Q & A: Taking a 2nd wife... - Page 4

Bangster · #46 02-03-2011, 12:34 PM

Old girlfriend as 2nd wife....

Donch understand leh...

Why dont get a young one?

Solace · #47 02-03-2011, 02:41 PM

This is a big minefield, but since you say you have friends who also have second wife, maybe better to ask as they have experience. But if can, don't live together, live separately better. Live together will have effects on the children.

singexpat · #48 02-03-2011, 03:53 PM

TS, i can only say i admire your guts...

but wonder on your logic...

fendy · #49 02-03-2011, 04:21 PM

TS

quite a interesting but idiotic thinking you have if you are a fellow sillyporean

those that can have many wife living harmonyly (on the surface) is like Macau Casino King Stanley Ho - he is rich in banks ($) and sperm bank (this can help wif viagra)

as only with these both bank overflowing , then your wife will xiao xiao lan lan to agreed to you having a 2nd wife.

But shud you have such riches, why go buy another goat if you can just go and eat satay and throw away the sticks??

Toyota Honda · #50 02-03-2011, 04:37 PM

I got some points zapped for posting in this thread. Whjoever does it is a bloody idiot who doesn't use brains to think, rather use sperm to think. Zap for all I care..

Floss · #51 02-03-2011, 09:50 PM

Where's TS?

I'm very interested in his progress.

FuzzyFusion · #52 02-03-2011, 09:57 PM

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Originally Posted by Toyota Honda

I got some points zapped for posting in this thread. Whjoever does it is a bloody idiot who doesn't use brains to think, rather use sperm to think. Zap for all I care..

Bro, how come you got zap for honest and straightforward answers?? Where is TS?? I am also interested in the progress leh

brokuan0 · #53 24-01-2019, 02:02 AM

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Originally Posted by brokuan0

Hi guys,

have this old girlfriend re appearing in my life & i have told her im married. They both know each other. This old girlfriend has said okay to be the 2nd wife.

Anyone has approach the wife & ask whether can take another?

Hope to listen to success stories & how to go about with it.

Thanks in advance for help.

btw im chinese so no marriage contract can be drawn up.

Hi Guys,
Have not updated the progress in awhile. Its been alot of roller coaster emotions handling.
Im writing this to say the old girlfriend has stayed with me till today. I acknowledge the gf commitment despite trying times. However not possible to stay in the same house. she stays in a seperate house from my 1st wife.
Through this period till now i could learn & grow at the same time. Its was surprisingly similar to the palace dramas that we watch on tv. The requests for prestige, who is more important, who gets more, status and everything. Basically, comparisons are made in all aspects of life between the 1st wife and girlfriend.

Further, the wife's commitment is something that surprises me. I feel that the sacrifices my wife made to ensure the harmony between myself & the two women. She arranges the schedule whose time, managing family events shows her selflessness and rids me of the nitty gritty stuffs to look after. So being the reason i have reduced time and have to look after another household.

It is not possible for guys to think in the way women think. Alot of quarrels have happen. Its not easy but i have crossed more than 5 years of that. The hardest part is for the gf to acknowledge she always second. Even though she has said it explicitly she was willing in the first place.. The gf aspires to be in charge, promoted as the same way in the corporate world.

Steventan · #54 24-01-2019, 07:12 AM

TS, thanks for sharing your experience.

jackyeo · #55 24-01-2019, 06:41 PM

Impregnate both of them. Then bring this up after 3 months. Chances your wife will accept her.

noobcomer · #56 25-01-2019, 10:30 AM

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Originally Posted by brokuan0

Hi Guys,
Have not updated the progress in awhile. Its been alot of roller coaster emotions handling.
Im writing this to say the old girlfriend has stayed with me till today. I acknowledge the gf commitment despite trying times. However not possible to stay in the same house. she stays in a seperate house from my 1st wife.
Through this period till now i could learn & grow at the same time. Its was surprisingly similar to the palace dramas that we watch on tv. The requests for prestige, who is more important, who gets more, status and everything. Basically, comparisons are made in all aspects of life between the 1st wife and girlfriend.

Further, the wife's commitment is something that surprises me. I feel that the sacrifices my wife made to ensure the harmony between myself & the two women. She arranges the schedule whose time, managing family events shows her selflessness and rids me of the nitty gritty stuffs to look after. So being the reason i have reduced time and have to look after another household.

It is not possible for guys to think in the way women think. Alot of quarrels have happen. Its not easy but i have crossed more than 5 years of that. The hardest part is for the gf to acknowledge she always second. Even though she has said it explicitly she was willing in the first place.. The gf aspires to be in charge, promoted as the same way in the corporate world.

wow, really surprised that you were able to do it actually
i guess your parents are really loaded, for both women to want to stay by you. love can never do that

HonkyTonkyMan · #57 25-01-2019, 10:55 AM

TS you know chinese saying "one mountain cannot hold two tigers" in this case tigeress worst still...but you managed to tame both tigeress must take my hat off to you....respect...most of us can't even handle one tigeress..

dreamgal · #58 28-01-2019, 10:38 AM

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Originally Posted by brokuan0

Hi Guys,
Have not updated the progress in awhile. Its been alot of roller coaster emotions handling.
Im writing this to say the old girlfriend has stayed with me till today. I acknowledge the gf commitment despite trying times. However not possible to stay in the same house. she stays in a seperate house from my 1st wife.
Through this period till now i could learn & grow at the same time. Its was surprisingly similar to the palace dramas that we watch on tv. The requests for prestige, who is more important, who gets more, status and everything. Basically, comparisons are made in all aspects of life between the 1st wife and girlfriend.

Further, the wife's commitment is something that surprises me. I feel that the sacrifices my wife made to ensure the harmony between myself & the two women. She arranges the schedule whose time, managing family events shows her selflessness and rids me of the nitty gritty stuffs to look after. So being the reason i have reduced time and have to look after another household.

It is not possible for guys to think in the way women think. Alot of quarrels have happen. Its not easy but i have crossed more than 5 years of that. The hardest part is for the gf to acknowledge she always second. Even though she has said it explicitly she was willing in the first place.. The gf aspires to be in charge, promoted as the same way in the corporate world.

Ts, I am not sure is worth it!

You are lucky you have not been thrown in jail. If any proof that you are having bigamy then you can be jailed under the Singapore law.

There were some exceptions though.

Moreno18 · #59 28-01-2019, 12:44 PM

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Originally Posted by dreamgal

Ts, I am not sure is worth it!

You are lucky you have not been thrown in jail. If any proof that you are having bigamy then you can be jailed under the Singapore law.

There were some exceptions though.

With caning and declared bankrupt too?

VVDBlues · #60 28-01-2019, 01:02 PM

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Originally Posted by Moreno18

With caning and declared bankrupt too?

So jialat?