Viets gals are by nature
a. Submissive
b. Loyal
c. Tends to show concern rather than shower love
d. Gets Jealous easily
e. Short Fuse
f. Give their all when they like someone
A real viet gal in Vietnam due to the fact that they have no place in society though modern in outlook are still bounded by their traditional mindset:
1. Man do not like woman to sweet-talk. Hence the gals show concern by actions and simple words and not words of love.
Examples of words of concern:
Have you eaten? Where are you? What are you doing?
2. A man will not make love with a gal he love till marriage except those he wants to have fun. Just like in the past, we guys want a virgin for a wife. Hence if a man do not touch her, she will think he love her much.
Recounting the story of my ex-viet gf whom was 16 when I knew her, though she work in 51 and is bonk by man, I have never touch her. I remember on the 3rd month, she ask why I never touch her, I replied I dun like …. Bullshit I wish I could but u are too young for me. Anyway, the words soon spread throughout 51 that I never touch her and love her true ……. She became my officially recognized gf in 51 …..
3. Relationship priority, coming from a traditional background usually. Family ranks high followed by relatives and friends. Try asking your viet gal to see your family, they usually rejects as in Vietnam when seeing the parents, it is consider that you are going to marriage. Boyfriend is always last priority. So if in Singapore, ally with their so-call sister, make her your best friend and you are in control of the relationship.
by golly...you're absolutely right!!! especially about the "where are you?" and "have you eaten"....thanks for the useful insight...really appreciate it and learning much more about the V culture!
1. Never ever lie to her cause if she knows then you are in shit. Even if you already have a wife or girlfriend, tell her the truth. I thought that this was not possible initially but then 1 experiment with a blue area girl proved otherwise and since then I learnt to tell the truth and that’s how I can have open relationship with multiple gals in the same area.
2. Learn to wipe your mouth clean after makan. Viet gals love gossiping and words will spread far and wide. In the initial years, whatever I do to a gal is always outside of 51. That’s why I earn the reputation of not sitting with any gals and this reputation still sticks till today. Just the other night, I was with me ger in 51 and 1 of the gals say “2nite rare occasion, u sitting with a gal”
3. Be a Mr. Nice Guy, play soft when she throw temper. Never ever shout back and just keep quiet. When she done, just say you going off and just go home. The next day, she will be back to normal. Any shouting will lead to big quarrel.
4. Be Mr. Smiley face, just be friendly and give me a smile to everyone.
5. Time and persistency , this is the key to everything to grabbing a hold on the gal’s heart. I have often edge people out because of the time that I can afford and not the money.
6. Never humiliate her with money if she sleeps you for free but try to delay this process till she offers it.
7. The family and friend’s route. All gals have some close friends and a so-call relative whom they call elder sister. Find out who she is and be on good terms with this elder sister as 1 word from them is better than our 20 words.
If the sister likes you, she will help you do what we cannot do such as scolding our gf and will help you take your gal in hand and control.
8. Learn to have an open mind and let them do their work, they will give you time when they have the time. Once you meddle with their work, either pay her not to do so or she will want you out of her life. Let them make their own decision of whether to work or go out with you.
Remember, let them continue to fish and not give them the fish. By doing so, you are spoiling their means of survival into a dependency.
again...words of wisdom...heh heh...RJ, if you're reading this, this really explains why my first one was so sticky right?? the part about not touching or sleeping wit her...hahhaha...if only i had this insight before going down to JC. anyway, i know tht my motor vehicle is back...thanks...oh...realised that you can't view your internet but i guess you're going too soon.
guys who meet up with RJ in JC, please jus pass him this msg...thanks!!
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Re: Tips on courting a Vietnamisation Gal
Quote:
Originally Posted by lament
F: Can I sit with you?
M: No, I am scared of Vietnamese gals.
F: Why?
M: (Jokingly) Afraid that they break my heart?
F: How come?
M: Cos they have a sweet tongue
F: Really !!!
M: What do you think !!! they will say “I love you” and “I miss you” which are all lies. Right?
F: Right.
Do you really mean it when u say 'anh yeu em' to them? It works the same for both parties.
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Many thanks for the above goodwill but please post and inform me so that I can do something about it.
14 or 15?? I should be in S'pore or Bkk.... u rearrange your schedule....
will confirm in a few days... cause i need to go hanoi and settle some stuff before my main group arrives on the 15... maybe i be leaving on the 13 for 2 days ......
my pick up line will be in max effect if use in vietnamese and on gals that u never touch or sat with before ... i.e new comers .....
so far it has work miracles on the below 23 gals and not sure if applicable on older gals ....
when playing game the way i do, tons of mind game going on but do be beware of the repurcussions ...... it is not something learnt overnite ..... cheers