each his own, but what I think is that these gals are human beings too, so we should treat them with respect in the same manner we would treat say a doctor when you visit the clinic.

Did you say you'll be in Bangkok in late April? Bro POLICEMAN and I are also planning to be there around that time, maybe we can hookup for a drink then.

[Krungthep Lover]

Originally Posted by free

I think it really depends on what path you are taking and which "pond" u choose to "swim" in. Sometimes pull back on the "attention" part I agree, though not on purpose but was really buzy (often in a meeting or similar), and it works a bit. But treat them like dirt?". Maybe my experience has been totally different. They chose me largely coz I dun behave like the "thai guys" u talk about.

I totally agree with you bro FREE. I've been fairly successful with gals in general 'cos I threat them with respect. I choose to continue to be myself.

Bro, absolute prose, a literary breath of fresh air that doesn't rank of the usual wham-bam-AR-BBJ (oh by the way, congrats on losing your ass virginity). Definitely a Tolstoy of threads. Keep it flowin.

[orbit_beer]

truly a genuine cheongster....u have my deepest respect.

[siamcutey]

Originally Posted by free

I think it really depends on what path you are taking and which "pond" u choose to "swim" in. Sometimes pull back on the "attention" part I agree, though not on purpose but was really buzy (often in a meeting or similar), and it works a bit. But treat them like dirt?". Maybe my experience has been totally different. They chose me largely coz I dun behave like the "thai guys" u talk about.

Different girls, different strokes.

Must see what kind of thai girl too.
If the girl is very gentle and good to you when you treat her good, then by all means treat her good lor.

But if you treat the girl like shit and yet the girl still want to stick to you and love you even more, then treat her like shit. And these kind of girls is the more bastard you are, the more they love you.

SC

Originally Posted by Krungthep Lover

I totally agree with you bro FREE. I've been fairly successful with gals in general 'cos I threat them with respect. I choose to continue to be myself.

Yo bro KL, great prose. The way you described, it was like I was there too. Would love to meet XXX, care to share?

[tirak69]

there is no "sure win" formula... every person reacts to a situation differently. it all depends on what you are comfortable with. you are going there to have fun, enjoy yourself... just do what u normally do. if it works, it works... so many gals in bkk... sure got chance u can find that fall for your M.O.

be patient and make more frequent trips... its like mining lor... one day you will hit jackpot (whether for good or worse - depends on perspective).

chok dee bro.

[Maitong Kit Mak]

Originally Posted by Krungthep Lover

To each his own, but what I think is that these gals are human beings too, so we should treat them with respect in the same manner we would treat say a doctor when you visit the clinic.

Did you say you'll be in Bangkok in late April? Bro POLICEMAN and I are also planning to be there around that time, maybe we can hookup for a drink then.

Brudder KT Lover,

Sure...Tentatively will be between 18th~21st in Taiwan and then 21st~30th Apr in Bkk..thou not firm yet...Will update u as it draws nearer.

I do agree with what u said to an extend(To each his own and individual preference)..I am also the type more in the process and not so much on the final result...may it be gd or bad. But I guess if one were to play this game with someone in this "Trade" and u don't expect to have an ending with her, probably this is how to play the game, thou not exactly like a beast but just know when to pull and give. I don't mean to say that things like open door or pulling out of chairs or cooking for her can't be done, but sometimes just know when to ignore her for a while and play hard to get as well..hehehe! Anyway, I also do notice these gals sometimes tends to play hard to get as well...At the end of the day, I guess we are different from the Thai guys (If u play smartly) in a way is that thou some brudders or even I do play the game like I mentioned before , so called "Beast" like at times not picking up their calls or not calling them often etc, WE DO HAVE due respect for ALL, may it be gals in the arb nam industry or anyone... Overall, plike what I said, playing like a beast and yet having the respect for these ladies is why SG guys are at many class above the Thai guys who most doesn't show respect to women at all. Probably this is another reason why until today, Thai women still prefers to look for a bf or husband overseas........

[free]

Originally Posted by Maitong Kit Mak

.... but sometimes just know when to ignore her for a while and play hard to get as well..hehehe! Anyway, I also do notice these gals sometimes tends to play hard to get as well...At the end of the day, I guess we are different from the Thai guys (If u play smartly) in a way is that thou some brudders or even I do play the game like I mentioned before , so called "Beast" like at times not picking up their calls or not calling them often etc, WE DO HAVE due respect for ALL, may it be gals in the arb nam industry or anyone... Overall, plike what I said, playing like a beast and yet having the respect for these ladies is why SG guys are at many class above the Thai guys who most doesn't show respect to women at all. Probably this is another reason why until today, Thai women still prefers to look for a bf or husband overseas........

Yes, calling less often (whether on purpose or otherwise) once in a while or telling her I am busy (which is true) once in a while does make a difference. And it was Barbelicious BEL (old old thread I started) (now more like a Nong Sao) who taught me that! Guess it takes a TG to know another, and it applies to ALL TGs, whether WL or not. Problem for me is that it is real hard not to call her when I miss her

[Maitong Kit Mak]

Originally Posted by free

Yes, calling less often (whether on purpose or otherwise) once in a while or telling her I am busy (which is true) once in a while does make a difference. And it was Barbelicious BEL (old old thread I started) (now more like a Nong Sao) who taught me that! Guess it takes a TG to know another, and it applies to ALL TGs, whether WL or not. Problem for me is that it is real hard not to call her when I miss her

Bro, I guess calling her at times which u can't resist does happens to alot of bros...including me That's why I said, pull and give at time..heheheh!

[brent]

I am so confused with the thread starter's complaint now. So are u complaining 1) poor after-sales service in a customer relationship or 2) poor girl friend attitude in a love relationship? If it's the former one, then I can tell u going to dinner or disco is not considered or included as part of after-sales service in a MP COMMERCIAL SEX TRANSACTION. If it's the latter one then it's even more funny, u consider she's your lover after ONE commercial sex? I would understand if this is your first commercial sex experience but obviously it's not the case. No disrespect u simply acted like a childish and bitter and disrespectful CUSTOMER. And last but not least, she's a whore. So please dont feel that's an insult when u give her a tip. Just maybe u think she's your lover after one commercial sex doesnt mean she has the same feeling.