Young Local FL Phenomenon

[owen10]

likewise, i guess our ladies will have their own worries too. if u take a walk fr Lor 1-40 of GL for eg, u will see all patterns of men hanging ard d coffeeshops with mistress or pros, discos/pubs, d TN joints. Now, many of them r probly d fathers or husbands/bf of some1's.

so u can imagine hw many men in spore actually steal eat. d ladies can onli pray hard their guys r nt 1 of those unfaithful ones.

[kwaychup]

Originally Posted by ilurbu

Supportive = open communications, constant encouragement and involvement in each others lives, not just asking what the child has been up to but sharing their daily events like adults.

Protective = restricting access to seemingly "risky/dangerous/delinquent" activities, ie; no disco, no camping, no staying out/over @friends place, no this, no that.. sounds familiar?

well i do agree that we have to be supportive in both terms. but i guess what's more important is to teach them on what are the correct morals of life.

there's always this chance of letting her go out for the night and she comes and tell you she's got this or that.

Originally Posted by LentorGarden

I find that if parents have a open-minded concept, things will work out fine. For example, instead of strictly NO clubbing, why not say, if you're going clubbing, just let us (parents) know? Of course, to show that you care about them, dont discourage them by saying that they cant have too much to drink etc.
Just tell them, I'll be there when you finish and I'll fetch you home.

maybe the fetching part can be abit over the line imho, (well it's just like parents fetching their kids after school scenerio)

if i had a daughter,
-i would let her go and she has to tell me what time she is coming back and where she is going.
-number of her friend that is going with her (contact the friend when your daughter is uncontactable after the timing)
-timing can be extended if she calls me that she has to go supper with friends or what (proves that she's still sober enough to inform me)
-i would go and fetch her when she calls me.

all of these have shown that as a parent, you have already given her alot of trust + you have given your child alot of face as well ( kids also have the pride thingy )

[adonis]

In 19th century Singapore, 80% of the women immigrants to Singapore, from China, were becoming prostitutes; whether by force of their circumstances, trickery or by force. Dat's becos there were 6-7 Chinese men for every 1 Chinese woman in Singapore then. Therefore many local girls now are the decendents of prostitutes? Am I a decendent of a coolie? Makes one wonder.

Most girls get into FL becos of their money woes. Poor things...

[Xgenre]

All said and done, more young local FLs in SBF doesn't mean more young girls are selling their bodies. It's just that the guys marketing these young girls know about SBF. Previously, these girls may be marketed in other ways but not through SBF only. I think the % of girls selling themselves is still the same, across generations. The difference is that technology (internet) helps them to reach a wider audience.

On a sidenote, any of you share this thought about the photos of young girls these days? Maybe it's the fact that all of them have camera phone or something but the photos of young girls these days are all those few slutty poses. Blink an eye, stick out a tongue, tilt the face etc...

My point is young girls these days look more slutty than pretty. When I think of the actresses and models of my time, they are really pretty without needing to act cute or show the CFM look. Think Cherie Chung, Phyllis Quek, Cynthia Koh, a young Pan Lingling. I think the trend nowadays is to pose in a slutty manner. Wonder if any of you guys share my views...

[Oralcraz]

Originally Posted by HayHot

I agree.
I believe everyone has a price. It's just if you can afford/willing to pay the price.
As someone tagline said, the differences between a Slut and a Whore is the $ involve.
This doesn't only applies to girls. Applies to guys as well. Tell me you wouldn't cheat on your wife, if someone offer you USD$1 Billion to fuck another someone, chances are, you will as well.

If someone offer me not USD1B but even USD1M, my wife will tell me "Oh pse go and fuck and fuck good good. Then share half with me"

[Oralcraz]

Originally Posted by skl8188

actually what had been say here is all bullshit. if we don't look for them they won't be here. correct? when there is no demand there is not supply. who are we to comment on their plight when we are the one that pay for their services. bro who feel sorry for them well you can pay them without fucking them. so cut all the crap please.

I do not agree that if we don't look for them they won't be here and about demand and supply.
Men looking for sex from ladies doesn't exist only recently. It existed since decades, centuries ago. What we are discussing is why our very own young singaporean girls turning themselves into becoming FL which doesn't happen in the 60s, 70s or even thru to the 80s. When, I chiong at that time, it was only GL, KS and "banana leg". No SYT FL or very very difficult to find. Now, the chionging scene has changed and evolved.

[sadlonelyguyer]

oeei. u here to DO FL meh??? dun bluff lar...

Originally Posted by Athenawishes

but... m i??
if i m.. why m i here?? LOL

[skycock]

Every man has his price.

Epictetus once said "Different men sell themselves at different price".

Even the Sunni religious scholars were prepared to influence their followers when the Pentagon agreed to pay their price.

[newyorker88]

Originally Posted by Xgenre

All said and done, more young local FLs in SBF doesn't mean more young girls are selling their bodies. It's just that the guys marketing these young girls know about SBF. Previously, these girls may be marketed in other ways but not through SBF only. I think the % of girls selling themselves is still the same, across generations. The difference is that technology (internet) helps them to reach a wider audience.
Wonder if any of you guys share my views...

I agree totally,

It has been happening from the past, just more ways nowdays to market themselves only.

Sex cannot be seperated from humans.

[newyorker88]

Originally Posted by thedicknight

How many happy families are there in sillypore to buy branded stuff for their girls or even support their education and materialism??

Anyone dare to say their families happy always??

Good one. When parents let their children grow up on their own, they will explore the world themselves. Including sex and drugs, gangs and so on. Not necessary need branded stuff for the gals.
Although I agree that most of the branded stuff last longer than non branded.

Why they go for branded stuff? Becos they want to be attracted. They want attention. If a parent can teach them the right things in life, they will not fall into the bad side.

If you got a daughter, or son, love them and be there when they need you. They will not tend to stray about.

[Recast]

without a daughter, i really cannot fully understand why young gals are jumping into the "sea" with their eyes open. thru my FL experience,( i only take local with the occassion thai) i heard many stories why they FL. Sometime i dont really agree with their logic, there was one who claim her parents are oversea so her mum only pay for her private school fee but no living expenses, and to add to her woes, her bf was stealing from her and even try to live off her FLing money. On why her mum dont give her living expenese was that she had been a out of controlled teenager who dropout of her formal education. So her mum is in a way punishing her.

i really dont know should believe or not, i can only told her to settle her differences with her mum and kick that leech bf off her life. Had not seen her FL thread for mths liao, just hope she off the trade for good and not under OKT.

As for all who claim to have monetary problems, some were in fact at least complete poly/A level education, so can give tuitition to earn extra income. Dont look down on tuitition, a well reput teacher can rack in $80-100 per hr secondary level. Bros with school going age children should know i not bluffing.

[newyorker88]

Originally Posted by scoobyhoo

Recently, I attended a wedding dinner for my friend's son. Surprised to see the bride, who had done FL and I had four sessions with her.

She surprised to see you ? Or she just pretend to dono you?

[Cheonging101]

Originally Posted by HayHot

This doesn't only applies to girls. Applies to guys as well. Tell me you wouldn't cheat on your wife, if someone offer you USD$1 Billion to fuck another someone, chances are, you will as well.

Bro, in this scenario, if I don't take up the deal, I think my wife-to-be would kill me.