Advise please

[BkkResident]

Originally Posted by ansonlky

hai hai boss,very tired just book out sia cb. i coming for 10 days will give loi krathong a miss tho.see u there bro.

So over liao or still got somemore?

[CeiResident]

Originally Posted by BkkResident

So over liao or still got somemore?

Where is SRT, without him its so boring to entertain so many clones... Bro Bkk u left 13 pts for ppl to zap ah i left 8 oni hahaha....

[BkkResident]

Originally Posted by CeiResident

Where is SRT, without him its so boring to entertain so many clones... Bro Bkk u left 13 pts for ppl to zap ah i left 8 oni hahaha....

hw u see one?i left 14points lah..soon will be zap to moderation. Very bored to see the same old clones talking to each other.

[CeiResident]

Bro Bkk u still ard?

[Cyberspace Nerd]

Bro charmaine, if you need any advice, can please post here. our legend Jun|ch| will be your advisor.

[Charmaine]

Thank you for reviving this thread, Cyberspace Nerd. I realise I've been disussing my problems on the wrong thread all along.

If Jun|ch| is reading this, my story could be quickly reviewed from

http://sammyboy.today/interna...bs-bkk-62.html

I sms-ed her again this morning, and she responded after a while. I felt like I couldn't play this sexual politics game any longer - it was eating me alive. I had to know.

"If you were never working in the club, would you ever have considered me seriously as a boyfriend?"

I waited for the inevitable "no". My mobile flashed after 10 minutes.

"Maybe I am not good enough for you na."

I was furious. I've heard it all before. She told me the exact same thing at dinner a week ago. I couldn't hold it in any longer.

"You keep saying that. It's bullshit and you know it. Maybe the truth is that I am not good enough for you because I cannot support you. You made me fall in love with you and now I will wait for you to say yes."

There was no reply for a long time. I didn't expect any. A full hour later, my mobile vibrated.

"It's not like that na."

She bothered to attach an oh-so-innocent little smiley face behind that response. It was either she thought it was all a joke or she was just doing that mai pen rai cower-in-the-dark-like-a-coward thing again. I haven't contacted her since.

I just don't get it. She's nice enough to be with me 24/7 when I was here, kissing, hugging and doing the whole couple thing, and when I pop the question she says no?

Is the transaction over?

[naemlo]

Originally Posted by Charmaine

Is the transaction over?

Face the true cold fact, and drill these few words into your thick skull, "It is over."

[blursam]

Originally Posted by Charmaine

"Maybe I am not good enough for you na."

I was furious. I've heard it all before. She told me the exact same thing at dinner a week ago. I couldn't hold it in any longer.

"You keep saying that. It's bullshit and you know it. Maybe the truth is that I am not good enough for you because I cannot support you.....

How much is enough to support her or a lady in Bangkok so that she will not work ? Here are some of those I have encountered :

I know of this young and pretty lady (from chiang-mai) who has this Japanese guy to bao her at 40K baht a month and she stop working at the bar. However, I still BF her (with the Jap guy not around). She said she want me as her boyfriend and stayed with me when I come to BKK every month. She told me she will still want to work as she can easily earn 80K-100K baht a month.

I picked up another lady who lives in an apartment in Chitlom and drives a Honda. These are paid by her farang boyfriend who works in KL and comes to BKK for her every month. Yet, you can find her at night in CM2 disco.

I now have a girlfriend who stays with me every month when I come to BKK. She is a uni-grad, very pretty, mid 20s, works in a office. She sms and email me everyday (several times morning + afternoon + night). I give her 20K baht a month. She told me I am her one and only as I am giving her enough to supplement her income. Hmmm.....what can I say ?

[naemlo]

Originally Posted by blursam

I now have a girlfriend who stays with me every month when I come to BKK. She is a uni-grad, very pretty, mid 20s, works in a office. She sms and email me everyday (several times morning + afternoon + night). I give her 20K baht a month.

How u guys define "GF" when monthly allowance is involved???

[pussyman72]

Originally Posted by naemlo

How u guys define "GF" when monthly allowance is involved???

i really wonder why pple go after few times in pubs and disco then girls involve with them treat them so good they think the girl like them

then start blaming the girl saying the girl make him fall in love with her?!?!?!??!? it takes 2 hand to clap n the person choose to clap with them then want to make noise hiaz.....

then another question is feed a uni ger n is gf. married together? maybe they forget the word sugar daddy...... remind me of a sbf bro who got ditch by a uni ger n gone into a shit hole.......

hiaz mai bang wall can liao.... what they mean u the only one i love. u the only one i want to be with. translate in thai rak tur khon diew na. lol

Once again i had to said that. dont blame the girl blame urself using dickhead to think.

[blursam]

Originally Posted by naemlo

How u guys define "GF" when monthly allowance is involved???

Do you expect girls to stay with you for free, especially when she knows you are married and have family ? Afterall, she also needs to survive.

So far for her, she has not disappoint me. We go out dinner, shopping, movies, holidays, etc. She is also telling me her family members, maybe intro her brother to me and her mother and aunt knows about me, etc, etc.....whole lots of real GF feeling. Lets see what happens.....

[blursam]

Originally Posted by pussyman72

i really wonder why pple go after few times in pubs and disco then girls involve with them treat them so good they think the girl like them

then start blaming the girl saying the girl make him fall in love with her?!?!?!??!? it takes 2 hand to clap n the person choose to clap with them then want to make noise hiaz.....

then another question is feed a uni ger n is gf. married together? maybe they forget the word sugar daddy...... remind me of a sbf bro who got ditch by a uni ger n gone into a shit hole.......

hiaz mai bang wall can liao.... what they mean u the only one i love. u the only one i want to be with. translate in thai rak tur khon diew na. lol

Once again i had to said that. dont blame the girl blame urself using dickhead to think.

Thanks for the reminder.....I will keep this advise in mind. I guess sometimes you may be "blinded" when you are into it.......lets see how this develops.

Anyway, for me, its also better I give her money. Afterall, if I am the one who wants to ditch, I will not feel guilty that I owe her anything.

[pussyman72]

Originally Posted by blursam

Thanks for the reminder.....I will keep this advise in mind. I guess sometimes you may be "blinded" when you are into it.......lets see how this develops.

Anyway, for me, its also better I give her money. Afterall, if I am the one who wants to ditch, I will not feel guilty that I owe her anything.

hehehe reminder cost u 6 pointer joking. if play play i dont want to said much cos u are already married.

if trying to think like fairy tail story better dont even think about it. not i dont believe it kind of hard....

seen my friend feed his uni gf for 2 to 3 yrs after that in the end eat shit. told him to be careful but he too confident and later fall into the pit cannot climb up worst thing he is "Married"

[naemlo]

Originally Posted by blursam

Do you expect girls to stay with you for free, especially when she knows you are married and have family ? Afterall, she also needs to survive.

Errr again, gf needs money to stay with bf??? She is a grad and has an office job, why will she needs another 20k??

Originally Posted by blursam

So far for her, she has not disappoint me.

She might have disappoint u n u dunno. Again I said "might".

Originally Posted by blursam

We go out dinner, shopping, movies, holidays, etc. She is also telling me her family members, maybe intro her brother to me and her mother and aunt knows about me, etc, etc.....whole lots of real GF feeling. Lets see what happens.....

I have been to Vietnam to visit some of gers I met in JC... I met the whole family too.

[naemlo]

Originally Posted by pussyman72

seen my friend feed his uni gf for 2 to 3 yrs after that in the end eat shit.

Haizzzz, using the wrong term "gf". It should be paid love or paid companion.