Romancing cat40 Thai WLs- Tactics and schemes.

[suteerak1099]

Originally Posted by bangkoktonight

yes, i would like your definition of the word pompous. dont have to burst my pride cos i have broken yours many times. ...lol...

go use dictionary or thesaurus lor. if you're on the computer, go to word document use the thesaurus tool to find out for yourself. "to give a man a fish, you feed him for a meal, to teach a man to fish...you feed him for a lifetime" (that's only if the man choose to apply what he's taught).

my pride broken?? to me, this is a forum... pride/ego weighs nothing here. i see you picking on minute issues... quite noble and humble of you huh?

Originally Posted by bangkoktonight

i hope you have learnt the meaning of the word paraphrasing...lol...

hmmm, sounds familiar... who have i mentioned that to before??? adam's family??? reuters???

Originally Posted by bangkoktonight

and your spelling.....horrendous...u wrote sighting when you meant citing.....and wrote dispeakable when you meant despicable....lol.....gimme a break. i will not bother to "dick" out your previous posts, you should know yourself....lol...

lol, we now have a new spell-checker... soon be the grammar tutor - soon as he figures out grammar.

[Five Stone]

Originally Posted by Garage1

if this is btw free n others.. wannabe big brother like u shldnt step in .. dont have to use the against who etc thingy.. when pple post, its not against anybody also..
so both of them decide to keep quiet and big brother like u come out n settle this issue like telling everyone, let it rest???
seriously.. even if let it rest.. its not up to u , my freind...

People have conscience, hence willing to stand up against the wrongs. What are wrongs? Wrongs are those define by ethnics and principles of life. Borrowing from one and then telling other that this is a previous debt collected is no big deal; the big deal comes when the truth is out.

Yes, never claim that will not pay back, and yes, never say when will pay back as well. Painted thousand and one pictures just for the sake of looking good but at the expense of others. He capsized his own boat but drag others along as well. Claiming thousand and one excuses seeking for money and never ever did come back with one even single evidence even when confront upon.

Yes, let it rest, tell me about it…….

Originally Posted by critic

Holy trinity? What blasphemy... More like holy shit...

Let me tell you why you get shit from the others.... making general swipes which don't go well even with ppl on the neutral.
Just like this holy trinity stuffy. And if you think it's funny, it ain't cos it's irrelevant and pisses ppl off just like your numerous howlers and incoherent reasoning and rebuttals. Just learn to shut your gap just like your alter ego free. Guess he's busy contacting the O****E****. lol

And oh... don't believe what the samsters tell you about your England. It sucks, really.

as shitty as you can get
critic

I just cant agree more with you. He just cant get what people says about him into his head.
Just look at his reply to you....lol...

[critic]

Originally Posted by suteerak1099

critic, never knew forum can get your blood spouting. you find my postings offensive/ irrelevant/ irritable, either you skip (like some people do), or better still dont even trace the thread. there's also plenty of lame posts from others that are unsubstantiated and irrelevant too... what do you say to those?

free, my alter-ego? please... i stand alone. about my england, i didnt come here to flaunt nor rally to be a pasa-angkrit teacher/tutor & i'm not offering lessons either. so whatever the rest say about my english... is up to them. the good thing is, those who think they've learnt and improved - congrats to that. as for those who dont know but act smart, thinking they understood, but rebuting for the sake of rebuting... more often than not, rebuting in the wrong context and missed the point of the posting... i leave it to the rest of the readers to decide.

Nope, the forum is fine... it's you. Rather than asking me to skip, why don't you do us a favor and practice some self-reflection (I'm assuming you can) and self-restrain. I can't be selective and skipping your posts which are littered all over the thread(s). But the worst is yet to be. You are habitual in dishing out general swipes and in the process, invite flames from all quarters. And what happens? The thread becomes yet another of your exchange frontline with other samsters. That being the case, and this being a public forum, then you just have to be a responsible poster. The rule of thumb in any public forum is to expect your post(s) to be commented upon. And so far, you have failed miserably with your rebuttals, snipes etc. Tell me how many exchanges you had with samsters here? Gang against you? Give us a break. You don't deserve it.

And to answer you... I have to agree that many posts were lame and irrelevant but they were targeted at you... not SG girls, NS men, old man or swipes in general. Tell me how these supposedly lame posts started? That being irrelevant in the context of this thread, I chose not to comment.

critic

ps... by the way, your posts and rude retorts suggest an over-size ego. Let me tell u this... there are many silent roamers here in this forum I personally know of who are excellent writers but choose to remain on the sideline

[suteerak1099]

Originally Posted by critic

.....You are habitual in dishing out general swipes and in the process, invite flames from all quarters. And what happens? The thread becomes yet another of your exchange frontline with other samsters. That being the case, and this being a public forum, then you just have to be a responsible poster. The rule of thumb in any public forum is to expect your post(s) to be commented upon. And so far, you have failed miserably with your rebuttals, snipes etc. Tell me how many exchanges you had with samsters here? Gang against you? Give us a break. You don't deserve it.

lol. i make general swipes? what about others who make collective assumptions/conclusions about others? no doubt, the forum is open for discussions. read carefully, when i present opinions, i bother to substantiate it with rationales and reasons for saying so. lets not forget that my postings though presenting the other side of the coin, seldom is personal nor directed to anyone...not until somebody came along and took things personal. in other words, are you suggesting that those fellas who take potshots/hurl insults and all can be condoned? well, you bet i dont deserve it.

Originally Posted by critic

...I have to agree that many posts were lame and irrelevant but they were targeted at you... not SG girls, NS men, old man or swipes in general. Tell me how these supposedly lame posts started? That being irrelevant in the context of this thread, I chose not to comment.

citing(thanx to bangkoktonight for spell check) analogies and general scenarios dont equate to insulting nor name calling. nevertheless, i too mentioned that it doesnt apply to all cases, for they're all unique in their own ways. when people come along distorting my case that i present, its also my duty as a responsible poster to correct the misintepretations. others choose to be childish and continue barking based on his misunderstanding is not my problem, remotely my fault for his incompetence in comprehension. suggest you check them, not me.

Originally Posted by critic

by the way, your posts and rude retorts suggest an over-size ego. Let me tell u this... there are many silent roamers here in this forum I personally know of who are excellent writers but choose to remain on the sideline

needless for you to mention it, i'm well aware of some lyrical calibrated ones out there capable of much more profound postings. nevertheless, if fellas here already have issues understanding my english... surely they'd be bedazzled and seeing stars when the better postings are presented.

remaining on the sidelines, crossed my mind plenty of times... its the distortion of points that disturbs me. perhaps they'd heed your advise in posting proper discussions than to pick on the 1 or 2 lines that hardly represent the entire post. not to mention, issues that could've been discussed via PM mode, brought here in the public... why? bcos some1 says he's not nothing to hide.

p.s.: i'm quite agreeable with your suggestion on taking the back seat, i'd be glad to give others a chance to present their cases too. its due time to do some housekeeping anyway. on account that we can have a concensus that some people here be more matured and respect other's opinions... in that they stop distorting, misinterpreting... which leads to rep smearing and gang zapping. by the way.. enough with the clones too.

[Cat Man]

Originally Posted by critic

ps... by the way, your posts and rude retorts suggest an over-size ego. Let me tell u this... there are many silent roamers here in this forum I personally know of who are excellent writers but choose to remain on the sideline

Or maybe they don't want to let slip their real identities and professions - they may be senior doctors and lawyers, CEO of listed company, NUS Professor, high-flyer govt scholar in the Admin Service, or young contenders on their way to these positions, hahaha

[critic]

Originally Posted by suteerak1099

lol. ...
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p.s.: i'm quite agreeable with your suggestion on taking the back seat, i'd be glad to give others a chance to present their cases too. its due time to do some housekeeping anyway. on account that we can have a concensus that some people here be more matured and respect other's opinions... in that they stop distorting, misinterpreting... which leads to rep smearing and gang zapping. by the way.. enough with the clones too.

If someone takes a personal swipe at you, just ignore him. Of course I'm assuming you don't start that first. You don't have to always reply. Don't be mistaken that failing to reply is a weakness. So far as you would no doubt realise, the more you reply, the more they come at you.

And that's the bane of most forums. No one wants to lose an argument. Being a public forum, once you state your POVs, that's it. There will never be any agreement as POVs defer... no right or wrong.


critic

[critic]

Originally Posted by Cat Man

Or maybe they don't want to let slip their real identities and professions - they may be senior doctors and lawyers, CEO of listed company, NUS Professor, high-flyer govt scholar in the Admin Service, or young contenders on their way to these positions, hahaha

you're right. That's the price to pay I suppose. Cannot kio kuay in GL lest someone recognises them. Of course they have other high society arrangements (in $ term). But at the end of the day, the denominator is still bonking a WL. Who knows... they may be yearning for a piece of GL action.

critic

[thaivisitor]

Originally Posted by Garage1

if this is btw free n others.. wannabe big brother like u shldnt step in .. dont have to use the against who etc thingy.. when pple post, its not against anybody also..
so both of them decide to keep quiet and big brother like u come out n settle this issue like telling everyone, let it rest???
seriously.. even if let it rest.. its not up to u , my freind...

True, its not up to me.

I voice out my request to 2 of my friends, also hoping others may also heed my request.

Well, both DNAT and Free has no problems with my request and have stopped. Bro Ryan Lim called me over the phone and is also not pursuing whatever matters.

If the rest of the bros doesn't want to stop, its really up to them. They can continue but Free is not going to reply. Those who want to make assumptions on his silence, by all means, this is a free world and they have the right to do so.

For those who grant my request for whatever reasons, I thank them.

Also, I would not like to brood on this subject anymore, and courteously inform you so. If there is no more further reply from me on this subject, I hope you understand.

Cheers my friend.
Tee Vee

[free]

Originally Posted by thaivisitor

Maybe to some, they feel that Free should tell whatever truth to his girl. Why? Do we always tell the truth to our love ones? So that the girl can leave him if she feels unsecure? I don't know. I don't find any glory in seeing someone losing a person he loves. Others may have different views and may feel good about it.

My 2 baht worth.
Cheers
Tee Vee

All I want to say for now is: I did not lie to my tirak about my true situation, & definitely never asked her to go and collect money from ppl, while lying to her that they owed me money instead. I appreciate all bros who were angry cos they think I lied to her. I know u are fair to her. She knows I was caught flat-footed, and totally short of cash at one pt (had to make a career switch & slowly climbing bacK now) & we went thru a lot of things together as Murphy's Law took its toll. Those who helped us knew that (except perhaps for one...who knows/is that guy with the beer nick). They have even spoken to her, not once but several times. They are always free to ask her if they need to. If I had been lying, I will never allow them to talk to her direct. Fact is she knows everything about me even before we started as tiraks.

I am only asking some people who dun know the whole story - Please DON'T add new twists (that are not even true) to a story that is already complicated. I have said several times I am going through a hard time, maybe at the lowest points in my life and I am working hard to sort things out.

I can only say I am glad that in spite of all the difficulties we went thru, when she could have taken the easy way out and dump me since she knows all, she chose to stay by my side. TV is right, the TG has to go thru thick with you before the thin. And she has had the thick, so now she is prepared to go thru the thin with me.

If anyone has been down and out, u will know how hard it is to climb up again. I am fortunate not to have to do it alone. Thank goodness my tirak is actively helping me when she could have deserted me. Perhaps only TV will understand how that feels. Or maybe there are others. I hope ppl can just appreciate this fact.

I will sort out whatever I need to with the small grp I had, and then I will explain everything if it is needed then. Now is just not the right time for me to do it. Plus there are things I must focus on now that will determine the future for both of us, mainly work-wise. Never thought of running away and never will. Neither have I refused to pay and I have actually been doing it on an progress basis. So please, whoever u are, please dun spread tales if u dun know the whole truth. This shall be my last post in SB until I have cleared my problems. Even so, there won't be much to talk about. This part of my LDTR journey is almost over, for the end is in sight. Ahead is another new & even longer one, one that I look forward to.

[Cat Man]

Originally Posted by free

Never thought of running away and never will. Neither have I refused to pay and I have actually been doing it on an progress basis. So please, whoever u are, please dun spread tales if u dun know the whole truth. This shall be my last post in SB until I have cleared my problems. Even so, there won't be much to talk about. This part of my LDTR journey is almost over, for the end is in sight. Ahead is another new & even longer one, one that I look forward to.

Bravo!! *clap* *clap*

Bro free, this is the post I've been waiting to see since I first started reading this flame saga. I applaud you for your courage to say this. No one likes to be in need of $$$ and have to borrow, and then cannot pay back. But if it happens to you, you have to face it like a man and work off your debts. I wish you all the best in your journey ahead.

[Jun|ch|]

Originally Posted by thaivisitor

With the amount of suaning you are receiving, I don't think I need to add lah...
As for those who post to say you are handsome... seriously I don't think they are lying since I have seen you before... I think they are being "generous" lah..

noone says i am handsome lah,onli Singrakthai has been boosting my ego.The rest merely commented on what they saw.

[Jun|ch|]

Originally Posted by critic

If someone takes a personal swipe at you, just ignore him. Of course I'm assuming you don't start that first. You don't have to always reply. Don't be mistaken that failing to reply is a weakness. So far as you would no doubt realise, the more you reply, the more they come at you.

And that's the bane of most forums. No one wants to lose an argument. Being a public forum, once you state your POVs, that's it. There will never be any agreement as POVs defer... no right or wrong.critic

Since u said that,the next time someone wants to make fun of the situation and say i dua kang,i can choose to ignore that.

Noone wants to lose an argument,but at least must get the facts right mah.I do agree POVs defer,there will always be arguments,unless can show proofs,but who is willing to see?

[reuters]

Originally Posted by Jun|ch|

Noone wants to lose an argument,but at least must get the facts right mah.I do agree POVs defer,there will always be arguments,unless can show proofs,but who is willing to see?

Singrakthai always say he wanna see u but u always refuse to see him le.

[DNAT]

Originally Posted by free

Bro, I stopped after your friend RL met me, and made a request, and said he will asked u to stop, But u kept on ...any I stopping cos really busy now... whether u do or not.

Hey, you better get this straight -

1. I stop blasting you becos I give face to ThV .. not give face to you!
2. As for the bold, tell me why should I listen to RL on stopping? RL did not asked me to stop ok ----- you dun come here and fabricate lies
3. i will still post to blast you if I see that you post things that are not true &or nonsense.

In conclusion, I THINK (no law states that I cannot think) that you are insane