Advise please

[ruhua]

Originally Posted by ryanlim

go back to her side and be her pii chai lor

Oh the Pii Chai job scope is here:
http://forum.sammyboy.com/showthread.php?p=891752

[2-Nights-In-Bkk]

Originally Posted by Jun|ch|

back in spore now after staying in BKK for 2 weeks...had a chance to meet up Bangkok MAster and was a very nice guy indeed...lost my job in spore and now do not know what i am going to do...

all u need to do now is.....fly back to bkk.....marry her and bring her back to spore...this will give u motivation, moral boosting etc.......is this wat u wanna hear?? this is plan 1.

plan 2 is.....find a job, forget abt her, get back a life....u decide urself.

final conclusion:

when u in spore,dun tell me she never go out with customer?? if she said no, i chop.....pls lah bro, they are after all WL leh.

optional(test water): u go bkk without $, tell her u no $ and wants to stay at her place....see wat happens??

if u follow my plan 1, plan 2, final conclusion + test water....swee liao.....u sure got the answer.

[DNAT]

Originally Posted by Jun|ch|

...lost my job in spore and now do not know what i am going to do...

just wanna say ... Women is always on a man's mind but dun let women ruin your life

Originally Posted by Jun|ch|

back in spore now after staying in BKK for 2 weeks...had a chance to meet up Bangkok MAster and was a very nice guy indeed...lost my job in spore and now do not know what i am going to do...

Jun, you have friends in Singapore? Go out with them and talk to them. Dont stay at home and be alone, you will go crazy. I am sure your friends will help you get over your problems.

[delifrance]

Hi Jun/chu

maybe one last contribution for you to consider - hunt non-WLs.....

go to different countries or Bangkok and hunt non-WLs, test every girl if they are day or night bird.

I went hunting, called one bird after getting her number about two days later, called her at 6pm, she said she just woke up and mentioned that she usually is asleep in the late afternoons....well she's not a smart WL....u know your answers.

there are other stories of WLs and non-WLs, their lives are very different from each other.

Dont just let sex soften and blur your mind about love and affection, dont just let the lady who "plays soft and under-dog" pull an illusion over your heart and mind.

there are a lot of tricks, it all depends on your guts and your intelligence. sometimes it is wise to call it a day no matter how painful it causes you because you have lost something very favourite in nature to you.

cheers...n....chill....

[Jun|ch|]

Originally Posted by ryanlim

go back to her side and be her pii chai lor

its not easy to be a pii chai with sporean's mentality...or at least my mentality...with thai's man thinking, its a norm...just another work or job

[Jun|ch|]

Anyway forget about trying to get a recommendation to a job here as I'm sure no bros here will be foolish enough to risk their reputation to recommend a guy who puts everything behind and flies off on a snap of a finger.

Also, since you said that your girl is willing to support you, why don't you just go over and be a Pii Chai, eat, sleep and fuck on her account? So I don't see any big problem.

BTW, why don't you discuss what you have done with your parents and family? I'm sure they would be very proud of what you have done. Why shouldn't they? Afterall, didn't you do the right thing?[/QUOTE]

i am not asking for a recommendation for a job here anyway...and though she may be willing to support me,i do not see myself being such a weakling to eat and sleep and fuck while she work for money...as i said...for thai man...yes they can...for me i cant...

i did not do the right thing to fly to bkk for 2weeks and abandoned everything for quite a while.i know i am wrong to do that but perhaps i will talk for my parents to bring her over to stay for me while i work to take care of her

[Jun|ch|]

Originally Posted by sex_maniac2

Jun, you have friends in Singapore? Go out with them and talk to them. Dont stay at home and be alone, you will go crazy. I am sure your friends will help you get over your problems.

thanks...currently need time alone at home to sort out my feelings and what to do next...

[Jun|ch|]

Originally Posted by john teo

Brother TV. Case closed liao!! No suan lah...
He should know wat he is doing....let the thread rest!!!

Bro Jun/ch.... u take care! Do wat u think its best. Yr destiny in yr own hand.

mai pen rai john teo...a little bit of suan from bro TV may trigger some serious tots in me...or else i may really slip deeply into the relationship without further consideration...

[ruhua]

Originally Posted by Jun|ch|

i did not do the right thing to fly to bkk for 2weeks and abandoned everything for quite a while.i know i am wrong to do that but perhaps i will talk for my parents to bring her over to stay for me while i work to take care of her

Then she will have to fly back to Thailand every 14 days. Unless she don't go out. Living expenses in Singapore is more expensive.

[Jun|ch|]

Originally Posted by ruhua

Then she will have to fly back to Thailand every 14 days. Unless she don't go out. Living expenses in Singapore is more expensive.

i can apply for her to extend her stay here in spore by going to ICA if i am not wrong...though it will be a hassle and extension subjects to few days or weeks...better than i losing my job again due to constant flying up there...since i do not wish her to work anymore...yah indeed living in spore is so much more expensive...

by the way agogo bar at Nana if girls do not go for barfine can get their monthly wages cut by 300baht per 7 barfines she do not do.Meaning a monthly pay of 8000baht will be left 5900baht...of cos without the tips and drinks included.

[ruhua]

Originally Posted by Jun|ch|

thanks...currently need time alone at home to sort out my feelings and what to do next...

Very soon you may get confused again and act impulsively when another situation arises.

[ruhua]

Originally Posted by Jun|ch|

by the way agogo bar at Nana if girls do not go for barfine can get their monthly wages cut by 300baht per 7 barfines she do not do.Meaning a monthly pay of 8000baht will be left 5900baht...of cos without the tips and drinks included.

If she is of certain 'beautiful' standard. You may temporarily 'deposit' her in the nightclubs and work as PR aka hostess. Many sponsors either do that or just give a bunch of money and ask them to stay at home. That's why all my MP gems are always gone! CCB!

[DNAT]

Originally Posted by Jun|ch|

i can apply for her to extend her stay here in spore by going to ICA if i am not wrong...though it will be a hassle and extension subjects to few days or weeks...better than i losing my job again due to constant flying up there...since i do not wish her to work anymore...yah indeed living in spore is so much more expensive...

NBzz ... sorry to say this

Now I understand why when last time that Indo gal, whom you met in the morning after you left the hotel, claimed that she flew-in from JKT and you also believe ... perhaps you duno these gals are actually either joint ceweks or FLs who come into Sg from Batam .. with or w/o syndicate.

One thing: you still very 'soft ear' till today

[DNAT]

Originally Posted by delifrance

Dont just let sex soften and blur your mind about love and affection, dont just let the lady who "plays soft and under-dog" pull an illusion over your heart and mind.

there are a lot of tricks, it all depends on your guts and your intelligence. sometimes it is wise to call it a day no matter how painful it causes you because you have lost something very favourite in nature to you.

cheers...n....chill....

I feel so regretful that I did not provide adequate guidance to Jun[ch] a year ago which might or might not casuing his present day situation.