I am finally bitten... I have STD.. please read

[file69]

While my heart goes out to bro vamp, I think that everyone who participates in these activities know the dangers and risk. So if you were not willing to risk it, why do it in the first place? If you can play with fire, must be able to handle it. Take it like a MAN!

[lesnar]

To All Brothers.....read My Signature.......

Raw Is War.....

[nuoyah]

Originally Posted by vampire

Anyway, no vested interest, I think I got my STD from this gal from WH14. I thought that these gals are legal, have checkups and should be safer. But if you do a simple maths sum to see how many customers they see every 2 weeks, the virus will still hit you regardless whether they have check up or not! BTW, I wore a condom......

A working lady, IMHO, is a walking time bomb that can detonate on any man, unfortunate soul who happens to be at the wrong place at the right time. It is not easy for us to appreciate what bro Vampire is experiencing since he is on the receiving end. However, I am sure that all kinds of thoughts torment him now e.g HIV, etc which he greatly regrets.

My suggestion, unpleasant it may be but necessary, is for him to face the music and break the news to his wife so that she can go for a check-up too. The STD normally resides in a woman without any visible symptoms. If bro vampire has sexual relations with his wife in future, the virus will boomerang back to him. This is not an easy task I know.....but if you had the balls to go bonking... then I think you should have the courage to face up to it. While this will come as a shock to your wife, she may appreciate your honesty. Since you dared to cheong, then you should have anticipated the day of reckoning.

I agree with one bro that you might have gotten it through BBBJ if you indeed wore a condom during the FJ. While I do not often post in this forum, I have often urged bros who cheong fearlessly to think with their big head and not the little one. BBBJ is not safe. Wear a rubber for both BJ and FJ always. This way, you are likely to sleep better at night. Cheong safely and you get to cheong a long time.

If bro vampire needs support on this matter, he is welcomed to pm me.

[longthickrod76]

Brudder nuoyah is absolutely right!

Always use a condom, even if it's for bj...

However, her saliva dripping down to the base of your didi which is not covered can also give you std. AR oso can give your std at the ass area. Same goes for licking your balls etc...

Some stds like herpes can be passed on through skin to skin contact alone. So theoretically speaking, even a hj is dangerous!

Of course, these warnings will go unheeded as usual. Including myself (I have been cheonging too I confess but always with cap).

Thanks for yor advise Bro, I'm like you kana some shit and
doc say it's STD, could have been AIDS and sure to die,
it's just not worth it, still remember the old chinese saying
on top of lust is a knife, never ever say I won't kana.

As for Bro Vampire, get well soon and stay clean.

[wat2woopee]

[QUOTE=vampire]

Sorry to hear that u got hit........
Juz sharing a buddy of mine got hit too recently, same case different people, got BBBJ then cap up for ride, kena jackpot because go back home serviced O.C. then found out kena STD, double wammy as O.C. issued "Death warrant"
on marriage.
GOOD LUCK TO ALL BBBJ LOVERS, ONLY ONE O FROM GOD & GOOD......

[bongster]

Bro.. relac... if it is gonorhhea or syphilis not too bad, just get some antibiotics eat 1 week can liao... if I not wrong normal antibiotics like doxylcicline and emrthoymicn good enuff... dun kanna HIV can liao!!

[Diametos]

Originally Posted by vampire

I have always known the dangers of cheonging, but I also My thread goes out to those who have families and girlfriends. For it is the social issues that will ultimately affect your future lifestyle. Can you face a divorce or a break up? Or worse still, if you have AIDS, how will your dependents manage if future?

Think twice, thrice......

All the best, I just hope I can bring back some brothers to the "shore" before its too late.

I'm sorry to hear that Bro...(Give Bro Vamp a light pat on his shoulders)
I thank you for your kind reminder and hope you will get well soon.
Try to slp well ok... U need a confident body to be well again.
Stay real clean in the mean time.
Cheers.

[dennisma]

[QUOTE=vampire]I have always known the dangers of cheonging, but I also acknowledge the fact that we men have desires sometimes. This forum is where I started my "adventure" into the sex industry in singapore. With more information at hand, I ventured into paid sex. After awhile, it can really be a addictive thing. CAT150, CAT40, chinese mei mei.. you name it, I have done it.


Thank Bro for the reminder ,but for the highlighted words that u siad ......i think we bros here oso know and still will go to cheong .Is that all of us must wear cap at all times .Kanna normal STD nevermind cos this is the price we have to pay for cheonging but DON't Kanna AIDS can liao .

SO BROS OUT THERE : WEAR CAP AT ALL TIMES AND PRAY

PEACE

[JBCheongster]

Well, I supposed all of us know the risks involved with this type of promiscuous lifestyle that we choose to live. However, no protection is 100% safe and in the moment of sheer fun, we may lose track of the "safety". Nevertheless, if you are prepared to continue to lead such lifestyle, you just hv to pray hard and take the so called necessary protection. We may refuse to believe that one day we may be hit but we will never know, it's all a matter of luck.
I do concur, however, that the only way to remain "safer" is to remain loyal to one partner but again all guys are typical, at least 99%, they will hv more than one. Enjoy the bonking but also face the consequences, if any.
cheers.

[LifeCreator]

I am sorry to hear that bro..... i'm agree with you, we should remain faithful to the one we love, the pain of getting STD is not on our body, but in our heart.... which might transmit to the one we love.... to all the bro here, please play safe with condom.....

For bro vampire, wish you get well soon.....

[vampire]

Thanks for all the kind words.

First of all, there is a clarification. I did not mention that I have had a BBBJ. I went on the safer option of not having a BBBJ since I know that it can be dangerous as well. I did it even for CAT150, who usually give BBBJ. So my point is that BJ is not safe also.

Another thing I realised is that alot of brothers here say that as long as its not AIDs, its alright. So my question to you is "Are you really ready to face the fact if you have AIDs?" That means a death sentence literally with an execution sometime soon, or a few years down the road.

Once again, I urge all family men to rethink their actions prior to engaging in this potentially dangerous game. You have more consequences to face even if it is just a curable STD.

As for single brothers out there, I am by no means stopping you. You weigh the risks involved.

I have taken some medicine precribed and hope that I will recover soon and get on with a normal life again.

Cheers.

[reacher]

the risk of bbbj should be quite low rite??

[nuoyah]

Originally Posted by vampire

Another thing I realised is that alot of brothers here say that as long as its not AIDs, its alright. So my question to you is "Are you really ready to face the fact if you have AIDs?"

Hear hear !! Although curable....we should not take STDs too lightly. I wonder if bros have consider the trauma of breaking the news to your spouse, which is no small matter.

For your info, a doctor friend of mine told me that a person infected with STD has a 15% probability of also contracting HIV virus from the donor. I dunno about you but this looks like a pretty big risk to me. KNN the bank only pays me 2% on my savings and to make 10% on the stock exchange these days is tough. Frankly I would happily listen to anyone who has a good plan that provides 15% ROI.

He also told me that the MOH monitors the index of STD cases and invariably, the number of HIV cases goes up when there are more reported STD cases.

Here's a bummer - after recovering from an STD, it is likely that your little bro will not perform to its full expectations - notwithstanding age. As such, senior bros may get hit with a double whammy and experience a less vigorous sex life.

As always my advice to all is: cheong safely & you get to cheong a long time.

[wat2woopee]

Originally Posted by reacher

the risk of bbbj should be quite low rite??

Brudder,

If risk is low, why the government spend money printing posters to asks cheongsters to cap up for BJ? DSC people also love BBBJ like us too, but if you ask them, they will tell u to cap up. A BJ is all it takes for a infected person to pass it to you. TRUST ME