To stay in or out of a relationship with a KTV gal

[DTCEPL]

When we will young, teachers always teach us:

马路如虎口;

Now that Cheongsters go KTV/HFJ/HC etc.

女人如恐龙.

[FL Lover]

Originally Posted by kiko

when yr birthday come, then i will buy a gift for you. I think what to buy for her, maybe buy chocolate at marks & spencer can already, hope she will like it!

Bro, do u need to go to the extend to buy such expensive choco for this PRC?

An advice for you before u go too deep...

NEVER JUDGE A PERSON BY ITS COVER. WHAT IS IMPORTANT IS THE HEART.

Like I always say... Humans are evil. They can do things that you never imagine.

Lastly, if you are looking for love and hopefully can blossom into a stable relationship and PROPERLY marriage, dont u think you are stepping on the wrong stone?

Go look at my previous posting under this thread. I REPEAT again and hopefully this is the last...

If a girl likes you, she will not care if you are rich.. All she asks is that you love her, care for her and stands by her no matter what. A girl who ask you to buy expensive items in order for the relationship to work... u should know by now what kind of girls is she..Maybe you are just another fat carrot to her.

Anyway you should be more EXPERIENCED than me. U should know what to do..

[uiop]

Originally Posted by kiko

although she treat me just as a friend..and shouted at me inside the Taka LV shop.. but up to now i still couldnt forget her, deep inside my heart,, i still really love her very much

Originally Posted by kiko

The thing is she told me her customer bought for her a 2k LV bag, she said if i love her , also need to buy at least a $1500 LV bag... She turns into black face, after my card turn into problem., when buying for her.. And she told me and stood out and also told her mummy, that if i ever come La Vegas , ,dont expect her to seat with me again .. And she also say nvr seen a customer cannot afford LV bag for the gals at LA Vegas!

You are hopeless, please bang the fucking wall.

Originally Posted by FL Lover

If a girl likes you, she will not care if you are rich.. All she asks is that you love her, care for her and stands by her no matter what. A girl who ask you to buy expensive items in order for the relationship to work... u should know by now what kind of girls is she..Maybe you are just another fat carrot to her.

This are the sweetest words i ever seen all this year in SBF.

[cablesnwires]

@kiko,

And I thought I'm a sucker for EFA...

You are not looking for love, you are seeking attention everywhere....

Is your life so empty that you have to resort to this, just to fill up the void in your heart? Go find something meaningful to do, instead of whining and day-dreaming.

Assuming you really hit upon someone who likes you, and you hit it off. What's next? Do you think with your current character, you will be able to cherish this relationship? You might be able to sustain for a while, but I can see it clearly now that this will not last as well. Your character does not allow you to do so.

Sorry for the harsh words bro kiko, but find the time to find yourself. No one here can help you, except you yourself. Wish you luck, man....

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Tink go Katong Shopping Center buy a foreign bride from PRC or VN or Thai safer than finding a WL at these places.....geesh

[Heart Break Kid]

Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ

Tink go Katong Shopping Center buy a foreign bride from PRC or VN or Thai safer than finding a WL at these places.....geesh

Ya agree lah.. foreign WL is here look for money not husband

[longwinter]

Originally Posted by Heart Break Kid

Ya agree lah.. foreign WL is here look for money not husband

sometime l tink we have to put ourselves in the shoe of these WL and then we can understand their mentality a bit better.

imagine coming here to work, of cos is hope to get as much $$$ as possible de mah, l mean when they have decided to go into this line, what does that prove. Desperate liao for the cold hard cash le.

[Heart Break Kid]

Originally Posted by longwinter

sometime l tink we have to put ourselves in the shoe of these WL and then we can understand their mentality a bit better.

imagine coming here to work, of cos is hope to get as much $$$ as possible de mah, l mean when they have decided to go into this line, what does that prove. Desperate liao for the cold hard cash le.

Just to share something more ...mi ever had regular streetwalker in lor 8. She is a young pretty girl from Chongqing travel to S'pore & first to work Las Vega KTV but due to competition she is unable to get many customers. In the end, her friends brought to the OKT in lor 8 to stand & earn. Her business was good..an average 6~10 customers per night. Very fast money earned compared to working in LV KTV. Her 1st trip to work in lor 8 every customer she served had to give the okt $20 of the $100 she received from each customer she served then subsequent trips to work in lor 8 give $10 of the $100 she received from each customer.

She used the cold hard cash earned here to service the payment of her private apartment in Shenzhen she is good girl to mi
but their main objective here is to earn fast money so never fall in love with them.

Hope some bros can get what they perceived... right and understand what kind of girls are they dating with

[longwinter]

Originally Posted by Heart Break Kid

Just to share something more ...mi ever had regular streetwalker in lor 8. She is a young pretty girl from Chongqing travel to S'pore & first to work Las Vega KTV but due to competition she is unable to get many customers. In the end, her friends brought to the OKT in lor 8 to stand & earn. Her business was good..an average 6~10 customers per night. Very fast money earned compared to working in LV KTV. Her 1st trip to work in lor 8 every customer she served had to give the okt $20 of the $100 she received from each customer she served then subsequent trips to work in lor 8 give $10 of the $100 she received from each customer.

She used the cold hard cash earned here to service the payment of her private apartment in Shenzhen she is good girl to mi
but their main objective here is to earn fast money so never fall in love with them.

Hope some bros can get what they perceived... right and understand what kind of girls are they dating with

yea like l say. Put urself in their shoes. when u are desperate and had to resort to doing this trade, will you care about love or no love anot. Between $$$ and love, ask yourself frankly, be realistic, which will u choose?

[kiko]

Brothers, thanks for your advice and the other bros here. I will learnt from experience and move on with life. Thank you!

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Originally Posted by kiko

Brothers, thanks for your advice and the other bros here. I will learnt from experience and move on with life. Thank you!

Dear Kiko, no body here wants to fug u deliberately, but you have to change your mindset.
I sense you are DESPERATELY looking for love but remember, love will only appear when 2 conditions are met.....
1) When its time for you to meet the ONE
2) When its time for the ONE to meet you

Other than that, dun go searching for it....cos, it aint the time yet!
Remember, even WLs are human but to know what they really are, you gotta invest in some $$$ 1st
Do not fool yourself in believing that they like you, never do that.
Yes there are good ones, but like said many times, its like finding a needle in a haystack.
Remember a few golden rules that the bros here have mentioned....

1) If you ask a WL out for makan and movie, watever day it is, they ask for $$$....FUCK them.....cos its clear they're out for money and they dun even treat you as a friend....but if honesty prevails, they will tell you another day can??? Cos tonight is good money making nite....this type can be friend....provided she calls you back another time to meet up or makes an appt on another day in advance

2) If a WL ask you to go shopping, be very careful......yes, in normal boy gal relationships, no probs but wif a WL that's where your alarms shud sound off.....remember, alot of them live off men...everything and anything....free transport, free meals, free cigarettes, free clothes, free makeup, free laptops, free phones free LV, Gucci etc
If you do go shopping, when she ask you to pay, just laugh.......and if the oldest trick in the book appears, if you love me blah blah, buy this for me...always turn the tables.....throw the boll back at their court......tell them...i love you, i buy this for you no prob...then say back...you love me? If so, buy something for me here also to proove your love for me...........find something as expensive or more EX......that'll freak her out with nothing left to say liao....... remember, never say u no money...........just be in control of anything and everything

3) If go makan, dun ask what she likes to eat, just go where you want. If she say she dun like, then ask her to leave and go somewhere else herself to eat......

4) If go for movie, go watch what you want to see...not what she wants to see.......if she complain its in english...tell her, nabei, got subtitles dunno how to read ah...........

5) If she sms to tell you she miss you, dun be too happy, that means she wants money......tell her you miss her too but not free to go find her at her working place that nite...if really miss me, meet me after work...then cannot ask u for money liao

6) If she says her bday next monday, you must WOW, so choon, my bday tmr leh....you buy me present tmr i sure buy u back on your bday.......

Bottomline, the nightscene is a game.....its all about wits and control.......
You control them, they're your toys and at your command....they control you, YOU'RE FUCKED! You must have seen alot of guys being controlled by their gals...see how happy or pathetic they are?

When your friend has a PRC chick as GF, dun be too happy for him........find out how he got her, how much he invested and how much he's still investing
Like the bros here mentioned, if she really likes you, she'll earn her own money, buy u meals, spend watever free time wif you and never ask for any compensation wat so ever..........now that's real!

Learn the difference between reality and dream.....

Like i've posted before & do remember this kiko......
When you enter the main entrance of the KTV, remember you're entering a dream.....when you leave....remember to wake up...or you'll be in a world of sadness, disappointments, false promises, lies and endless unanswerable questions in your mind.........

If you can absorb the above, go cheong...if you cant...stay away from the KTVs

Good luck and enjoy my friend

[slider_72]

Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ

When your friend has a PRC chick as GF, dun be too happy for him........find out how he got her, how much he invested and how much he's still investing. Like the bros here mentioned, if she really likes you, she'll earn her own money, buy u meals, spend watever free time wif you and never ask for any compensation wat so ever..........now that's real!

Mostly agreed, except the paying for makan part. I still think the guy should pay for makan when we eat out.

[cablesnwires]

Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ

....

Learn the difference between reality and dream.....

Like i've posted before & do remember this kiko......
When you enter the main entrance of the KTV, remember you're entering a dream.....when you leave....remember to wake up...or you'll be in a world of sadness, disappointments, false promises, lies and endless unanswerable questions in your mind.........

If you can absorb the above, go cheong...if you cant...stay away from the KTVs

Good luck and enjoy my friend

The Master has spoken.... how cum u neber advise me har?

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Originally Posted by slider_72

Mostly agreed, except the paying for makan part. I still think the guy should pay for makan when we eat out.

Well, that's for you...you self impose gentlemen ethics that shud never be practised wif a WL.
Also, when i mention about them paying for makan, of cos not meaning that they always pay, more like got come got go type...note this one already develop friendship...so not the bickering type on who foots the bill...must clarify

Originally Posted by cablesnwires

The Master has spoken.... how cum u neber advise me har?

Cos you neber ask and when you did, your game over liao hahahaha

So gents, when we meeting for kopi again?

[xyz1001]

Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ

So gents, when we meeting for kopi again?

Bros, kopi on me tmr night, on boi?