why am i feeling like that

[mjking]

I think there is nothing wrong with you for not wanting to have sex ..... but then since you dont wanna have sex, how come you think you have something wrong. If not bonking her is something wrong and you know it, you would have bonk her ... anything sounds damn convoluted. Whatever it is nothing wrong with not doing it ... unless you never ever wanna to do it again

[colins]

Originally Posted by mjking

I think there is nothing wrong with you for not wanting to have sex ..... but then since you dont wanna have sex, how come you think you have something wrong. If not bonking her is something wrong and you know it, you would have bonk her ... anything sounds damn convoluted. Whatever it is nothing wrong with not doing it ... unless you never ever wanna to do it again

Wah, bro your statement is clear but the explanation is damn murky man.

[ekemono]

Its called "changes", and you are not use to it. You are already use to the lifestyle, habit, her scent, her touch, her voice, the sex? of your ex gf. So ask you to suddenly go without it is like a smoker without cigerette after a meal. Honestly you may find it so uniteresting to sian another gal. Cos its not her, and your heart wants her! your ex.

I broke off with my gf of 4 yrs some 19 months back. Initially when the weekends came I was kind of lost and really didn't look forward to it. Frens contacted me back and pull me to clubbing, KTV and all that but no heart to play around. Just smile and kept to myself while they enjoy. Goodness they even show this kind of heartbreak scene in the movie I believe.

But time heals all pain. I dun know what is the cause for the broke up, but take this opportunity to start a hobby you have always wanted, wake up as late as you want to on weekends w/o anyone ringing you up. And thank goodness no more of those boring Sat following her around at the ladies department. And most importantly, use the extra free time to concentrate on your career to advance further.

[David_Ginola]

Bro i think time will change your mindset.......slowly....gradually.......

Maybe got 6th sense that something is 'wrong' with her

[assault]

Haha I suppose it does happen once in a blue moon. I think since you know there is soemthing wrong, that means you are still ok ... maybe just that at that point no mood ..

[evil_lawyer]

Buddy,
My fiancee of 4years also just left me. We were about to be married.
Heng never get married if not divorce fees very troublesome.

Look up, look ahead. It may be painful and your heart is heavy. I know I also got the feeling. But women are like this..They too can be heartless and they will not give a sh!t about us once they decide to break up with us.

Meanwhile, pick up the broken pieces in your life like I am doing to mine.
Start anew and you'll meet someone special!

pm me if u wanna hang out!

[kkc69]

Originally Posted by ryaw

To all SBF bros,

I just broke off with my GF of 2 years about 4 mths back.And all my guys frens was ready to get me back into action,but i noticed that i seem to have lost all my confidence in getting laid and maybe lost interest in woman also.i am very worried as i am alreadi 29yrs old this year.I used to have alot of confidence in myself and i got my ex-gf in a matter of 5 days,recently my fren was able to intro a 19yr old pub waitress to me and she was like ready to go and screw with me on that very same nite,but somehow i just realise that i dun have the mood for it.(i mean WTF man,here was a average looking 19yr old chick waiting to be screwed for free and i just rejected the golden opportunity like tat) i seriously think there is something wrong with me.Has anyone been thru this feeling before.Pls advise and help me.Thanks alot.And FYI,i am over my ex-gf lah.so..............

Don't worry too much. I think you are too attached and accustom to your ex-gf. It happened to me years back. I thought I got over it but its not.
Take sometime off, relax and chill to get to know the girl better.
Take her out for a movie session, dinner and chit chat before anything sexual
Cassanovas in the movies didn't teach us wham bam thank you maam within a day. Its best not to rush into things and invest a little time with emotion.
Hope this helps

[coyotay]

Nothing wrong with you,only your engine long time never start liao,need to warn up.

[onion_rings]

Originally Posted by ryaw

(i mean WTF man,here was a average looking 19yr old chick waiting to be screwed for free and i just rejected the golden opportunity like tat) i seriously think there is something wrong with me............

Do u nid to me QC the 19yo chick for u?!?!?!

Ok joke aside for now! What i think is there isn't any serious prblm with u. Except that perhaps u still can't forget ex GF. After all u had been with her for 2yrs. Though ur single for 4mths but u still miss her. Which is the reason u dun want to be laid. Either way to regain back your confidence is to find back your ex GF to patch things back(which i think u will not due to MCP) or you got to let thing cool down & endure till u really met another girl which u deem as good as your ex GF or even better den u will settle down

[lbee]

Bro ! Don't thing too much and give a try on this 19yo girl , hope after this will change your mind

[shiokmc]

Originally Posted by poorman4sex

get screwing while you can, have the chance to.......

dun be regret when time flies and you start to think back.... why I did not do this... why I did not do it.... why I no try~~~

speaking from experience... trust me...

ya BOy !!!! same same .... many such times "Should have", "Could have" ... siGh

[bunnyrabbit]

bro

just wanted to tell you...

get over it and look ahead..no use to brood about what past..

get a new gal and you soon find out that they are better fishes out there..most impt thing is dun compare or else u will forever be going in circles..

[Ibonk]

Time will heal everything, bro. When i first broke up with my gf of five years, there was a period of uneasiness for me too. In fact i was starting to get that 'loser' feeling and thought that i had lost my touch with women ( Went thru a few very unsucessful relationship after that). Somehow i managed to get over that and in a certain way, i am glad that both of us were no longer together ( the relationship was already strained in the early years and got worse as we dragged on as we had too much differences).

Maybe you should just sit down and sort out yr priorities in life now. Give yourself some time if you have to. Do not be in a hurry to get into a new relationship if u are not ready. Have faith, bro. Everyone of us here, including yourself, has the potential to be loved and also to love someone. Cheers

[ryaw]

To all SBF bros,

Thanks for all your advice,i will take it from all of u and i believe i will become good again.From what i can see,the phrase '' Boys will be Boys '' is true.And since i am born with a dick,might as well use it(when i start to get the mood back!)(which i believe i will).Seems like everyone is saying '' FUCK IT! '' enjoy while u can.So i am really going to FUCK IT (literally). i am in the right forum.Thanks Bros......