Sex without condom

[hock19]

Originally Posted by giocopadrone

Problem is she said she loves me alot, I tried to end this relationship she cried and told me not to leave, she always goes out with me during her off days, I tot she's gonna rip my money when I was out with her but she didn't and even volunteered to pay for the expenses. I told her I can't carry on like this but she told me not to leave her and even said that she willing to end her " career" and goes back to her country. I told her I can't keep visiting her in the house and she even pays for my sessions with her. Apart from this she calls me everyday after her work. I really tried to end this but it's really very hard for me to do it as she is really good to me. I'm really lost and in a dilema now.. Any one here experience this can give some advice? Many thanks!

Where is she from. Some bro mentions Thailand.

If she is from China or Malaysia, generally they are here for the money although I have come across one or 2 who has some feelings for you; but still they have a down to early sense of reality

If from Thailand, they seem to be more emotional and let their hearts rule their brains.

From what I read, if she is from Thailand, it could be pretty real.

[giocopadrone]

Yes she's from Thai

[viper85]

Originally Posted by giocopadrone

Problem is she said she loves me alot, I tried to end this relationship she cried and told me not to leave, she always goes out with me during her off days, I tot she's gonna rip my money when I was out with her but she didn't and even volunteered to pay for the expenses. I told her I can't carry on like this but she told me not to leave her and even said that she willing to end her " career" and goes back to her country. I told her I can't keep visiting her in the house and she even pays for my sessions with her. Apart from this she calls me everyday after her work. I really tried to end this but it's really very hard for me to do it as she is really good to me. I'm really lost and in a dilema now.. Any one here experience this can give some advice? Many thanks!

From what u described...high chance she has feelings for u...however...think abt when she returns...it`s gonna get troublesome and worriesome...

Also, just because she has feelings for u and let u RAW...doesn`t mean she also won`t let others raw(Maybe due to long time regulars or other reasons)

Advice would be perhaps let time roll out and see how things goes...but when she returns, try to end it there!

[gemvip]

Bro giocopadrone.

I had 3 encounters for this when I was an expat in oversea. I even stayed with one of them for 3 years. For the other 2 girls I was not sure about their situation after I stopped the relationship. But for the one who I had lived with for 3 years, would called me on my birthday after we parted until she eventually got married.

My advice is to stop it as soon as possible. Even the girl is truly expressing herself, can you really maintain the relationsip? There are much more cosiderations then you can anticipate. It is unfair for the girl. But you have to have a good talk with the girl and handle the situation carefully. Some girls really do stupid thing. As a man you have to do what you have to do.

[ian pa lai]

Originally Posted by giocopadrone

Just went to a house in geylang, had the usual girl I always called for the past 3 months, today she actually let me fuck without condom and let me shoot inside also... Is this normal?? Or is she really in love with me?? Cos she said she loves me alot.

Bro how old are you btw... I ever experience same things long time ago and after sometimes the feeling will just fade off...How many time you do raw and shoot inside her?

[peanut123]

Guys, are you willing to accept a hooker as a wife ? If yes, then ask her to stop being a hooker and you can then have a normal relationship with her.

If no, then its not going to work out and so get the hell out of there. It is possible that she really loves you, but you must be able to accept her career choice.

[giocopadrone]

I admit that I do love her, I don't mind what she is working as, of cos I will feel jealous and stuff like that.. I know it's not what she wants she had no choice. I really wish to maintain this relationship and I don't mind going back with her in the near future cause I know she will not be able to return after her permit ends

[JayBee Vampire]

hmmm bro... my advise is just leave her...
or if she is really want you OR u cannot leave her... take her to health screening...
and start your family...

[avgalslover]

Originally Posted by giocopadrone

I admit that I do love her, I don't mind what she is working as, of cos I will feel jealous and stuff like that.. I know it's not what she wants she had no choice. I really wish to maintain this relationship and I don't mind going back with her in the near future cause I know she will not be able to return after her permit ends

I had to come in at this point.... Bro, read up my story.

[batboyz]

Originally Posted by giocopadrone

... cause I know she will not be able to return after her permit ends

She can come back to SG as a tourist after a certain period of time.

[pyramus]

Originally Posted by giocopadrone

Problem is she said she loves me alot, I tried to end this relationship she cried and told me not to leave, she always goes out with me during her off days, I tot she's gonna rip my money when I was out with her but she didn't and even volunteered to pay for the expenses. I told her I can't carry on like this but she told me not to leave her and even said that she willing to end her " career" and goes back to her country. I told her I can't keep visiting her in the house and she even pays for my sessions with her. Apart from this she calls me everyday after her work. I really tried to end this but it's really very hard for me to do it as she is really good to me. I'm really lost and in a dilema now.. Any one here experience this can give some advice? Many thanks!

I had but not in singapore but in my home country about 7 yrs ago. I know what ur going through but in the end I still ended that relationship.

[haizdie]

Originally Posted by batboyz

She can come back to SG as a tourist after a certain period of time.

how long after is the certain period of time? anyway any bros encounter GL relationship before and mind sharing? the lady i'm hanging out with doesn't ask for anything from me and she pay for her own expenses. she doesn't seem to be after anything from me. i'm certainly confused. pls help.

[BeastMaster]

Crazy to go raw .... pls don risk it no worth it

[brightness83]

Originally Posted by giocopadrone

I admit that I do love her, I don't mind what she is working as, of cos I will feel jealous and stuff like that.. I know it's not what she wants she had no choice. I really wish to maintain this relationship and I don't mind going back with her in the near future cause I know she will not be able to return after her permit ends

Only time will tell...Go for a check up before you make any decision! Be Smart! Have the Wisdom to think!

[peanut123]

Originally Posted by giocopadrone

I admit that I do love her, I don't mind what she is working as, of cos I will feel jealous and stuff like that.. I know it's not what she wants she had no choice. I really wish to maintain this relationship and I don't mind going back with her in the near future cause I know she will not be able to return after her permit ends

Bro, I don't think this is love. Love is not something that comes with 3 months of paid sex. What you have, I think, is infactuation, or simply, a crush, puppy love, or watever you choose to call it.

This impedes judgement. This is clear from your statement that you don't mind what she does ( are you kidding ? Every self-respecting man minds his wife being a hooker. Why do you think calling someone's wife or gf a whore is such a terrible insult ? ).

And I don't think she had no choice. She could have worked as a waitress in Singapore making $1000 per month, like so many foreigners in our service industry, and slowly work her way up. But she chose to be a hooker making 10 times that amount. It's a choice she made : money over everything else.

Once reality sinks in, you will think differently. Don't jump into the ocean or you might drown.