[Serious] Feeling depressed and useless now.

[Ichigowaffles]

Get yourself involved in sports probably quit sbf...
U r seriously young.

[sgm91]

bro dun worry too much. i started reading this forum when i was still 17, in jc2 like 2 months before my a levels. i got 1 fl's ctc from a bro and met her at bugis 81. i met her outside then went in to try and book a room. however, as my 18th birthday was exactly a week away, they refused to allow me to book a room. feeling super paiseh i went out to tell the fl and offered to still pay her. she rejected my money and asked me to eat dinner with her instead. she even went to 7-11 to buy a drink for each of us. after eating she say still got 1 hour before she needed to meet another bro at bugis 81 so we went to some staircase smoke and talk cock. she said she liked me alot even though i was 3 years younger than her and started to hug and kiss me. feeling quite attracted to her i reciprocated and we started feeling each other up. she gave me a bbbj and after awhile i cim. when it was over we got dressed and i tried to pay her again. once more, she refused and asked me to find her next week when i was 18 and could book a hotel room. a few days after my 18th birthday i tried to call her again and arrange to meet her but to no avail. i found out from the bro who gave me her ctc that she had lost her phone and not only that she had received news that some of her family members had been killed in an earthquake and would be returning to china. feeling sad that i would not be able to meet her again i decided to concentrate on my studies since there was a little over a month left to A levels. I did quite well and got accepted to NUS,NTU and SMU. Shall not say which i will be going to next august after i ORD next month.

Actually i say so much i just wanna say concentrate on your studies first. dont let your desire to have sex ruin your future. I also didnt have a serious relationship until jc1 when i met this wonderful girl and we lost our virginity to each other after dating for about 3 months. We broke up after mid year exams in jc2 and i got rather depressed and moped around feeling sad until i chanced upon this forum in august.

Finishing sec sch a virgin is okay la. nothing to be sad about. if u really want to lose your virginity try starting a relationship with a classmate after o levels over and they're feeling happy lo. noticed you didnt really say ur a virgin. anw if you are, my advice is to lose ur virginity to someone special la not a fl.

Kay la i think i type quite long alr, probably one of the longest things i've typed since entering ns and just letting my brain rot.. good luck with your 'O's and ur life

[zveron]

Depression is a serious thing. If you are contemplating suicide or have recurring thoughts about being useless, please seek help immediately, via school, clinic or call 1800- 221 4444 or visit http://samaritans.org.sg/ or 1800 838 0100 for FAMILY SERVICE CENTRE. Bedok reservoir do not need anymore cases.

Have a healthy body helps both in the mind and also in attracting potential mate, a well tone body with a nice abs can do wonder. (to your self confident since your are have neither career nor credential).

It is ok to fantasize, but you need to be a able to separate it from reality. Most of the porn material is staged, and no every female will just drop and give you a bj at a wimp.

Man can function till the day they drop, so that's a long way ahead for you. If you are successful in life, you may just turn your fantasy to reality!!

[devilborne87]

Relax dude...heed the advices of the uncles and older brothers around here....
You are 16.....so what u can engage in sex activities with same age girls...can u handle the shit like breaking up, unwanted pregnancy and etc....

Just enjoy your teenager life...i believe it is one of the best time of your life....Just study and have fun.....

[goodpartner]

Originally Posted by ferragamo

U are an example of a genuine problem the Internet is creating among human beings

At 16 you are surfing forums about orgies, no doubt watching anal sex on porn tube etc..

You and many in your generation are growing up with a warped sense of sexuality

Instead of worrying about your o levels , you are in fact fretting that your sex life is boring at 16???? What do you expect? The canteen drinks aunty to feel horny, and suck your cock after school?

I really worry what the future holds for our young. And you are a bleak depiction of it.

See my English can be as powerful also because last time at 16 after I masturbate , I went back to my 10 year series workbook instead of worrying if I can have a 3some with my teacher and principal

This is the best reply IMHO.

While many, perhaps including the website owner, may argue that with the internet these kiddies can still land up in other porn sites, the fact that this is the most popular "adult" website (high search engine ranking) nowadays means that it can also help to channel these under-aged traffics to appropriate sub-forums (maybe Sexual Health) and AT LEAST lock them out of the "Adult Discussion of Sex", Gambling, FL-Dome, Geylang sub-forums. OR better still, have another sub-forum for under-age sex discussion stuffs where topics of more helpful/educational nature be consolidated.

Sure, there are no fool-proof way to filter out the real kids, but for goodness sake, at least (for a start) print it out loud during registration that under-age is NOT ALLOWED to register. Currently, there's no age limit, even a 13yo can register "given consent of a guardian".....

With power (traffic), comes responsibility...

It sucks to know that this issue is simply being ignored; ironic that it's always mentioned how this site "help" to educate us about sexual health issues & not to engage FL at heart, BUT not doing anything about this. SBF has evolved over the years, and something ought to be looked into & policies be reviewed.

[justwanadoit]

i can only advise u 1 thing: GA GA LAI!

[biozaogeng]

TS, if what you're saying is true don't be a dumb fuck.

lol, everyday come here read story HOPE YOU FAIL YOUR O LEVEL. then next time no job, can only PCC at home.

PLEASE LAR DEH... u want women? STUDY HARD. after your o levels go RJC, then get a scholarship to the best overseas uni you can get.

after you grad, make big bucks. top bankers can take home SGD1 mil at an associate level. you study hard now, pcc less, next time you can retire when you 35 and fuck your whole life away.

then you can write your story about fucking ass models.

kthnxbye.

[zeusfist]

TS: Concentrate on ur education first. U have loads of time for other extra activities later in ur life.

I don't know for most bro. but when i was 16, (even though i din't score that well for my O) but i have having the more innocent fun (like going out with friends n grp, chalet, window shopping, chilling out etc...)

The adult version fun only sinked in after i start working. Stressful job, so HC to destress.

And mind you, these place is not cheap ar.. hahahahahahahahaha

So, relax lil bro. u have a long life ahead of ya But studies first k?

[RealEstateGuy]

Originally Posted by Depressedboi

hi. i hope no one will flame me for this, but i'm going to start by admitting that i'm not old enough to be in this forum. yes, im only 16. i somehow decided to start reading this forum to de-stress for O Levels (It's almost over). i find that the bros here seem to be nice people to confide in. i hope you guys can give me advice over this issue i'm harping on about.

first, i'm going to do some introduction about my life. i'm just an average 16-year-old kid in the streets. however, nobody, not even my friends seem to understand what kind of mental tug-of-war is constantly going on in my mind.

i'm very horny, sometimes to the point that i feel helpless. i need to "relive myself" quite often, usually once a day. whenever i see an attractive girl, blood would just rush through my body and accumulate down there. i accept that this is part of growing up.

my main problem is that after reading some stories about some of the bro's young sex experience, like during sec sch, i am in envy and jealous at the same time. a sense of misery also overwhelms me. i just feel that i've been missing out too much. i secretly wished that i was the one who is writing these stories, if you know what i mean. i thought my sec sch life was fun, but when i read these stories, i realized i was wrong.

you see, i'm in a neighbourhood school that is above average. hence, the people there are kind of like those who "potentially can enter top schools, but still not good enough". so, the girls that are very "guai" and nerdy type, whether they're good-looking or not. i also don't get to meet a lot of new people. consequently, entering this school will ensure that my social network remains small. so i don't get to write such wonderful stories.

to conclude, i secretly wish that i had gone through the "innocent and curious couple making exploration" kind of experience. i feel my precious 4 years of sec sch life had been dull and unfulfilled. of course, underage sex is not "right", but i'm sure at that age, you wished you could experience it. since O Level is over soon, i'm supposed to feel relaxed. but instead, i'm feeling stressed and having sleepless nights instead. sigh, i don't feel like living this life. hate it. i'm at lost about what i could do to overcome this dreadful feeling.

Young braddah, you are doing fine. Don't get so down please. In actuality you are doing better than 99% of the people on this board. What you need to continue doing is focus on academics as it is your pathway to success and being a contributing member of SG society. Along the way, you will meet women, not worry young braddah. Young braddah, you need to keep in mind most of the braddahs on this board do nothing but talk cock and are bad people in SG society. Also, young braddah most of the people talking cock on SBF embellish their sexual exploitations or merely pay for sex. Young braddah, you don't want to be losers like them. Young braddah, you are on the right track. Keep focusing on academics.

[goodpartner]

Originally Posted by RealEstateGuy

In actuality you are doing better than 99% of the people on this board.
:
Also, young braddah most of the people talking cock on SBF embellish their sexual exploitations or merely pay for sex. Young braddah, you don't want to be losers like them.

So! What is YOUR animosity towards the 99% of bradday here, looking for and discussing commercial sex in a commercial sex forum??!

Originally Posted by RealEstateGuy

Braddah, what's with you animosity animosity?

Or are u gonna say u're also just having fun here?

[yang punk]

Hi Db

Don't think you are exceptional. Most guys your age and situation can only pcc and fantasize...some even more than twice a day to get rid of that horny energy! The story tellers here are more the exception than the rule and often with a heavy doze of ego boosting embellishments.

Nobody like a loser especially girls. You may not be a looker but if you can score with your grades you can also score with the girls. How often do you see ugly short-ass dumplings with model-like damsels clinging onto them? Yes money and success make the world go round. So if you don't do well now in your Os you may not even be able to afford a third world foreign bride in the future.

I think most uncles here have the same advice for you but maybe in different words!

[RealEstateGuy]

Originally Posted by goodpartner

So! What is YOUR animosity towards the 99% of bradday here, looking for and discussing commercial sex in a commercial sex forum??!



Or are u gonna say u're also just having fun here?

Bradddah, I'm trying to help young braddah. Braddah please don't interlope. Braddah, I and you and all the braddahs have an obligation to do good and make good things happen in SG society. Braddah, it so happens that vice is not a good thing. Sex is a good thing but not GL KTV lewd public sex, sex in car, sex by coercion and deception, sex by economic leverage, infidelity, etc. that a lot of braddahs talk about, brag about, etc. Braddah its just not wholesome SG society.

[goodpartner]

Originally Posted by RealEstateGuy

that a lot of braddahs talk about, brag about, etc.

Braddude, you're akin to preaching Christianity in a Muslim gathering, waiting to be ridicule.

Originally Posted by RealEstateGuy

Braddah its just not wholesome SG society.

For as long as you ALSO push the notion of having a maid as a FB to be more "norm" than the average commercial sexual acts here, your preaching above will only sound like taunt.

If your intention is really that good, go start another nick with that "righteous" agenda MINUS the flaunting of maid FB. This world is just so realistic, if you wanna act like a priest, you gotta behave, act and communicate like one.

[master]

Agree. Internet has allow easy access to porn for under age teenagers too easily. Unlike during my time a porn magazine is very good and circulate among my friends and classmates. And a blue film is like an event which we need to organise to go to one's house to watch together.

For your info TS, I lost my virginity when I was 17 years old, after my O levels, before I went to poly. So just concentrate on your O levels 1st. You will have plenty of opportunity after that.

[electricdreams]

Dear Friend,

I hope you understand that you need to first learn how to deal with your emotions.

When you say "i'm very horny, sometimes to the point that i feel helpless. i need to "relive myself" quite often, usually once a day. whenever i see an attractive girl, blood would just rush through my body and accumulate down there. i accept that this is part of growing up" - Don't ever allow this to be an excuse for you to treat it as part of growing up. The fact that even grown-ups and older men get blood rush when they see sexy girls is part of the men's psychological make-up, so this is not merely a teenage issue.

As much as I try to understand you, I hope you understand that there is nothing "gratifying" about exciting sex stories if you are treating it as form of comparison to your cravings. Do not feel helpless or dreadful about yourself - take control over your emotions if you want to have a pleasant experience about sex.

If you are to think about your less-fortunate peers in the nearby countries, teenages of your age, count yourself to be fortunate to be a little "sexless" than the sex-starved ones. So, think in the right perspective of things and do not fixate your life in a small area that cripples you from looking beyond.

Hope you feel better with some perspective to things.

Cheers.