woes of a tirak

[Orica]

Originally Posted by UltimateTirak

I remembered seeing a FR about my regular who has already ORD-ed. In that FR, the author wrote "felt like making love to my gf". Of course I did not feel good after reading that. Whenever I come across FR about her, I look out for whether bbbj was offered.

So in spite of all these "sharing", am I her tirak? Of course not. Writing all
these brings back happy and sad memories for me.

Hey Ultimate one,

If being the chosen one, she expects HIM to understand her position and doing to build rapport with customer. That means u shouldn't complained if she provide u poor service when she's tired, she have to talk telephone with customer and etc...so think of it, it is not too bad after all being her value customer than "CHOSEN ONE". There are more things u have to put up with and u need to have a big big heart to absorb all these.

Im just like u, used to check SM re FR on my gal if she did anything special to customer or not and never felt good when customer wrote about her. That is life and its either u take it or leave it. Never leave it dangling.

[DNAT]

Originally Posted by ruhua

Ok no problem. Just now I go Cat40 and make cream pie. Blanja you to eat. Kekekeke.

Huh ... eat the cream pies made by you ... don't want lah.
Lidat I rather you shampoo/wash my hair ... hehehe

[ruhua]

Originally Posted by UltimateTirak

So in spite of all these "sharing", am I her tirak? Of course not. Writing all these brings back happy and sad memories for me.

Remember to have lots of these to make your "tirak" happy. Hehehe.

[ruhua]

Originally Posted by Orica

Im just like u, used to check SM re FR on my gal if she did anything special to customer or not and never felt good when customer wrote about her. That is life and its either u take it or leave it. Never leave it dangling.

Buy this for your tirak and you'll be on her mind 24 hours a day. Haha.

[DNAT]

Originally Posted by ruhua

Remember to have lots of these to make your "tirak" happy. Hehehe.

your image posting kena disabled liao lah .. still hehehe

[ruhua]

Originally Posted by DNAT

Huh ... eat the cream pies made by you... don't want lah.
Lidat I rather you shampoo/wash my hair ... hehehe

Ok which brand you like? Hahahahaha.

[ruhua]

Originally Posted by DNAT

your image posting kena disabled liao lah .. still hehehe

I still can view images. Go to Edit Options. Enable "Show Images (including attached images and images in [IMG] code)".

[DNAT]

Originally Posted by ruhua

I still can view images. Go to Edit Options. Enable "Show Images (including attached images and images in [IMG] code)".

ok ok ... but the other images - creampies / diamond watch / shampoo .. can see. only the image under this posting 'Remember to have lots of these to make your "tirak" happy. Hehehe.' .. cannot see

[ruhua]

Originally Posted by DNAT

ok ok ... but the other images - creampies / diamond watch / shampoo .. can see. only the image under this posting 'Remember to have lots of these to make your "tirak" happy. Hehehe.' .. cannot see

Ok thanks. Sometimes it is remote server's fault.

Remember to have lots of these to make your "tirak" happy. Hehehe.

[free]

Originally Posted by ruhua

Ok thanks. Sometimes it is remote server's fault.

Can see, can see ! Got "Dtaang" sure can see one. Wish I got a lot of it too. Then can go LOS and do the needed immediately. Now both of us LL got to tahan and can only say "Akan Datang"

[suteerak1099]

Originally Posted by sneksg

...Have you ever wondered how they differentiate you from the other clients.....Maybe the bad part could be she probably treats all her clients the same...

Maybe lets share how you are differentiated and we can know.....
1. She shares with me how much she had earned that day......
2. She draws me into the IDD call to her sisters in LOS on loudspeaker and introduces me.........
3. Takes pics with me on her mobile and keeps them.
4. Tells me about her clients....

i'd have to say that this is quite SOP. mine tends to do all the above listed to literally every/most of her regulars till they cant tahan n patronize her colleagues...cos to those cheongsters only wanna have the fake KC, so as to have more passionate bonking sessions. even i cant tell myself apart from the rest of her regulars.

likewise, she's mentioned about me to her mom (in LOS) on some occassions, sent photos of me...etc. but sadly, these actions n activities can be easily found in normal frenships too.

FACT is: they sacrifice themeslves to work in this trait so as to make alota $ to feed the family back in LOS. so i'd say its for SURE that $$$ aka our late president 'Mr. Yusof Ishaak' is their number 1 tirak while working here, so whoever can shower her w lotsa extravagance will be the number 1 tirak on the calling list. whether this is real KC or fake KC.. she'll try in everyway possible to make u believe its for real.

about the public holiday n bday issues...its impossible to prove too. so wat if she lets u book her for ON on any given public holiday, ON her for your bday so she can celebrate it for u - offer u some love gifts be it cheap or expensive (at the rate that they r earning $ daily, your bday presents cost peanuts to them), ON on her bday so u can shower her w expensive gifts.. its all nothing but an act. the number 1 priority is still $$$. it can be any regular or newfound/long time tirak...wont make any difference. she's in for the $$$. maybe she'd have the prefered guy to ON her for her bday... so wat? its just another paying customer. (she cant put all the eggs in 1 basket too)

when she gets wat she wants from u, when she gets sick n tired of u... when she runs outta scripts to say to u(perhaps due to too much/too frequent sessions - be it ST/ON)...she'd change her attitude towards u, turn the cold shoulder, stop calling u unless she needs favors n errands to be done for her etc.

in my opinion...

real ways for them to prove it to u its real PRESENTLY:
1. is when she refunds u in full for any session, be it ST or for ON - and still giving u the full service n treatment (whether u take the $ or not, its ur own descretion). cos $ being their number 1 priority, n they dont mind not earning ur $...

2. make a pact w u to call everyday rain or shine at agreed time most convenient to talk. update each other on the daily activities w/o having to make u pay for ST just to hear her out. unless its really gonna be tearful n drama, and she'd refund u in full to come hear her out.

3. be compromising, give u the respect n benefit of doubt to book ON w her, instead of her summoning your presence at the last minute. never to miss any date/appointment set in advance (which also means she's willing to forgo any ON session in order not to affect the date/appointment)

long term wise: only time will tell... if u can eventually settle down w her in LOS (the likes of most thai fairytale/folklore - telling of how 2 ppl from different stature/status marry n live happily ever after)...be reminded that it will be your biggest sacrifice n demonstration of love/faith...n her ultimate wish come true.

word of advise: if u really wanna tirak...better be mentally, emotionally, physically n FINANCIALLY prepared for the giant step. if u're not.. better just stick to your usual "butterfly style".

Originally Posted by suteerak1099

in my opinion...

real ways for them to prove it to u its real PRESENTLY:
1. is when she refunds u in full for any session, be it ST or for ON - and still giving u the full service n treatment (whether u take the $ or not, its ur own descretion). cos $ being their number 1 priority, n they dont mind not earning ur $...

2. make a pact w u to call everyday rain or shine at agreed time most convenient to talk. update each other on the daily activities w/o having to make u pay for ST just to hear her out. unless its really gonna be tearful n drama, and she'd refund u in full to come hear her out.

3. be compromising, give u the respect n benefit of doubt to book ON w her, instead of her summoning your presence at the last minute. never to miss any date/appointment set in advance (which also means she's willing to forgo any ON session in order not to affect the date/appointment)

The above 3 points also mean nothing in my opinion. cos like you said....

Originally Posted by suteerak1099

when she gets wat she wants from u, when she gets sick n tired of u... when she runs outta scripts to say to u(perhaps due to too much/too frequent sessions - be it ST/ON)...she'd change her attitude towards u, turn the cold shoulder, stop calling u unless she needs favors n errands to be done for her etc.

[siamcutey]

Originally Posted by suteerak1099

i'd have to say that this is quite SOP.

Actually everything is SOP. Paying for sessions in the end is considered lose money and lose business for her. All the points you stated are just woes, woes and more woes to keep yourself thinking everytime.
Today you buy a $100 gift, tomorrow someone going to buy her $500 and the next day another person going to buy her $1000 gift. No end. Why they need this group of regulars, is because who don't want to have regulars that can book them often and probably don't bonk or bonk less? The WLs say their job demands make them have to do all these. 20 sessions of non stop drilling or 20 sessions to lie on bed and talk? The girls tell us what we want to hear.

I have my share where the girl pay for my session. I have my share when she tell me not to go and book any sessions for her too, to save money, but to me all these prove nothing. I myself also spend money on her. Most important is when you spend money, don't feel sad. If you spend the money already and you feel happy, should feel happy instead rather than think about all the sad things.
Yes, your tirak might book all your sessions, give you money, treat you as ultimate tirak in singapore. But the real test stands when she goes back thailand.

Will you be able to settle in Thailand? She is a cat40, cannot marry in SG, often have to go extend social visit pass. As time pass, both parties will be worn down. You have no eyes to see in thailand and she don't have eyes to see who you cheong in sg. Slowly when both parties not together, the gap starts get wider. She meet new people and friends in thailand and you get to meet new people in sg. Hearts will change, Real love will not. So by then when she ORDs, you will know the answer whether its real love or just plain love.

SC

Originally Posted by siamcutey

I have my share where the girl pay for my session. I have my share when she tell me not to go and book any sessions for her too, to save money, but to me all these prove nothing. I myself also spend money on her. Most important is when you spend money, don't feel sad. If you spend the money already and you feel happy, should feel happy instead rather than think about all the sad things.
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SC

I agree with you on this.
I dont mind spending money on the girl as long as I feel happy and "song".

During my happier times when I was with my regular, i dont mind spending money on her. However, she didnt ask anything from me.

Now, the feelings seems to have changed. She thinks I really love her and she has become more controlling. Because of this, when she hints to me or wants me to buy something for her, I also dont feel like it.

[Orica]

Originally Posted by siamcutey

Actually everything is SOP. Paying for sessions in the end is considered lose money and lose business for her. The WLs say their job demands make them have to do all these. 20 sessions of non stop drilling or 20 sessions to lie on bed and talk? The girls tell us what we want to hear.

Will you be able to settle in Thailand? She is a cat40, cannot marry in SG, often have to go extend social visit pass. As time pass, both parties will be worn down. You have no eyes to see in thailand and she don't have eyes to see who you cheong in sg. Slowly when both parties not together, the gap starts get wider. She meet new people and friends in thailand and you get to meet new people in sg. Hearts will change, Real love will not. So by then when she ORDs, you will know the answer whether its real love or just plain love.

SC

Well said.....exactly how i felt. Real testing time is first year after she ORD. Also can you take it if she start working in ktv? Most of them are not well educated, thus difficult to jobs to cope their spending.