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Re: My statistics on the ladies/girls/women in China!
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Originally Posted by MichaelWinn
she got too many sob stories and my wallet was bleeding till the very end
after more than 20 visits to her apartment i quit the game and came to my senses
At least you woke up. THere are so many bros here that don't wake up.... which is really sad.
Well, I agree that us men, sometimes let the little head think instead of the big head. But at least you kept rational and the little head had fun 20+ times... That's key, isn't it?
Re: My statistics on the ladies/girls/women in China!
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Originally Posted by sinseh
At least you woke up. THere are so many bros here that don't wake up.... which is really sad.
Well, I agree that us men, sometimes let the little head think instead of the big head. But at least you kept rational and the little head had fun 20+ times... That's key, isn't it?
i have been in and out of china and mongolia since 2011
so what these china wls are thinking i will try to stay one step ahead of them
living in china gave me great insight into their mentality
i have lost some money ,learnt some hard lessons
china is a wild jungle for those who do not stay long enough to experience these things
for your info when i had real trouble at the china-mongolia border
even the china police helped me more than my ex ktv girl in dalian
you just imagine what type of person she is
when i had trouble she pretend not to receive my phone call
but when i had lots of money at one time she will call me 5 times a day in china even when her son was around
what a lousy bitch
Re: My statistics on the ladies/girls/women in China!
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Originally Posted by surbana
INSTEAD of leaving his Central Provident Fund (CPF) savings to his family, a man left it to a 25-year-old female friend from China, giving her $37,000.
His wife found out only after the man - whom she was married to for 34 years - died, Lianhe Wanbao reported yesterday.
The widow, who wanted to be known only as Mrs Saw, 61, tried to appeal to a court, pouring $30,000 of her savings into the effort. Not only did she lose the suit, but she now also has to pay $7,000 in court fees.
"It was really not worth it," lamented Mrs Saw.
The couple have a son and two daughters, all of whom are married. But things took a turn for the worse after Mr Saw committed suicide in June last year. Mrs Saw said she had stopped him from doing so on two occasions.
While clearing her late husband's belongings, she was shocked to find out that Mr Saw had, in 2011, arranged to have all his CPF savings given to the female friend.
Mr Saw also had a will, in which the Chinese national would get $150,000 from the sale of his home. A further $450,000 from the sale would be split between an old folks' home, a temple, his brother, friends and go towards paying off his credit card and housing debts.
The remaining sale proceeds were to go to his immediate family, but the home is expected to sell for only $600,000, so his family may not get anything.
Mrs Saw said her husband changed his will in 2012 to redistribute funds initially set aside for his family.
In tears, she told Wanbao: "I knew he liked to go out to drink and have fun, but I always thought he was just flirting around, and would still be focused on the family. But little did I know that he would make such a decision."
She added that she could not comprehend why her husband made such a move.
To safeguard her own interests as his wife and with support from her children, Mrs Saw used her savings to hire a lawyer to appeal to the court.
"After my husband's business failed in 1986, he didn't have a job. Since then, I've carried the burden of being the family's breadwinner and brought up our children. How could he quietly leave his money to a stranger and none for me?" said Mrs Saw.
The widow said that she had never met the Chinese national. The woman, whom her husband met at a bar in 2009, is from China's Liaoning province and works as a service staff member at Marina Bay Sands, she said.
During mediation, Mrs Saw said that the woman reiterated that she and Mr Saw were just friends and did not have an intimate relationship.
Mrs Saw said that in her husband's beneficiary nomination form for his CPF savings, his relationship with the woman from China is listed as "goddaughter".
She raised doubts over this as Mr Saw initially wrote that the woman was his "granddaughter", before changing it to "goddaughter". "One can imagine that when he was making the arrangements, he was not thinking clearly," claimed Mrs Saw.
But the court decided that Mr Saw and the Chinese national had maintained a good relationship - regardless of whether the woman was his "goddaughter" or mistress.
As there was insufficient evidence to determine Mr Saw's state of mind when nominating the Chinese national as his beneficiary, the judge did not rule in Mrs Saw's favour.
ha ha ha typical singapore old man, cannot blame him
the lure of a young prc lady
i am very sure the china girl is already married in china with at least one kid
some more she from liaoning
northern china girls really beautiful
when i was based in dalian every day i looked forward to taking public transport , so many beautiful china ladys to admire
Re: My statistics on the ladies/girls/women in China!
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Originally Posted by MichaelWinn
living in china gave me great insight into their mentality
i have lost some money ,learnt some hard lessons
china is a wild jungle for those who do not stay long enough to experience these things
for your info when i had real trouble at the china-mongolia border
even the china police helped me more than my ex ktv girl in dalian
you just imagine what type of person she is
when i had trouble she pretend not to receive my phone call
but when i had lots of money at one time she will call me 5 times a day in china even when her son was around
what a lousy bitch
Well bro,
Being in China "full-time" over the last few years, has also given me a lot of insights and life lessons that can never be had in SG. Compared to China, SG really is more level a playing field (literally in job and in FLs) and also a very much more civilized place. Everyone can read about China being the world's 2nd biggest or biggest economy, but in a lot of places, there are still folks that are growing rice, vegetables or fruits by manual labour, without machines. Every year these kind of family earn a yearly income of 10K RMB or 15K RMB if they are lucky. So with the economic boom that drive prices up, these fellas at the bottom feels the squeeze and cast envious glances at their city neighbours like in Shanghai/Beijing/Guangzhou/Shenzhen etc....
Here's one true story that I personally encounter with one of the DongBei KTV girls....
Met this girl in Mayflower KTV in the old CP, when CP was still the playground for us SG/MY folks. This girl has decently good looks and a nice 35C boobs and fair and slim body. With make-up, she can pass off as a B'grade' HK actress. I managed to pick her from the "Flower street" off Mayflower and this girl was the darling of the night.... Her overnight fee was : 1200 RMB. That's SG$240 back then.
Had a lot of fun singing and chatting and then romping in bed. The next morning, she tried to "KumCheng or KC" me, asking for a tip of additional 300RMB making it 1500 for the overnight... I told her in the face: I live in Shanghai and in Shanghai KTVs, there are tons of girls that are more pretty than you and I never paid one cent more....... On hearing that, she burst into tears saying how heartless I am and how cold-blooded we chiongsters are, treating girls like her so terribly, like a local chinese guy would. I replied her : Look, you are already making more money in a month than a farmer will make in a year! What the hell are you complaining about? Furthermore, it is your choice if you want to earn money by opening your legs. You can't blame me for not being nice to you..... I am sure that there will be plenty of love-struck guys who will suck you up and treat you like a gf...
When I finished my sentence, her phone rang, she picked up the phone, stopped crying immediately and said in the sweetest voice possible "Hi Keith, wo zai jia!" (Hi Keith, I am at home).....
I started to laugh quietly and gave her a mischievious smile. I listened to her and this Keith (Carrot head) was buying her the latest iPhone4S (At that time), and coming in the afternoon to have dinner with her at XiaoYuTian (Little Rainy Day)! She of course smiled back at me and she packed up and left and took only 1000RMB from me, instead of her rate, which was 1200RMB.
I was surprised that she took only 1000RMB from me and asked her why, so we kept in contact by QQ. Later on, this DongBei KTV girl became one of the fuck-buddies that I had in the south. I asked her very much later on, what was it about me that she liked and how come she told me in the face: Ni he qi ta de ben dan hen bu yi yang, wo xi huan ni de xian shi tai du, ni ye bu hui pian wo. (You are very different from the rest of the stupid guys, your attitude is very practical and I know you won't lie to me)
Well, too many guys nice to her and don't tell her to truth, for me, I told her as it is, in the face and she loved it. Till today, she is already married and with 1 kid in Shenzhen, to a HK guy. I met the husband too and she introduced me as her "life advisor"..... LOL!
Re: My statistics on the ladies/girls/women in China!
nice guys finish last , period . I've always wondered why some guys , knowingly play prince charming to a pro . as if they will reciprocate ?!?!? as if they will really fall in love with you ?!??! really ? so naive ? its just a transaction/sale to them . compared to what goes on in china , girls in their early 20s can arguably be considered an over the hill pro . however , that being said , these girls also hope to find the love of their life . they , too , are human .
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Re: My statistics on the ladies/girls/women in China!
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Originally Posted by MichaelWinn
ha ha ha typical singapore old man, cannot blame him
the lure of a young prc lady
i am very sure the china girl is already married in china with at least one kid
some more she from liaoning
northern china girls really beautiful
when i was based in dalian every day i looked forward to taking public transport , so many beautiful china ladys to admire
and some are without makeup
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Re: My statistics on the ladies/girls/women in China!
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Originally Posted by sinseh
Well bro,
Being in China "full-time" over the last few years, has also given me a lot of insights and life lessons that can never be had in SG. Compared to China, SG really is more level a playing field (literally in job and in FLs) and also a very much more civilized place. Everyone can read about China being the world's 2nd biggest or biggest economy, but in a lot of places, there are still folks that are growing rice, vegetables or fruits by manual labour, without machines. Every year these kind of family earn a yearly income of 10K RMB or 15K RMB if they are lucky. So with the economic boom that drive prices up, these fellas at the bottom feels the squeeze and cast envious glances at their city neighbours like in Shanghai/Beijing/Guangzhou/Shenzhen etc....
Here's one true story that I personally encounter with one of the DongBei KTV girls....
Met this girl in Mayflower KTV in the old CP, when CP was still the playground for us SG/MY folks. This girl has decently good looks and a nice 35C boobs and fair and slim body. With make-up, she can pass off as a B'grade' HK actress. I managed to pick her from the "Flower street" off Mayflower and this girl was the darling of the night.... Her overnight fee was : 1200 RMB. That's SG$240 back then.
Had a lot of fun singing and chatting and then romping in bed. The next morning, she tried to "KumCheng or KC" me, asking for a tip of additional 300RMB making it 1500 for the overnight... I told her in the face: I live in Shanghai and in Shanghai KTVs, there are tons of girls that are more pretty than you and I never paid one cent more....... On hearing that, she burst into tears saying how heartless I am and how cold-blooded we chiongsters are, treating girls like her so terribly, like a local chinese guy would. I replied her : Look, you are already making more money in a month than a farmer will make in a year! What the hell are you complaining about? Furthermore, it is your choice if you want to earn money by opening your legs. You can't blame me for not being nice to you..... I am sure that there will be plenty of love-struck guys who will suck you up and treat you like a gf...
When I finished my sentence, her phone rang, she picked up the phone, stopped crying immediately and said in the sweetest voice possible "Hi Keith, wo zai jia!" (Hi Keith, I am at home).....
I started to laugh quietly and gave her a mischievious smile. I listened to her and this Keith (Carrot head) was buying her the latest iPhone4S (At that time), and coming in the afternoon to have dinner with her at XiaoYuTian (Little Rainy Day)! She of course smiled back at me and she packed up and left and took only 1000RMB from me, instead of her rate, which was 1200RMB.
I was surprised that she took only 1000RMB from me and asked her why, so we kept in contact by QQ. Later on, this DongBei KTV girl became one of the fuck-buddies that I had in the south. I asked her very much later on, what was it about me that she liked and how come she told me in the face: Ni he qi ta de ben dan hen bu yi yang, wo xi huan ni de xian shi tai du, ni ye bu hui pian wo. (You are very different from the rest of the stupid guys, your attitude is very practical and I know you won't lie to me)
Well, too many guys nice to her and don't tell her to truth, for me, I told her as it is, in the face and she loved it. Till today, she is already married and with 1 kid in Shenzhen, to a HK guy. I met the husband too and she introduced me as her "life advisor"..... LOL!
dongbei girls are generally more beautiful than their southern counterparts
i always pay market rate to wls
if they ask for more tips or want to bring me to go shopping with them
i always run away or find excuses to escape
i do not want too much kc with any wl because i realised they are highly skilled at trapping us men
are you still having regular sex with her?
is she really married to the hong kong guy or just a baoing or kept women type by the hong kong man
Re: My statistics on the ladies/girls/women in China!
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Originally Posted by MichaelWinn
dongbei girls are generally more beautiful than their southern counterparts
i always pay market rate to wls
if they ask for more tips or want to bring me to go shopping with them
i always run away or find excuses to escape
i do not want too much kc with any wl because i realised they are highly skilled at trapping us men
are you still having regular sex with her?
is she really married to the hong kong guy or just a baoing or kept women type by the hong kong man
No more liao..... I had good enough time and I told her that if that guy is really good for you long term, just take it, I am purely in it for the lust, the sex, don't expect me to be the knight in shining armour.....
Oh well, its really married, I was invited to their wedding too.... where at the wedding, I managed to get to know one of her bridesmaids, who was actually an ex-wl....... but that's another story for another time...