Guess she was not prepare for it, maybe she expected a fight or a scolding. She looked puzzled, kept silent, then she moved up and snuggled into my arms. My excitement grew...
Perhaps she was waiting for you to start a fight, for you to give up hope on her and then she can use the fight as a reason to go over to the other guy. Having being scolded, she might feel less guilty about straying if she feels she has sort of been punished by being scolded, called names etc.
Your reaction might have puzzled her but is it a just temporary reprieve for the marriage? Is the reason why she strayed still there? If so, she might still leave you to be with the other man. So what's your future stand on this? It's ok for her to stray as long as she returns home at the end of the day? She might wish to build her future with the other man in mind.
Generally.. I say generally...
Men will fall prey to an undeniably beautiful & sexy ONS chance or affair from seduction, coz Men has 2 heads.
It will probably take a 10-100 romps before he has feelings for this babe, feelings that can even trump that for the wife.
Attached women do not fall prey to temptation no matter how sexy, suave, eloquent, smooth talker temptation is at 1st attempt.
Of coz there're women out there with high drive who can ONS anytime. If not, it'll really take some effort for Mr Temptation to
work on her before he gets her on bed. By the time she lets him into her (1st insertion hor), u can be sure he has at least a
corner space of her heart le (unlike man...can fuck & forget name some more).
So they say... When women cheat, it's different.
Love is all binding and blinding. It conquers anything. If it's true love you have for a cheating wife, then it's true love
you have INDEED, even after reading this. To leave her or not, there's no right or wrong answer. It's your life with hers.
If she TRULY still love you, anything is possible, even taking Mr T. off her heart (after some time).
As for me, I really cannot imagine if my woman cheat on me. Really. Totally. Coz women see sex so differently from us men.
They enjoy sex in ways we cannot even imagine coz we're just not biologically wired like them.
Bro if you 2 still have that love in you do sort help. The saying goes when a married woman cheat it is not just a simple case of she is high sex or horny.
It is normally they have open their heart & open feeling out and it is being pinch off bit by bit like a sponge cake with the ants nibbling and carry away small pieces away.
Don't wait till by the time they have completely finish nibbling than you panic where is your favourite piece of sponge cake.
My wife was a little surprise when i was not angry. Instead i just smile at her, hiding my excitement, and told her if that is the case what she is going to do about it.
Guess she was not prepare for it, maybe she expected a fight or a scolding. She looked puzzled, kept silent, then she moved up and snuggled into my arms. My excitement grew...
She buried her face in my tummy, so near my crotch think she can feel my hardon. We didnt talk, just kept silent. Enjoying the closeness that has been lost a long time ago.
I could sensed she is crying, and i let her be, let her emos out, to be relieved. Its like time stood still for that moment.
Thankfully, did not happen to my wife but I had a similar experience with my first gf. She was surprised that I was not livid and she also snuggled up to me. I then pretended to be slightly angry and pressed her for more details. As she let out the details bit by bit, I got more and more excited. Must say it was one of the best make-up sex I ever had. Really strange feeling though as I thought I would be fuming mad.
Thankfully, did not happen to my wife but I had a similar experience with my first gf. She was surprised that I was not livid and she also snuggled up to me. I then pretended to be slightly angry and pressed her for more details. As she let out the details bit by bit, I got more and more excited. Must say it was one of the best make-up sex I ever had. Really strange feeling though as I thought I would be fuming mad.
yaya, the best make-up sex ever! She gave me the best blow job of my life, insisted to make me CIM, open and show me, then swallow them. While i still was in the high, she went at my dick again.
This time it takes her a long while to make it hard, but she was insistent. Soon, she began to ride me when i was ready. And her moans and expression was such a whore, but it was very enjoyable.
I squeeze her breast hard and left marks but she was not angry. She bend down suck my nipples somemore. And i have never done 2 shots with her, and i was still hard as rock after a good 20mins.
Seeing me losing interest, she went on all fours and offer me to poke her ass, which i have always wanted....
yaya, the best make-up sex ever! She gave me the best blow job of my life, insisted to make me CIM, open and show me, then swallow them. While i still was in the high, she went at my dick again.
This time it takes her a long while to make it hard, but she was insistent. Soon, she began to ride me when i was ready. And her moans and expression was such a whore, but it was very enjoyable.
I squeeze her breast hard and left marks but she was not angry. She bend down suck my nipples somemore. And i have never done 2 shots with her, and i was still hard as rock after a good 20mins.
Seeing me losing interest, she went on all fours and offer me to poke her ass, which i have always wanted....
Thats why she cheat in the first place? Cos u never really understand her sexual needs? U are not able to unleash her wild side, which she felt trap inside her, suffocating her...
Generally.. I say generally...
Men will fall prey to an undeniably beautiful & sexy ONS chance or affair from seduction, coz Men has 2 heads.
It will probably take a 10-100 romps before he has feelings for this babe, feelings that can even trump that for the wife.
Attached women do not fall prey to temptation no matter how sexy, suave, eloquent, smooth talker temptation is at 1st attempt.
Of coz there're women out there with high drive who can ONS anytime. If not, it'll really take some effort for Mr Temptation to
work on her before he gets her on bed. By the time she lets him into her (1st insertion hor), u can be sure he has at least a
corner space of her heart le (unlike man...can fuck & forget name some more).
So they say... When women cheat, it's different.
Love is all binding and blinding. It conquers anything. If it's true love you have for a cheating wife, then it's true love
you have INDEED, even after reading this. To leave her or not, there's no right or wrong answer. It's your life with hers.
If she TRULY still love you, anything is possible, even taking Mr T. off her heart (after some time).
As for me, I really cannot imagine if my woman cheat on me. Really. Totally. Coz women see sex so differently from us men.
They enjoy sex in ways we cannot even imagine coz we're just not biologically wired like them.
My RMB wujiao worth...
Very well said...
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i really admires bros out there that can just leave his wife when shits happened. many of times i tried doing that but still let the soft side of me take over.... i guess they were right when they say the hardest pain one can experience is attachments.
i seriously think the biggest problem is that when u are having sex with ur wife and you cant help thinking of the imagines of the other guy doing her. if bros out there can manage to overcome that barrier, nothing is impossible
i really admires bros out there that can just leave his wife when shits happened. many of times i tried doing that but still let the soft side of me take over.... i guess they were right when they say the hardest pain one can experience is attachments.
i seriously think the biggest problem is that when u are having sex with ur wife and you cant help thinking of the imagines of the other guy doing her. if bros out there can manage to overcome that barrier, nothing is impossible
Bro, I think I kinda know how u are feeling when the soft of you take over. My ex gf always have the princess mindset but I always give in due to my soft side plus I love her alot( I know this is not related to TS topic ) Til one day I cannot take it anymore and end things with her, that is when I experience the hardest pain is to cut away the attachment.
For your second point, though I am not married yet, still I know that if I have having sex with my wife knowing she cheats, I would start thinking of the other guy doing her, I will go crazy. It could be the ego inside me acting up, thus making me feel lousy that I could not satisfies her needs and another guy is taking my place. I really salute to bros out there who can overcome it.
Just my 2 cents worth of thought...
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Generally.. I say generally...
Men will fall prey to an undeniably beautiful & sexy ONS chance or affair from seduction, coz Men has 2 heads.
It will probably take a 10-100 romps before he has feelings for this babe, feelings that can even trump that for the wife.
Attached women do not fall prey to temptation no matter how sexy, suave, eloquent, smooth talker temptation is at 1st attempt.
Of coz there're women out there with high drive who can ONS anytime. If not, it'll really take some effort for Mr Temptation to
work on her before he gets her on bed. By the time she lets him into her (1st insertion hor), u can be sure he has at least a
corner space of her heart le (unlike man...can fuck & forget name some more).
So they say... When women cheat, it's different.
Love is all binding and blinding. It conquers anything. If it's true love you have for a cheating wife, then it's true love
you have INDEED, even after reading this. To leave her or not, there's no right or wrong answer. It's your life with hers.
If she TRULY still love you, anything is possible, even taking Mr T. off her heart (after some time).
As for me, I really cannot imagine if my woman cheat on me. Really. Totally. Coz women see sex so differently from us men.
They enjoy sex in ways we cannot even imagine coz we're just not biologically wired like them.
My RMB wujiao worth...
This is so true, perhaps that the reason why woman feel more gulity about cheating than guys. Afterall, they are more emotional.
Sometime, after reading so many threads in SBF, I kind of come to this conclusion, every man inner most desire is to seed as many women as possible and evey woman inner most desire is to get seed by as many men as possible (that why they behave like a whore when totally immerse in sex).
This is just my personal point of view, I apologise if any fellow samsters esp ladies samsters find it offensive.
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But of cos...if she keep on doing that on you...maybe something wrong with you?
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well, it happened to me.... didnt want to lose her, end up got back together and she promised not to do it again.... recently she cheat on me again on the same guy. i choose to act blur as i really love her too much to leave her. bros out there might be thinking i have no backbone or the "pride" of a man. but trust me when it really happened to any individuals out there who love their wife as much as me, you might just do the same
Sometimes things happen for reason beyond our understanding. Therefore accepting and making the best of it. Nothing will change if no one is willing to change. Hang on to the stubborn and suffer alone. Or adapt and accept, no need to know every damn reason is key.
Ego or no ego does not make u a better man, or make her dont cheat. So just enjoy
My wife was a little surprise when i was not angry. Instead i just smile at her, hiding my excitement, and told her if that is the case what she is going to do about it.
bro, can show her pic first before you carry on with your story ?
if she is a hippo then i better remove my tent immediately