Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

[volcano]

Originally Posted by Seletar

Not bad liao mah in VL and Hcmc got vbs.
You see me so up, don't open bottle of liquor also difficult.

steady tio boh...VL and Hcmc

my wife from VL but now in Hcmc lol...

must be MARTELL hor....i heard Tay Ninh lim madei de...

[SingViet]

Nowadays, when the VB comes to Singapore to work in the vice trade, the first thing on their mind is to hook a Singapore man. Give free fucks, act demure, tell sad story, don't get money. Which Singapore guy can say NO to free fucks? After free fucks, suggest marriage, then can get to stay.

After that start digging gold. Give birth to children got BABY BONUS to take, so good government..... some even say until Singapore cannot do without them giving birth as `Singapore needs children'.

they dig hole, most Singapore man jump. So more and more marrying them lor.

[FireShark]

Originally Posted by Seletar

Bro, when you marry ? got invite me or not ? I can join your entourage to the province and got chance tackle the vb there ?

Selatar, you had so many VB u still want another, later introduce another vb to you from tay ninh ha

[Seletar]

Originally Posted by volcano

steady tio boh...VL and Hcmc

my wife from VL but now in Hcmc lol...

must be MARTELL hor....i heard Tay Ninh lim madei de...

Where got problem, will drink together with my friend the lau hero from VL if can meet in hcmc. He just came back to shift all his barang barang back to VL.

[FireShark]

Originally Posted by SingViet

For own family, the VBs are very traditional. They make sure all their kids speak more TV than mandarin and english. Singapore is too competitive, so instead of teachers telling her that the child fail all subjects in school and losing face, they make sure that the kids fail badly in school. No worries, fail in Singapore still can go back VN province to manage their BUSINESS.

Don't really agreed. My friend's son and daughter can't speak proper TV, they are trained to speak English and Mandarin only. Furthermore, their children don't like the life in vn. Too outdate. No playstation, no wifi at home, no computer for them to use in their grandparents place. The children also dont like the mosquito there. keep biting them.

Thus, if we marry a VB, we must let them know what are good and bad for the children. Luckily my BX listen to what I said. I normally explained to her with reasons why.

[jackbl]

Originally Posted by Seletar

To help the parent repair or build house, I wonder why the local son-in-laws can not pool up the money to help, but instead, ask the Sillyporean son-in-law for $$ and our status is last in the list but in terms of monetary contributions, we are top most in the list.

Are u their son-in-law now???

[jackbl]

Originally Posted by SingViet

they dig hole, most Singapore man jump. So more and more marrying them lor.

You are one of those pioneer

[SingViet]

Originally Posted by jackbl

You are one of those pioneer

Yes i am one of the pioneer, but i didn't get to know my bx in Singapore hor....

[shysaint]

Originally Posted by SingViet

Nowadays, when the VB comes to Singapore to work in the vice trade, the first thing on their mind is to hook a Singapore man. Give free fucks, act demure, tell sad story, don't get money. Which Singapore guy can say NO to free fucks? After free fucks, suggest marriage, then can get to stay.

After that start digging gold. Give birth to children got BABY BONUS to take, so good government..... some even say until Singapore cannot do without them giving birth as `Singapore needs children'.

they dig hole, most Singapore man jump. So more and more marrying them lor.

Recently my close friend call me asking about marrying a Vietnamese girl. He told me his brother gotten one and would like get married.

Guessed what .. The girl ask my friend's brother to give her $20k in order to get married.

I told her eh ... Highly chance this girl is shit !

Just check back recently, they broke off as he ask her to F off.

[shysaint]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

Facebook... Dangerous social media network to have

Yeah very agree .. F dangerous ...

[Beachsea]

Originally Posted by shysaint

Recently my close friend call me asking about marrying a Vietnamese girl. He told me his brother gotten one and would like get married.

Guessed what .. The girl ask my friend's brother to give her $20k in order to get married.

I told her eh ... Highly chance this girl is shit !

Just check back recently, they broke off as he ask her to F off.

Yea dude, i think is common. By the way, the examples i said are not hearsay, it happens to my direct close friends. Like you said, one of my friend one was initially not that much,
-$3k for wedding
-$2k to lend family (indirect)
-Then ask $5k say want to give parents after less than 2 months.
- Lastly the girl say, if never give money, then its ok, she will go find someone else richer !!!!!!! although she still 'love' him....

i nearly fainted when those above was been poured out to me........

[milfmilf]

Originally Posted by Beachsea

- Lastly the girl say, if never give money, then its ok, she will go find someone else richer !!!!!!! although she still 'love' him....

their definition of husband/wife love is totally different!
or may be only apply to foreign husband or worst, sinkie husband

[Golden question]

Originally Posted by Beachsea

Yea dude, i think is common. By the way, the examples i said are not hearsay, it happens to my direct close friends. Like you said, one of my friend one was initially not that much,
-$3k for wedding
-$2k to lend family (indirect)
-Then ask $5k say want to give parents after less than 2 months.
- Lastly the girl say, if never give money, then its ok, she will go find someone else richer !!!!!!! although she still 'love' him....

i nearly fainted when those above was been poured out to me........

Telling lies is very normal to them.To sum it up,they don't need sg man,they only need sg man to get something from sg man.

Even though their ratio for vienamese woman to Vietnamese man is 4:1 or 5:1 from last I known of,there are still plenty of their local man there and u think sg man is so loving and caring that they need? haha

Bad one will always tell u they don't like Vietnamese man cos they are lazy and don't care about wife,beat them and ask them to give them money
In reality,they just want sg man to pity them and marry them.

Good or maybe good one will tell u not all Vietnamese man is like that,there is still some good Vietnamese man who take care of their wife or family

Whatever it is,sg man always think they just want to get out from poverty but in real,most come here and marry sg man with some 'reason'.

End of the day is how u see it,listen to TS and learn from there,TS might not be always right but at least he is a person that give sound advise

[Golden question]

Originally Posted by SingViet

Actually most gals nowadays are like that, be it in Vietnam or in Singapore. Its just that most guys with viet spouse are deem not attractive to Singapore gals and find it difficult to attract them but instead, attracted the viet gals. for example, a salary of $4k to 5k a month is deem not attractive to Singapore gals, but its very attractive to the viet gals. A normal Singaporean graduate couple with combined income of over 12k a month is very normal.

Not all VB are that bad, but its just a small group of them who has suffered greatly in Vietnam when they were young, so they treasure what they have in Singapore now. This small group of good viet VB is seriously minority compared to the rest of the them. Majority are more concerned about being able to stay in Singapore for the longer term and make as much money to send back to VN .

I agreed with u,good viet vb is seriously minority compared to bad one.Dont blame the bad one cos they did not threaten sg man with a knife to marry us.
We jump into it so nothing wrong with Vietnamese.There is still good one.You are here to advise bro here,those disagreed with u is either they have a good viet wife now or still in a honeymoon stage with their vb.

Those that agreed with u is those that have bitten before and I can see since the first day which u just started this thread until now,those that disagreed with u are mostly gone so does it show that they already got bitten and don't wish to say about vb anymore?I don't know but one thing I know is you still here,so it show that your posting still deserve some respect from us to listen

[Golden question]

Originally Posted by FireShark

Don't really agreed. My friend's son and daughter can't speak proper TV, they are trained to speak English and Mandarin only. Furthermore, their children don't like the life in vn. Too outdate. No playstation, no wifi at home, no computer for them to use in their grandparents place. The children also dont like the mosquito there. keep biting them.

Thus, if we marry a VB, we must let them know what are good and bad for the children. Luckily my BX listen to what I said. I normally explained to her with reasons why.

singviet is posting the opposite way,i think u get him wrong that's why u disagreed cos I think u don't fully understand what he mean