woes of a tirak

[siamcutey]

Originally Posted by sneksg

Thanks guys..... u all made me think with the correct head......

So how do you all juggle the $$$ and the relationship with them.... How do u subtlely tell them NO, yet they will be ok with it?

If you don't want to open line for her, just say NO. No need to care how she feel becos there is a saying.

They need us more than we need them.

SC

[Bangkok Master]

Originally Posted by sneksg

Thanks guys..... u all made me think with the correct head......

So how do you all juggle the $$$ and the relationship with them.... How do u subtlely tell them NO, yet they will be ok with it?

You can always come clean with them what is your situation like and if she really loves you then she would not mind what is your status. There is no thumb of rule how to mantain your relationship with them, we men mostly are soft hearted so it's natural that we are likely to lose in the mind games. But sometimes even knowing that we are going to lose we still blindly fall for it but if you want to lose also must lose "WILLINGLY".

There are varies ways to reject them for your case, like the phone subscription thing, just tell her that you banned by the phone company and your line is open by someone else. But you will have to be thick-skinned enough, remember you have nothing to lose by rejecting cos you can always find other sex partner but she will lose a good customer like you so do you think it's a good idea?

[zunbo]

Originally Posted by Bangkok Master

...... remember you have nothing to lose by rejecting cos you can always find other sex partner but she will lose a good customer like you so do you think it's a good idea?

I totally agree..... Yes.... We men are kinda soft hearted towards the gal we like or fancy. But like what i have learnt.... There is a 'big forest' out there and there will definately be a tree what can give equally amount of 'shade and comfort' as the tree you are resting under.

[Bangkok Master]

Originally Posted by zunbo

I totally agree..... Yes.... We men are kinda soft hearted towards the gal we like or fancy. But like what i have learnt.... There is a 'big forest' out there and there will definately be a tree what can give equally amount of 'shade and comfort' as the tree you are resting under.

But sometimes the tree is been shared by few people as well without our knowledge. So open you eyes big big in order to avoid "TREE POOL" hahaha

[poolhot.]

Originally Posted by thaivisitor

No, there isn't but then again, you'll still see flames coming or going lah... what to do?

..... and Joy!

Nowadays I dun even dare to retaliate myself... Or else ppl will from groups to gang zap me. i am so afraid.

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Not sure this is considered a woe of being a "tirak".

My "tirak" used to enjoy having sex with me. How I know? Cos she will always try to make herself cum when we did it and she was easily wet. But lately, the last 3 times anyway, she always seem tired or sleepy. Complain to me that she is bored of working (having sex i supposed). I asked her if she is bored of me, she said no. Now she ask me to cum faster and also wants to cut short the foreplay. '

Sex has become less exciting. Actually, come to think of it, sex has never been exciting with her. With my "tirak", its more of a connection thing. I never think of her as a sex object. When i do with her, if i feel that she is not enjoying herself but only want to make me cum, I cum liao also not satisfied. It does makes me feel good if she enjoys the session with me. When she dont enjoy herself, my ego is really deflated.

Now when i go look for her, I will always keep my finger cross that i will have a good session.

Those with tiraks have this kind of problem? WHat do you do when sex is not exciting with your tirak anymore?

[poolhot.]

Originally Posted by sex_maniac2

those with tiraks have this kind of problem? WHat do you do when sex is not exciting with your tirak anymore?

"tirak" which actually means "darling" as quoted by The Punisher

To me it means it has reach a stage beyond SEX.

I dun consider my regular as Tirak but sex is not the reason why I am still seeing her.

Hope that help.

Originally Posted by poolhot

"tirak" which actually means "darling" as quoted by The Punisher

To me it means it has reach a stage beyond SEX.

So u mean i dont consider her as tirak but she consider me as one??
I do enjoy being with her, in her room and when we go out. But when it comes to sex, if she is just doing it because I have paid money, it doesnt go down very well on me. When she is tired or dont feel like it, I wish she can tell me so. She just feels obligated.

Originally Posted by poolhot

I dun consider my regular as Tirak but sex is not the reason why I am still seeing her.

Then what is the reason that u are still seeing your regular?? care to share?

[poolhot.]

Originally Posted by sex_maniac2

So u mean i dont consider her as tirak but she consider me as one??

Wat she is considering u.. I wun know. maybe U like to tell me more on wat u tink on how she feel abt U

Originally Posted by sex_maniac2

I do enjoy being with her, in her room and when we go out. But when it comes to sex, if she is just doing it because I have paid money, it doesnt go down very well on me. When she is tired or dont feel like it, I wish she can tell me so. She just feels obligated. ?

Then dun hv sex wiz her lor.

Originally Posted by sex_maniac2

Then what is the reason that u are still seeing your regular?? care to share?

Well hugging? watch VCDs? +++ing to each other? There so many things that is also enjoyable. U hv to look at the situation & go wiz it.

once she tell me her shoulder hurt, I massage her shoulder then follow by a full massage on the whole back. Then its some petting & small talk till time up.

And we didnt even undress at all.

Originally Posted by poolhot

Wat she is considering u.. I wun know. maybe U like to tell me more on wat u tink on how she feel abt U

I dunno, seriously. That is my woe. LAst time we went out quite often and recently when we had a conversation, she did say that she only went out with me (during that time, not sure about now). Not sure if can use this as a guage.

Originally Posted by poolhot

Then dun hv sex wiz her lor.

I did try to reject her when she really dont feel like it.

Originally Posted by poolhot

Well hugging? watch VCDs? +++ing to each other? There so many things that is also enjoyable. U hv to look at the situation & go wiz it.

once she tell me her shoulder hurt, I massage her shoulder then follow by a full massage on the whole back. Then its some petting & small talk till time up.

And we didnt even undress at all.

Yes. we do all that, watch VCDs, hugging , playing with each other etc which is fun. As I go for ON, I wish it will go all nite like that without sex I also dont mind. However, I believe she is sleepy and she tried to do all those stuff with me but after awhile, she will say its time for her to do her job. really sian 1/2 when she says that. I m not sure if she knows that it really kills the mood and the spontanaiety for me. Should I let her know how I feel about that? Should i tell her that it doesnt matter if we have sex as long as we have fun? And ask her to be more spontaneous, go with the flow? Not think about "work"? (but i will have to say all that in thai!!!)
After knowing her for some time, I do believe that she has no intention to take advantage of me. She can even ask me not to go ON when she is tired or when she has to wake up early the next day. She dont even care if i dont go! (actually, she does care which i found out later)

[walao]

Originally Posted by sneksg

So timely, juz when i wanted to start a thread....... to share my woes.

For my gal, we often go out and always i end up buying some stuff for her..... like mobile phone.... pendant etc.. Think i was asking for trouble by agreeing to buy the items for her.

Recently, she got quite a couple of request.....
1. It was her birthday and she asked me for $$$ to either blanjah her friends makan or sponsor her $200 quilt set. Is it common for the gal to ask you for $$$..... to buy something?
2. She starts to use my phone to my long distance call..... lucky it is StarHub 018 to thailand.... shew!!!!
3. She ask me if i could subscribe a local mobile line for her..... wah piang...

Was wondering what i should do and whether if I should end it...... but cant bare to do so.... any experience or advice on this?

Cheebye.....so who's fault? U ask for it....Got money also diam diam mah...rong rong time ago, limpei got $$$ also diam diam....wait until she ROD (or ORD???...limpei lao liao), and got nothing to do with WL-job, and thats where the answer MIGHT comes out....if all ler while u lor $$$ and chee still like you,, that means chee like your heart la....so in the first prace, Never spoil her....once you give something to someone and all of ler sullen you take away, chee sure ZHOR KONG TAO (black magic you), make you stomach ache everyday....

To date huh, limpei onry chee less than 10 successful rate in Chingapore "Post-Geylang Scenrio". What limpei means by successful rate is Marriage--->Si Kia (Pregnancy)----->stable family life with an ex-WL! (which limpei is one of them) and the other guy, Ah Keong whom limpei know just stay about 1.5km down the road flom limpei (Tonight got 'Singapore Night' gathering with him and his family and my family in a seafood restaurant in our newfoundland, Maesai, his wife who is also an Ex-WL is 8 months pregnant with him)

You know how limpei got it?...You think i water her everlylay with Yusok Ishaak huh?....Limpei that time earning ah about S$70,000 a year, lont pray pray, i also bruff bruff her say let i earn S$1000 per month, mother, father old liao need support, my house got 3 dogs need to kin kao (eat), my 5 gold fishes need tender loving care....Like let alcho lunno how to bruffing huh?...Lis is what Limpei call 'White Bruff'. You bruff like let, wont go to hell one....because you saving your ler karchng from Hor Gao Gan!

But still limpei unlerstand you, your lanjiao itchy and miss her want to go and visit her, and then she will suspect, "teeruk...i thought your $$$ lor enough, why come here boi boi (regularly)?"...this kind of scenerio, mai kanchiong and reply staggardly, like that she will catch you bruffing liao....just tell her, i borrow from Loan Shark and visit you, because i miss you and crying every night to sleep....then you wait and see how's her reaction....if she no reaction, ask her go fuck spider and change your teeruk, if she unlerstanding....this one can future invest...so you play ler game....


p.s. Anyway, Cheebye Lives is just like playing games....you lont eat lem, ley eat you....as long you long kill, rob, and zhor jek ark tai chee (dont do bad deeds).....you still can Sio Kan (Fucking) in your next life....




You Chincery,
Walao (Hor Gao Gan Lar!)

[walao]

Excuse ler me, limpei just farted....



Walao

[walao]

I think huh....one fine sunny day, if Limpei wely ler flee..i should start a thread call "Woes of my Wallet"




Hor Gao Gan Lar...Ji siao siao...

Walao

Originally Posted by walao

Cheebye.....so who's fault? U ask for it....Got money also diam diam mah...rong rong time ago, limpei got $$$ also diam diam....



You Chincery,
Walao (Hor Gao Gan Lar!)

That time i won 4D 2nd prize then told my "tirak", she just say good lor, won 4D Wanted to have a good time with her using the winnings but since she no reaction, i also saved the money for future visit.

you think this girl good or not??

[walao]

Originally Posted by sex_maniac2

That time i won 4D 2nd prize then told my "tirak", she just say good lor, won 4D Wanted to have a good time with her using the winnings but since she no reaction, i also saved the money for future visit.

you think this girl good or not??

2 possibilities :


Bocharp:
1) She thinks:" Big deal, non of my business, as if you win you will give me.."


Silencer waiting to pounce
2) She thinks:"See what will he do next...limbu steady one....u give i take, you dont give, i keep quiet"


Walao