Advise please

[adidas88]

Originally Posted by Charmaine

I do but I don't think I want to die so soon!

of course not ... but the morale of the story is:

Even if u think u have the best plan .. there r always unexpected incidents waiting to happen ...

3 things in life that r never certain:
Success, Dreams and Fortune.

[Charmaine]

Originally Posted by adidas88

of course not ... but the morale of the story is:

Even if u think u have the best plan .. there r always unexpected incidents waiting to happen ...

3 things in life that r never certain:
Success, Dreams and Fortune.

What's the purpose of your November trip, adidas88?

[CeiResident]

Bro Motard,a Lau Jiao would not be zapped till moderation like me and junichi nia. Just another sad fuck loitering around the burger joints and bar hopping in the streets of bangkok.

Originally Posted by motard

if you newbie, then i dunno where i stand

[adidas88]

Originally Posted by Charmaine

What's the purpose of your November trip, adidas88?

it's a business cum leisure trip in nov ..
my dec is holiday trip ...

[CeiResident]

Bro, why use the term sadfuck? u are not, the road is long u must pace. As long u are happy why bother about what others think. Ask threadstarter how difficult it was when he just started just like u and begin seeking for advice and came across ppl who flame him for continuous period... Its not easy.... but he made it, so i dun think u should give it up that easy.

People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime. When you know which one it is, you will know what to do for that person.

When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually.

They may seem like a godsend and they are. They are there for the reason you need them to be. Then, without any wrongdoing on your part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.

Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered and now it is time to move on.

Some people come into your life for a SEASON, because your turn has come to share, grow or learn. They bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it, it is real. But only for a season....

LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons, things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life. It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.

Originally Posted by Charmaine

All of a sudden I've become "Romeo Charmaine"? Romeo always gets his girl - I'm just a typical sadfuck trying to make emotional ends meet.
I'm heading down to Bangkok twice within the next month, but I'm going to have my hands pretty much tied up with the stuff I need to settle with my girl. Even if we do meet up I won't be able to do the MP / P4P scene. Maybe clubbing..

[CeiResident]

bro adidas is going on pussy hunting trip wif a newbie like me na. He gona bring me around the MPs of ratchadaphisek and chaophaya.

Originally Posted by Charmaine

What's the purpose of your November trip, adidas88?

[snooker]

Originally Posted by adidas88

it's a business cum leisure trip in nov ..
my dec is holiday trip ...

If I'm in BKK when u r there, remember to bring me go cheong MP as well hor... kekekekeke.....

[Charmaine]

Thank you again for your kind words, CeiResident. I had wanted to increase your reputation points but was told to "spread it around first". How long is the typical waiting period? Why do you only have 4 points? I would imagine someone like you to easily amass something like 400 by now.

What is a good present to give to your potential in-laws when meeting for the first time? Would a hamper be good?

[adidas88]

Originally Posted by Charmaine

What is a good present to give to your potential in-laws when meeting for the first time? Would a hamper be good?

just bring King Bhumibol Adulyadej ...
they will be happy to receive him ....

[CeiResident]

Bring sip baht gold lor and 1000000 baht. Just be yourself la Its different from meeting a local partner's family.



QUOTE=adidas88;3170154]just bring King Bhumibol Adulyadej ...
they will be happy to receive him .... [/QUOTE]

[CeiResident]

Points are nuthing bro no worries. Glad to see progress in your relation, remember to invite us to your tradition marriage na.

Originally Posted by Charmaine

I would imagine someone like you to easily amass something like 400 by now.

What is a good present to give to your potential in-laws when meeting for the first time? Would a hamper be good?

[Charmaine]

Originally Posted by CeiResident

Its different from meeting a local partner's family.

How different, exactly? It seems pretty straightforward to me at this stage - bring them to have a nice meal, get acquainted, have a lot of beer, hopefully they'll like me and my hamper, then drop the question ("I'm in love with your daughter and want to marry her.") Or is it too early to say it? What do I say and what do I not say? I'm having butterflies in my stomach now and it's not even November yet.

[adidas88]

Originally Posted by Charmaine

How different, exactly? It seems pretty straightforward to me at this stage - bring them to have a nice meal, get acquainted, have a lot of beer, hopefully they'll like me and my hamper, then drop the question ("I'm in love with your daughter and want to marry her.") Or is it too early to say it? What do I say and what do I not say? I'm having butterflies in my stomach now and it's not even November yet.

bro .. just be urself .... u dun have to make up a show for them ..
be sincere, caring and courtesy ....

my advise is not to pop the question in this first meeting ..
in thai culture ... family is most important ...
so if her family like u .... everything will be okay ...

go with the flow .. dun rush into anything or promise anyone ...
u'll be fine ..

[yinyang]

Originally Posted by Charmaine

...seems pretty straightforward to me at this stage - bring them to have a nice meal, get acquainted, have a lot of beer, hopefully they'll like me and my hamper, then drop the question What do I say and what do I not say? I'm having butterflies in my stomach now and it's not even November yet.

You gotten good advice from bros here. Think it's a bit premature (or outspoken even) to ask for her hand in marriage now. Face is important for thais. Yours is only to acquainted with family, and if you stick to agenda then you shd do alright. Hamper or small token gifts will help your cause. Chok dee

[Si Geena]

My first meeting with the parents... I got the mom a set of Deng Li Jun CDs. Didn't get the father anything. I basically ask my gf what she thought would be appropriate. In fact, she said, there's nothing I need to bring at all.

You should ask your girl first. She would know what gifts are suitable. I did ever ask "how about bah kwa?" The answer was that no, it's not going to be appreciated. Too much burnt parts.