Feeling lonely and a bit heartbroken over a fling

[sane1]

Why are some guys so obsessed with Thai gals? I have friends who's like that too.

Like what I say, FL or not. Every gals will have their own requirement and if you can't meet them. U r not suitable. Don't need to think too much.

[Marcel]

to sane1 thanks but why did this gal have sex with me and stayed in the hotel room with me even though she isn't an fl? I noticed on her FB she has this guy that she talks a lot about and probably bf or ex-bf but you know she still went with me and stayed with me for 1 week. I was thinking she actually stayed with me for 1 week. I have had gals bail out on like the 2nd day.

[sane1]

Originally Posted by Marcel

Anyway i spent a wonderful 1 week together with her and had sex a couple of times and so on and she was also pretty honest with me. When she brought me to a temple to pray and i asked her what she was praying for she told me she was praying for more guys and to be honest on her FB page i see her with a couple of different guys that she's clubbing with.

This is your answer. U r just 1 out of her many guys.

[asdfghjkl]

is she a local or foreigner?

[Marcel]

Originally Posted by sane1

This is your answer. U r just 1 out of her many guys.

hahahah i guess the answer is right there. I'm just like one bro larue with his thread i am addicted to an FL! and he's sort of aware that he's being kced.


Well there's nothing complicated about it the girl either likes you or not and even if she does how long would it last and suppose i actually become her special one that would be weird with those other guys around and she has 3 kids too told me she doesn't really know their ages like the kid is around 5 or 6 or something like that i think.

well how do you sort of soothe this well pain of a loss even though she's not my gf and we were only together for a week i still feel a loss.

Another thing i'm curious is she's not an fl but well kind of acts like one or maybe she's not like those type of traditional fls you see on fldome. What would you classify her as.

Last thing and it's out of topic i have noticed is that among the thais they have different standards for whores. Like the lowest among them are those that are officially whores like those that work in pattaya ago go bars. They are called "curly" or "kali" Then there are those that are fls so they aren't officially whores and somehow higher up in the hierachy.

I'm of course stereotyping but still i believe that there are many thai ladies while they don't officially work in ago go bars or in those massage palours have at one time had sex to get benefits like money, presents, favors etc. In thai it's got "edog- thong" I even had one tourguide in phuket that msged me on FB to help out his lady fren by having sex with her and paying her so she could pay her rent. He mentioned it so causally like to a local singaporean that would mean pimping out your fren and just not feel right for ppl in this country i think. I didn't take up his offer.

[Marcel]

Originally Posted by asdfghjkl

is she a local or foreigner?

She's a foreigner i tot i mentioned it on my 1st post.

[-SBF-]

Originally Posted by Marcel

To bro jj the pre emptive move from me is i am treating it like i have broken up with her. I msged her earlier on whatsapp just now and she dis reply to me with 1 or 2 worded replies. Even though that doesnt mean anything it is like i sense she is not interested in me anymore or maybe i am paranoid.

Just a fling, why felt so sad and lonely?!?! Find a good girl and settle down if you have not married.

[sane1]

Originally Posted by Marcel

hahahah i guess the answer is right there. I'm just like one bro larue with his thread i am addicted to an FL! and he's sort of aware that he's being kced.


Well there's nothing complicated about it the girl either likes you or not and even if she does how long would it last and suppose i actually become her special one that would be weird with those other guys around and she has 3 kids too told me she doesn't really know their ages like the kid is around 5 or 6 or something like that i think.

well how do you sort of soothe this well pain of a loss even though she's not my gf and we were only together for a week i still feel a loss.

Another thing i'm curious is she's not an fl but well kind of acts like one or maybe she's not like those type of traditional fls you see on fldome. What would you classify her as.

Last thing and it's out of topic i have noticed is that among the thais they have different standards for whores. Like the lowest among them are those that are officially whores like those that work in pattaya ago go bars. They are called "curly" or "kali" Then there are those that are fls so they aren't officially whores and somehow higher up in the hierachy.

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3 kids??? I think u r quite lucky then. Imagine u gotta feed 3 + 1, so 1 more reason for u to get over it.
Treat it as good memory bah...

Anyway FL is FL, all r the same as long as being paid sex to have sex but isn't it risky to play in Thai? The HIV rate is high there.

[Marcel]

Originally Posted by sane1

3 kids??? I think u r quite lucky then. Imagine u gotta feed 3 + 1, so 1 more reason for u to get over it.
Treat it as good memory bah...

Anyway FL is FL, all r the same as long as being paid sex to have sex but isn't it risky to play in Thai? The HIV rate is high there.

I didn't pay her to have sex with me. Just that when i was over there i paid for the food and entertainment expenses.

As for hiv thing well you know how so many guys still somehow go to thailand to play with the gals for me i have yet to go to thailand and actually try one of their gals from an agogo bar or from the massage places.

[jj_jj]

Originally Posted by Marcel

As for hiv thing well you know how so many guys still somehow go to thailand to play with the gals for me i have yet to go to thailand and actually try one of their gals from an agogo bar or from the massage places.

If u r saying that there's no or even less HIV risk so long you have raw sex only with thai girls who do not work at agogos/MPs, u need to read more.

Or it's simply me reading this wrongly.

[Marcel]

One thing i forgot to mention she smokes and i don't so you know the breath doesn't smell so good for those of you that have tried to kiss a smoker should know.

[dudenumber1]

Originally Posted by Marcel

Anyone have any advice for me?

I met this thai girl from facebook and she's not working as an FL although she could stay and have sex with me in the hotel.

Man i do miss her. Never broke up or quarrel just that it seems she's not beem on what's app for a few days.

Dude, u treat people like shit. Well be sincere and go down to bkk and look for her. Anyway i would not be too serious about it, you seriously going to take her word for it?

[AHH2222MK6]

Sin Ruk Thai.. This moto is obviously define how an average sillypore male's mentality. Thai people is a stereotype human being in Asia continent. You want to ruk a poo ying, you must ruk her family, friends, relative and peers.

This theory applies to every poo ying originated from commercial or flesh trade. The 2nd poo ying is obviously providing our fellow sbf brother shelter during his stay in BKK. But our fellow sbf brother have forgotten to take precaution and until when he realized the 2nd poo ying has taken him for a ride, he came to senses that nothing is free in this world. Perhaps before 2nd poo ying's peer kicked our fellow bro out of the club, how many intercourse session our fellow sbf bro has engaged with the 2nd poo ying. 1 or 2 or none? If he did, then he must have fucked the 2nd girl on FOC basis. Or prior aow gan, the 2nd poo ying was intentionally setting a plot 2 squeeze our fellow sbf bro till he burn his wallet.

Back to the 1st poo ying. Although our sbf bro's remark stating this girl is generous and honest but she seems to understood the rule of the game better off than our sbf bro. The 1st poo ying tried to smear our sbf bro with generosity and honesty and in return, hopefully our victimized sbf bro will feel grateful and willing to repay her deed by giving his heart and soul to the 1st poo ying. In your case, the 1st poo ying knew you had betrayed her (try and tune in to local thai music channel where you will see non-stop playing of MTV such as guy cheating girl and girl cheating guy. Guy calls Girl no answer and Girl calls Guy no reply. Everyday got brain washing MTV but these sort of MTVs do have education value for most Thai people). When is your next trip to BKK?

There you go, Mr. Marcel. Maybe I shouldn't have made baseless assumption. Please forgive me if I do. But you haven't experienced the worst yet. The end is just the beginning of suffering. You are in the current state of mental torture. You are causing pain to yourself. The most safety is the most dangerous. If you had lived in LOS for years, you will learn the poo ying's mentality. You need to adapt with positive mindset if you wish to have a Thai gf. I believe you are getting better in term of knowledge regarding the poo ying society. Every farang means nothing for a Poo Ying but maybe goldsmith or money printer.

If you think you are wise, the poo ying are much wiser than us. The male play KC with the guidance of Little Johnny but poo ying KC the male with their charm and the character she portrays based on the mechanism of the victim (male) by adapting to the male's requirement and taste.

[Marcel]

Originally Posted by dudenumber1

Dude, u treat people like shit. Well be sincere and go down to bkk and look for her. Anyway i would not be too serious about it, you seriously going to take her word for it?

Take her word about what?

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Marcel, ur title already contradicts itself.
Feeling lonely cos a fling left, replace wif another.
Heartbroken cos the fling left then it can't be categorised as a fling!
Suggest u find a full time local resident fling, FB or GF, ur posts tells me u r someone in serious need for attn