Why guys get cheated by girls? Preventive Guide

[cablesnwires]

bro GL Roamer,

Any more updates? I am camping here for more.

[GL-Roamer]

Originally Posted by cablesnwires

bro GL Roamer,

Any more updates? I am camping here for more.

Hi bro cablesnwires and all other bros

Sorry to keep you waiting, I have been busy lately but however I am compiling the next update. Should be able to post in a few days time. Thanks for the enthusiasm.

[GL-Roamer]

How to win the engagement of the mind (Part 1)

Introduction
To all the bros who are keenly awaiting this next instalment, I thank you for your patience as I have been busy these few days. Hope you will enjoy what I have written here. As usual this is my opinions and my way of doing things. I only hope that such information will help anyone who may be searching for an answer.

This is the next instalment coming up. I would like to list out the arsenal you have when you are engaging a girl. Most people tend to think that they are either born good talkers that get the woman all the time or a poor talker that gets cheated all the time. But this is not true. Money will not buy you a girl’s heart but attention will get you into the deepest depths of her. Any girl that insists that they love only money and their beauty, know that they are lying to themselves as well. The reason is because deep within them, they feel insecure with an intangible thing like love and choose to cling on to something material like money (you can say the same thing for some guys as well). All material things will fade away including looks. The only way you can find out if a girl really loves you is that she is willing to die for you, nothing lesser than that.

Therefore the engagement of the mind can only be won through patience, attention and polishing up of your communication skills.

In fact all the skills I have listed above will get guys pretty prepared for any engagement with girls and to help guys not get cheated. Most of the time, negotiation tactics will work here. But what I would like to talk about here is an aspect of negotiation I term as ‘Positioning’. This would mean where you start off at the beginning of the engagement / negotiation. As everyone knows, in war, physical positions can determine a victory or defeat. Where you start off is a very important phase, if you start off on a low ground and the enemy is on the high ground then you will know what the usual results are. This aspect is linked to my guide above and serves to enhance the information above.

Finally I would like to say again: Anything that involves money is business and there must be objectives, deadlines and calculation of investment risk.


Analysis of negotiation positions


What are positions?

They are basically the physical, mental and emotional environment when you start the engagement and all are interlinked.


Physical Position

The physical place where you engage the girl, it could be a legal house or a KTV or a pub or just on the streets. This is basically the environment and the environment has a huge psychological impact because it feeds information into your brain. Take the streets for example, while you are negotiating with an FL, both you and her can see other FLs around looking for business so it induces much more confidence in you that if this one does not succeed you can jump to the next one and the FL knows that if she wants the business she better set her standards lower (unless she is the only most prettiest one on that street).

In my opinion enclosed areas with alcohol are the worst (for using your brain). Alcohol impairs your judgement and enclosed areas leave your senses with fewer choices to make while negotiating. It has a great psychological impact because the world has suddenly shrunk making the girl in front of you the sole source of sex (when people see only 1 source they unconsciously think that the resource is very limited and will pay a higher price for it).

It also has to do with your body mostly in the form of erections. Your physical urges can lead you to make hasty decision often agreeing to an inflated price to satisfy the urges then regretting it later.

Those who watch soccer will know the difference between home game and away game. The away team is usually at a disadvantage.


Mental Position

This one has a lot to do with the amount of mental bullets you bring to help you alive. It is the skills and experiences that you have in your head. I am sure that a bro who have learnt his lesson after being burnt will be more capable of handling certain situations than newbies when going back to the same type of place. It also has to do with how observant you are and how well you are able to use your mouth and your brain in unison.

Confidence is also another part of mental position. Back to the football example, home teams usually feel more confident on their home turf with thousands of their fans screaming at them and away team tend to feel at least a little intimidated (whether consciously or unconsciously). Confidence is an extra mental booster to your mental performance. But I would like to stress that OVER confidence is also a great killer of good performance.

Good mental positioning is the only way that you are going to get out of there with your bank account intact.


Emotional Position

This is more of how are you feeling when you are engaging the girl. Bad positions include feeling lonely or angry and the expectation that the girl to fix your emotional problems for you. This is the biggest weakness of all guys, so be sure to lock your emotions in a deepest most secured underground bunker and if possible deploy an entire army to protect it. If you can LEAVE YOUR EMOTIONS AT HOME, pls do it. Once this is exposed the guy is a goner.

To be continued

[GL-Roamer]

How to win the engagement of the mind (Part 2)

Analysis of the Positions (Both sides)

Starting position of the usual uninformed guy:

Physical
In an aroused state (with erection and roaming eyes and sometimes hands)
Sometimes partially intoxicated
Usually in the girl’s home ground eg, KTV, Streets or pubs.

Mental
Sex (influenced by the physical urges), all kinds of sexy / naked images of the girl in front of the guy will come out.
Mental state sometimes influenced by alcohol (can’t think properly)

Emotional
A need to boost self esteem, find love, fill up emptiness or cure loneliness. Basically there is an emotional need that guys ‘think’ the girl can fulfil and thus they go all out to seek them.


As you can see, the intentions are very clearly seen and the guys are very vulnerable. The fact that you go to places with girls shows that you are already starting from 1 of the above positions and the girls know that very clearly. Example: A guy walks into a brothel, what do you think his intention is? Everyone can tell.



The girls will typical start off from either 1 of these positions or more. You can definitely tell that their preparations are much more in detail.

Physical

Make up
They will do their illusionist tricks again. Especially in dim or flashing lights they may even look better because the darkness hides certain parts of their faces and they definitely hope that you will use your imagination to fill the gap (which most guys will do unconsciously, their perceived image of the girl from memories or imagination will help to form a pretty picture in your head because psychologically speaking no one wants to date someone who is ugly and if you are dating someone, that person must be pretty - EGO) This is a fatal flaw which many people don’t really realise until after much reflection.

Dress up
Girls wear those sexy clothes that reveal their cleavage enhanced by their bras (mostly when guys strip their girls nowadays they will be disappointed by their bust size and shape). This will distort your image of her to be more favourable towards her.

Environments where there may be alcohol
If the girls starts off here you may be at a disadvantage because if you are intoxicated you make bad judgements and I am sure the girls will love to make you drunk (you may end up paying for their drinks without even screwing them). Unless you are a very good drinker, I would suggest avoiding such places. By the way alcohol is expensive so why spend extra when you can have a bonk at cheaper rates. Some girls are such good drinkers (high chance they have no liver left as well) that can drink till you go broke. The best prevention is to avoid such places.


Mental
The girls have already assumed that all the guys going to see them is just for sex and so their mental defences are up. Everything any guy says they will link it to the reason ‘he is doing / saying this because he wants to have sex with me’. The girls have already assumed that guys will not give them any love and are thus not worthy of having sex with (unless somebody psychoed them that sex equals to love then that is a different story, but such girls usually wake up quite fast). The only logic that they use to override their emotions is that they are doing it purely for money that’s why they want to dig at your bank account.

Girls will load in the assumption that all guys are only out for their bodies (which are mostly true) and are thus much more immune to your praises and such.

They are only out for money. This is the mentality that all the girls have.


Emotional
They have already shut off themselves mentally by convincing themselves they are using their bodies for money only. This is the only way they can justify themselves getting touched and having sex with so many men because girls can’t separate sex from emotions so they will have to use logic to make them feel better and justify why are they doing this, if not many of the girls will fall into depression. The girls know that their emotions are their weakest point so they guard it very well. Some girls have also suffered some traumatic incidents before and so their emotional threshold (EQ) is much higher than most guys. This is the girls’ strongest defence.


So from the above you know where most guys stand and where the girls stand. Many guys are in a very lousy position.


To be continued

[GL-Roamer]

How to win the engagement of the mind (Part 3)

Mechanics of emotional attacks used by girls

From their starting positions, the girls will launch their arsenal of emotional attacks. The root and basis of emotional attacks is to BYPASS YOUR LOGIC. Here I will give an analysis and talk about the more common ones.

Tools of the trade

Normal Emotional Attacks
The girls will try to bypass your logic and they will tell you that they are emotionally weak and needs to be protected, they will tell you of their ‘sad’ background. They will tell you how ‘happy’ they are with you. They will tell you that you make a ‘difference’ in their lives. The better actresses will know how much of their emotions to release (either through much practice or unconsciously) to draw your emotions out. When your emotions are drawn out, YOU ARE DEAD.

Sometimes even the normal girl out on the streets use this.

Show them NO pity, NO mercy, NO remorse AND NO regrets because you will receive NONE.

They play around with the emotions of sadness and happiness. These are 2 emotions that guys can’t really use with the girls (unless they are very skilled) because if guys were to use the ‘sadness’ emotion (and succeed) they will see the girls’ faces start to blank out (because you have really struck a raw nerve) or the girl will want to leave immediately (the guy have won the emotional game but still have not satisfied his urge to plunge his dick into her hole) if the guy uses the ‘happiness’ emotion the girl would have already seen through the bluff because they have convinced themselves that there can be NO happiness with this guy who is only there to fuck them.


Acting (best actress of the year)
Many girls like to act pitiful when probed about their background and such. In fact they will willingly tell you their ‘story’ and show you their ‘tears’. Some of these girls can win the Oscar awards. The girls are not really in a bad state if they were they would not even have the time to be sitting beside you acting and telling stories. By the way some girls will even act as if you have hurt them (they may tell you they want to leave immediately and such). Be careful as they are trying to soften your heart and bypass your logic.

Stories (aka Fairy Tales)
As above in acting, stories are part of the big picture they want to paint in your head. Always listen and laugh it off later. Make sure to also tell your buddies all the most ridiculous stories you have heard then you guys can have a good laugh while having a few drinks.

Praise / Pity / Pride / Protectiveness (The 4 Ps of destruction)
They use praises while they themselves are wary of praises (they tend to doubt everything). Girls will inflate the guys’ egos and make the guys feel proud and almighty. This acts on the guy’s pride.

Then they induce a state of pity in you via their stories and acting. This will make the guys feel superior and draw out their protective instincts (which is originally meant to protect his family and friends in prehistoric times). They want the guy to feel that they have someone to protect and thus feels superior and dominating, this links back to ego and pride. After all this the guy will feel like a hero but their bank accounts will be ZERO.

Sadness
Girls like to trigger a feeling of sadness in guys because this emotion is used to get pity from the guy. They will tell you how bad a life they have had and how much they have suffered and that they are waiting for a white knight to rescue them.

Happiness
This one is triggered to make the guys happy. Whether it is by allowing your hands under her clothes or by using praises to make the guy feel good. Happiness is an addictive emotion because your senses send the signals to your brain and your brain forms mental links that equate: This girl = Happiness. Yes it is that simple and the guy gets addicted to her.

Lust
Girls know all guys are full of lust. Girls will withhold sex in order to get what they want once they know the guys are addicted to them. But here is the catch, guys are mostly not addicted to the girls’ bodies but to the girls’ WORDS. Understand this and you will be satisfying your lust always at a cheaper cost (there are so many pussies in the world)

Fear
Once girls have the guys’ heart they will make him fear about losing them and through this the girls would make you pay more and more for their companionship (not sex). Sex will get much more expensive. The girls will know that they have the negotiating power on their side and their demands will start to increase.

Love
They will claim that they love you and that you are ‘special’ to them because you are ‘different’ from the rest of the guys who are only there for sex. When the girl say ‘I love you’ to your face, they are telling the truth because they are say that to their ‘walking ATM’ not to you as a person. They will also say ‘if you love me you must do this for me’ and they will state some outrageous request like buy me that $5000 bag. When girls manage to trigger the love emotion in a guy’s heart, I guess that is the end of the poor guy, it is the ultimate nuclear bomb.

Time Pressure
This is one of the worst because it makes you make hasty illogical decisions. Girls can say they will be going back to their hometown or other nonsense. Basically they give you a time limit to make decisions and will convince you that it is worthwhile that you accede to their request.

Emotional Pressure
Basically many people (as part of a social species) tend not to like making others angry or feel bad (exclude the childish ones and those with no emotional discipline). Girls will make you feel bad by throwing tantrums and saying that you are treating them badly or not treating them properly, some may just burst into tears in public. They strike at this weak point and at the ego. Walking away when this happens seems to be the best.

Emotional Blackmail
The theory of emotional blackmail is this:
If you don’t give me something I will deprive you of something.

If you dissect the theory of emotional blackmail, you will find that:

Part 1:
In order for the blackmail to work, the blackmailer will have to do something to get what the victim needs (the start where the girl tries to draw out your emotions)

Part 2:
In order to be blackmailed the victim must have needed something from the blackmailer (the girl deprive you of the good feelings until they are satisfied)

If you are able to disrupt either Part 1 or Part 2 above then you are safe because both parts need to occur in sequence for emotional blackmail to happen. This can go unrecognized because the girl can do it in a way that seems normal for example withholding sex. They can say they have their period and other nonsense, the fact remains that you did not screw her. And usually it goes on for a long time to hint to you that they want something.

Just think in terms of kidnapping. It is the same concept except this time it is the guy’s emotions that was kidnapped and the guy will have to pay the ransom for his emotions which will be kidnapped over and over again. Why would anyone let someone close to them get kidnapped over and over again and keep paying ransom?

Real Blackmail
This is when the girl has real information about you like where you work, who is your wife and where you stay etc. If such information get into her hands and the girl wants to ruin your life. You are DEAD.

Never give a girl true information about you especially if you are married. But then again if you are really tough enough go to the authorities and report this girl then get her sent back if she is PRC or of other nationalities. But later you will have to clean up the mess with your family and friends. Money can earn back but the trust that your wife, family and friends have in you may never come back again.

To be continued

[GL-Roamer]

How to win the engagement of the mind (Part 4)

How do you improve your position?

This section will inform you of some methods to improve your ‘position’ so that you will start off with more advantages and be more aware of what is going on.


1. Physical Position (this can be improved before the engagement)

Try not to go with an erection; this is because your urge to fulfil the need immediately will lead you to make hasty decisions. PCC the day before or go to the legal houses to satisfy your intense urge (I assume your sex drive is moderately high to recover from PCCing the day before). Then you can have all the time to play mind games with the girl without anything distracting you. If you manage to get a Fuck buddy then good for you, you can screw her pussy all you want (quench your thirst with her pussy juices as well).

When choosing places try to avoid those with alcohol or go there with a full stomach and drink only a little. Spend more time TALKING not drinking. Remember you are there for the girls not the drinks. Engage the girls, talk about them, know them, ask them questions and allow them to see your interest in their interests. Take this time to gauge the character of the girl and filter out only the best (if you are paying don’t you deserve the best value for your money?). Tell those with bitchy characters to go back and hump the corners of their tables.

If you are good at see through make-up tricks then it is the best. Try to imagine them WITHOUT their make up. Seeing pictures of extreme make-up mistakes (or too much make-up) also helps because it sensitizes your mind to the make-up that the girls use after that you will soon be able to identify which areas they have applied make-up to.


2. Mental Positions (requires a clear thinking big head)

2.1 Know your limits and the limits of the girl

This principle will apply here; know what you can get and what you can’t. Do not try to get something beyond the limits of anybody because the price is too high to pay. An example is this: if you and your girlfriend have a disagreement you may tolerate her screaming and pinching but will you tolerate a knife stab? You must mentally know how much time, money and effort are you willing to put in for a girl. If you do not know then maybe thinking it through before you do anything is the best. Are you willing to spend $5000 a night on drinks, meals and tips without even getting to screw the girl? Think about it: $5000 / 150 = 33 Bonks at the CAT150 legal houses! Enough to make your balls dry up, wither and die. If you find that the girl is not willing to have sex with you at the cost that you are willing to bear then give it up and move on.


2.2 Go there with the intention to BROWSE not to buy

When you enter a shop, depending on your behaviour, the shop owner may be able to gauge whether you have the intention to buy something from his shop (especially specialty shops that sell limited items) or not. For example if you walk in and look around hastily, he will immediately know that you have an urgent need for something (this is a good chance for him to make the sale or even big profit out of you). But if you just stroll in and browse around slowly and then slowly make your way to the exit, the owner will know that you are just browsing (there is no immediate need to satisfy) so even if he approaches you, he may not try anything funny depending on his confidence level. Self discipline and self control are essential here.

If you talk to a WL / girl and find that she may not provide good service or perhaps is trying to rip you off without giving you a good fuck. Be like that shopper that makes his way slowly to the exit. Remember to say ‘bye bye’.


2.3 Render the target useless (in your mind)

The target’s usefulness comes only from being able to fulfil a need (your need for a release or big boobs). If they are of NO USE to you it is much easier to dump them. Lets face it, pussies are pussies, there are only different variations in tightness (you can use lube for moistness) when you cum, it all feels the same. The same goes for boobs, there are many other girls with the same cup size (A,B,C,D).

Why must it be only that one girl that you have approached? Always assume that there will be many others out there that have better qualities than the one in front of you because THERE IS NO ONE BEST GIRL TO FULFIL ALL YOUR DESIRES. Every girl has her good and bad points. Girls will try to hide this fact while worming their way into your heart because its one of the things that will totally FOUL up their plans.

You can always ask them (or yourself quietly in your mind) ‘what makes you so different / special from other girls in terms of satisfying my needs’. Know how you are able to substitute the girl you are engaging and devise ways to do this, and then you will find the pressure off your shoulders. Girls will also do this to you when they find that they are unable to touch your money so feel free to use it back on them.

To make things simple, I will explain it this way.

Guys have a need (sex, as long as it’s a vagina and a pair of tits)

Girls can provide sex

BUT how many girls are there out there providing sex?

You know the answer – COUNTLESS with more coming in from PRC every damn day.

So do you really need only that one girl?


2.4 Switch target (get a substitute)

This is the mental action you take after you mentally ‘render the target useless’. Believe me this is what the girl will do if she finds that you are a hard target but this is what many guys won’t do because they are so convinced that next time they will be able to get the girl. They are so convinced that their money will ‘eventually’ win her over. (Congrats you have become a walking ATM for her). Hope everyone here sees the uncertainty of the word ‘eventually’. My rule is: IF ITS NOT NOW, ITS GOING TO BE NEVER. KNOW WHEN to switch target. Substitutes can take all the power away from anything, use this to your advantage. If you are crafty enough, let her know that other girls will be getting your money not her, use your money to play them against one another and get cheaper prettier sex. From the girl’s point of view, they can gang up on you so be careful.



2.5 Learn to accept some imperfections (this will save you time and money)

ALL the girls out there are imperfect in some way but they will try to make you think that they are the most PERFECTLY suited for your needs. Do not expect face, boobs, pussy, body shape, body size, shower, bbbj, AR, tight and moist pussy and FJ reactions to ALL meet your standards and expectations at 1 go because it is IMPOSSIBLE. No girl has ever scored perfect 10/10 in ALL areas, satisfactory (7/10) in all areas or lacking in 1 or 2 areas is more realistic. So remember ‘THERE IS NO ONE BEST GIRL TO FULFIL ALL YOUR DESIRES’.

2.6 Use time to your advantage

After your meeting with the girl, take time off to think about your encounter. Forget about her in bed or her sweet words. You may find that the hype about her will go down. Start to be picky about the girl’s attributes and compare her with other girls. You may find that the girl is not so hot afterall. However if you find that you cannot stop thinking about her. Then you better not go back to her PERMANENTLY or else you will start from a bad position.

2.7 Negating Time Pressure

Always tell the girl who tries to pressure you into doing things by citing time that she can have ALL the time in the world to go back home, give her lover there a few good screwing sessions and suck his dick for all eternity. Tell her to take her time and when she is done and ready to do business with you then come back and find you but of course you ‘may’ not need her services anymore. In fact some girls who use time pressure are under time pressure themselves by delaying, you are actually pressurizing them.

2.8 Turn the Time Pressure game on the girls

Most girls (esp WLs) who are working are often impatient to get as much money as possible before they get out of here and enjoy their life elsewhere. Make them think ‘why the hell am I wasting my time with this guy?’ The reason is this, most girls do not like their jobs as a prostitute (do you like working at your current job?) because to them it is a job. Just like many guys out there who only work to earn money they are also doing the same thing and they do not really enjoy it.


To be continued

[GL-Roamer]

How to win the engagement of the mind (Part 5)

3. Emotional Position (requires a lot of clear thinking and discipline)

This is the weakest point of ALL guys (in fact for all humans) it is just that the girls manage it better than guys after being exposed in that commercial / casual sex environment for so long. To girls commercial sex is a job not to find a boyfriend, they will switch on the professional worker mentality and their emotions are all closed off. Girls will try to worm their way into your hearts while protecting theirs so this is what you have to do. Worm YOUR way into their hearts while protecting yours and if they can’t take it tell them to fuck off. Some girls will start to feel bad when you start to worm your way into their hearts this is because they may not feel naked when they are not wearing clothes but they will feel ‘naked’ when you start to probe their emotions and they are very sensitive to that feeling. Show them that you have good emotional control especially with money and tell them don’t mess around if they want money they have to earn it physically through hard work.

The reason why girls like to worm their way into your hearts is this:
EMOTIONS CAN TRIGGER IMPULSE SPENDING WHILE LOGIC CANNOT. (That’s why you get all those retailers that have different ways of arranging their goods or renovating their shops in a certain way or designing those seemingly beautiful products. Take a walk around Takashimaya and you will find out). Girls almost always fall into the impulse spending trap that is why they want to make you fall into it as well to fund their spending.

3.1 Learn to reject

Many guys (especially nice guys) do not dare to be hard on a girl’s emotions because they are afraid of ruining the ‘relationship’. There is no relationship other than that of a business transaction. Feel free to get the best deal that your money is worth. You are there for a commercial bonk not to build an eternal friendship. FEEL FREE to ruin as many relationships as you want because there is an absolutely unlimited amount of other girls out there that you can build better relationships with. The girls have no qualms about ruining the relationship if they can’t get anything out of it so why must you be so nice to them.

3.2 Always doubt

Always DOUBT the girls’ stories and actions, always believe them to be liars because this is what the girl’s are doing to fend off any emotional attacks and it has been proven (by the girls) that it is useful, so go ahead and use it. When the girls tell you stories and act in front of you take it as watching a movie, you forget everything after you leave the cinema.

3.3 Always assume that the girls are out for your money only

Same concept as the girl’s assumption that the guys are out for sex only.


3.4 Emotional Blackmail Counter Measures

After they have drawn out your emotions they will then proceed to ‘blackmail’ you. They will play the ‘SCARCITY’ game. Making themselves unavailable so that you will miss their companionship more and will be willing to pay more to get it. They will put fear into the guy’s heart and make him fear losing her. Let me explain something, when a person fears losing someone, they fear about losing the BENEFITS that the person provides not the actual person themselves. So list down the benefits and to look for someone else who can provide you with those benefits or even more.

When such a game starts, go visit other girls in front of her and play that game with her. Don’t be afraid to ruin her feelings because if not she will ruin yours and your bank account.

Conclusion
Reading my guide in my previous posts will help a lot in many of these problems here.

Having a clear head definitely helps in maintaining good emotional control, other things include not going to look for girls on bad days (yes I know some people will say they need to release work stress) and going there with only the intention of enjoying the girl’s company.

I personally believe in rewarding good work attitude like generosity and good attitude because there are honest and hardworking girls (though very few) in the commercial sex scene. The hardworking girls that do their best to give you a good service in bed definitely deserve a little bit more than the average ones. I also absolutely despise those girls who want to get something for nothing. May their pussies rot.

Hope this article is useful to you bros.

End of article

[simple2kee]

bro, welc back! thanks for the update. meanwhile let me digest it slowly.

[warbird]

Hi bro GL-Roamer,

Thank u!! Your insightful treatise on "How to win the engagement of the mind" is excellent. You hv given many useful pointers on how to prevent bring KC-ed by these deceitful WLs/FLs/KTV gals.

KTVs r particularly dangerous bcos the environment favours the gals. Patrons who drink a fair amount of alcohol will perceive the gals as more attractive than they really are: Why Ugly Girls Look Good When You Are Drunk.. Scientific Answers. | AfricazMOST

But alcohol is not really the only factor affecting the drunken perception of beauty. Other factors, according to their research, include:

* How brightly lit the area is
* The observer’s eye-sight quality
* The amount of smoke in the air
* The distance of the observer from the observed

There is even a formula to quantify the total effect.

How about the illusions as a result of cosmetics, makeup, push up bras, sexy n revealing dress, high heels, etc.

Let's see the transformations: 化妆太牛了！大妈都能变成杨贵妃！»¯×±Ì«Å£ÁË£¡´óÂ趼Äܱä³ÉÑî¹óåú£¡_¸ãЦͼƬ_ÐêÐêÀÖ±¬ ЦÓéÀÖ

Therefore, I wont be too surprised if a stunningly beautiful KTV gal whom I rate as a perfect 10 turns out to be a 5 or worse when I'm sober n meet her in broad daylight, especially w/o her makeup, high heels, etc. Hahaha.

Good night!

[GL-Roamer]

Hi Bros

Just an update. I will be coming up with the next installment soon. Hopefully I can finish it soon. To any of the bros who have been patiently waiting, sorry to keep you waiting, I will try to finish it up soon and post it.

On a side note, I saw about 2000+ views on this thread, I just wonder how many are guys, how many are girls who read for fun and how many are girls who are WLs?. Just a curiosity, I do not need any replies.

[GL-Roamer]

The Seven Deadly Sins (to get you cheated) (Part 1)

In this article, I relate how the seven deadly sins will get guys into trouble in the cheonging context where guys are likely to meet deceitful WLs (however it can be applied to the normal manipulative girl on the street as well). I certainly hope that this will help supplement any materials that you bros have read and will enhance your knowledge.

As usual this is just my opinion and my way of doing things, I don’t intend to offend anyone.

Introduction
I am not talking about sins in a religious standpoint here but rather in the context of emotions. As you can see, the seven deadly sins are either emotions or have deep links with emotions. The info you see below may perhaps seem repetitive from my previous posts but what I will try to do here is to analyse them from another angle so that when people here reflect on it they will find more meaning in their experiences.

Wisdom is never a mark of age but a mark of deep reflection.

Now for the Seven Deadly Sins

1. Lust
I am not talking about normal desire for sex here. Instead I am referring to a mentality when looking for commercial sex.

Guys loved to be seduced, so when the girls play to their sexual thoughts they get excited, they will want more. Most guys here would have found that the normal commercial bonks get boring, every cunt now feels the same when the guys cum. Girls who get into the rooms with them, strip and have sex with them are now boring.

Therefore now the guys want challenge, they want excitement in getting their bonks now, they want to feel the thrill of the hunt and the girls all know it all too well and they will gladly play to it. Many such guys boast to their friends on how many girls they have hooked and such. Some even loved share the stories of the ‘hunt’. Like soldiers of the old times telling battle stories to each other, comparing acts of bravery and skill. Therefore sometimes the girls do not even need to use their bodies to dupe the guys they just use their words. Tricks like ‘see but no touch’ or ‘touch but no fuck’ will surface here. My take is if you want sex, just to the FLs or legal houses, don’t waste your time.

The result many guys get cheated because their minds have been totally screwed by the girls because they ALLOWED the girls to do so.


2. Gluttony
Here is does not refer to food but in the over indulgence of anything to the extent of having wastage. Guys who over indulge in the praises and the feelings the girls generate in their minds will get cheated in no time. These guys are prime targets for deceitful WLs. Their minds are so flooded with whatever feelings the girls give them that they fail to watch their bank accounts, they fail to observe the objectives they have set, they fail to acknowledge the growing risk and they make all the wrong moves (in fact its like investing in a stock market purely based on emotions). Too much of a good thing is never good.

The actual sin here is the willingness to over indulge in the words of the manipulative girl without questioning.

3. Greed
Having sex with the girls is now no longer enough, the guys want to now OWN the girls and make them their permanent trophies. The girls are also humans and do you think they will let you own them and do anything to them? These foolish guys want to own the body and mind of the girl who make them feel so good because of their fear of losing something that provides them with a benefit (good feelings). They will continually use money to pay and pay (even though the price gets higher and higher all the time) because they think that their bank accounts are bottomless pits or they think that it is the easiest way. It is their OBSESSION with the good feelings the girls provide that will get them into trouble.


4. Sloth (Laziness)
This is laziness to improve themselves. Unwilling to spend time reading and improving themselves, these guys are making themselves easy targets for the manipulative girls. Having good knowledge, better physique, more confidence, good communication skills and good EQ definitely makes negotiations easier and makes you a better person overall. Benefits are so obvious but some guys are too lazy to improve themselves. Thus this has more to do with the guys themselves rather than the girls.

5. Wrath (Anger)
When anger gets into anybody’s head, it makes them easy to manipulate because of the rash decisions they make. This includes both guys and girls. Girls sometimes bring the guys (stupid ones) on an emotional roller coaster ride using anger. They make the guys angry and so when they somehow manage to soothe that anger (either by apologizing or soothing the guy’s ego), the guys feel happy (this makes the brain associate the girls with happiness, which is a good feeling) and they get hooked to the girl. The angry-happy combo of feelings is one of the deadly traps.

To be continued

[GL-Roamer]

The Seven Deadly Sins (to get you cheated) (Part 2)

6. Pride
Pride has a lot to do with EGO. Girls like to prick or stroke the egos of guys through taunts or praises, either subtly or openly. They manipulate situations and circumstances claiming that they are the weaker sex and are unable to do certain things when they themselves are fully capable of doing it. The challenge issued here is ‘are you not capable of doing some simple things for me?’ or ‘are you that weak?’ Most guys will want to be hero so they will immediately go and do whatever the girl requests of them. They want to be hero worshipped. But in this world all the heroes are only found in graveyards. It is the BAD BOYS that are out there screwing all the babes and having all the babes rushing to them to give the bad boys their bodies. Why is this so because the bad boys are doing exactly what the girls are doing to the hero wannabes. They have no qualms about seducing, playing mind games, cheating or threatening. But please note that I am not encouraging anyone here to be a BAD BOY because such people usually have other bigger problems of their own as well and they are also not TOTALLY immune to the tricks that the girls have, just that they understand the game better than most guys that’s all.

The girls usually challenge guys subtly in the form of words and body language. By dressing up to look pretty they are already issuing a challenge of ‘come get me’ or ‘do you think you are good enough to bed me?’. Some girls compare what other guys gave them openly in front of their targets, to make their targets feel belittled and in order to JUSTIFY their ‘manliness’ their targets stupidly give more in order to ‘beat’ the ‘opposition’ (mostly its imaginary opposition). End of the day who is the one who benefits? It’s the girls. Who are the biggest losers? The guys who think that they are up against someone whom they ‘think’ are their rivals in winning the girl’s hearts.

But the best thing about this is that is only half of the story. Because the perception of being challenged is only complete when the guy himself thinks in the perspective of being challenged. The girls may hint and do whatsoever to bring this up the guy’s mind but so as long as the guy does NOT allow himself to be challenged, there is NO challenge. Because challenge is a MUTUAL thing, there must be a person who issues the challenge and a person who accepts the challenge.

7. Envy (Jealousy)
This is one of the most obvious ways of manipulation but also the one of the most effective because it works on the subconscious level. It is also the easiest to trigger. Imagine the girl whom you think is ‘yours’ is now being bonked by another guy. I believe many guys will think “shit what the hell man, she is supposed to be ‘mine’ alone, only I can bonk her”. Once such a possessive attitude is triggered, the guy is at the mercy of the girl simply because he can’t chain her up all day or lock her up in the room. The bitch will continue to demand more and more just to keep the guy company and to soothe his already paranoid and neurotic nerves but in the end she will definitely press the detonation button, which is to cheat him of everything he has and leave him for someone richer. This works because the girl has the guy’s emotions as hostage while the guy has ALMOST nothing to counter her with.

Conclusion
Everyone involved are humans, the girls themselves know it and therefore they make sure they protect themselves very well. The guys because of their over confidence or inflated egos fail to do the same and are thus prime targets.

[goenitz]

I felt i seen the light after reading this thread! Lots to think about...

[phallusman]

Bro roamer,

Fabulous article. It will take me a little time to digest it all. Makes an insightful dissertation.