Can a man love 2 women? or a woman love 2 men? - Page 2

#16 28-05-2005, 12:00 PM

A man definitely can love 2 women, that is why we have people like Wei xiao bao. A women can also love 2 men, usually these are women who are rich.

manfoong · #17 28-05-2005, 01:39 PM

my guess we r juz a race of genetically programmed creatures whereby men look for physical attractiveness,fertility and beauty in gals n altho v may not b aware,subconsciously look for those who can bear healthy offspring capable of surviving/prospering next generation.
while gals r programmed 2 look for guys wit capabilities and resources (read money) who can provide for n ensure the survival of the progeny
in short guys luv beauty n gals will luv money(ability 2 look after kids) in guys
so guys got no problem luvin multiple gals , juz look at the apes 1 dominant n powderful male takes all the females in the clan n he sure luvs n protect them all at the same time..........................
...............jus my 1/2 cent worth, i mayb terribly wrong

airbrush · #18 01-06-2005, 08:43 AM

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Originally Posted by manfoong

while gals r programmed 2 look for guys wit capabilities and resources (read money) who can provide for n ensure the survival of the progeny
in short guys luv beauty n gals will luv money(ability 2 look after kids) in guys
so guys got no problem luvin multiple gals , juz look at the apes 1 dominant n powderful male takes all the females in the clan n he sure luvs n protect them all at the same time..........................
...............jus my 1/2 cent worth, i mayb terribly wrong

...hmmm where did you get your theory from?

machoman · #19 01-06-2005, 10:27 AM

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Originally Posted by airbrush

...hmmm where did you get your theory from?

He got his theory from the apes... read his post #17 carefully and slowly again.

nakamara · #20 01-06-2005, 11:06 AM

hmm...for me is no...love is too strong a word...I can only love 1 woman at any one time...but I'll still lust or have a crush on other girls...not to the extent of LOVE

t123 · #21 01-06-2005, 11:26 AM

Sometimes I confused myself between sympathy and love. I really dun knoe which is which. Imagine me buying a white gold necklace for my tirak on her last day and went to see her as she told her boss her period come which is not true. She wanted to rest but couldn't entertain me. SO to access to her, paid another thai girl but went to my tirak's room. All this while I am deeply in love with someone for 5 months liao.

DeSade · #22 01-06-2005, 12:32 PM

With available choices, one could love even more.

airbrush · #23 03-06-2005, 08:28 AM

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With available choices, one could love even more.

when I was in SZ I have this feeling...becos there are many available choices but not local.

Optimus_Prime · #24 03-06-2005, 08:54 AM

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Originally Posted by lament

Lust play a role but then lust can result in feelings too.

take a cue from chinese language. Feelings have many way of being expressed lingusticly. "Gan Chue" & "Qin Gan". The key word is "gan" but then both are different, one is physical and the other emotional. Many a times we start with the physical only to end up being emotional .......

Bro Lament,

U sound like a "Been There Done It" kind of man from ur reply...

Sad to say... I oso know the meaning of what u said... *sigh*

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Originally Posted by @#$%^&*

A man definitely can love 2 women, that is why we have people like Wei xiao bao. A women can also love 2 men, usually these are women who are rich.

Even with Master Wei, he has his favourite A-ke among his seven wives whom he LOVES the most !!

I believe that for LOVE...there is only ONE !! But for crush/lust/like then it is possible to have many many... put a kid in a candy shop, he sure will want to taste all the candies... but eventually there will be one candy that he love above all else...

One candy to rulz them all... heehee...

t123 · #25 03-06-2005, 09:40 AM

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Originally Posted by Optimus_Prime

Even with Master Wei, he has his favourite A-ke among his seven wives whom he LOVES the most !!

I believe that for LOVE...there is only ONE !! But for crush/lust/like then it is possible to have many many... put a kid in a candy shop, he sure will want to taste all the candies... but eventually there will be one candy that he love above all else...

One candy to rulz them all... heehee...

I agree becos a bloke like 吴宗宪 have so many women, and when interviewed, he said that of all the women he had, he loved Candy the most. Moreover, he is married to wei wei mother of his 4 daughters. When 周杰伦was asked to comment on this, he said that his teacher is not 滥情 but he is a 重感情 person.

airbrush · #26 06-06-2005, 07:00 PM

...think of it, yes man can love two women and woman can love two men...is only for how long can they last..

euks · #27 06-06-2005, 09:09 PM

of course we can,
love is a state of emotion that is condition by our mind.

Different people have different mentality and thus define love differently.

Since love have a open defination that is governed by the individual mind, anyone can love more than 2 person at a time.

airbrush · #28 07-06-2005, 08:37 AM

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Originally Posted by Optimus_Prime

put a kid in a candy shop, he sure will want to taste all the candies... but eventually there will be one candy that he love above all else...

One candy to rulz them all... heehee...

candy cannot represent love...bring the kid to another better candy shop with more varieties, the kid will start to love the new tastes...and this will go on and on...