Need advice with girl-friend. Please help.

[RealEstateGuy]

You did the right thing young Braddah. But over the next few times you need to be more alpha and just remove her clothing for her. OF course this is with her permission but you need to be more romantic and suave about your moves.

[hotstuffm8]

trolololol

[JohnG12]

Originally Posted by hotstuffm8

To TS bro, from the way you're saying it, you do have a chance. No lady will allow you to get to even first base if she doesn't fancy you the teeniest bit. You have to MAN-UP and work out a confession soon.

So what if she has a bf? All is fair in love and war

Good Luck!

I DID HAD alot of chances. Especially when we were playing tickling on the bed, I was literally on top of her, my hands were under her shirt, she was biting me and what not.

I read and heard from most experienced friends that u must not fall for the girl until the other side falls for u first...confessions are for losers...and what not.

Maybe I was drilled too hard with the previous.

Really confused man. I have some feedback from other female "sister" friends that she's always like that with other guys. Not sure if I'm thinking too much too.

I asked her before why she likes to stick around me, she turned towards me, kind of snapped back and said I am thinking too much, then turned her back towards me. We were chatting on my bed then.

Totally feeling like a boy yapping for a response.

[sane]

Originally Posted by JohnG12

Totally feeling like a boy yapping for a response.

It's only sex that u r after right? What's next if after getting what u wan fr her

If she's not that sort of easy gal n geninuely treat u as a good friend, don't take advantage of the friendship n hurt her feelings.

[JohnG12]

I started a talk with her last night, asking her how she felt about me.

She asked what kind of answer I wanted, and I felt she's not willing to say anything. So I went ahead and told her I thought she had something for me. Again she said I was thinking too much.

We talked further...she asking me why she is giving me the wrong idea...saying that I indeed crossed some lines...

I felt she dropped subtle hints. When I told her maybe she's like that and tend to pose / get close with her friends, she replied saying she did not take close photos with anyone else. But at that moment I did not pick this up, she implying that she'll only take close photos with me.

All in all, I apologised to her for my behaviour and just asked her what questions she want to let out. We chatted more, then we promised to keep this to ourselves, and I left.

Right now I can feel that she's not sticking as close as before. No more physical contact. So maybe I was indeed thinking too much.

But I can't help but think about those moments we had. Tickling each other's thighs, her allowing me to rest my hand on her legs while we talked, resting her shoulder and arm on my leg, holding my hands while passing through crowded areas, standing close to me with her chest in contact with my arm, she brushing my hair, feeling each other faces.

I still felt that she had something for me.

Maybe if I could have just said I liked her, and asked how she felt. Instead of straightaway asking her how she felt, making her feel she's making the confession instead.

Yes, I was thinking about having sex with her. She had a great figure and pretty as well. Maybe if I had just said I liked her, things might have went differently.

Having great regrets now, should have just really man-up and tell her I liked her.

We are still msg'ing each other btw...