I guess I am just a lost boy seeking for some advice, please bear with my inexperience and slight stupidity and ignorance if there are any.
re: you are lost and stupid by just being here
To all uncles, well Kor Kors too if you are unmarried or just older than me but prefers Kor Kor over uncle, I am here to seek for advice as I have stated as of above.
re: you should get that from your mentor in school, not here.
It will not be in any form related to sex, yes although this is a sex forum, but I believe the fact that people from all aspects of life had gathered here.
Re: Not sex then go to another forum. There are forums for everything.
Hence, I believe I can understand or even solve my problem/situation using different point of views.
Issue 1
My first “situation” is the fact that somehow, I’ve met an older “sis” (she is 18/19 by the way, and I am 15) online, since this March. She was a mutual friend but we got better. She is really nice to me. However, ignores me half the time and was kind of “cold” towards me. Most of the time, she just talk to people of her same age or older online. There was once I remembered why she boasted in-front of me, she said it was because I am special to her (do not really get it also). For a period of time, while I was asking her about choosing subject combination and all, she likes (or just being an ass) to end her sentence of with, “kid”. And I almost met her once in real life, because I was looking for a tutor and she turned out to me one. However, distance kept us apart, as the time consumed traveling is just too great. (She did say we will meet when we are older, but wouldn’t that make her even older? (Before asking her to be my tutor)) By the way, she did gave me her number and the fact that somehow I managed to find her private Twitter account, she allowed me to follow her on it too.
Does it really mean anything to her of what her actions had done?
Re: there is nothing to answer for this. this is just how girls are, 16 or 36. The is nohing her action mean, and there is nothing you can do even if there is, cos nothing is going to teach you shit. Experience is gain through failure, not advise/advice
The other issue comes, is somehow I am having feelings for her for no exact reason that even I myself doesn’t seems to be able to justify. I did try to forget thinking about her, since March. But it was getting harder and somehow I thought of her daily. And will anything happen to both of us eventually?
re: you think the people on SBF are prophets? if they are, they won't be here already. how will anyone know what will happen to both of you?
Issue 2
The second “issue” is the fact that all my friends in school are somehow “fake” are “mask” wearers, in the sense that, they will only come to me when they need my help. Which really sucks for me, as even during recess and projects the feeling of getting abandoned just doesn’t feels nice at all. And the fact that I will be with the same bunch of people or “clique” if you would like to call it, next year.
re: you are a sucker that all. there is no mystery to why people come to you when they need help. cos not only are you fake, you show off you can do alot and you are desperate for attention n friendship, so u trade what you can do in attempt that you can gain friends.
issue 3
The third “problem”, I never had a girlfriend before. I am curious why do I whenever treat my crushes nice, I just get “friendzoned” at the end of the day? And some guy got her the next? Or is it maybe the fact that I never have the balls to confess even till now?
re: you can slowly slowly go and use your jedi powers to make the girl attracted to you. Gd luck!
issue 4
The fourth “brain teaser” is the fact that I never really feel “stressed” during exams, but rather the fact that I am annoyed by it as things(revise, revise and more revision) is happening again. What’s more, especially next year I am going to be Sec 3, and will be taking on Triple Science and A+E Maths, most people (seniors) say it’s a tough workload just to be in a normal Sec 3 class. I am rather frustrated at the fact that there are so many more things to learn. I am happy that I will be learning more, new and interesting stuffs. But somehow it is getting the hang of me.
Re: Quit school if r not happy with it. Most of the successful people in life, never finish school. so why tell us your problem. its your miserable life, so deal with it yourself. got nothing to do with us if you study or if you don't study.
what a waste of bandwidth. What is next? Which subject to take for O levels, and which JC/Poly should I go?
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bro, u lack of 1 letter. coz TS is "ACTING" it only !!!
Come to think about it, what is in it for me when I lie about it? I can't think of anything. Why will I lie? I doubt I gain anything from manipulating the facts.
Oh noes, dont go away just right now, where else are you gonna find seasoned fuckers like us to give you a good talking to??
see here, you dont really understand the bulk of my post so i'll go over it again...
your crushee has the benefit of a few more years experience so she can likely see where she is going down the road with you... she is "breaking the chain" by minimising contact with you. However, somewhere along the road, the chances of her getting in a sexual relationship whether hetero or homo is highly likely...
Thus it follows that at some point she's gonna get fucked.... and if you follow the "train of thought" to the conclusion, at some point she's gonna get dumped, married, or shit like that, you feels me?
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Come to think about it, what is in it for me when I lie about it? I can't think of anything. .
Aight homie, yoús saying you acing your grades and shit in school? dont lie now to a playa, see here, i's been there done that, you aint no star student, no sirree....
yous cant even get ya Priorities right, but ya spicied the word up with a couple of extra letters, know what um saying?? unless, ya know in the heat of the moment you got pissed off and shit so you like mispelled a word, know what um saying??
see here, dog - those real college boys even whens they post on the internets, you can tell they college boys because they grammar, punctuat-ion, and all that shit is correct , you can smell the college boy through the screen, know what i's saying?? feels me, homie?
*switches Patented Gangsta Slang off
You may be acing your sciences, 2nd language , and whatever other subject yous learning but damn straight you's not acing your englishs.....
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Oh noes, dont go away just right now, where else are you gonna find seasoned fuckers like us to give you a good talking to??
see here, you dont really understand the bulk of my post so i'll go over it again...
your crushee has the benefit of a few more years experience so she can likely see where she is going down the road with you... she is "breaking the chain" by minimising contact with you. However, somewhere along the road, the chances of her getting in a sexual relationship whether hetero or homo is highly likely...
Thus it follows that at some point she's gonna get fucked.... and if you follow the "train of thought" to the conclusion, at some point she's gonna get dumped, married, or shit like that, you feels me?
dun waste time trying to make tis 'person' understand la...
it's either he is too young & innocent, too forgetful, too arrogant or too 'TooPig' to understand wat we tryin to put our msg across.
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Aight homie, yoús saying you acing your grades and shit in school? dont lie now to a playa, see here, i's been there done that, you aint no star student, no sirree....
yous cant even get ya Priorities right, but ya spicied the word up with a couple of extra letters, know what um saying?? unless, ya know in the heat of the moment you got pissed off and shit so you like mispelled a word, know what um saying??
see here, dog - those real college boys even whens they post on the internets, you can tell they college boys because they grammar, punctuat-ion, and all that shit is correct , you can smell the college boy through the screen, know what i's saying?? feels me, homie?
*switches Patented Gangsta Slang off
You may be acing your sciences, 2nd language , and whatever other subject yous learning but damn straight you's not acing your englishs.....
*clap*... *clap*... *clap*... gd one!
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Oh noes, dont go away just right now, where else are you gonna find seasoned fuckers like us to give you a good talking to??
Good question, but it seems many are kinda hostile around here.
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see here, you dont really understand the bulk of my post so i'll go over it again...
Thanks
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your crushee has the benefit of a few more years experience so she can likely see where she is going down the road with you...
Did she really have to think through that much, just to make a simple friend? o.o
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she is "breaking the chain" by minimising contact with you.
I mean it seems as tho, we can't even be friends.
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However, somewhere along the road, the chances of her getting in a sexual relationship whether hetero or homo is highly likely...
The fact that you stated homo, is rather funny...
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Thus it follows that at some point she's gonna get fucked....
It is not the fact that I am worried she will get fucked one day or another.
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and if you follow the "train of thought" to the conclusion, at some point she's gonna get dumped, married, or shit like that, you feels me?
Issn't that life?
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Originally Posted by Johnston
Aight homie, yoús saying you acing your grades and shit in school? dont lie now to a playa, see here, i's been there done that, you aint no star student, no sirree....
yous cant even get ya Priorities right, but ya spicied the word up with a couple of extra letters, know what um saying?? unless, ya know in the heat of the moment you got pissed off and shit so you like mispelled a word, know what um saying??
see here, dog - those real college boys even whens they post on the internets, you can tell they college boys because they grammar, punctuat-ion, and all that shit is correct , you can smell the college boy through the screen, know what i's saying?? feels me, homie?
Understood. But the fact that I did not say I am a college boy, and by any chance are you somehow American or studied or lived over there? Seems rather weird of a Singaporean to use the term "college" when I heard it most from Americans.
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*switches Patented Gangsta Slang off
Oh so this is the so called "Patented Gangsta Slang"
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*You may be acing your sciences, 2nd language , and whatever other subject yous learning but damn straight you's not acing your englishs.....
You are right, got A1 for Science,Maths etc... but not English. However, overall still A mah...so I said I'm acing lorh...
And thank you Uncle Johnston, for being so nice and friendly to me.
Aiyo, ah boy ah... for now till the next 6 yrs or so, just study hard and get the highest qualifications u can.
Remember this:
When u are rich and powerful, you'll be able to get any kind of gals you want.
And qualifications are some stepping stones to that status.
Behind every Successful Man is a Women...
Behind every Failed Man is also a Women...
I do admit I am not good in Liteature, or to be exact the language factor. Sorry if I had caused you to be angry in any way possible.
y shld i b angry? jus bcos u r jus an 'adult' in disguised?
ur deplorable propensity of substantiating urself through the subordination of others is an abysmal, insipid way of marginalizing ur own insecurities & incontrovertible invalidity.
ur inexorable vain gloriousness, ur erroneous suppositions, & ur superfluous proliferations r indubitably childish, to say the least.
nex time, pls refrain frm makin implicit childish slurs, for there exists a possibility tat u jus might b owned by 1 who is capable of some artful grandiloquence frm yours truly
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She is simply showing signs of advance thinking... really advance
College boy is a catch all euphemism in the states for any fellow taking higher education or having pretensions of higher educations
whats so funny about homo relationships??? you do know the ratio of Gay and Les is only increasing...
NO- i am not a lawyer, but SG Penal code is antiquated enough that it only defines sex as "penetration of oral and/or anal and genital orifices" and makes very little provision for all the other kinds of sexy gratification possible...
Is it sex if we did nothing at all other than watch each other undress and did hand job and tit fuck?? Noe....
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Aiyo, ah boy ah... for now till the next 6 yrs or so, just study hard and get the highest qualifications u can.
6 years only? I mean now going to University, in some way, it had already become complusery. Btw, I got study hard lah..now still holiday..give me a break lah... thanks...
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Remember this:
When u are rich and powerful, you'll be able to get any kind of gals you want.
And qualifications are some stepping stones to that status.
Why does women only look for the rich and powerful? Seems rather too realistic of them. But just wondering, for example Obama,Steve Jobs, Bill Gates..etc...rich and powerful personels they doesn't seems to have many women, or one that others will envy on. Instead, their women are those that they met with true love, before they were succesful.
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Behind every Successful Man is a Women...
Behind every Failed Man is also a Women...
Just curious, why is these so? Heard of the saying before, but don't really get it even till now.
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