To stay in or out of a relationship with a KTV gal

[alwayseatout]

Originally Posted by EtherC

How To Avoid Getting Conned - Executive Careers - Portfolio.com

Great reference! I especially like the last part of it!

"It's a sad thing to say," Robbins adds, "but lying is a recession-proof business."

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Originally Posted by alwayseatout

"but lying is a recession-proof business."

Lying is an inborn talent
Everyone can lie but what are the traits of lying?
Some cant lie for crap hahahaha
Some can make you accept something white as black witout you even doubting it

BAck to this topic of WLs
Liars...they're the best of the trait...so how to prevent yourself from being a victim?????

Only 2 sure ways......
1) Apply the reality and dream routine
2) Lie with them.....remember i've posted before, when you meet a WL that just woke up...she's so different then the one you met before you sleep.....cos they too gotta switch mode from like what i say, human to ghost!

If you can switch mode as required, i.e from human to ghost and back to human in a split second, hey, you've got a predator.
If you have a prob doing that, stick to rule one.

If we all notice why so many men get conned or cheated or hurt, its actually very very simple......because they apply humanity toward ghosts......thus will always loose out bigtime.

Remember, to catch a thief, you gotta be the bigger thief, if not, just be a nice peaceful citizen..........and let the ghost busters do their bidding....hehehehehe

These are the ones that WLs always warn each other to be on the "ALERT" for.......not the carrot heads.
I once knew a WL very intimately that she told me, some SG men, dun even need to use their brain can kill liao....to the extend of elaborating that using the waste of their pubic hair can kill that guy jialat jialat!

But once they meet the ghost busters, THEY'LL RUN FOR THEIR LIFE IN FEAR! Cos, like any war, there're casualties on both sides.....they've seen how some WLs suffered under the hands of the ghost busters hehehehehe

[Barracuda]

Some WLs are ok to be friends with.

I'm actually going out with one now but she treats me as a friend cause her main priority now is not about relationships.
She tells me stuffs about some of the other guys who's going after her too, what they do for a living, what they promised to give her when its time for her to go home. (You be shocked on how far a guy is willing to go for a girl after she told me all the promises other guys gives her)

There's even this guy who doesn't know chinese at all keeps SMSing her in english and she forwards them to me to translate it for her so that she can forward it back to that guy.

Just celebrated her birthday last night and went down to her working place with Cake.

Before that 2 weeks back, went out with her for shopping. Went to almost all the stores and she really can shop, trying on all the clothes , asking me for opinions about it also.

Well end up she never asked me to pay for anything, so i decided to purposely offered to pay for her. she gave me a straight no and she said there's this rich guy who she always goes out with (I know a little about this guy as she tells me some stuffs about him) and she wants him to pay for it.

So i think i became her accompliance which she tries the clothes and she liked it, i will help her write down the name of the store so that she can go back again and buy.

Got her a chinese-english electrionic dictionary and a Guess wallet for her Birthday as she wanted to learn english and i'm also teaching her bit by bit but due to her needing to work, i got her the dictionary so that she can self-study. she was happy.

[Heart Break Kid]

Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ

Dear Kiko, no body here wants to fug u deliberately, but you have to change your mindset.
I sense you are DESPERATELY looking for love but remember, love will only appear when 2 conditions are met.....
1) When its time for you to meet the ONE
2) When its time for the ONE to meet you

Other than that, dun go searching for it....cos, it aint the time yet!
Remember, even WLs are human but to know what they really are, you gotta invest in some $$$ 1st
Do not fool yourself in believing that they like you, never do that.
Yes there are good ones, but like said many times, its like finding a needle in a haystack.
Remember a few golden rules that the bros here have mentioned....

1) If you ask a WL out for makan and movie, watever day it is, they ask for $$$....FUCK them.....cos its clear they're out for money and they dun even treat you as a friend....but if honesty prevails, they will tell you another day can??? Cos tonight is good money making nite....this type can be friend....provided she calls you back another time to meet up or makes an appt on another day in advance

2) If a WL ask you to go shopping, be very careful......yes, in normal boy gal relationships, no probs but wif a WL that's where your alarms shud sound off.....remember, alot of them live off men...everything and anything....free transport, free meals, free cigarettes, free clothes, free makeup, free laptops, free phones free LV, Gucci etc
If you do go shopping, when she ask you to pay, just laugh.......and if the oldest trick in the book appears, if you love me blah blah, buy this for me...always turn the tables.....throw the boll back at their court......tell them...i love you, i buy this for you no prob...then say back...you love me? If so, buy something for me here also to proove your love for me...........find something as expensive or more EX......that'll freak her out with nothing left to say liao....... remember, never say u no money...........just be in control of anything and everything

3) If go makan, dun ask what she likes to eat, just go where you want. If she say she dun like, then ask her to leave and go somewhere else herself to eat......

4) If go for movie, go watch what you want to see...not what she wants to see.......if she complain its in english...tell her, nabei, got subtitles dunno how to read ah...........

5) If she sms to tell you she miss you, dun be too happy, that means she wants money......tell her you miss her too but not free to go find her at her working place that nite...if really miss me, meet me after work...then cannot ask u for money liao

6) If she says her bday next monday, you must WOW, so choon, my bday tmr leh....you buy me present tmr i sure buy u back on your bday.......

Bottomline, the nightscene is a game.....its all about wits and control.......
You control them, they're your toys and at your command....they control you, YOU'RE FUCKED! You must have seen alot of guys being controlled by their gals...see how happy or pathetic they are?

When your friend has a PRC chick as GF, dun be too happy for him........find out how he got her, how much he invested and how much he's still investing
Like the bros here mentioned, if she really likes you, she'll earn her own money, buy u meals, spend watever free time wif you and never ask for any compensation wat so ever..........now that's real!

Learn the difference between reality and dream.....

Like i've posted before & do remember this kiko......
When you enter the main entrance of the KTV, remember you're entering a dream.....when you leave....remember to wake up...or you'll be in a world of sadness, disappointments, false promises, lies and endless unanswerable questions in your mind.........

If you can absorb the above, go cheong...if you cant...stay away from the KTVs

Good luck and enjoy my friend

Very good textbook written by author DO_YOU_BJ.

If this book is published early, I would have scored distinction years ago when doing the examination on KTV papers
now I believe bro kiko can get a good credit for this KTV module or at least a pass

[kiko]

Bro DO_YOU_BJ : Now i have another issue, kindly advise me: there is a ktv gal i met recently, she ask me to go shopping with her, she say she wanted to buy sunglasses. Then i say if is more than $30 i wont be paying , she say okk. She say when i free, we go together , have a look. Later on she say, can i dont go to this ktv she working when she not around, cause she say dont like me sit with other gals. Ok fine, i can dont sit with other gals, i can save on the tips... The next thing i ask her , do i need to pay her tips for time spend on shopping with her , she say dont need. She say she want to start off as a friend , if things go well, she say she hope we can be together. Then i say okk. Another thing she say she hope i wont tabao any gals of ktv from now on , if we were to carry on this relationship.. and she say she will not have sex with me, and she want me to respect her decision , if i really like her. Bro , kindly advise me. Thank you!

[justl00king]

Originally Posted by Heart Break Kid

Very good textbook written by author DO_YOU_BJ.

If this book is published early, I would have scored distinction years ago when doing the examination on KTV papers
now I believe bro kiko can get a good credit for this KTV module or at least a pass

Second that.

Very well said. If he publishes book I surely buy some and support.

[Heart Break Kid]

Originally Posted by justl00king

Second that.

Very well said. If he publishes book I surely buy some and support.

hahaha ..

Despite bros saying streetwalkers got fucked by 10 dicks a day or no brain no intelluctual...
mi still prefer streetwalkers over KTV girls at the minimum streetwalkers are more honest.

[Barracuda]

Originally Posted by Heart Break Kid

hahaha ..

Despite bros saying streetwalkers got fucked by 10 dicks a day or no brain no intelluctual... mi still prefer streetwalkers over KTV girls at the minimum streetwalkers are more honest not like KTV girls.

IMO i think its all boils down to each individual girl. some has a good heart yet some has an evil heart and some although is kind by nature but due to the condition that they are facing, they are forced to do evil things to SG Men.

[Heart Break Kid]

Originally Posted by Barracuda

IMO i think its all boils down to each individual girl. some has a good heart yet some has an evil heart and some although is kind by nature but due to the condition that they are facing, they are forced to do evil things to SG Men.

What I means is streetwalkers is more direct in selling sex & times..they dun play games like KTV girls
in another words streetwalkers make more of a honest living in commercial sex than KTV girls.

[Barracuda]

Originally Posted by Heart Break Kid

What I means is streetwalkers is more direct in selling sex & times..they dun play games like KTV girls
in another words streetwalkers make more of a honest living in commercial sex than KTV girls.

ya you are right in that point. you pay short time then u leave. End of story.

KTV girls are more complicated cause they sit with you for hours and the human communication and touch is longer so thus the chance of tio KC is higher.

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Ok Kiko, here we go!!!!!!

there is a ktv gal i met recently, she ask me to go shopping with her, she say she wanted to buy sunglasses. Then i say if is more than $30 i wont be paying , she say okk. She say when i free, we go together , have a look.
Why make yourself so cheap by applying a budget......you dun have to be rich but you sure dun need to act so cheap...save some face and dignity for yourself....worst, your this question got no conclusion????

Later on she say, can i dont go to this ktv she working when she not around, cause she say dont like me sit with other gals.
Dun look from your perspective but look from hers. She wants to control your wallet, and also the potential of another chick hooking you is very likely, so its like you're her herd, thus she wouldnt want to loose a potential purse string

Ok fine, i can dont sit with other gals, i can save on the tips...
[COLOR="Red"]Do not think of stuff to make yourself happy about the entire situation, if i were her, i'd rather u spend on me than i loose any little amount of $$$$ to another WL
The next thing i ask her , do i need to pay her tips for time spend on shopping with her , she say dont need.
Why do you wanna impose such questions as pure invitations for them to see thru your weakness...also, a very simple no need to pay will win your trust...you make yourself such easy prey by doin this

She say she want to start off as a friend , if things go well, she say she hope we can be together. Then i say okk.
Of cos you say ok, you're so filled wif 希望 that makes u a WLs best friend

Another thing she say she hope i wont tabao any gals of ktv from now on , if we were to carry on this relationship.. and she say she will not have sex with me, and she want me to respect her decision , if i really like her.
See how she keeps you in her pocket, fill you to your nose wif 希望and make you PCC everytime you think of her........you are a willing victim of KC and its clear that you're already KCed by asking these questions

Bro , kindly advise me. Thank you!
In return of answering you the above, i only have 1 question for you Kiko. What da fug are you seeking? Seems like you go every KTV also tio jia wan.....wats goin on in that skull of yours huh? Can explain so i can understand your kind better! Cos hell, you sure are a minority in the KTV scene

[DTCEPL]

Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ

Cos hell, you sure are a minority in the KTV scene

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I guess Bro Kiko lacks a gf and feeling empty, need some luv to fill up his heart. So he is looking for love in the wrong places, I guess in KTVs and HCs, we use $ to buy 'luv' which is limited by the amount we spend and the time factor. More money meaning more luv and longer luv Less money meaning lesser short term luv

If we cheong KTV for 4 hours, probably you buy 4 hours of luv. Like what Bro DYBJ said, we enter a dreamland and we better dump that vision once we step out of the KTV/HC.Scary place I would say.....but I would still go

Paiseh....just talking nonsense lah!!!

[HCKing]

Originally Posted by DTCEPL

I guess Bro Kiko lacks a gf and feeling empty, need some luv to fill up his heart. So he is looking for love in the wrong places, I guess in KTVs and HCs, we use $ to buy 'luv' which is limited by the amount we spend and the time factor. More money meaning more luv and longer luv Less money meaning cheaper short term luv

If we cheong KTV for 4 hours, probably you buy 4 hours of luv. Like what Bro DYBJ said, we enter a dreamland and we better dump that vision once we step out of the KTV/HC.Scary place.......

i chiong KTV/HC many times liao..both the same..temp runaway lala land only lah. but there r guys who dream of winning over these 1st class chiobu one day in HOPE of fulfilling their prince and princess live happily ever after fantasy. Porseeber but if budget tight then no. hehehe.

[jasdude]

Originally Posted by kiko

Another thing she say she hope i wont tabao any gals of ktv from now on , if we were to carry on this relationship.. and she say she will not have sex with me, and she want me to respect her decision , if i really like her. Bro , kindly advise me. Thank you!

Beware ! she is casting a long line to reel you in for the KILL ! she is just winning your trust and heart when you kena poisoned whatever she said you will believe and do ! You maybe one of many and not many and only one !

[jasdude]

Originally Posted by Heart Break Kid

prefer streetwalkers over KTV girls at the minimum streetwalkers are more honest.

Agree with you bro ! at least they are straight to the point to what we want ! 去吗？