Friendship not Sex

[wolflust]

Bro I see your case where your ex wife controls who you talk to and stuff.

I see my friends once they got a girlfriend they start to lose communication with their friends. And mind you only girlfriend not even wife. But when things go downhill who they go to? Friends, buddies, bros.

Sorry to say this but your case serves as a reminder to all of us here. Never to lose friendship because surprisingly friendship tend to last longer than relationships.

You have a new life and as I see it a successful career. Seek out your old friends I'm sure have a few old ones before getting married and they will still welcome you. Make new ones also.

Friends will be friends.

[Deesiaokia]

TS.. I also same situation as u.. I known my wife for 6 years before I marry her 3 years ago n divoce 1 year later.. After divorce I m been make to pay 3k maintenance for her n my child .. That time I think I tio gong Tao Liao go n agreed to that 3k maintenance plus ownership of the house..now sibei regret trying to fight that case again..

During that period of time together with her, I basically go home after work no clubbing no happening... No friends cos I can't go cheong without her.. Cant even bio char bo when we go out.. After divoce life change for me..l was intro to sbf by my cousin, I was so amaze that I can make friends here.. Tcss n share share information, read stories wrote by the samsters here, look see look see pictures post by our brothers here.. All the happening kang Taos which I missed out for the past 9 years when with her..

Brother remember that once u r in this forum u r not alone.. Now basically I cheong whenever my friends Jio.. Only Sunday I will stop cos is the day when I see my baby...

TS , life is short play hard, enjoy ...

[stone08]

Gotta to warn unmarried bros that married can be prison...
Gotta pay monthly penalty for freedom..
*sighs* never imagine this kind of *no-life*

[feral888]

3 words for TS. Choice, Priority and Balance.

Get them right and you will find a better tomorrow.

[freezetheDB]

take care bro TS
just remember Raw is War

chiong with your armour

[Admiral]

Surely you must be bothered by it to even share about it in the first place. To day that you are not sad over it I'd just comforting yourself

[36F-23-36]

Aiya.. think u too busy to keep your wife company so that she dun feel loved..

Nowadays who can believe in anyone?

Most of my ex bf cheated also..

Realised that man just can't reject any girls along the way, can't b satisfied with one gal at all.

Dun waste your youth, should find more gf now bah.

[sgjoey]

Originally Posted by 36F-23-36

Aiya.. think u too busy to keep your wife company so that she dun feel loved..

Nowadays who can believe in anyone?

Most of my ex bf cheated also..

Realised that man just can't reject any girls along the way, can't b satisfied with one gal at all.

Dun waste your youth, should find more gf now bah.

You are right to realise that men have the tendency to seek out more than one sex partner.

The interesting question is whether women have this tendency too. Most people may not think so, but they may be wrong.There is evidence to show that in the right circumstances, women are as likely as men to want more than one sex partner.

[36F-23-36]

If the women is sexually deprived. Maybe..

[Kenzaro]

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Re: Friendship not Sex
Aiya.. think u too busy to keep your wife company so that she dun feel loved..

Nowadays who can believe in anyone?

Most of my ex bf cheated also..

Realised that man just can't reject any girls along the way, can't b satisfied with one gal at all.

Dun waste your youth, should find more gf now bah.
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Yeah I think my post is getting through to many guys.

A - Treasure you friends don't let your wife/GF take over, it's not their right!

B - I felt angry more then sad wasting so much of my time and effort when I could have bang so many more women. Speaking of witch my score is damn pathetic sia

C - If you're whole life is about your wife you lose communication skills. Hard for me to make friends or even talk to people now....

[Kenzaro]

After our 2nd baby we stop having sex already lol! I think like 6 - 7 years I stop touching her.

I did suggest fun stuff but didn't end well.

I wonder if it's still working....

[simonthetiny]

It's sad to hear this after 12 years of marriage. Not easy to be together for 12 years. Be positive and u two may get together later.

Anyway, enjoy ur new life live to the max. Do have bro who had similar condition like u, work days and nights for family and found out this was not the girl looking for. Life just about balance, maybe i should say.

[jamesrockwell]

i'm still single and by reading this thread, i'm really worried whether my future wife will be like this (if i ever get married)

Bros that having such problem, you guys managed to solve the problem by making her have interest again or you guys just decided to cheong outside?

Btw, my sincere sorry to hear those....hope you guys able to solve the issue soon...

[callmebad]

thanks for sharing your experience with us

definitely you will feel angry,or hurt,or maybe sad
this is normal, but don't let these unhappy feelings stick to you

I'm a divorcee also, but I was the one who initiated the break

Problem with most Singaporean guys is we're so easily been controlled by women that even Goh Chok Tong said Singaporean men kia si (scare died), kia bo (scare wife),kia cheng hu (scared government)

tell you what, one particular thing I hate most, is a woman, who likes to check on you with frequent phone calls (when you're not with her), pretending to chit chat with you, but actually try to know what you're doing,if she is not calling you,she will get the kids to call you

many guys make the mistake of cutting off contacts with guy friends, out of the so-called 'respect' for the wife/gf

we should not do that, this world is not just you and your woman

as guys, we really must keep in touch with others, so maybe one fine day, the guy friends may have good lobangs for you (good money-making ideas)

if you break contact, you will miss out the lobangs

glue to each other day-and-night like chewing gum is not going to make you better, if you stay the same, women may eventually look down on you and say you're a loser

sometimes also must not be too nice or obedient to women, they won't appreciate this,they will say you have no ideas of your own, you're indecisive

sometimes must be 'bad' , disobey them, stand your ground and they will say you look manly

that's why you hear this saying - if men is not 'bad', women will not marry you

most Singaporean men can't hold the ground, give way to the women easily and end up being jeered by them

just the harsh fact I learn from life with women

[Deesiaokia]

Originally Posted by 36F-23-36

Aiya.. think u too busy to keep your wife company so that she dun feel loved..

Nowadays who can believe in anyone?

Most of my ex bf cheated also..

Realised that man just can't reject any girls along the way, can't b satisfied with one gal at all.

Dun waste your youth, should find more gf now bah.

Aiya sister.. Man(Me) no cheat leh... Only time I cheat is during exam time...