Did I kena the KC Trap?

[Barracuda]

Originally Posted by Thelostone188

No more KC - days of emotional turmoil, mind fuck are gone. 100% game over. First time KC and got a GEM, sad that things turn out this way. Now is the grieving period, hope to pick myself up and move on. Take care all Bros.

KC is the hardest thing to manage.

Jiayou bro, you can do it. Walk out of it

[leonleonli]

Originally Posted by Barracuda

Jiayou bro, you can do it. Walk out of it

Yes, well done..back to our real life. Keep it up! and Looking forwards!

[Thelostone188]

Yup, trying to walk out of it. Hope the grieving period is short. The only regret I have is, we didn’t had a happy ending though we could have and it’s all becos of my stupidity.

[Thelostone188]

Originally Posted by bpafree39

Bros I also have relationships with MLs before and I know the feeling is real cos they went out of their way to do things for me and there was never money involved. The issue here is I loved them as well although I am married and I know we won’t have a future. Since I don’t give them money I don’t stop them from doing all the FJs and whatever services they provide cos I know they need to earn as much money as possible here, it’s hard to accept that they are doing it with other guys all the time but I have learned to face reality. I rather they do that then to do that behind my back. You can’t blame them if they want to make more money, that’s their main objective isn’t it? As long as they really love you and you enjoy the process as well, the more money they make means the longer they will stay here? Just my two cents worth, I mean if a girl give up FJ altogether and only does HJ I will be worried about how much money they make and whether is she for real?

Bro, I believe they would, they are humans after all. I’m just curious how did the relationships with those MLs ended? Am sure you invested a lot of time and efforts and KC. You can PM me separately if you want to share in private... cheers.

[hhlover]

If bro have read my recent post.. will know I have been visiting this MP n is more than friend wit Bb.. I dunno is this call KC or wat.. I oso won't say I love her or like her.. I jus enjoy the feeling wit her. But I won't think or mind wat she doing when working cos after all tat is her job..
As a friend, we have lunch, dinner or even chit chat on wechat but i still pay her when visit her cos to me is a transaction between me n her if I wan her massage whenever she give me more than wat she give other ppl than up to her..
If u r married, u just always know the line n the grey colour area. Nvr cross the line n mix the area.. it will only destroy ur family n ur life..

[MrPlayer]

Why wanna become a Pig Head, just F and go.

[Romeo93]

Originally Posted by alexsptrader

don't look like a trap yet since you don't come out with a single cent. but your mind will F*&K with you. can stand thinking that everyday inside the shop, she's being touched/kissed/hugged & hand f&*(*k by customers? can you stand the thought of her kissing other man's nipples everyday or giving her regular customers BBBJ ?

what if one day you go out with her your friend who has done her before sees you and her together & laughs ? what if on the day you get married, you friends who dunno the bridge sees her & remembers' they've played with her before ? can you stand all the embarrassment ? what if when you are with her the sms keeping coming in & she get's lots of i miss your pussy messages ? if you are man enough & can take all that, then best of luck bro.

Thanks ALL BROS HERE. (:
I am newbie here, almost get KC too.
After reading all of your wisdom I got clear headed.
Thanks ALOT ALL.

Best Quotes I come across:
“You focus on making money, you get the girls.
You focus on your body, you get sex.
You focus in the girl, you get NOTHING.”

“Use your big head to think.
Your future lies in your hands”

[sinkwc]

The only way is to stop fxxking that pussy. Look for others
Now my KC wan get rid of me. Sad. I hinder her mpney making session

[Shadow_warrior]

Originally Posted by Romeo93

Thanks ALL BROS HERE. (:
I am newbie here, almost get KC too.
After reading all of your wisdom I got clear headed.
Thanks ALOT ALL.

Best Quotes I come across:
“You focus on making money, you get the girls.
You focus on your body, you get sex.
You focus in the girl, you get NOTHING.”

“Use your big head to think.
Your future lies in your hands”

you are welcomed. I messed up big time to come up with that quote.

glad you found it useful

[egresnow]

Another food for thought for fellow bros here:

My first ML that i visited, although she never offered sex in her services, did it with me during my first visit(ever), and subsequently, treated me to meals and of course, a couple of times of free sex. She's super into me but I'm not that into her. Got disappointed when i didn't sleep over. And she found a bf back then when she did it with me during the second and third time.

Keep in mind that even if the girls (be it the cleanest KTV lady or massage or even working ladies) fall for you in that split second, there are so many other guys that comes AFTER YOU that is more of their cup of tea.

Those guys that the girls meet AFTER they met you, doesn't have to be "Better than you", they can just be more of the GIRL'S taste, like
- taller
- fatter
- shorter
- skinnier
- hairier
- wearing glasses (or not)
- etc
- dress nicer
- dress flamboyant
- dress nerdy

You will never know whom they really prefer subconsciously. This level of exposure to guys is why they can "get over" their feelings really really quickly. It's the same when we see prettier girls, we will look and notice.

So in other words, play and move on. If you can get more than what you paid/get free, then GOOD FOR YOU, but also be nice and fair to them.

Them playing with us doesn't mean we should break their hearts.

We are better than that.

[trichard]

Originally Posted by egresnow

Another food for thought for fellow bros here:

My first ML that i visited, although she never offered sex in her services, did it with me during my first visit(ever), and subsequently, treated me to meals and of course, a couple of times of free sex. She's super into me but I'm not that into her. Got disappointed when i didn't sleep over. And she found a bf back then when she did it with me during the second and third time.

Keep in mind that even if the girls (be it the cleanest KTV lady or massage or even working ladies) fall for you in that split second, there are so many other guys that comes AFTER YOU that is more of their cup of tea.

Those guys that the girls meet AFTER they met you, doesn't have to be "Better than you", they can just be more of the GIRL'S taste, like
- taller
- fatter
- shorter
- skinnier
- hairier
- wearing glasses (or not)
- etc
- dress nicer
- dress flamboyant
- dress nerdy

You will never know whom they really prefer subconsciously. This level of exposure to guys is why they can "get over" their feelings really really quickly. It's the same when we see prettier girls, we will look and notice.

So in other words, play and move on. If you can get more than what you paid/get free, then GOOD FOR YOU, but also be nice and fair to them.

Them playing with us doesn't mean we should break their hearts.

We are better than that.

Expert spotted..

[trichard]

OK my update .... Is very much difference from you all....

Mine not sex relationship at all... And she also not those listed here.... Both of us planning how to start a shop and we will spend next year to save money...

And we agree that we will be forever friendzone.....

Give us all your blessings....If you can....Thanks...

[egresnow]

Originally Posted by trichard

OK my update .... Is very much difference from you all....

Mine not sex relationship at all... And she also not those listed here.... Both of us planning how to start a shop and we will spend next year to save money...

And we agree that we will be forever friendzone.....

Give us all your blessings....If you can....Thanks...

This sounds too good to be true but honestly, dont bother, bro. it's a nice dream and all, and blah blah, but you are too addicted to the dopamine rush that you get from seeing/talking/sexing/whatever her.

There are too many ways things can go wrong:
1) even best friends fall out over businesses.
2) are you super experienced in a retail shop? is she investing her money in? are you overseeing it and it is not a big scam just to "cheat" your money?
3) starting a business is easy but MAINTAINING IT TO SURVIVE is fucking hard AND GROWING IT is laggi worse, and MAKING IT SUSTAINABLE IN THE LONG RUN is even harder than hard. Can you guys tahan 1 year of no income, IF lucky? Or worse: 3 years of no income?
4) what will she do if no income? It takes a lot to not fall under pressure.
5) don't under estimate the determination needed to start a business. I know cause i also happen to have my previous business sold, and ive seen many business fell, and we are still hustling in our current biz.

Save the money, go join a class to meet normal girls, be it cooking, swimming, language, gym, workout, etc. Improve yourself and be a better Tricard.

Your next girl is waiting for you somewhere.

[PaladinofSola]

Originally Posted by egresnow

This sounds too good to be true but honestly, dont bother, bro. it's a nice dream and all, and blah blah, but you are too addicted to the dopamine rush that you get from seeing/talking/sexing/whatever her.

There are too many ways things can go wrong:
1) even best friends fall out over businesses.
2) are you super experienced in a retail shop? is she investing her money in? are you overseeing it and it is not a big scam just to "cheat" your money?
3) starting a business is easy but MAINTAINING IT TO SURVIVE is fucking hard AND GROWING IT is laggi worse, and MAKING IT SUSTAINABLE IN THE LONG RUN is even harder than hard. Can you guys tahan 1 year of no income, IF lucky? Or worse: 3 years of no income?
4) what will she do if no income? It takes a lot to not fall under pressure.
5) don't under estimate the determinated needed to start a business. I know cause i also happen to have my previous business sold, and ive seen many business fell, and we are still hustling in our current biz.

Save the money, go join a class to meet normal girls, be it cooking, swimming, language, gym, workout, etc. Improve yourself and be a better Tricard.

Your next girl is waiting for you somewhere.

Very well said, egresnow.

The ML could be just tok cock, see how much you are worth and assets.
Taking advantage that you are local and know english, can help a lot. You are already ethusiatic and clouded. Unless you are too rich, then nevermind.

So many things needed for considerations in starting a partnership business.
Unless you have experiences in business planning and done all the necessary risk calculations else better think carefully.

[trichard]

Thanks for all the concerns ..And need to clarify:

1) I will help to plan and chip in some money
2) She will run the business using her saving and earning.
3) I will not interfer how the business is run.
4) I will support her to continue the business for a successful career.

That is all...