She can't CUM anymore !

[SWINGER888]

hi,

u can try to enage someone to have a massage session for yr wife
i tried it just last night and it really works wonder..

it can be tantric or yoni but if yr wife is not comfortable with male u can always for for a female massage..

the massager gave my wife a massage thats makes her so horny after she left and we have a great time.

cheers

[LoveAngel]

Originally Posted by Torch_Man

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the usual contributing factors:
- STRESS (VERY HIGHLY LIKELY to be the PROBLEM)
- MOOD (link from STRESS)
- ATTENTION (link from MOOD)
- SPARKS (perhaps a candle light dinner, start from non-sexual activities first)
- LOVING CARE (are there lacking between each other????)
- PILL (BEST CONSULTED BY MEDICAL PERSONNEL)
- MANY MORE FACTORS

my advice:
do continue to shower your lifetime partner with caring, loving, concern, attentiveness, time (since marriage is a lifelong commitment, communication and understanding are an ongoing process, such as growing old together with each other, walking hand-in-hand during old age) though physical sex is a need, mental sex is equally important, such as respect, sincere, care and the list goes on......
accompany each other more frequently, share more ideas, be gentle, be sensitive towards each other's feelings.......

never jump to conclusion too quick, be patience and understanding always.....


jz sharin

What Touch Man said above is just so true ..... it's not always the physical act that takes main stage.

Actually, to be very honest, a woman need not cum during sex to enjoy the the act of lovemaking. Of course if the woman do climax, it brings along a great intensity & pleasure not just to her but the man as well. But if she doesn't, it doesn't means she doesn't enjoy sex with you. Don't take it too hard on yourself.

It's sweet to know that you'll concerned & bothered by it because some men don't care as long as their ultimate self-gratification is fulfilled.

I do not think pills will affect that much, it's probably the stress. You may wanna get her to start exploring herself again (maybe without you for a start) so that she knows how to re-ignite that fire in her. Try getting aroused together through say, reading exotic stories or watching some sexy videos ...

Don't despair k .... all the best .....

[blohsg]

LA : SPeaking from personal experience ?

[michaelrocksam]

at her age, she may be going through early menopause.

she may have to go through hormone therapy to delay the menopause.

She dun cum cos udring menopause her vagina may be dry and sex can be painful she may be keeping quiet or no idea that she is going through bodily change.

May be you have to ask her about her body symptons, your wife may be doing her wifely duties to satisfy your sexual needs but deep down inside she is suffering.

This is just my observation, still better to ask her and see a doctor at the same time.

[cancum]

Thank you very much for all your valuable solutions and suggestions. I'll bear those in mind..

Thank you once again.

Will keep u all inform of any outcome.

Cheers !!

[tomvoyeur]

Agreed with some of the posts here - It's likely to be in the mind.

[derekc]

Bro Cancum
You got pm.

cheers n have a great day.

[ikapopo]

I have one tip working for me. You must do her can feel more exiting, you and her watch the sex movie together , genre taboo alike: group sex. Example:
http://bon99.com/the-swap-2-1994/

When my girl friend angry with me, I tell her watch that movies with me, and after...she fuck me alike Horse