Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

[MoonBlaze]

Originally Posted by SingViet

The next 2 weeks on Yahoo messanger was bad. We keep having disagreements. I asked her why she's hiding something from me, but she just wouldn't say.

Hi Bro Singviet, still waiting for your continuation of your story.

[Intel Ops]

Originally Posted by Sha_Gua75

As for this....some of the people mindset is that as long it is vietnamese....they come singapore is only to work....

This happen to myself when I bring my own decent student vietnamese gf back to my family....World War III erupted....at that time my dad was not in but later he can called me and scold me this "Do you know she come Singapore do what or not?!" He dont even seen my gf but he say such thing

So you need to change some people mindset slowly...maybe the media play a play too....in creating such a mindset of the people...

That's bad. By then i feel that such is more of the case of the older generation. Personal experience : I had invited my viet friend home a few times already and my parents didnt even input any -ve comments. Maybe my parents are more open-minded ?

Do agree that the media play a part; in fact i think is a large part. Feel that this mindset of 'viet girls' = WL is mainly incoporated by them to the public. Just reflect on the sensation and discussions that resulted when incidents such as the death of a viet lady 'exiting' through a window at Toa Payoh and at Bedok? (not sure). It was in the news for quite a long period of time in S'pore and was also mentioned in VN news also. Reporters(local) even went to VN to look up her family members. The incident and funeral processions were even mentioned and discussed on 'Frontline' (i suppose this is the correct program). As such, there are much -ve reports by the media and hence this unwanted perception.

Furthermore, we as S'poreans(generally) tend to view ourselves to be more superior than our 'neighbours' because our country economy is stronger, being more well-off and have a much higher level of education on average. (in the same sense that whites feeling more superior than asians/blacks) Hence, when someone marries a person from a neighbouring country, the first impression that people have is that he is unable to find a local partner. Moreover, the reports in the mass media on marriage agencies 'helping' locals in their 40s or 50s tying a knot with a 20s do not help at all. This also further fuels the conception that cross-countries marriages are arranged(bought) and not build on love. However, if one was to get married with a Japanese or someone from an 'advanced' country, the perception would be totally different.

Well, just my thoughts...

[naemlo]

Originally Posted by Sha_Gua75

Basically , we guys can fall in love at 1st sight easily.

For me, whether to have sex with her at the 1st sight....

[Torres_Mok]

Originally Posted by Sha_Gua75

hmm...ZzZzZ...Du Ma May

I break down from my own experience although it may not be right


Love at 1st Sight of Girl

They will love you if you are single..But end of the day...They will love the sight of your TIEN....

Tien means $$$$ $$$ is what WL look for, this is normal!

As for normal vn gals, they love guys who care! But chinese always say; 'man not bad woman don't love'! Can this be apply on normal vn gals, and they still love u?

[naemlo]

Originally Posted by Torres_Mok

Tien means $$$$ $$$ is what WL look for, this is normal!

Yes tien is money....

Originally Posted by Torres_Mok

As for normal vn gals, they love guys who care! But chinese always say; 'man not bad woman don't love'! Can this be apply on normal vn gals, and they still love u?

Yes n no. Difficult to answer this question, different gers different thinking.

[SingViet]

Originally Posted by MoonBlaze

Hi Bro Singviet, still waiting for your continuation of your story.

Bro, must wait for a few days la. My maid is gone and now i am the maid. hardly have the time to seat infront of the computer for more than 10 mins. Will try to continue asap

[SingViet]

Basically, normal vietnamese gals tend to fall in love with froeigners easily. Like what Bro Sha gua pointed out, as long as u are single and gentle and has $$$$, they can fall in love with you easily. This may be due to their desire to go out of their country and lead a better life and foreigners tend to be the passport to it

[SingViet]

As for working gals, they don't care what's your status, as long as u have money, they will fall in love with ...............................your money.. heheh

[Torres_Mok]

Originally Posted by SingViet

Basically, normal vietnamese gals tend to fall in love with froeigners easily. Like what Bro Sha gua pointed out, as long as u are single and gentle and has $$$$, they can fall in love with you easily. This may be due to their desire to go out of their country and lead a better life and foreigners tend to be the passport to it

Bro,

If i am not gentle and no $$$, will i hv chance on getting normal vn gal! The only consolation is i am still single!!!

[SingViet]

Originally Posted by Torres_Mok

Bro,

If i am not gentle and no $$$, will i hv chance on getting normal vn gal! The only consolation is i am still single!!!

No problem bro. Come to me and all your marriage problems will be solved... hehehe

[Sha_Gua75]

Originally Posted by SingViet

Basically, normal vietnamese gals tend to fall in love with froeigners easily. Like what Bro Sha gua pointed out, as long as u are single and gentle and has $$$$, they can fall in love with you easily.

Originally Posted by Torres_Mok

Bro,

If i am not gentle and no $$$, will i hv chance on getting normal vn gal! The only consolation is i am still single!!!

Me no money...no looks....maybe sometimes fate.....my gf tell me b4...i no money no looks...only singapore passport...not usa passport...dont know why fall in love with me...but sometimes when i ask...she say i do things which viet guy dont do...simple thing like holding their hand...especially when crossing the road..placing myself 1st b4 the traffic....

hmmm but if i really get knock down by on-coming car...i think both will die too...

sometimes forget to do that...she will say...now get me roi...dont need do anymore roi...

[Sha_Gua75]

Originally Posted by Torres_Mok

As for normal vn gals, they love guys who care!

dont really understand about this sentence....so u saying that if normal guy love guy, u dont care?? This will mean u looking for working gal as life partner??

Originally Posted by Torres_Mok

But chinese always say; 'man not bad woman don't love'! Can this be apply on normal vn gals, and they still love u?

Bad doesnt mean u go fark around....bad can mean in another way....

some girls tell me b4...they know what their partner fool around but must have limit...must not do infront of them...must keep low profile...

some girls include my gf tell me...if she know....GAME OVER

basically it is the same for all the woman around the world...

[Sha_Gua75]

Originally Posted by Torres_Mok

Bro,

If i am not gentle and no $$$, will i hv chance on getting normal vn gal! The only consolation is i am still single!!!

Hmm...My gf have a cousin....a nice decent girl...but on the plump side...you want?

[Torres_Mok]

Originally Posted by SingViet

No problem bro. Come to me and all your marriage problems will be solved... hehehe

Bro,

So far u hv matchmake how many people?

[Torres_Mok]

Originally Posted by Sha_Gua75

Hmm...My gf have a cousin....a nice decent girl...but on the plump side...you want?

How is her looks? Is she look like Tia Tanaka?