Money or Honey? - Page 3

MaAkMAak · #31 09-09-2008, 10:41 PM

I would choose my girlfriend.

I rather lose the money than to lose my girlfriend who will be with my through thick and thin no matter what. Money is not everything.

Just my opinion and 2 cents.

limpehlimpeh · #32 09-09-2008, 11:31 PM

It depends how deeply in love with your gf, without money it is also very difficult to live on. Best of both world if the richer lady don't mind you can offer part time love to her and have both honey and money.

gilagila100 · #33 10-09-2008, 09:52 AM

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Originally Posted by limpehlimpeh

It depends how deeply in love with your gf, without money it is also very difficult to live on. Best of both world if the richer lady don't mind you can offer part time love to her and have both honey and money.

Confirm can get money off the rich lady meh ?

If confirm, then can consider a bit but still need to think how much and whether it's worth it.

This kind of women are very street-smart one, you may think you stand to gain a lot but you might end losing a lot more especially in this case when TS already has a good and steady GF ...

It is not easy to find someone that will stick with you through thick and thin, this is something that money cannot buy.

So why risk it for something so vague and unconfirmed as this ?

Yeah, the rich lady is good looking and well-groomed, but this does not guarantee good fucks ...

Yeah, the rich lady is wealthy with nice hse and car, but these are her hse and car. How much do the TS stand to profit from this ? Would expensive gifts and nice dinners good enuff to offset the lost of a steady soul mate ?

This is a no-brainer for me ... If it's me in the same situation, unless I am sure of gaining a lot, otherwise definitely no go.

Don't get conned !!!

PornFreak · #34 10-09-2008, 10:05 AM

No money, no honey

There are lots and lots of honey around so don't worry about lack of suppy

hamlinlau · #35 10-09-2008, 04:19 PM

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Originally Posted by alphalaw

wicked!
but i like ur idea.

then again I wont do it.
If im the ts, i go with my feeling. Who do I really love? (remove all $ and career aspects)

I was just kidding lah..

as a guy...
I would 'probably' do it your way.. I 'll pledge my utmost to provide for the family a comfy life, toys for my kids before I go out to splurge on my friends and PRC mei2s....

but if I am a girl...
I want to have a good life(at least I can have the choice to be a hsewife. No need for luxury but sufficient to send my kids to any university they want to go.. one or 2 branded bags and watch... a couple of trips to see some other countries. The man cannot provide the basics... I am sorry..

Just being practical here...

alphalaw · #36 10-09-2008, 06:56 PM

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Originally Posted by hamlinlau

I was just kidding lah..

but if I am a girl...
I want to have a good life(at least I can have the choice to be a hsewife. No need for luxury but sufficient to send my kids to any university they want to go.. one or 2 branded bags and watch... a couple of trips to see some other countries. The man cannot provide the basics... I am sorry..

Just being practical here...

Woah lau, then ts good liao. no need to choose. Take first one.

doc_samson · #37 10-09-2008, 09:43 PM

before you get married with your partner,you talk mostly about love,

after you get married,everything is about being practical.....

so choose wisely and carefully on who you want to spend the rest of your life with..

Horay · #38 10-09-2008, 11:28 PM

Since you have not married to any gal, you can still try both world. Once you settle down you are also limited to your gal you tie knot with. So try both as you have said the richer one know of your gf existence.

wahlau · #39 11-09-2008, 08:02 AM

Like what brother Pro.d.igy said, you kinda of know it in yourself perhaps you want someone to come up with a better reason to go the other way.

Imagine, you are just married to your gf and this rich girl comes along. What have changed?

It would tantamount to cheating your wife. You probably going to have a good time with her since she knows you are tied down. You know you can't divorce your wife to go with her, etc.

At the end of the day, you have to use your head to decide what is right and good in the long run. You can't have this rich girl support your lifestyle. It makes a man feels so low (if you are a true gentleman).

The good thing is you are not yet married and this happens when you can decide which way to go. If it's love, decide it on love. If it's about good life and money, go the other way. If it's about loyalty and commitment, then you know who has proven herself. If it's about emotions and feelings, give yourself time.

Bro, it's not easy. After a while, life returns to normal. A pretty girl will get old. Too much money will numb you. Emptiness has to be filled.

richmenson · #40 15-09-2008, 04:33 PM

Wow.. Thanks to all bros for posting many constructive suggestions.

I believe many would have done things different ways if you were in my shoe.

To clarify something, somehow i guess I have not been able to grasp a strong concept of "love". Sometimes, I would miss my GF for no apparent reasons when I have just met her yesterday. Then again, I could have felt obligated because of the long term r/s and maybe not get used to it in her absence.

In a twist of fate, i met with a traffic accident a couple of weeks ago.

The first person i called is my GF. Apparently, she was still bathing/sleeping. Not sure which but she didn't pick up my call (which she seldom do so). I sent over an sms that reads something like "I have met with an accident, please call back."

The second person i called is obviously none other than her (the rich lady, let's call her H). She was in the midst of a golfing session with her dad and my call gave her a shock. She rushed down all the way from the golf course at SICC to the location of my accident.

At the same time, my vehicle was being towed away. She gave me a lift and followed the tow vehicle back to the workshop. She was asking if I'm fine all the while and uttering prayers to the god. She's quite a faithful follower of God i would say.

Within an hour or so, she arranged for another vehicle (one of her beloved cars) to be at the workshop so that I could use her spare car while mine is undergoing repairs.

She arranged for her lawyer to speak to my insurance company etc. After taking down the accident statement, we went to have high tea. Meanwhile, my gf has just returned call and searching for me frantically on the expressway. My HP went flat on batt. Later on, she learnt that my vehicle is already in the workshop. She apologized for not taking my call earlier. I wasn't angry.

I feel like a blessed man. yet a sinned man with mixed emotions. After that day, I didn't contact either of them. I want to ponder it over.

How good it would be if you could have 2 wives? :P

no_faith · #41 16-09-2008, 11:53 AM

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Originally Posted by richmenson

..The first person i called is my GF. Apparently, she was still bathing/sleeping. Not sure which but she didn't pick up my call (which she seldom do so)...

she is not bathing/sleeping,
she is bathing, ......., sleeping.

choose the rich lady la.

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Originally Posted by richmenson

How good it would be if you could have 2 wives? :P

hu dun wan?