Bernice - Housing Agent

[gotnotime]

Wa lao the husband really deserves what's cumming from gog liao lor.

[shenlong]

This story is getting serious.
seriously real.

[junior_cannibal]

Whatever the reason that her husband behaved like that, only they or he knew. As outsider, we only got to hear one side of the story.
There are bound to have assholes that neglect our ill treat their partners. I once knew a ATB who stayed in private property, married a Singaporean, had a young son. Yet she needed to work as a sales manager in a boutique as the husband wouldn't give her money. Later she told me there were some old men who would date her, bought her gifts and she would return in kind by sleeping with them.
Wasn't sure if her husband still slept with her, if so, he's sharing her pussy with many cocks.
Anyway, whatever the reason why Bernice hubby behaved like that, she's the mother of their children, the least he could do was to show some care and concern.

[guyorgirl]

Originally Posted by gotnotime

Wa lao the husband really deserves what's cumming from gog liao lor.

I’m just merely repeating what was shared with me back then. Not exactly word for word but based on memory, I rebuild the words and scenarios.

Originally Posted by shenlong

This story is getting serious.
seriously real.

Sorry bro, I don’t get your comment? Can elaborate?

Originally Posted by junior_cannibal

Whatever the reason that her husband behaved like that, only they or he knew. As outsider, we only got to hear one side of the story.
There are bound to have assholes that neglect our ill treat their partners. I once knew a ATB who stayed in private property, married a Singaporean, had a young son. Yet she needed to work as a sales manager in a boutique as the husband wouldn't give her money. Later she told me there were some old men who would date her, bought her gifts and she would return in kind by sleeping with them.
Wasn't sure if her husband still slept with her, if so, he's sharing her pussy with many cocks.
Anyway, whatever the reason why Bernice hubby behaved like that, she's the mother of their children, the least he could do was to show some care and concern.

You didn’t realise I don’t really reply to Bernice on her comments but I only share more on my personal thoughts and feeling on this?

Usually I lend an ear but I don’t lend my heart, as in I don’t add oil, add seasoning, add vegetables and meat to fry it up. The decision is always left to the party in pain, I usually only support them in the aspect of their decision made eventually.

I don’t encourage people to break, or curse the husband so as to bed the lady. Revenge fucks can go pretty wrong in this sense.

Whether Bernice eventually used sex to close deals or gain gratification for her needs it’s her doing, I won’t judge. She has needs also, she’s human. So nothing to judge.

What happens in her family is also hers to bear and manage. Only she can make the decision, nothing else. That said, everybody wants a support, a comfort. Simple hug can provide a lot of support; physical pleasure can release endorphins and give happiness.

After a while even transactional based sex like the ATB can be fulfilling to them. Humans are just wired this way.

[guyorgirl]

Sorry for the late reply all.



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gog: You just need to hang on, exercise and keep yourself fit. The treatment will weaken your body, you need to strengthen yourself to undergo the treatment.

B(ernice):But after the treatment I really feel horrible and tired the next day.

gog: Aiyah, not immediate la. Rest 1-2 days then you must start exercising. Build up resistance and body. Strong body, strong mind.

Bernice smiled a bit more and no tears were dripping. I'm kind of glad I managed to make her smile and also listened to her complains. Getting them off her chest surely feels good.

Weird though, she chose me to tell me about all these. I'm just a customer.





gog: Eat up.

B: Sorry, think not safe to share food.

gog: Yeah you take first, whatever you can't finish, I'll eat.

The treatment causes low immunity for the person. Any wrong move, might result in catastrophic reaction. So it's better not to share food or anything. Not that I'll catch the illness, but my body might have some viral in it and it can seriously cause her to fall sick further.





B: Thanks for listening to me.

It was a good 3 hours+. Her unhappiness with her husband, her two cute kids, how she is surviving with her insurance payouts.

She shared about considering therapy with husband. But her husband refused to go. Church, commercial therapy alike, avoided it like the plague.

Bernice contemplated leaving the marriage but decided against it as tongues will wag and also church will not really want it also. Her children are also growing up, she's concerned for them.

gog: Remember to keep fit. Drink more water. Treatment is heaty, flush out all the drugs and keep yourself hydrated.

That was my last advice to Bernice before we parted. The next time we meet, will be treatment day #8.

*DING*

After I turned out the carpark, Bernice messaged me.





B: Thanks for listening. Thanks for the lunch. Thanks for accompanying me. Sorry to hold you up.

gog: If I get a dollar for the 'thanks' and 'sorry'. I will be very rich. Cheer up. Will support you all
the way.

And yes, folks, don't TEXT and DRIVE!

[shenlong]

Well, the plot on how some men took extreme measures to ignore the problem. This is extremely real.

Though the story went to a more serious tone, the realism adds depth and triggered and invoke the multi layered feelings of being human.

It's as real as it gets. Not everyone will have chance to experience this. And those who saw or experienced first hand inadvertently relive the realism of the story.

[guyorgirl]

Originally Posted by shenlong

Well, the plot on how some men took extreme measures to ignore the problem. This is extremely real.

Though the story went to a more serious tone, the realism adds depth and triggered and invoke the multi layered feelings of being human.

It's as real as it gets. Not everyone will have chance to experience this. And those who saw or experienced first hand inadvertently relive the realism of the story.

Ah yes, thanks for elaborating.

This is what i remember from back then. Sharing is easy when you experience it. Hearing it first hand makes me understand why some ladies eat out.

Men eat out because mostly for variety and lack of it at home. Women break the rules because they are always indirectly being pushed out by the men themselves.

Taking this opportunity to also share awareness that sometimes the little things in life that become a norm is a red flag even if wife or gf don’t complain. By then they already accepted it. Not saying all will eat out but… ladies being the emotional creatures will be easily targeted and lured away.

[fwchong]

are you able to share a bit what Bernice husband behaviour was like when Bernice share if

If money is no issues for him and why he choose to let Bernice go through it alone...


From the insurance payout, we can see that this is once off and that means that afterwards, Bernice cannot be eligible for any insurance protection in the future.
Once an insurance pay out, it means that it is quite serious....

Curious to know if Bernice is still alive today ?

[guyorgirl]

Originally Posted by fwchong

are you able to share a bit what Bernice husband behaviour was like when Bernice share if

If money is no issues for him and why he choose to let Bernice go through it alone...


From the insurance payout, we can see that this is once off and that means that afterwards, Bernice cannot be eligible for any insurance protection in the future.
Once an insurance pay out, it means that it is quite serious....

Curious to know if Bernice is still alive today ?

The MCP term, I coined it up based on what Bernice shared.

Her husband is rather condescending in most sense, it’s like Bernice is below him. Not worthy on par, Bernice was more of a vase for him as a flower. Meaning it’s like he complements her. Without him Bernice is nothing.

Eg if Bernice sells Toyota, her husband will smite Toyota brand and say it’s bad, and tell people he selling Honda, it’s better. Or Bernice says something wrong and he reacts negatively, telling her off infront of relatives or friends.

He’s like a disciplinarian more than a husband, in my opinion. I’m upset he doesn’t respect Bernice appropriately as a wife and person. Of course I can only share these here and not go around talking about it in person (thanks for forum anonymity).

He probably waited for Bernice to voice her happiness about the monetary issue before offering or likely begrudgingly sponsor her for treatment. He is the type that you need to push to get something. Bernice just chose not to knowing he will go around telling people he helped, he paid for it etc. His pride is higher than Eiffel Tower.

I remember Bernice telling me about the parking fees at Novena. His explanation for not accompanying is that the parking is very expensive. 10 visits will cost hundreds.

Alamak once a month. 3-4 hours. $10-15 or so only, got so calculative? 10 visits $150 la, can? Like that also want to calculate. That kind of situation and your wife is already in pain, your concern is money. Seriously? When you see someone lying on the deathbed, I assure you even if your most favorite possession worth $100B at that point of time, you won’t think 2x giving it up to get the person back. He…

As for payout, it is determined by doctor on the severity and the policy coverage. She can get other coverage but those related to it or extended from it will not be covered. Insurance are assholes but not so assholes.

She is around still, the breakup is inevitable of course, nothing lasts forever. Will share in the end. If I don’t, remind me.

[Freacher]

"Insurance are assholes but not so assholes." - actually mother of all assholes.

[terwong]

Originally Posted by guyorgirl

Insurance are assholes but not so assholes.

I have always maintained it is one of life's enduring mysteries why insurers are not subjected to gaming taxes.

In truth, they operate no differently from casinos and gaming operators, but are somehow viewed favourably due to the positive spin synonymous with it.

[fwchong]

wow...from your comment below...

That kind of situation and your wife is already in pain, your concern is money. Seriously? When you see someone lying on the deathbed, I assure you even if your most favorite possession worth $100B at that point of time, you won’t think 2x giving it up to get the person back. He…

it shows that this husband is really an asshole...I dont think he treat her as a wife, more like a maid to bring the kids around..I wont be surprise if he also fool around while the wife is in pain...

Glad to know that Bernice is a strong will person and alive...good to know...cheer you on...

Originally Posted by guyorgirl

As for payout, it is determined by doctor on the severity and the policy coverage. She can get other coverage but those related to it or extended from it will not be covered. Insurance are assholes but not so assholes.

She is around still, the breakup is inevitable of course, nothing lasts forever. Will share in the end. If I don’t, remind me.