Opened the room door to find that the FL is your cousin?

[peanut123]

Originally Posted by RealEstateGuy

You were shocked and embarrased but you still accepted a full body sensual massage? This encounter highlights exccess materialism and excess indulgence in prepaid sex in SG society today. These are not traditional SG values on display. Sadly we as SGeans are losing our grip on what is proper.

I agree with your thoughts that this "highlights excess materialism and excess indulgence", but not just in commercial sex (BTW, FLs are usually post-paid sex, not prepaid. You pay after the FJ), but in every day life.

Secondly, I would argue these ARE traditional Sg values. It's materialism and indulgence that drives our capitalist society, and that's why our Gov dives headlong into increasing GDP at all costs. That is also the driving force behind our rampant consumerism, with Singaporeans buying up everything from expensive condos to pricey gadgets to hot chicks, sometimes beyond their means.

[peanut123]

I would probably screw her, although with some reservations. But heck, it's not everyday that you get to screw a cousin.

As long as it's not incest, I think I would go ahead. It will be our little secret, and no one has to know you fucked her. Afterall, she massaged you in the nude, so she has already touched you all over and you have seen her naked. Might as well finish the job.

[BiRd13]

agreed with bro peanut123... I think I will oso screw her, as long as not 'incest'...

I do encounter one situation same as TS... Just that is 'incest' (Father's brother's daughter...) hence did not screw her... Just chit chatting... and managed to change her not into FL business...

[poto]

I would have bonked her heheh... Then again, none of my cousins can make it...

[EtherC]

Hence my practice of not touching local FLs. SG is really a very small place. I'd rather avoid complications like this. Not worth the potential trouble.

[2centsworth]

Just curious. Some questions and thoughts on your interesting situation.

1. How much did you pay her? You said it's an expensive massage but how expensive is she? 18 year old local fl... can't be that cheap.

2. When you said massaged in the nude, what does it mean? Only she's naked, only you are naked or both naked? If both naked, it's does feel a bit strange for me for it's neither here not there. I mean, most of us will either reject the idea or intimacy with a cousin or go all the way. If both naked, it seems like you want something but always got to keep a control on the lust. Very difficult for you I suppose.

3. Please remember to use the peep hole for future situations. Take a peep before you open your door. For the next time, instead of being your cousin, it could be Sherine barging her way in.

4. For me, if I wanted her to stop, I would have 'threatened' her. I would have told her that if she doesn't stop being a FL, I will tell her parents that she's FL. She can tell my parents that I visit FLs too. See who suffer more. Maybe she will be so spooked she will stop. After all, she doesn't really need the money to survive, just needed money for life's luxuries. Then hint to her (make up stories) that your other cousins or even her brothers visit FLs too, if she later run into them as well, how? Play on her mind a bit, she will be so scared she will quit.

[halcyon77]

this is a really interesting topic for discussion. we can have debates all day on this =)

personally, never came across this before but went to ktvs such as BS, QG several times, engaging in all sorts of lewd acts in the room. bumped into colleagues, friends and my cousin at those joints.

guess this is why my teacher friends are very careful when they cheong in Singapore. dont want to be bumping into former students tempted to the dark side.

for my part, i would love to bonk former colleagues / former schoolmates / friends that i have fantasies. sadly, i dont think the fantasies are reciprocal.

back to TS' question, if i were to book a FL that happened to be my cousin (maternal side), i think i would still bonk her. just as if i were to go to a ktv and find my cousin is working there, i would ask her to sit with me and hope she engages in lewd acts with me =)

hope bros dont flame me for being forthright here.

[MKKG]

Originally Posted by RealEstateGuy

These are not traditional SG values on display. Sadly we as SGeans are losing our grip on what is proper.

Isn't it amazing that George Carlin - comedian of the 70's and 80's - could write something so very eloquent...and so very appropriate.

A Message by George Carlin:

The paradox of our time in history is that we have taller buildings but shorter tempers, wider Freeways , but narrower viewpoints. We spend more, but have less, we buy more, but enjoy less. We have bigger houses and smaller families, more conveniences, but less time. We have more degrees but less sense, more knowledge, but less judgment, more experts, yet more problems, more medicine, but less wellness.

We drink too much, smoke too much, spend too recklessly, laugh too little, drive too fast, get too angry, stay up too late, get up too tired, read too little, watch TV too much, and pray too seldom.

We have multiplied our possessions, but reduced our values. We talk too much, love too seldom, and hate too often.

We've learned how to make a living, but not a life. We've added years to life not life to years. We've been all the way to the moon and back, but have trouble crossing the street to meet a new neighbor. We conquered outer space but not inner space. We've done larger things, but not better things.

We've cleaned up the air, but polluted the soul. We've conquered the atom, but not our prejudice. We write more, but learn less. We plan more, but accomplish less. We've learned to rush, but not to wait. We build more computers to hold more information, to produce more copies than ever, but we communicate less and less.

These are the times of fast foods and slow digestion, big men and small character, steep profits and shallow relationships. These are the days of two incomes but more divorce, fancier houses, but broken homes. These are days of quick trips, disposable diapers, throwaway morality, one night stands, overweight bodies, and pills that do everything from cheer, to quiet, to kill. It is a time when there is much in the showroom window and nothing in the stockroom. A time when technology can bring this letter to you, and a time when you can choose either to share this insight, or to just hit delete...

Remember; spend some time with your loved ones, because they are not going to be around forever.

Remember, say a kind word to someone who looks up to you in awe, because that little person soon will grow up and leave your side.

Remember, to give a warm hug to the one next to you, because that is the only treasure you can give with your heart and it doesn't cost a cent.

Remember, to say, 'I love you' to your partner and your loved ones, but most of all mean it. An embrace will mend hurt when it comes from deep inside of you.

Remember to hold hands and cherish the moment for someday that person will not be there again.

Give time to love, give time to speak! And give time to share the precious thoughts in your mind.

AND ALWAYS REMEMBER:

Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away.

Cheers

[alan0338]

should have rejected leh, so expensive for a massage nia

[Taker]

Wah so heng. If i will u i will bonk her anyway u pay for the service. If you got extra spare cash why not be her agent or ask her to bee your mistress or FB

[Tualampa]

I think cousin not as bad as seeing your own daughter!

But you made the right choice of not having FJ and such, we are human after all. Thats what differentiate us from animals. Fuck with you brains hehe.

[wolfmaster]

Interesting discussion...
i presume you pay her enough for just to pay the agent right?

Honestly I would not bonk her... consider the future replications (worst if you are married)... just consider as unlucky pay her that it...

unless she is very chio & she initiated it... then different story.. hehe

[@h-BeN]

Tried a ex-sch mate before... was 1yr mine senior during secondary sch days... currently working as a insurance agent... asked her why this line, same answer - quick bucks to maintain her expensive lifestyle of chasing branded stuffs..

[TheGreatOne]

Originally Posted by @h-BeN

Tried a ex-sch mate before... was 1yr mine senior during secondary sch days... currently working as a insurance agent... asked her why this line, same answer - quick bucks to maintain her expensive lifestyle of chasing branded stuffs..

one thing i learnt is that never to ask FL why they go into this trade.

I mean, you're there for release, she's there for money. Leave it as that.

[2centsworth]

Originally Posted by @h-BeN

currently working as a insurance agent... asked her why this line, same answer - quick bucks to maintain her expensive lifestyle of chasing branded stuffs..

Bro, bad mistake. You just highlighted you got the contact of an insurance agent who is a FL. That's like a fantasy for many guys here. I think you will be receiving a lot of PMs asking for her contact soon.