Been single for more than 10 years

[SushiJiro]

TS, i share your sentiments.

Just to share my story as well, i am 31 this year and have been single for the past 3 years. Previously before the age of 28, i had never seriously think about the issue of settling down/marriage. And i met a couple of pretty good gals in my life- decent looks, sensible character and compatible with my personality.

Fast forward to present day- at the age of 31 now, if i can meet an average decent gal now, i would seriously think about the issue of settling down, or at least plan my future with her.

But called it luck or destiny, in the past 18 months or so, i couldn't have had it worse when it comes to dating. Every single gal that i had liked simply turned me down flat- do not reply to sms, last minute fly me aeroplane.
The only 1 gal who responded to me turned out to be an absolutely rip-off - it's like the only reason she is out with me is because she can dine at resturant and drink the whole night without having to pay a single cent.

I feel so disappointed after the strings of rejections and bad dates that i decided to take some time off from all these- for the past few months, i have been mainly catching up with my guy friends. Just having a good dinner and some chilling out, and i have never felt happier!
Decided to take some time to find my own pace, listen to my inner voice and hopefully life can improve...

[organiser]

Originally Posted by SushiJiro

TS, i share your sentiments.

Just to share my story as well, i am 31 this year and have been single for the past 3 years. Previously before the age of 28, i had never seriously think about the issue of settling down/marriage. And i met a couple of pretty good gals in my life- decent looks, sensible character and compatible with my personality.

Fast forward to present day- at the age of 31 now, if i can meet an average decent gal now, i would seriously think about the issue of settling down, or at least plan my future with her.

But called it luck or destiny, in the past 18 months or so, i couldn't have had it worse when it comes to dating. Every single gal that i had liked simply turned me down flat- do not reply to sms, last minute fly me aeroplane.
The only 1 gal who responded to me turned out to be an absolutely rip-off - it's like the only reason she is out with me is because she can dine at resturant and drink the whole night without having to pay a single cent.

I feel so disappointed after the strings of rejections and bad dates that i decided to take some time off from all these- for the past few months, i have been mainly catching up with my guy friends. Just having a good dinner and some chilling out, and i have never felt happier!
Decided to take some time to find my own pace, listen to my inner voice and hopefully life can improve...

Good luck bro.
its basically like a luck thing. Once its used up, things happen

[someguy]

Personally, I think that it is fine being single as long as you enjoy being single. Seen some people in a relationship because they were expected to be in one rather than because they really wanted one...

[Mekatulia]

Originally Posted by jnudes

Hi bros and sis,

This year I am 35 years old. I have been single since June 2002 until today. After the breakup did tried several attempts to court gals but unsuccessful. Either one of us did not like each other or we both have high demand. In summary no love destiny for us.
...

The older I get I just feel marriage is starting to become obsolete as more and more couples are getting divorce. I got to know two ex-classmates (one male & female) already divorced. This for me influenced me in certain ways and make me look more on negative side on marriage.

Actually I am doing fine in my everyday life. Working and sleeping alone. And in my free time I also go walking at park alone. Not really expecting or chasing anyone. Marriage is unthinkable for me now. I just feel single life give me more freedom and independent life that I truly enjoyed.

The purpose of this post is not to find new gf thru SBF or gain sympathies from members here. I just want to know humble opinions from single bros and sis on how they cope with their everyday single life.

Thanks for reading this and sharing your opinion.

Bro,
做人要拿得起放得下。 The past is an experience and you shouldn't let the bad experiences deny your future. This has nothing to do with whether should you decide to get into another relationship or not.

[kiki123]

Its all about fate. I'm 32 years old.. Don't even have a single gf at all. What to do?

[ahpui99]

I feel for u guys



Been there and now married

Focus on taking care of yourself. Exercise, eat well, concentrate on career and be happy

Things will be better and work out

[gimmeporn]

I will be 34 this year and i have been single since 2009. I met a very amazing woman recently and i fucked it up and now i want her back. I am past the stage of feeling sorry for myself and that i promise to change blah blah blah.

She was a wake up call and she has changed my life completely, however i felt the pressure of trying to conform to who she wanted instead of who i was and i lied and screwed it up.

What i am saying is sometimes we make our own luck and chances in life and not have to beg for it. I have let her go for now, we both need space and away from each other. We sometimes need to be alone to take care and love ourselves before we can take care and love another person.

I am a strong believer of karma and fate and i believe this might be my karma for fucking around all this years

However if fate still give us a chance, i will be a better man to prove my worth to her. Likewise, you guys who are still single need to step up so that when the right gal comes along, show them that you are a capable man who can take care of themselves and their other half. Good luck to you single guys out there, enjoy your bachelorhood while it lasts

[ahpui99]

Originally Posted by gimmeporn

I will be 34 this year and i have been single since 2009. I met a very amazing woman recently and i fucked it up and now i want her back. I am past the stage of feeling sorry for myself and that i promise to change blah blah blah.

She was a wake up call and she has changed my life completely, however i felt the pressure of trying to conform to who she wanted instead of who i was and i lied and screwed it up.

What i am saying is sometimes we make our own luck and chances in life and not have to beg for it. I have let her go for now, we both need space and away from each other. We sometimes need to be alone to take care and love ourselves before we can take care and love another person.

I am a strong believer of karma and fate and i believe this might be my karma for fucking around all this years

However if fate still give us a chance, i will be a better man to prove my worth to her. Likewise, you guys who are still single need to step up so that when the right gal comes along, show them that you are a capable man who can take care of themselves and their other half. Good luck to you single guys out there, enjoy your bachelorhood while it lasts

Chin up my friend
Shit happens
When i was 22, tried to play with a girl feelings even when i had a gf then . In the end both gt farked up and i was single for damn long while.

Shit happens my friend. Hope u be ok

[jnudes]

Originally Posted by gimmeporn

I will be 34 this year and i have been single since 2009. I met a very amazing woman recently and i fucked it up and now i want her back. I am past the stage of feeling sorry for myself and that i promise to change blah blah blah.

She was a wake up call and she has changed my life completely, however i felt the pressure of trying to conform to who she wanted instead of who i was and i lied and screwed it up.

What i am saying is sometimes we make our own luck and chances in life and not have to beg for it. I have let her go for now, we both need space and away from each other. We sometimes need to be alone to take care and love ourselves before we can take care and love another person.

I am a strong believer of karma and fate and i believe this might be my karma for fucking around all this years

However if fate still give us a chance, i will be a better man to prove my worth to her. Likewise, you guys who are still single need to step up so that when the right gal comes along, show them that you are a capable man who can take care of themselves and their other half. Good luck to you single guys out there, enjoy your bachelorhood while it lasts

Bro, I believe in karma too although my family background was based on strict Christian upbringing. I believe my break up with my ex-gf was also due to past karma. In my early twenties I used to fell for MIRC gal friends, played with their feelings and dumped them. After she dumped me I really know the true feeling of a broken hearted man. So painful as my feeling for her was 100% and it took many years to get away with it.

[timeonmyhands]

Originally Posted by stillgottheblue

You don't have to be married to feel complete. You don't need to have kids to feel complete.

There are always advantages and disadvantages in both situation.

TS

Ditto! The desire to actualize your potential is a struggle especially if you look at specific parts or in comparison to others. Take the time to understand how you feel about things in general, where/how you live, your career, relationships with relatives. friends etc. Most of the time, love and relationships finds it's way into your life when you tend to what you have as opposed to sitting around and wondering what and why things are missing.

It takes courage pen your feelings and I congratulate you on taking that first tep to ackwoledge them! Keep on keeping on!

[gimmeporn]

Chin up my friend
Shit happens
When i was 22, tried to play with a girl feelings even when i had a gf then . In the end both gt farked up and i was single for damn long while.

Shit happens my friend. Hope u be ok

Bro, I believe in karma too although my family background was based on strict Christian upbringing. I believe my break up with my ex-gf was also due to past karma. In my early twenties I used to fell for MIRC gal friends, played with their feelings and dumped them. After she dumped me I really know the true feeling of a broken hearted man. So painful as my feeling for her was 100% and it took many years to get away with it.

No problem my friend i am fine and moving on despite her telling me to fuck off (nicely) this morning. I am a stubborn and persistent man by nature and i do not back off even if the odds are against me. I do this because she is worth it. Nothing comes easy, boxed and ribbioned in my life. Lose the sorry attitude and find your hunger and fighting spirit bros. Make your own luck dont just wish for it. You guys take it positively and live well now

Karma is something that we accumulate and discharge in our lives. It might not be fully paid off or earned in this lifetime or the next but it is up to us at the end of the day to do the right thing and live well. I will answer for my own sins but i will not let it weigh me down. You all go out and make your own luck and lives better now!

[jnudes]

Originally Posted by gimmeporn

No problem my friend i am fine and moving on despite her telling me to fuck off (nicely) this morning. I am a stubborn and persistent man by nature and i do not back off even if the odds are against me. I do this because she is worth it. Nothing comes easy, boxed and ribbioned in my life. Lose the sorry attitude and find your hunger and fighting spirit bros. Make your own luck dont just wish for it. You guys take it positively and live well now

What I been doing over the last 10 years was watching lots of porn, more than one thousand titles of them, one way to cope with my loneliness and boredom. I cheong few times a year, as I could not afford to do it 100s of times as some rich playboy bros do here. I am fine living a single life. Absolutely no complaints.

[DegenerationX]

Originally Posted by jnudes

What I been doing over the last 10 years was watching lots of porn, more than one thousand titles of them, one way to cope with my loneliness and boredom. I cheong few times a year, as I could not afford to do it 100s of times as some rich playboy bros do here. I am fine living a single life. Absolutely no complaints.

This is the most important. So long as you are happy with how things are in your live, that's enough.

[LengKia]

Originally Posted by jnudes

Hi bros and sis,

This year I am 35 years old. I have been single since June 2002 until today. After the breakup did tried several attempts to court gals but unsuccessful. Either one of us did not like each other or we both have high demand. In summary no love destiny for us.

To release the stress of broken heart I also tried cheonging at Thailand, watch porn and have almost everyday PCC at home. I also visit spas, MPs and freelancers for their sex service, about few times in a year.

The older I get I just feel marriage is starting to become obsolete as more and more couples are getting divorce. I got to know two ex-classmates (one male & female) already divorced. This for me influenced me in certain ways and make me look more on negative side on marriage.

Actually I am doing fine in my everyday life. Working and sleeping alone. And in my free time I also go walking at park alone. Not really expecting or chasing anyone. Marriage is unthinkable for me now. I just feel single life give me more freedom and independent life that I truly enjoyed.

The purpose of this post is not to find new gf thru SBF or gain sympathies from members here. I just want to know humble opinions from single bros and sis on how they cope with their everyday single life.

Thanks for reading this and sharing your opinion.

It can be a wise decision to stay single. You will missed it when you have settled down.

Enjoy Singlehood!

[esssinine]

you will regret when you reach the time when you can do nothing about it.

you will feel the loneliness when all your friends are busy and settled with their families.

when you see others with kids all grown.

the feeling will be most acute during festive times or when you need someone to share joy or to understand the pain of losing someone or something you value.

couples have their differences all the time but that is sign of building a relation

dont lose your way in life cos cheonging is only a passing thing

go find a soul partner as when you grow older the options will lessen.