Advice for starting relationship

[Docow1000]

Originally Posted by Kruzer0102

Haha need to take note of all the factors le.. Guess my highest opportunity will only be at uni i like what some of the bros mention here! Need to study hard as the same time. Or else will lose the whole picture.

wow, bud, you haven't gone to uni. how old are you? start out with the view of making friends and see how things go.

[Kruzer0102]

Originally Posted by Chopsumbong

Just try not to ask for anal straight away

Haha. Pray the best for me!

[donut88]

Originally Posted by Kruzer0102

Haha need to take note of all the factors le.. Guess my highest opportunity will only be at uni i like what some of the bros mention here! Need to study hard as the same time. Or else will lose the whole picture.

From my years of experience, I give u advice. Trust me, it works.

U only need to have 3 things. No money involved

1. High EQ. No need to be the attention seeker. But need to know how to talk, when to talk the right things at the right time.

2. Give a sense of security. No need to be a Rambo to save the world, but need to be firm, matured and steady at the right time.

3. Guts. No need to be the Gang-ho and talk big, but need to open mouth and daring to ask gal out at the right time.

Gals never like a guy who's timid, low EQ and weak. It's a turn off for them.

[Kruzer0102]

Just gonna share my experience.. Got matched with a girl on a dating app, dp looks pretty cute. Lets call her QX for short. We chatted for a few days and found out that we hve a few common interest and thats when QX decided to exchange contact with me. QX invited me out for a drink, i innitially felt abit shy at first as no girl jio me out to drink b4.. But since she have courage to ask and i have nothing on that night must well just go lo. Upon reaching the place, we met up with each other. She looked very different from her pics. Maybe face around 50% resemblance? Body oversized (x2 width of me)? So i went to cfm whether is her or not.. if not dam malu.. So its QX! Maybe catfished nvm loh.. if personality nice can still be friends mah! QX brought her frens along as well. Dam awkward session as she didn't spoke much and is most of the time covering her face throughout. I think i spoke more with her friends than with her than night like as if shes avoiding me. As it hit late night, we splitted the bill for the drinks and parted ways. Didn't join them for the late mooks session since i feel like a third party in their group. Anyone with similar experience?

[batamfood]

Relationship should be natural.

Is a case of boy meets girl and vice-versa.

Wonder what kind of advice necessary?

Ask yourself how you exist today? Ask your parents, grandparents?

[pitchingtent]

Originally Posted by batamfood

Relationship should be natural.

Is a case of boy meets girl and vice-versa.

Wonder what kind of advice necessary?

Ask yourself how you exist today? Ask your parents, grandparents?

I was about to say this too.

[Kruzer0102]

Originally Posted by batamfood

Relationship should be natural.

Is a case of boy meets girl and vice-versa.

Wonder what kind of advice necessary?

Ask yourself how you exist today? Ask your parents, grandparents?

That was what i thought innitially too like 4 years ago.. But sadly it didn't occur to the minority bunch like me. Throughout my polytechnic days, my course mates were let alone guys.... Not to mention NS days, finding a girl would be like digging a gem from the sea. Maybe i pretty got envious of my bunk mates bah.. all of them are happily attached except me. Sometimes talking with them feels out of place. (But we are still close pals though.) I.e. Sometimes nightout/weekend jio eat. Sorry bro, need pei my gf eat. Ok loh i eat alone HAHA. What came to my mind was.. could it because of the course of study? Well cuz 90% of my course mates from polytechnic were still single. Maybe ppl from sch of biz/sc/design have it ez for natural relationship instead since all the wider pool of ladies all there T.T