A Question to ask??

[Sex4Love]

Dear Higal,

Not to worry, your husband is still interested in ML, the only thing is he feels boring. Talk to him to come out and experiment with some ML positions. If you change into new ML positions, ML will be less boring. Also you can change the place for ML. Check if your husband has any sexual fantasies ? Like he gets turn on when he sees women in certain uniforms. You hear about stuff like role playing?

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OK, I hope you can find my articles helpful to you in your ML.

[cockenadan]

Originally Posted by Higal

oh baby, he dun even help out with kid or housechores nowadays but i have to do all the kid stuff and house chores after work and at times on top of these, i also got time to entertain my bf too whenever he is back on shore...

Wow..you finding yourself a subsitute already...i thought of voluteering my services

[otamay]

Originally Posted by jasdude

everytime feast on abalone will also get sick . thats why he prefer a change of diet . at least he is honest on what he wants and likes . you may try different avenues just let your imagination run wild . etc outdoors and in prompt to sex

Good observations, certain truth in it

[bigangry]

Originally Posted by Higal

hi brothers/sisters

We are married for coming to 5.5years and i was puzzled by what my husband said . Anyone can enlighten me on this hidden meaning.

he mentioned that he dont wish to do the ML frequently as he finds it (our ML) boring. On the other hand he likes my BJ skill and the way i do can turn him on high.

one tip for you, dont listen too much to horny people here.

[Draculito]

Originally Posted by Higal

oh baby, he dun even help out with kid or housechores nowadays but i have to do all the kid stuff and house chores after work and at times on top of these, i also got time to entertain my bf too whenever he is back on shore...

so u also got another avenue to let out yr stress...
maybe the frequency is not up to yr liking..

[shutupyou]

Originally Posted by Higal

oh baby, he dun even help out with kid or housechores nowadays but i have to do all the kid stuff and house chores after work and at times on top of these, i also got time to entertain my bf too whenever he is back on shore...

Hi Girl,

Man can be very complicated in i their thinking process but can be equally simple, here the list of what man's want (wish list) and see what do u think u can fit in;

1) A beautiful and sexy gf/wife
2) wild and adventure but only love one man
3) Willing to talk openly on any sex fantasy and request (example, 3some, fantasy on other girls --> i know girls do fantasy other guys while doing with their love one) which most of the time only FB or lovers will share but not bgr/marriage couple
4) Rich gf/wife
5) Smart, understanding and supporting wife (like our late Mrs Lee)
6) Like a Best friend to them

haha there's too many to name, I guess alot of SBF bro here can give u a short lists

Last but not least, going for FB is the last time u should have go for, but if u really go for one, make sure it will never affect your personal life, marriage and ur career and keep that right image of a good mother to your children.

Cheers,

[samyboys]

Originally Posted by bonkster

Sorry to hear about your marital woes. Regardless of whether he eats out, if the relationship aspect of a marriage is under stress, the sexual aspect is naturally affected.

Many years ago when my OC and i were less established in our careers and trying to cope with our stressful jobs, we had a major communication breakdown. Back then we just couldn't seem to share anything with each other without getting into an argument.

The result from that was a somewhat passive-aggressive response from both parties. She either ignored me or was annoyingly sarcastic when she wasn't happy. I, on the other hand, wasn't keen on ML to her as i felt it's hardly enjoyable ML to a woman who was stressing me up with all those annoying antics.

It's a vicious cycle, the more crap from her, the less i feel like ML to her, the more she suspected i was eating out, then more crap from her and so on. And FYI, i wasn't wasting out at that time.

All the best to u TS! Hope u can sort it out.

bro, how did things turn out to be eventually?

[bonkster]

Originally Posted by samyboys

bro, how did things turn out to be eventually?

Eventually went counselling and gradually sorted it out. My personal view on marriage is that it's extremely challenging to keep both parties happy, unless u approach it with the give-and-take mentality and psych yourself to suck it up when the going gets tough.

[daicheklou]

Like the old saying goes..wives no better den mistress, mistress no better den cheating.
Men are create in such a way that they tend to have the reproductive mindset, whereever they go, they see women, attractive to them, they wanna ML with them.
The skill in ML require exploration to experiment enjoy the beauty of love making.
Men likes new stuff or rather all human like new stuffs, foods, songs, movies, clothes, gagets & etc..if you are eating the same dish everyday. wearing the same clothes everyday, using the old HP for years, surely you get sick of it.
However it not necessary to discard this stuff, a minor additional & alteration work on it will make it fresh again. If women know how to do that, do some make over, sure you can make your husband rush home from work everyday.

[J fellow]

i can pcc 6 times a day but can only ml at most thrice a day.

heee... some times man over a certain age are just plain lazy.

but definately he is sick and tired of you.