Anyone Believe in Karma?

[cyclone999]

i believe in karma ..

[RockViet]

Originally Posted by Kazaf

Used to fk around have fun with girls, Having gf is .....
now im all alone. Is this karma?

Hi TS
i believe so too... watch this but too bad only in chinese.万恶淫为首
it talk about of all bad deeds... sexual bad deeds rank the worst and the retribution is the worst... it was also observed that many of the porn stars die tragically & die young...this is deem to be bcos the porn they acted in spread millions of copies to the world affecting millions trillion of ppl causing them to commit adultery/rape/molest/incest/unfaithful etc etc

[littlepok]

i once liked to frequent ktv and geylang even when i am attached. felt empty with my ex. however, now i am with another girl and coming to sammyboy is mainly to read stories and tcss. no more FR no more asking for contact etc.

karma is very real and comes in all forms. cannot ask bros here to stop bonking, impossible task. just make sure u pay your dues, don't con girls into sex (with promise of lifetime commitment but aim is for sex only). lots of sluts around but good girls much more than that. don't con the good ones, have your fun with the bad ones (but must be willing parties la. u dont go to a club, make a gal drunk, rape her and claim she's a bad girl). fun-loving and willing to have sex with u is 2 different thing.

also don't run tips at ktv la, lowest lifeform. the gal service might suck but u accepted her in the first place. can pay less, cannot don't pay. u don't pay means u owe her liao, u will return in other forms. why take such risk (u dunno how u have to 还债).

for me, i do not get the most wonderful sex with gf (porn-like) but at least it is gf feel, not commercial feel. i can sleep after sex, not wash and dress up and check out. it feels different. ever felt the emptiness inside u after your fun in ktv and walk out to a quiet and lonely world outside? i did and i do not like it.

have fun responsibly, we are human afterall. totally abstain from sex is impossible. at least do what is right...

lastly, don't hurt your wife over sex or mistress, this is worst karma ever. ditching the one who suffered hard days with u and u rather spent on women outside than her. don't love her, don't wanna sex with her is understandable. but give her the due credits and respect.

btw i'm a buddhist. my point of view only

[RockViet]

Originally Posted by littlepok

i once liked to frequent ktv and geylang .....
btw i'm a buddhist. my point of view only

Hi bro Littlepok.. thks for sharing.. i agreed with u every word u wrote.
因果报应 cannot siam.. dont do bad 因. do more good ones. we reap what we sow

[t123]

I never believe in Karma, because I was hurt and seemed like I have LL swallow it even I did nothing wrong.

[power88]

I believe in What goes around, Will comes around, and vice versa.

Karma is a deep word that orgin derived from India, and is later practise by many religions teaching. Different religion got different ways of teaching.

In the law of Karma for Buddism,
It is stretch from many deeds and things that one does, and will be reflected in many reincarnations, like previous , present and future lifes..
To simplify in chinese is 因果报应, 生生不息。

If you do many good things, you will be rewarded, may it not be present life but future.
Same for bad things, you will inherit the retributions sooner or later....

But what is good or bad deed? There will be another saying.
But deep inside everyone heart, we should know the differences, just that we want to Follow anot?

Just my buddist's point of view.

[RockViet]

Originally Posted by t123

I never believe in Karma, because I was hurt and seemed like I have LL swallow it even I did nothing wrong.

Hi bro... i too once feel n think like u do... but it took me so many years just to realise and understands. it does not mean u did nothing wrong mean rightfiully u should get something good.
..i am not out to argue with you or convince u but just to share with you my 2cts worth of my thoughts ...cos i wasted my time n realise quite late

- it could be your deeds commited previously (or previous life) or
- u did not realise ur good deeds you tot is actually bad deeds
- it may not be "u did not hurt this immediate case mean this immediate case should be good peaceful" ... your other bad deeds also accountable..
- it does not mean u did not conduct the bad deeds physically mean u did not did wrong. simple as a bad thoughts already considered committed thou not as serious.
- simple things like "jealous" , talk bad is also considered committed bad deeds.
- simple greediness also considered
- learn to accept that this bad encounter is due to your previous/other deeds cos if u dun accept u will grumble and talk bad about it... n causes more bad deeds..
- must be fillial to parents or elderly .. u might not it had no link to wat ur immediate trouble in your dealings but being unfillial demerited or negated ur good deed n affect your immediate dealings

[CandyBunny]

Could it be due to your past that caused your so called being ditched? Are they aware of your past? This kind of past will definitely affect the effort being put into a relationship although it's said "what past has past" but honestly, some people might still mind subconsciously.

[Toyota Honda]

I believe.

And I do my part to prevent getting in to it. I only do it with girls who are no longer virgins. I dun hide my horniness from them and I dun tell them lies that I will be with them forever. I usually tell them I will be with them for as long as fate permits and no one knows what will happen. I also tell them I have high sex drive. And of cos, when I am with them, I truly dote on them and care for them.

but when it comes to virgins, I will not do them even if we kiss and hug. But no to sex. That is y I have let off at least 5 good girls. They have questioned me whether they are not good for me. My reply is I dun know if we will be together forever, y waste their 1st time on me and end up not being with the guy who took their virgin?

Girls are also humans. And most girls who have slept with me are actually friends who likes me for who I am even though they know I am sleeping around. And when the opportunity comes, they doesnt mind ending up on my bed cos they know even if we dun end up in a committed relationship, the guy they are sleeping with (which is me) still dote them, care for them and be willing to do anything for them. Its a matter of how you make them trust you and giving them the assurance that you care for them to acghieve such effect and I am genuine.

[Kenneleon]

Cuz this is a discussion for sex..not philosiphy..
Anyway..just to be zapped too,i'll throw in my personal opinion.(im sick of the 2cents term.dafuq u can do with 2cents in sg)

Karma is a system.system means there is someone that created it.so it means there is a divine power to create something so "mystical" and powerful..so either there is no such thing or the creator is unloving n insane..

Which makes more sense?
Example: is it more effective to correct a mistake immediately or give praise to a job well done?

Or

Keep quiet be it a good job or a mistake and punish/praise the person many years down the road out of the blue?and when questioned why..the only reply is..dont ask why.just think back on your life.

Karma is different from making decisions.
U screwed around previously..most probably ruined quite a few people..but that doesnt mean your life will surely be ruin too.it all depends on your circumstances and decisions.

[CandyBunny]

Originally Posted by Toyota Honda

I believe.

And I do my part to prevent getting in to it. I only do it with girls who are no longer virgins. I dun hide my horniness from them and I dun tell them lies that I will be with them forever. I usually tell them I will be with them for as long as fate permits and no one knows what will happen. I also tell them I have high sex drive. And of cos, when I am with them, I truly dote on them and care for them.

but when it comes to virgins, I will not do them even if we kiss and hug. But no to sex. That is y I have let off at least 5 good girls. They have questioned me whether they are not good for me. My reply is I dun know if we will be together forever, y waste their 1st time on me and end up not being with the guy who took their virgin?

Girls are also humans. And most girls who have slept with me are actually friends who likes me for who I am even though they know I am sleeping around. And when the opportunity comes, they doesnt mind ending up on my bed cos they know even if we dun end up in a committed relationship, the guy they are sleeping with (which is me) still dote them, care for them and be willing to do anything for them. Its a matter of how you make them trust you and giving them the assurance that you care for them to acghieve such effect and I am genuine.

Totally agree. Not any particular stranger who someone who is nice enough and have sparks.

[RockViet]

..like the saying goes... 人在做，天在看

[stand_98]

Frankly, I don't really think karma is involved here. It is all abt female psychic. Do u feel that when you are fooling around with them, they feel more desired and at ease? When you switched your mindset and wanted to have a stable relationship with her, things started to get boring and she started to look elsewhere for the 'kick'.

Man and woman are basically the same lah. To be successful, you will need to ensure a good balance between flirty, fun and commitment. Too much of any part will screw up a healthy relationship.

[Apocalypse]

Originally Posted by deludedgal

haha..i thought christians dont believe in such stuff. only buddhist

Actually Christians believe in Karma too. But talking about philosophy and religion is abit off topic to the general discussion of sex.





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[Bebeque]

Karma (good or bad) will be realised when the appropriate conditions are present.

One comparison will be to that of diseases in humans and their manifestations. For example, a person was infected by the Hep B virus and suffered an attack of inflammation of his liver cells. Fortunately, he recovered from this attack but, he became a Hep B carrier. The virus remained in his body. Knowing his condition, he made big efforts to keep himself healthy with good diet, regular exercises and sufficient rests. He could be well for many years. However, one day, due to whatever reason(s), his immune system was weakened sufficiently (excessive alcohol intake, drug use or simply old age, etc) and the Hep B virus reactivated and causing even more damage to his liver. Eventually, he might end up with liver cirrhosis or even liver cancer. How serious he would suffer from the effects of the Hep B virus reactivation would depend on many factors inclusive of how well he took care of his health previously, his genetics, the availability of appropriate treatments, etc.

The operation of the karma can be explained in a similar manner. Good deeds result in the accumulation of good karma and bad deeds result in bad karma. Such karma, once committed remain as karma. Under the appropriate conditions, the karma (good or bad) will be realised. For a really bad karma, how much the person will suffer for it will depend on the many deeds he did after the commission of the one bad karma. The many good karma he accumulated would in some way go to ameliorate the bad karma he committed, but would never eliminate it totally.

Thus if TS knows that he has not acted in the right manner in the handling of his sexual relationships, and if he believes in karma, the advice for him will be:
a Stop doing whatever actions/behaviour that he knows are not right (for example, pursuing a relationship purely for sexual gratification and in the process hurting the other party);
b Consciously control his own emotions and actions with regard to the pursue sex if such behaviour results in hurting others, inclusive of himself;
c Start doing what he knows are the right things to do in sexual relationships (for example, being sincere, faithful and truthful to his partners);

What one had done previously could not be undone. Going forward, what is more important is the willingnes for one to change for the better, for more good karma to be accumuilated. Only then could one be assured of a certain measure of peace of the mind. All depends on yourself and what you want to sow and reap.

That is all.

Cheers.