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Originally Posted by czhsg
ok bros, would appreciate some advice from those who ever been in my situation. I have been having sex with my gf for a year. Ever since i started dating her from day one, I have abstain from sex at GL through sheer willpower. After a few months, I waver a bit and went for the occasional hj or bj with cap, but never the full package.
So the sex with gf was good. But now suddenly i find halfway during sex my penis go soft. This happen 3 times already. Worried that its erectile dysfunction, i got a bit disturbed. I am only in my twenties. I don't smoke, but i drink every night, 2 or 3 cans of beer. I have a relatively healty lifestyle with exercise, except for the drinking part. But I don't drink before sex or during the day.
Reading from other thread, I suspect my problem is psychological. Coz after 1 year plus never go GL, I was finally so worried that recently I went to GL150 and China street side FL to testing 2 times see if got problem not. I found my performance comparable to last time active days leh. Only with gf halfway go soft.
I notice that my overall sex drive drop a bit, and I like lose interest with sex wth gf. I dunno is it do too long with same person, or is it because I just start working not long, things not stable so I get too stressed. I don't understand why I cannot hold my interest in sex with gf despite her being attractive to me.
My purpose for opening this thread is to find out from fellow bro, if u have this type of problem before and its psychological, how did you solve the problem. Did it go away on its own? Any tips can share? I am prepared to see doctor but i suspect psychological problem he may not see things from the same perspective as those of us who chiong GL before. Appreciate advice from mature forummers.
Lastly, salesmen in forum, please don't pm me sales items. I would like to hear experience of bros here only, on how they overcome this problem of lose interest halfway during sex or if the problem just went away on its own after some time. No sales items please. thanks.
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hi czhsg,
Forget about vibration ring. I have 39 years old and my erection problem was a lot times worse than yours. I took cialis for more than 2 years each time i had sex with my gf. Phychology is important but s not 100 percent to be blamed for the problem. Phychology is 50 percent and the other 50 percent is your body, i.e. your kidney, liver, etc.
Few months ago, i went to see a chinese physician at geylang rd, he told me got to visit him once every fortnightly for minimum 3 months. After 3 visits (one and a half month of chinese medicine), i stopped seeing him cos suspecting the medicine is not working. Somemore each visit at least one hundred plus.
A few weeks after my last visit, seems like my cock is alive again. No kidding, guess that the chinese medicine take some time to take effect. If u want to address of the chinese doctor.. pm me. Remember to give me some points if it works for u.
Another advice, stay away from beer and other cooling stuffs and go jogging. Jogging helps. No kidding.
Thank you very much.
Rgds,
James
23-09-2009, 03:06 PM
