相爱却不能在一起

[crazytiger]

Originally Posted by jiu xing

往往人们都知道自己是走错了路，却为了某种因素，想放弃，却不甘心放手。。:d
一定得把路走到黑为止才肯放手。:d

有些時候爱情是盲目的，只是每个人的观念不同，所以我们身边的爱情才会不同。很多的时候我们自己也不知道是 否爱了，是否爱过。談戀愛時只想着怎么爱和被爱，却从来不考虑其它因素。

很多人经常问这个世界上到底有没有真爱，其实真爱就在我們心中，只要我們真心的付出，执着的追求，勇敢的牺 牲，真爱就在我們的身上发生。

爱情和情歌一样，最高境界是余音袅袅。最凄美的不是报仇雪恨，而是遗憾。最好的爱情，必然有遗憾。那遗憾化 作余音袅袅，长留心上。最凄美的爱，不必呼天抢地，只是相顾无言。失望，有时候，也是一种幸福。因为有所期 待，才会失望。遗憾，也是一种幸福。因为还有令你遗憾的事情。

说句实话，放弃一个很爱你的人并不痛苦，放弃一个你很爱的人那才痛苦。有些失去是注定的，有些缘分是永远不 会有结果的，爱一个人不一定要拥有，但拥有一个人就一定要珍惜。既然緣分已走到盡頭，那么一句话，放手吧。 有一种爱就叫放手，只有放手才是一种解脱，也是一种新的开始和拥有。

爱是一种无私的付出和牺牲，爱的回报就是对方的永远快乐和幸福，如果你爱对方，那么你会因为对方快乐而快乐 ，因为对方幸福而幸福。愛情有時候不需要天长地久。

问世间、情是何物，直教生死相许

[yongzhen]

Bro, I really don't the whole story since u never really say.
But I do know that if u really love that person, u should try harder.
By giving up without trying, u sure u really love him/her?
If u really tried and no sweet ending, at least u got no regrets.
Cos u tried.

[crazytiger]

Originally Posted by yongzhen

bro, i really don't the whole story since u never really say.
But i do know that if u really love that person, u should try harder.
By giving up without trying, u sure u really love him/her?
If u really tried and no sweet ending, at least u got no regrets.
Cos u tried.

我想既然不能让你快乐那么就放手吧～让有能力给你快乐的人爱你。

[JIU XING]

Originally Posted by cablesnwires

U talking about me?

hehehe u think so meh?? more like talking about me la

[colins]

This is becoming one great whining session in chorus. So many chinese literates nowadays, dunnoe whether its true that the only one good thing we commonly derived out of such relationships with WL/FLs is the ability to speak and write our thoughts in chinese.

你们在说我吗？

[crazytiger]

Originally Posted by colins

This is becoming one great whining session in chorus. So many chinese literates nowadays, dunnoe whether its true that the only one good thing we commonly derived out of such relationships with WL/FLs is the ability to speak and write our thoughts in chinese.

你们在说我吗？

Don't you find that when we write in Chinese, there are many verses we can use. Anyway, I'm not talking about a relationship with a FL/WL, it's a gal who I met few years ago. Its a pity I can't give her any 海誓山盟 at that moment, a guy came by and so ...............

[colins]

Originally Posted by crazytiger

Don't you find that when we write in Chinese, there are many verses we can use. Anyway, I'm not talking about a relationship with a FL/WL, it's a gal who I met few years ago. Its a pity I can't give her any 海誓山盟 at that moment, a guy came by and so ...............

Oh dun get me wrong, I'm not against it. I'm not against you or anybody writing down just their thoughts either. Just that its rather negative and the only way to contribute, without knowing your story, is to whine together with you.

Take care my friend, a new girl will come back, dun close your heart so soon.

[xfishkerx]

Originally Posted by yongzhen

Bro, I really don't the whole story since u never really say.
But I do know that if u really love that person, u should try harder.
By giving up without trying, u sure u really love him/her?
If u really tried and no sweet ending, at least u got no regrets.
Cos u tried.

What if you tried and in the end, she still choose the other?
Choose to be in another r/s when she says that she still loves u and things between us never really ended yet.
But do you choose to wait for her or move on?

[crazytiger]

Originally Posted by colins

Oh dun get me wrong, I'm not against it. I'm not against you or anybody writing down just their thoughts either. Just that its rather negative and the only way to contribute, without knowing your story, is to whine together with you.

Take care my friend, a new girl will come back, dun close your heart so soon.

No worries bro, I understand. I just thought of sharing, of course my story is not as juicy as the rest cos mine ain't got much detail. Somethings are better kept in my heart for fond memories

[Strawberry]

為你《守住》了我一生的愛 、《碎》了我一生的心

[wittyguy]

Originally Posted by Strawberry

為你《守住》了我一生的愛 、《碎》了我一生的心

That is because you only use the small "head" to hear, feel and think that "你" if use big head, then the "心" will not so nfragile and easy to 《碎》

Happy tiger year !

[loster]

Originally Posted by crazytiger

No worries bro, I understand. I just thought of sharing, of course my story is not as juicy as the rest cos mine ain't got much detail. Somethings are better kept in my heart for fond memories

seems like it's a sad story. i can understand you cos i am having the same sad story

[ifucker]

Originally Posted by loster

seems like it's a sad story. i can understand you cos i am having the same sad story

The similar story happened thousands years ago, and will never end. That is why there are so many "classic" books there

Dont feel sad, you are not alone

[yongzhen]

Originally Posted by xfishkerx

What if you tried and in the end, she still choose the other?
Choose to be in another r/s when she says that she still loves u and things between us never really ended yet.
But do you choose to wait for her or move on?

If this is wat she said, give her up.
This is ending like a KC game.
If no final decision, than continue to fight if u really like her.
Or else time to move on.


Bro crazytiger, if its really few years back.
Y r u still holding on to it?
Or she hv appeared in yr life recently again?

[cablesnwires]

Originally Posted by crazytiger

Don't you find that when we write in Chinese, there are many verses we can use. Anyway, I'm not talking about a relationship with a FL/WL, it's a gal who I met few years ago. Its a pity I can't give her any 海誓山盟 at that moment, a guy came by and so ...............

Based on what you have written, it is quite obvious that you have not moved on, else your posts would be more on the happy moments together.

Without, the end, there can never be a new beginning. So bro crazytiger, let it go, and start afresh. There will be someone waiting for you.

All the best bro, and happy crazytiger new year to you.