woes of a tirak

[witz78]

Dear Brothers,

This is the 1st time that i m writing in here as i think i need some advices regarding tiraks. I have started exploring Geylang late last year and have some sessions with Cat40. About a month ago I found a really nice girl in one of the Cat40 houses and it was like love at 1st sight. My 1st experience with her was magical which has made me addicted to her. Subsequently i went back for her regularly about 3-4 times a week. I started off with single sessions but as time goes i also begin to take her for 2 sessions and even 1 hour sessions. Then last week i also had my 1st booking with her(also my 1st ON). I have bought her a lot of gifts and within a month i believe i have spent about more than 1k on her. This is going to burn a hole in my pocket if this goes on.

Sometimes, i have sessions with her without any sex. She would complained that she's tired and i would feel too soft-hearted to do her. And her services wasnt as good as the 1st time. It seems like she has know me too well that she is taking advantage of the situation. Now i will have to bath myself and i also have to ask her if she want to have sex. She's so used to it that now i have to put on the condom myself and do it with her in missionary with her top on. I think the only thing that different with other Cat40 that i have visited is that she would french me passionately during sex.

It seems like sex was totally different when i became her regular. Then now she would even make calls to her friends or relatives in thailand or even other customers during the sessions i have with her. I feel jealous and angry but i m addicted to her, what should i do? Is the so call woes of tiraks?

[norigo77]

Originally Posted by witz78

Dear Brothers,
..... I feel jealous and angry but i m addicted to her, what should i do? Is the so call woes of tiraks?

I can advise you tho I know you will not take my word for it... QUIT GL!!!
Bottom line is: If you can't handle the tirak thing, then return back to the shore. If you want to be hero, then go ahead at your own risk. Simple as that.

[siamcutey]

Originally Posted by norigo77

I can advise you tho I know you will not take my word for it... QUIT GL!!!
Bottom line is: If you can't handle the tirak thing, then return back to the shore. If you want to be hero, then go ahead at your own risk. Simple as that.

I didn't know I am considered "hero".

hahaha
SC

[norigo77]

Originally Posted by siamcutey

I didn't know I am considered "hero".

hahaha
SC

I also didn't know cat40 gals are considered "tiraks". Bwahahaha. What to do? Like what you always said, go with the flow lor...

[hardcore_bonkie]

Hey Bros,

I having almost the same problem like witz78.. but im poison deeper..
I had my 1st mission at gl 3wks ago. oh shit that was great. i met her..my 1st tirak. ever since the mission i m poisoned. i spend 120 on a cat40.. i just wana spend more time with her . so no choice but to bleed in the pockeet.
Any good advise on these cos if i dun pull myself out of this i m going to die soon.. im going to gl like almost everyday n 1 mission is costing me like $150.. She is starting to ask for gifts n blar blar blar... i was shocked when she wana to go my house on her off days to c my parents.. She 's crazy man.. I like her a lot but that doesnt mean she can do watever she wan... Im on the very thin red line ,, i'm lost!!! i dun knw whether to continue or give it a clean break.

[norigo77]

Originally Posted by hardcore_bonkie

....Im on the very thin red line ,, i'm lost!!! i dun knw whether to continue or give it a clean break.

The obvious answer is to give it a clean break. But again, 9 out of 10 cheongsters will not listen. So how??? Like what SC always said, go with the flow and learn the hard way lor!

[KGB_LK]

Originally Posted by norigo77

The obvious answer is to give it a clean break. But again, 9 out of 10 cheongsters will not listen. So how??? Like what SC always said, go with the flow and learn the hard way lor!

if one can learn the hard way, good, treat it as a lesson but the same 9 out of 10 will get out of one but fall into another kc trap even after learning a HARD lesson

[norigo77]

Originally Posted by KGB_LK

if one can learn the hard way, good, treat it as a lesson but the same 9 out of 10 will get out of one but fall into another kc trap even after learning a HARD lesson

You are so rite... and sad to say, I'm one of those stupid ones who got out of one KC and fell into another for 9 times. 9 HARD lessons with 9 different tiraks. Pls dun follow my footsteps.... itz not worth the time and money spent.

Originally Posted by hardcore_bonkie

Hey Bros,

I having almost the same problem like witz78.. but im poison deeper..
I had my 1st mission at gl 3wks ago. oh shit that was great. i met her..my 1st tirak. ever since the mission i m poisoned. i spend 120 on a cat40.. i just wana spend more time with her . so no choice but to bleed in the pockeet.
Any good advise on these cos if i dun pull myself out of this i m going to die soon.. im going to gl like almost everyday n 1 mission is costing me like $150.. She is starting to ask for gifts n blar blar blar... i was shocked when she wana to go my house on her off days to c my parents.. She 's crazy man.. I like her a lot but that doesnt mean she can do watever she wan... Im on the very thin red line ,, i'm lost!!! i dun knw whether to continue or give it a clean break.

Another classic case. you know what you are doing and you know she is trying to suck you dry (of your money).

since u dont know what to do, just continue until you finish all your money and then see what happen. or you can break now, deal with it and save all your money. If money is no issue and you like to be cheated, continue.

Originally Posted by norigo77

You are so rite... and sad to say, I'm one of those stupid ones who got out of one KC and fell into another for 9 times. 9 HARD lessons with 9 different tiraks. Pls dun follow my footsteps.... itz not worth the time and money spent.

Why is it money not well spent? You've learnt something out of all the tirak relationship, right?

I did not regret doing it and i think I got a good lesson in human relationships.

[KGB_LK]

Originally Posted by norigo77

You are so rite... and sad to say, I'm one of those stupid ones who got out of one KC and fell into another for 9 times. 9 HARD lessons with 9 different tiraks. Pls dun follow my footsteps.... itz not worth the time and money spent.

bro stupid's not the word la, dun be so hard on oneself, lets say one can be blind and foolish, and that doesn't apply only to r/s with wl. its the same all over.

Although its easy to 一根柱干打翻整艘船，however i believe one must not try to draw parallel between r/s with a wl, because no 2 wls are the same. If everytime
one is to pre-judge a wl liao, its gonna make the whole friendship or r/s very painful and one of wary and suspicion. But again one must draw on his instinct and be clear-headed. No one knows the situation best but yourself.

If everyone is to come here and cry their woes out, the most logical thing we can reply is not to get involved in the first place but that is not one wants to hear simply because they want to be involved with one.

No one here can solve the woes but only the brother himself can.

[KGB_LK]

Originally Posted by sex_maniac2

Why is it money not well spent? You've learnt something out of all the tirak relationship, right?

I did not regret doing it and i think I got a good lesson in human relationships.

yes, better than what you can learn from school in Human Relations Management.

Can see the relevance of Hwathornes theory and Maslow's five needs hahaha.

Best example

[norigo77]

Originally Posted by sex_maniac2

Why is it money not well spent? You've learnt something out of all the tirak relationship, right?

I did not regret doing it and i think I got a good lesson in human relationships.

The money is not well spent becuz when I looked back and reflected on it, I realised that this whole tirakship thing is all about common sense!! The money could have been put to better use like giving to charity. But most regretably, so much precious time has been lost. Why? When money is lost it can be made again. But when time is lost, it is gone forever.

Originally Posted by sex_maniac2

Another classic case. you know what you are doing and you know she is trying to suck you dry (of your money).

since u dont know what to do, just continue until you finish all your money and then see what happen. or you can break now, deal with it and save all your money. If money is no issue and you like to be cheated, continue.

My sentiments exact... hardcore bonkies has a lotta MONEy... i can bear testament to that... you know he has speny 1k on that gal liao!!! good grief....

[hardcore_bonkie]

Originally Posted by Hard-up

you know he has speny 1k on that gal liao!!! good grief....

waulau bro hard-up disclose my trade secret.... anyway had a long talk with tirak yesterday.. Conclusion still the in balanc.. anyway thnx to all bros for their advise.. it really helps me alot.. i muster my courage to confront her yesterday at least some leeway was found.. i continue to monitor the situation.. meanwhile it doesnt stop me from been a cheongster...

BONKING ALL THE WAY...