Curious about life, culture and women in LOS

[flowbow]

Originally Posted by stillgottheblue

Don't understand what you meant by projecting yourself, care to further explain?

My interpretation of what he means is probably just that she will hurt you eventually, so protect yourself, your heart, your wallet (?)

[dyelook]

Originally Posted by flowbow

My interpretation of what he means is probably just that she will hurt you eventually, so protect yourself, your heart, your wallet (?)

at last, someone who understands what simple me writes... thanks god

[mackewell]

Originally Posted by dyelook

at last, someone who understands what simple me writes... thanks god

Regardless of any girl u meet, dun be a robert! This is why i will never settle for gals who are either too smart in paper or possess a big status in the society....

[dyelook]

Originally Posted by mackewell

Regardless of any girl u meet, dun be a robert! This is why i will never settle for gals who are either too smart in paper or possess a big status in the society....

robert or no robert is what you think of yourself.. another thing about LOS is the girls there take very good care of their family and they'll do everything just to get whatever their family needs.. do be PREPARE financially and mentally if you really wanna join their culture.. chok dee..

[Nonteerak2553]

Originally Posted by mackewell

Regardless of any girl u meet, dun be a robert! This is why i will never settle for gals who are either too smart in paper or possess a big status in the society....

I think it's better to get girl who are at your level, in terms of money and education.

[mackewell]

Originally Posted by dyelook

robert or no robert is what you think of yourself.. another thing about LOS is the girls there take very good care of their family and they'll do everything just to get whatever their family needs.. do be PREPARE financially and mentally if you really wanna join their culture.. chok dee..

Bro, you sound robert liao. First you say protect yourself, dont anihow spend. Now, u seem to lavish praise on her virtuous mentality and 'do not mind' to give her the money to spend? lol i abit blur liao.... Are you throwing money down the drain and still thinking its right to do so? i am not saying that you cant do this, but as a man, be decisive abit or else you cant complain getting Chope! lol....

Btw, its easy to find girls who can spend alot of your money and take care of your family, not only from LOS. That is very common mah. That is why things get complicated so easily in BGR cos more than 80 percent of the time, money talks lol....

I want the rare treatment, Down to earth and simple and dont anihow spend your money kind of gal! Somemore shes good in bed but she only let you bonk nia cos she is not so open to any male friends.

I can tell you out of 10 girls in this modern society, not even one possessed any traits i mentioned above lol..... This is why i wont settle down lah hahahahaha.....

Oh ya if you are that hardworking guy that die die dun wanna give up and just wanna jio this SYT to be your wife, then money comes into the picture. Cos you love her more than she love you(she can just leave you lah.) But if you meet this decent and normal girl who happens to love you more than you love her, then chances are you can leave her first and she is with you more for non monetary reasons(DAMN, if this is a MCQ question , i sure Shade this Answer!) Of course, i am not saying we men can be an irresponsible bastard and cheat for the wrong reasons cos you choose MCQ ANS B like me!)

In life, SYT is not everything in the world and you dont make her your wife cos she is hot or pretty or it boost your ego to a certain extent, if you talk about girlfriend, flings or Fuck buddies, of cos take hotties right? lol.....)

[stillgottheblue]

What dyelook says about LOS girls and their family is true. You have to take this into consideration. In any relationship, it's not only about 2 person. There are immediate family members getting involved sooner or later, so be prepared hor. Set your expectations right.

Also money don't always come first in BGR. There are other factors too, maybe your money first mentality is the stumbling block to you.

[stillgottheblue]

Hahaha, me was drinking while reading your post, you wrote "PROTECT" but I mis- read as "PROJECT". What a difference when "T" became "J".

Originally Posted by mackewell

Regardless of any girl u meet, dun be a robert! This is why i will never settle for gals who are either too smart in paper or possess a big status in the society....

[mackewell]

Originally Posted by stillgottheblue

Hahaha, me was drinking while reading your post, you wrote "PROTECT" but I mis- read as "PROJECT". What a difference when "T" became "J".

Er... i am not the one that wrote protect bro? u still drinking ah? hahaahahaha, and i was refering to dye's post lol....

[Jessie]

just my 2 satang worth to TS.

when the money stops, the music stops. from then on, you will find out which lady uses her heart instead of her calculator.

in SG, we compete with 5.5 million people now, when you are in bangkok or other big cities, you will compete with easily 8 million people. how are you going to stand out in such competition while earning a decent salary comparable to Singapore?

Thai ladies who are generally well brought up will also take their time to access a man. how to get past this stage when you are
1. Late 20s
2. Dont speak Thai
3. Income level unknown
4. No house or work in Thailand
The decent ladies also have their own criteria for choosing...unless u are getting WLs....

[mackewell]

Originally Posted by Jessie

just my 2 satang worth to TS.

when the money stops, the music stops. from then on, you will find out which lady uses her heart instead of her calculator.

in SG, we compete with 5.5 million people now, when you are in bangkok or other big cities, you will compete with easily 8 million people. how are you going to stand out in such competition while earning a decent salary comparable to Singapore?

Thai ladies who are generally well brought up will also take their time to access a man. how to get past this stage when you are
1. Late 20s
2. Dont speak Thai
3. Income level unknown
4. No house or work in Thailand
The decent ladies also have their own criteria for choosing...unless u are getting WLs....

True tts why must rian puut thai(learn speak thai)! and then cohabit wif ur thai girlfriend in a rented service apartment when u saved up after 20 years, then i get married at that time when i 50 years old lol..... For me, i am game for low budget and simple life. Problem is i may never find that chick who fits my criteria hahahhaah....

[stillgottheblue]

The number of Thai who can speak either Chinese, Hokkien, Teochew or even Malay is not small. I communicate with my Thai friends in English. I meant language barrier can be overcame easily. I also had the impression that Thai gers don't like cohabit.

[astreal69]

I am in a relationship with my Thai GF for a long time. We are both financially stable and we are staying together. Does my gf cheat on me? Not that i know of. Do i want to find out? No..... Ignorance is bliss. Would i break up with her if i find out? Yes.... of cos, i am not an idiot. Would i be with her forever? Only god knows. To me, enjoy the journey and focus less on the destination. It applies the same to any girls around in the world.

I have so many friends who are happily married with their Thai wives and like any other Singaporean women, they are working in an MNC in Singapore helping to contribute to raise a family.

All thoes people who who complain about Thai women being Gold diggers, unfaithful and etc etc... are just like all the whiners in the world. Don't blame just her, you have a part to play in your poor judgement. Thoes who find a thai gf in places like Thai Disco, agogo, g-club etc etc, it's like playing with fire and complain you got burn. Any relationship starting with money transaction is a business arrangement, to keep business relations good, money is key, if there is no money, then obviously the relations cease to becomes pointless.

Not all Thai women worked in the night industry, not all women who worked in the night industry are bad. Same goes with not all women who work in the office are good women.
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[dyelook]

Originally Posted by dyelook

robert or no robert is what you think of yourself.. another thing about LOS is the girls there take very good care of their family and they'll do everything just to get whatever their family needs.. do be PREPARE financially and mentally if you really wanna join their culture.. chok dee..

Originally Posted by mackewell

Bro, you sound robert liao. First you say protect yourself, dont anihow spend. Now, u seem to lavish praise on her virtuous mentality and 'do not mind' to give her the money to spend? lol i abit blur liao.... Are you throwing money down the drain and still thinking its right to do so? i am not saying that you cant do this, but as a man, be decisive abit or else you cant complain getting Chope! lol....

Btw, its easy to find girls who can spend alot of your money and take care of your family, not only from LOS. That is very common mah. That is why things get complicated so easily in BGR cos more than 80 percent of the time, money talks lol....

I want the rare treatment, Down to earth and simple and dont anihow spend your money kind of gal! Somemore shes good in bed but she only let you bonk nia cos she is not so open to any male friends.

I can tell you out of 10 girls in this modern society, not even one possessed any traits i mentioned above lol..... This is why i wont settle down lah hahahahaha.....

Oh ya if you are that hardworking guy that die die dun wanna give up and just wanna jio this SYT to be your wife, then money comes into the picture. Cos you love her more than she love you(she can just leave you lah.) But if you meet this decent and normal girl who happens to love you more than you love her, then chances are you can leave her first and she is with you more for non monetary reasons(DAMN, if this is a MCQ question , i sure Shade this Answer!) Of course, i am not saying we men can be an irresponsible bastard and cheat for the wrong reasons cos you choose MCQ ANS B like me!)

In life, SYT is not everything in the world and you dont make her your wife cos she is hot or pretty or it boost your ego to a certain extent, if you talk about girlfriend, flings or Fuck buddies, of cos take hotties right? lol.....)

i think maybe you don't read well or my english is hard for you to understand.. anyway sorry to geh boh your thread.. chok dee..

Originally Posted by stillgottheblue

What dyelook says about LOS girls and their family is true. You have to take this into consideration. In any relationship, it's not only about 2 person. There are immediate family members getting involved sooner or later, so be prepared hor. Set your expectations right.

Also money don't always come first in BGR. There are other factors too, maybe your money first mentality is the stumbling block to you.

thanks for explaning for me, bro..

[mackewell]

Originally Posted by stillgottheblue

The number of Thai who can speak either Chinese, Hokkien, Teochew or even Malay is not small. I communicate with my Thai friends in English. I meant language barrier can be overcame easily. I also had the impression that Thai gers don't like cohabit.

Bro, times has changed lah, if she wants to be with you, i dont see why she cant cohabit with you. Reason why i say cohabit is good cos you get a 'Sneak Preview' of what to expect when she marry u LOL....