My wife accuses me of pawning her stuff which she cannot find. How do I prove my inno

[sadfa]

Originally Posted by orangeproud

Since TS here is asking 4 our advice, n bros & sis here also give him some suggestions to this matter. We juz suggest to him, it's up to him to decide wat he shld do next. If he really wan a more professional advice, he can go for family counsellor.

If Ts is yr real friend, the best u can do is offer a listening ear n after that tell him bottoms up n quickly go lick the ktv gers neh neh.

But you don't even know who is Ts.
so Why offer non working solution to someone who don't even wan to say or don't know the real problem is?

[orangeproud]

Originally Posted by sadfa

If Ts is yr real friend, the best u can do is offer a listening ear n tell him bottoms up n lick the ktv gers neh neh.

But you don't even know who is Ts.

so Why offer non working solution to someone who don't even wan to say the real problem is?

We all here dun know who is TS. Since he come here asking our opinions, we juz offer him some suggestions, whether the suggestions r workable or not, only he know. He jz give a brief describe of his problem, we can only base on this brief queries, give him suggestions. If for too detailed, lengthy in deep problem which is hard to say here, he can go for family counsellor.

[sadfa]

No use la.

If you love taking up useless causes, There are broke families with kids sniffing glue, ah gong bed ridden, mother in jail, father jobless, hamster tio cancer all waiting for your help.

[orangeproud]

Originally Posted by sadfa

No use la.

If you love taking up useless causes, There are broke families with kids sniffing glue, ah gong bed ridden, mother in jail, father jobless, hamster tio cancer all waiting for your help.

I'm juz stating tat since TS come here for advice, we jz suggest him base on his brief describe of his problem as it might be too lengthy for him to elaborate over here, if he really need help, he will seek help from family counseling centre. He came here asking, we juz suggesting him, whether workable or not, only he know. IMHO.

[parrotkid]

Thanks bros for your advices. My wife is a person who jumps to conclusion easily. There could be people around her who suggest that I had pawned the items also. She does not use common sense. I spend money on her meals like water. Each high tea session costs about $100 and I spend about $2000+ on food a month and recently I spent almost $20k setting up a business so why would I need that puny but of pawn money.

[Abcdefghijklmn]

Go by rewards system bro. Tame the lion.

If you are well to do now, get jewelry box, it is a small container that can put jewelry. Find those that have safe.

Wrap it nicely and say this is for your Christmas present. If she whine, no extra present during Christmas. If she do not whine, buy sure something good.

Each time she accuse you for misplace, you drop the treatment to her. For example, she want go to $100 restaurants, say that you think alike and wanted to treat her as a capable husband. But with her behavior lately, you decided to save that money for future use and eat only $10 food court.

Do prepare that she may whine or throw tantrums to you on public

[Abcdefghijklmn]

Another way is to setup a joint account, only both signatures require in order to withdraw.

Put a decent amount of money in.

Every time when she accused you, ask her if the joint account has decreased in money or increased in money.

Then say why do you need to steal when the money sitting in the bank is more than her stuffs. If she argue, say that it is your money that has deposit into the bank. You trust her as a wife that why you put joint account. If she do not trust you, you can remove her as the joint account person. This mainly either result in a big fight or she is in the losing end.

Some ladies are demanding.. It is a taboo to talk sex, money and even work to them. It depend on your luck bro

[parrotkid]

I think it is ridiculous to accuse people anyhow. It causes a lot of disharmony at home. If she cannot see that I am making lots of money and wouldn't need things worth less thAn $1000, then I do not see to carry on this marriage as by accusing me of things I didn't do, she has lost my trust.

[maddog_mlvn]

Originally Posted by sadfa

This kind of small family squabble you oso wan to air in public.

Just tell her ya limpeh did it.
You don't shutup limpeh oso pawn u later.
N drink a bottle of stout bottoms up.

Show her who's the man of the house.

Bro Sadfa up ur points for ur Very Good reply, next day go toilet can not shit also post to let everybody know.

[parrotkid]

It is not a small squabble. It can lead to a divorce.

[newyorker88]

Originally Posted by orangeproud

Bro, ask her nicely to place her precious valuable Jewellery properly & carefully better in a lock drawer or safe where she's d only one own d key & password. Or else, there's never ending for accusing & finger pointing. I think both of u also feel very vexed & tired, rite?

Agree. Ask her to have a habit to place all her things in a box, and she keep it herself. If anything lost, don't blame u. Since you are doing well now. Don't need to pawn her things.

Dun quarrel for the sake of quarrelling. Explain to her, and thrash it out before these things thrash your marriage.

[Big Sexy]

How would you have like it if she had filed for a divorce when you took her items and pawned it without her permission? She could have report you for theft.

my point is .. try to work things out instead of thinking of divorce at the first sign of trouble.

Originally Posted by parrotkid

I think it is ridiculous to accuse people anyhow. It causes a lot of disharmony at home. If she cannot see that I am making lots of money and wouldn't need things worth less thAn $1000, then I do not see to carry on this marriage as by accusing me of things I didn't do, she has lost my trust.

[FatSpider]

just divorce the slut

[Big Sexy]

how does that make her a slut?

Originally Posted by FatSpider

just divorce the slut

[sadfa]

Originally Posted by parrotkid

It is not a small squabble. It can lead to a divorce.

If she never divorce you when u steal her things to pawn, she won't divorce u now la.

And yr logic is flawed. Since you spend so much liao, of cos you muz pawn her things to recoup.
See. Your wife knows u best!

Be. honest with us. You pawn her things right