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#46
05-07-2004, 09:39 AM
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I hate her most when she just storm off in a fit of anger regardless of the time and location. The early few occasions, I still ran after her, later on if she wants to run off just like that, then so be it. Don’t ever expect me to go after her nowadays because after countless experiences, she’ll never learn. I remember once she ran off leaving her handbag behind and I simply went home with it. Later on she called and asked where am I, I said home and she demand me to pick her up again. Told her sorry and please solve her own problems. Not my fault that she was stranded there with no money whatsoever, told her to get the cab and call her family to pay upon reaching. 
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#47
05-07-2004, 10:00 AM
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Me: Can pick me from MRT? Damn tired. Wife: Siao... and miss the show at 9pm? Me: LL walk back. And by the way, putting up a long face is useless. Wife: Her usual reply: 'Why? not happy? ' Me: Again LL. 
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#48
05-07-2004, 04:03 PM
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But sometimes, I do think that it is, in some way, our fault. The problem with us guys is that when the pursuit is on at the start of the relationship, we DO run after them, pick them up at the MRT, pacify them when they are angry, etc. and we do it without reason or thought. Women accept that to be the norm. That's where the problem begins for us. How do we sustain that kind of attention without burning out?
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#49
07-07-2004, 08:52 AM
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At the end of the day, it takes two hands to clap but one hand to slap. Honestly, I believe most guys still do all the above even when they got the gal but then there are still time when things does not goes our way and need our attention, this is the time where I believe we need the understanding of the gals. Do not mix up the love and bread. Nowadays society has no turning back. If you cannot make it, you are bound to suffer. Unlike twenty years back, cannot make it, you alway go back to your kampong do farming. Now, even to pee needs minimum ten cents......... 
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#50
17-07-2004, 12:51 PM
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ME: Er........I..... GF: Cannot izzit......Never mind lor, I walk home myself lor...... ME: (LL) Ok, gimme me a while, I will be there....... Reach there, GF waiting...... GF: (Long face) Why so long???? ME: (LL again) The car parked on the fifth floor, dear...... GF: Not happy izzit, next time no need to come lor....... ME: (KNN, come get F, dun come also get F, LL AGAIN)
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#51
17-07-2004, 02:41 PM
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All this is actually communication lah.. Gers think differently from guys ma.. They like to assume this and think that, not knowing what guys think leh..
Here's an analogy HER SIDE OF THE STORY My husband was in an odd mood Saturday night. We planned to meet at a cafe for a drink. I spent the afternoon shopping with the girls and I thought it might have been my fault because I was a bit later than I promised but he didn't say anything about it. I don't remember doing anything to make him upset, but I could tell there was something wrong. The conversation was quite slow going so I thought we should go off to someplace intimate so we could talk more privately. We went to this restaurant and he was STILL acting a bit funny. I was getting really worried, what did I do? What was bothering him? Was he mad at me? I tried to cheer him up, but started to wonder what was bothering him. Was it me or something else? I asked him if he was upset with me, he said no. But I wasn't really sure. In the car on the way back home, I said that I loved him deeply and he just put his arm around me. I didn't know what the heck that meant because, you know, he didn't say it back or anything. We finally got back home and I was wondering if he was going to leave me! So I tried to get him to talk but he just switched on the TV. Reluctantly, I said I was going to go to bed. Then after about 10 minutes, he joined me and to my surprise, we made love. But, he still seemed really distracted, so afterwards I wanted to confront him but didn't, so I just cried myself to sleep. I just don't know what to do anymore. I mean, I really think he's seeing someone else. HIS SIDE OF THE STORY Played badly today --- shot 97 - - -can't putt for shit! Felt kind of tired. Got laid though. Like the thread says, Gers are stil Gers 
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#52
17-07-2004, 02:55 PM
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yo...i m a ger here....NOT all the bad stuff u write bout us ARE true OK...u cannot GENERALISE all women like dat...! but there are certain guidelines which i agree it's true coz i m guilty of dat.
when i sae: Nothing la - means something happen or i not happy but i jus dun wan to tell my bf ok lor...my fault (when in an argument) - i tink it is also partly ur fault...but i dun wan to extend the argument wif u...but i m not happy either..y must i always be i saeing sorry anything lor - can't thing of any ideas of wat to do or wat to eat...but i dun realli wan to do anything or eat anything. jus dat my brain cannot think now njoy urself wif ur female friend ok - worry dat he mite do something wif the female friend no - i i dun feel like sex la...BUT if u turn me on i mite wan to haf it ok lor i go home on my own - sian ji pua...u r my bf leh...y u not sendin me home...later something happen to me den u will regret it ...pls la...n not all gers r $$$ suckers ok? i do pay for my bf dinner if he not enuff cash at times n movie...it's like if u got money u pay lor if u dun haf money i pay. we take turns to treat each other. so it's not entirely a one sided thing. dun generalise all gers as evil. it's not fair to us. hahah but i muz admit..sometimes i dun understand myself..so how can u guys understand us...hahah
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#53
17-07-2004, 03:03 PM
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First, we don't GENERALISE a ger lah. KNN, make her a general, sure jia lat man... Second, you also cannot fully understand a ger mah... as you say so yourself in other posts, you are weird ger mah.. and you think more like guys leh... remember?
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#54
17-07-2004, 03:21 PM
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sigh..nowadays..i cant be bother about girls and wat is going thru their brains anymore. Somethings i really dun care about her day at work, or her colleagues having the same nail polish, or some stupid store having a sale or worse still, where are we going after a long hard day of work.
To me, it is plain simple...tell me what i need to do to get into your pants, PERIOD!!!! nothing more nothing less... i am not intune with my emotional side and i really dun wan to... Fuck the foreplay...i will lick her pussy when i feel like it and She better gives me a blowjob if she wans me to buy her that dress... Really i am fustrated. I dun wanna be any SNAG, i really dun mind being a MCP, at least i am much happier! well isn't thats what its all about...being happy... ok..phew..i feel much better letting it all out...tonite going to give her an angry man fuck!!!!
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17-07-2004, 03:23 PM
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#56
17-07-2004, 10:26 PM
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and don't forget to let us know the details tomorrow ah.... heeheehee
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#57
18-07-2004, 04:48 AM
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Sigh ... I guess all men are having similar problems with their loved ones. I guess I too have the same set of problems. For example, sometimes us guys want to be left alone and they'll be all over you trying to find out what's wrong. Worse still, when you tell them that you're ok and need some time to yourself, they get all agitated and storm off. Forget about whatever quality time you think you gonna get ... ever ... till you sayang her enough for some light petting ... Haizzz ....
Actual conversation between me and my gal: GF: Dear, are you busy? ME: I'm in a meeting. Can I call you back? GF: What kind of meeting? ME: The kind that can get me into trouble if I don't solve it. GF: <raising voice> You always put your work before me. Ok lor, why don't you find yourself another gal <slams down phone> ME: (thinking what the f### just happened?) Sigh ... if not for pussies, I won't give a damn, man, y'all know what I'm talking, right guys?
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#58
18-07-2004, 11:22 AM
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In speaking with my friend's who are not married, it seems I am defintitely not alone. This thread proves there are many who share how i feel too.
I have found a common behaviourial trait amongst a lot of married men. Just let it go. Whether it is a discussion, argument or scolding. We just keep quiet and think of other things, while looking interested. That way, peace reigns.
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#59
18-07-2004, 11:41 AM
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GERS are still GERS....hehehehe
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#60
27-07-2004, 03:47 PM
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Hee hee, in relationship just be 'kiang' enough liao, if she dont do it, in the end you are the one doing it.....
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