Did I kena the KC Trap?

[bonk69]

Bring enuff money and go.. isnt this what you want?
People spend $500 for single gfe sty bla bla bla

[Fishcer]

Originally Posted by Vainxe

Yes but she told me she don't talk to other customers as much as me... Now I'm confused, she's asking me out tomorrow as its her off day. Should I go?

Go lor, bring her out for simple meal and walk walk. Movie if she is interested. If she ask u buy expensive stuff then reject lor. Simple as that. Actually it depends on ur spending power. If ur bloody rich n can afford then u spend, if not keep it simple. Then if things r clicking well then after dinner go hotel lor.

[Fishcer]

Originally Posted by Vainxe

Bro sad to say it's the emotional attachment.. Any ways to get away from this?

If u cannot handle the emotional attachment, then just move on to other spas or MLs.

[evoralliart]

Originally Posted by Vainxe

Yes but she told me she don't talk to other customers as much as me... Now I'm confused, she's asking me out tomorrow as its her off day. Should I go?

Read your post earlier on. Made me think of my regular ML. Texted her last night that I will be visiting her these 2 days but she said she will let me know due to menses. Her reply was just once sentence and when I sent her one funny pic, she only replied one ‘haha’ which made me feel that she is not actually laughing at that pic. Just for the sake of replying only.

Used to fall abit emotionally for her (she is with a kid back home) which is why I ever quarrelled (not once) with her in the massage room before and I had since came out of the KC but we are still ‘friends’ maybe? Or maybe she treats me as a 客人only.... with gifts occasionally. She bought me some stuffs before she flew back to China and after She came back from her CNY break. Just felt pity and sad that things came to such state after the quarrel. Things change and I can feel the differences in the reply in wechat before and after we used to quarrel.

Luckily I still have my ex-ML to chat with.... anyway true to that of some bros suggestions. Keep our other options opened and have other alternatives. Ultimately they are here for $$$$.... how can they look for love here when they have a kid back home? Although they are divorced.... their hearts are still with family and not us. My this ML even tells me occasionally that she misses home. This is already a prove that her heart is always back in China.

[trichard]

Originally Posted by evoralliart

Read your post earlier on. Made me think of my regular ML. Texted her last night that I will be visiting her these 2 days but she said she will let me know due to menses. Her reply was just once sentence and when I sent her one funny pic, she only replied one ‘haha’ which made me feel that she is not actually laughing at that pic. Just for the sake of replying only.

Used to fall abit emotionally for her (she is with a kid back home) which is why I ever quarrelled (not once) with her in the massage room before and I had since came out of the KC but we are still ‘friends’ maybe? Or maybe she treats me as a 客人only.... with gifts occasionally. She bought me some stuffs before she flew back to China and after She came back from her CNY break. Just felt pity and sad that things came to such state after the quarrel. Things change and I can feel the differences in the reply in wechat before and after we used to quarrel.

Luckily I still have my ex-ML to chat with.... anyway true to that of some bros suggestions. Keep our other options opened and have other alternatives. Ultimately they are here for $$$$.... how can they look for love here when they have a kid back home? Although they are divorced.... their hearts are still with family and not us. My this ML even tells me occasionally that she misses home. This is already a prove that her heart is always back in China.

What is the quallel topic about ?.. I notice that brothers here get KCed will tends to also have quallel and cold war ....

Sometime this is no longer just a KCed situation. Some brother here offload a lot of cash on those ML too...

[evoralliart]

Originally Posted by trichard

What is the quallel topic about ?.. I notice that brothers here get KCed will tends to also have quallel and cold war ....

Sometime this is no longer just a KCed situation. Some brother here offload a lot of cash on those ML too...

Not sure abt other bros. My case is she accused me that I think too much, esp there was once sth happened back in her home and she claimed that I was not understanding enough. Anyway she is not into me also, that’s y I was out of the KC-ed. Luckily I didn’t spend any $$ on her for exp gifts.... only the $$ for FJ lol

But that is still a pity cos everything was not the same already ever since that quarrel. Now her wechat msgs are only 1 sentence, few words as compared to last time.

[trichard]

Originally Posted by evoralliart

Not sure abt other bros. My case is she accused me that I think too much, esp there was once sth happened back in her home and she claimed that I was not understanding enough. Anyway she is not into me also, that’s y I was out of the KC-ed. Luckily I didn’t spend any $$ on her for exp gifts.... only the $$ for FJ lol

But that is still a pity cos everything was not the same already ever since that quarrel. Now her wechat msgs are only 1 sentence, few words as compared to last time.

One thing to keep in mind I learn when KCed by ML...

Chances is that they are lonely and lack of love and security. They 看透男人 just imaging everyday different man show cock...And sweet talk in the room when 1 to 1 .. all sort of sex topic will come out from the mouth...

If you cannot 体谅 and 接受 . Quit the relationship.

Sometime we tends to treat them as if they are girl friend. No they are not.

Take it easy not to add pressure. Relationship will last longer .

And when it is time to quit... The transition will not be so heartache.

[ibanezjem555]

Hmmm... then I must be KCing one of my regular... every time i mei nu her, ask her if she is secretly a model.. ha ha.. got her to dig my earwax.. blahblah..

She watsapp and sms me everyday without fail, which i ignore.. then after visit,no message from her for a few days b4 it starts again...

Bottom line is that they are here to earn $$. Just a job to them. Don't offer loan or help to them, they are five steps ahead of you..

Just hee hee ha ha with them and respect them as human beings.. nothing more, nothing less..

[evoralliart]

Originally Posted by trichard

One thing to keep in mind I learn when KCed by ML...

Chances is that they are lonely and lack of love and security. They 看透男人 just imaging everyday different man show cock...And sweet talk in the room when 1 to 1 .. all sort of sex topic will come out from the mouth...

If you cannot 体谅 and 接受 . Quit the relationship.

Sometime we tends to treat them as if they are girl friend. No they are not.

Take it easy not to add pressure. Relationship will last longer .

And when it is time to quit... The transition will not be so heartache.

Agree. Take it easy else too complicated lah. Now I just go there and chit chat with this ML as per normal. No doubt that after the quarrel, things might already changed and we were not as close as before. But now still fine with those normal chit chat. Just that looking back at the cold wechat msgs recently, quite a pity lah. 感慨

[trichard]

Originally Posted by evoralliart

Agree. Take it easy else too complicated lah. Now I just go there and chit chat with this ML as per normal. No doubt that after the quarrel, things might already changed and we were not as close as before. But now still fine with those normal chit chat. Just that looking back at the cold wechat msgs recently, quite a pity lah. 感慨

She still make you a happy man after the session right?

That is all afterall.

[evoralliart]

Originally Posted by trichard

She still make you a happy man after the session right?

That is all afterall.

This I agree. Ended up a happy man after the session. That is if I don't think about the 'friendship' part lo.. and take it easy.

[RSxxxx]

Originally Posted by romidogdog

She say " miss you"...That's how your $704 gone...every customers she tell them I " miss you" .....imagine how much she make..... this kind of places just go and have fun... no more than that...if you carried on what you have been doing now...in no time you be spending more than $704.....never give your hp number to any ml...cos everytime they call you....you start itching again.....

Hi bro .. I’m totally agree here , do Not give your call to ML

[trichard]

Originally Posted by evoralliart

This I agree. Ended up a happy man after the session. That is if I don't think about the 'friendship' part lo.. and take it easy.

Brother... 要 Friendship will need a lot of 耐心关心。接受她的职业。体谅她。

很不简单的。

Because by default she is 黑 in your heart. So to overcome it especially you have sexy liao even more hard as she is also 肮脏。

See how you can overcome it.. I have done it...

[pussylicious12345]

no need to be too nice to these MLs. I am seeing a ML, and when we go out out with her Friend who is also a ML, we even hanky panky when my ML Girlfriend was sleeping.... they are supposed to be good friends in China....ha ha... and she told me I can find her secretly...

[Vainxe]

Originally Posted by Fishcer

If u cannot handle the emotional attachment, then just move on to other spas or MLs.

Bro, after thinking for so many days, I plucked up my courage to block and delete her WeChat. I will move on.