Hooking girls in Indonesia instead of cheonging

[henabi]

Originally Posted by chickenwing

Nice walkthrough! It is proven to be working. However, when is condom being introduced? it is embarrassing to pop out a condom as she might think you are so prepare for the action.

for me... I will keep it within reach, like in the drawer next to my bed etc. and use it when I am almost done eating her...

and i was honest with her, saying: "let me get condoms"

[tumble]

Hello. Interesting stuffs you posted. Can you give more examples on the qualifying process using some of your experiences?

[henabi]

Originally Posted by tumble

Hello. Interesting stuffs you posted. Can you give more examples on the qualifying process using some of your experiences?

hey tumble, mind if I share some of my qualifying process or criteria?

[tumble]

Well, it's an open forum. Feel free to post.

[henabi]

Originally Posted by tumble

Well, it's an open forum. Feel free to post.

Thanks.

My age range is about 22 to 28. I am not going for milf yet, as i am not that experienced.
Height maybe between 160 to 175
Figure. I dont like to hug a bag of bones. Probably S to M/L is fine with me, as long as she not fat.
For looks, i am absolutely into those "girl next door" look.

Girls, i try to avoid after hunting at grand indonesia n plaza indonesia
- uni students, unless through talking i found out that she is working part time as well.
- girls who are able to travel overseas easily.
- milf
- Japanese girls, even thou i know how to speak. I had a similar experience as wizrd at a bookstore at grand indonesia >.<
- girls working at conciege or shopping center reception.

[Ahsong]

Bros wizd. I am 50+ years old can i apply your method or not. I hate fishing,
but like to get straight from the shelves...

[marif]

Actually, having a blackberry in Indonesia really helps too...

[Wizrd]

Hi everyone...

So sorry for the enforced absence but was working in a place with no internet for 2-3 months...then when I got back to civilisation, my laptop crashed and I couldn't log in here because I forgot my password...

Anyway....finally fixed my laptop and have some time to read and post again.....

Thanks for being patient.

Happy hunting everybody...

[Wizrd]

Here's a summery reply to most questions. Please let me know if I missed your post.

Cheers...

Originally Posted by tandoori

Didn't go back because Batam is for cheonging..not for developing affection for one girl. Will hunt in a different mall next time

Absolutely bro...never hook girls from places (or background) where they can very easily come visit you. If you do that, then make sure your address is not a 'real' address...

For me, I use my Australian address even though I don't stay there anymore. If they send me stuff, my neighbours will let me know so at least they believe it is real...however, good luck to them if they just show up there hoping to find me....

Originally Posted by henabi

Well Wizrd bro, i gotta hand it to you... your tactics really work.

I was sitten next to this lady (alone). And trying my luck, i just asked her: "ermmm... sorry miss. Its my first time here. Do you know if there is any nice dish?!?!"

Hahahaha, thanks bro...

Yes...this works 90% of the time...and if they are alone...it is almost a guarantee to get a conversation started....well....assuming they understand you from a language perspective....

Originally Posted by jnudes

Not qualified to be a good bf and serious casanova. Bro, do PM me some good tips or advice that may help me change myself. Your techniques are good, no doubt, but to achieve that really need some practice and coaching from you.

Well...I need more information before I can help you...tell me more about yourself...PM me and we can talk about what you need to do..

Originally Posted by henabi

master Wizdr,

now I am back in SG... just wanna find out what you chat with your GFEs while you're in Aussie or SG? I am using Skype, Whatsapp and LINE. so far, I am keeping our conversations simple

Alrighty....understand that most women from developing worlds are not overly focused on love (as in the romancing type of love)...they seek stability and dependability....

So no need to be too lovey dovey with them on the phone...be pleasant...ask after them...how's their day? Did they have fun? and so on..

They will sense your care and warmth...that is all they need...and...well...when you will next come see them...

Tell them a little bit about your day to "include" them in your life but do not get into details...keep talking about them...

A good trick is to discuss what you are going to do together the next time you are there...
Can be where to visit, what you want to eat, what to buy, where to stay etc....every so often, get a bit sexual and tell them what you want to do with them sexually...always something you have not done with her yet...

Simple things like...hey, I dreamt of making love to you on the balcony...can we try that? And then spend the whole conversation discussing how to make it a reality...but do not keep doing that every conversation...once every 4-5 conversation will work best...you don't want her to get the drift that you are only after her for sex...

(I've gotten a woman to swallow - when she wouldn't even bj me before...anal...tying her up...sex on a public beach in daylight under cover of towels...and sex together with her best friend...all from "my dreams" discussions with them...
The essential part to remember...it is not what you want or demand...it was just a dream...if she is into it...keep talking...if she is turned off by the idea...go haha, sorry but my mind comes up with really weird stufff, let's not talk about it any more, ok? - heh heh heh....re-visit it a few weeks later...another dream, of course...and see if she has warmed up to the idea at all....
You can't win them all...but the little victories are very very sweet indeed...)

Originally Posted by chickenwing

it is embarrassing to pop out a condom as she might think you are so prepare for the action.

Hahahaha bro...you cannot whip out a condom and go...let's do it...that will turn any woman off...

Do it discretely...some times, a woman may not even be aware that I have a condom on when I enter her...she will appreciate the safety minded you, but when they are into the act, they seldom think that far ahead...keep kissing and caressing her with one hand and use the other hand to bring the rubber out...just before entry, I find that if I go down on her or kiss her neck from behind her...I will have two free hands to roll the condom on without her even knowing...

Originally Posted by Ahsong

Bros wizd. I am 50+ years old can i apply your method or not. I hate fishing,
but like to get straight from the shelves...

Absolutely bro...

Fishing is tedious if you only do it to get sex...do it like you are trying to make friends with more women...and I can tell you that many times when women I hit on were not into me and I was still nice to them, they introduce me to their friends...and I bed one or more of their friends later...

Alrighty...think of it this way...do you ever feel lonely after getting sex off the shelves?
Some guys are good after sex and can move on to do their own things after...for me...I get a hollow feeling after paying for sex and when she leaves...I still want someone I can hug and hold and kiss after sex...even to share a meal and talk...I cannot find that with paid sex (unless it is the quite expensive 'long time' booking...)...so I prefer to hook...

If you have too much sperm floating in your head initially...you can go pay for sex first...then after the act when you are more relaxed...go hooking...if you get one, it's a bonus...if you don't get any, it was just your warm down exercise after cheonging...tomorrow is another cheonging day....

Originally Posted by marif

Actually, having a blackberry in Indonesia really helps too...

Yes true...but either your woman must be good in English or you must be good in Bahasa...

I don't like BB because they often ask me to join their group and be in on a chat with them...I do not want her group to know that I exist...
Same reason I am never on facebook with any of them...I want to be able to 'disappear' whenever I feel the need to....no way for them to track me down or find out about what I am doing or where I am doing it...





Thanks for reading...

[nukebomb]

Hello Mr Professor Wizrd, after reading all yr procedure really proud of you.
Lately, I met a indo Milf with husband n child, she request for a iPhone 5 in return she will be together with me, at that point of time is almost last phrase but I told her " I must have you first before I buy?" in fact I told myself in my heart the most I can give her is a china iPhone. So it ended she walk off which means she dun trust me?

So Mr Professor, how to avoid buying something expensive? And yet you hook up with her? Thanks.



Best rgds.

[Wizrd]

Originally Posted by nukebomb

Hello Mr Professor Wizrd, after reading all yr procedure really proud of you.
Lately, I met a indo Milf with husband n child, she request for a iPhone 5 in return she will be together with me, at that point of time is almost last phrase but I told her " I must have you first before I buy?" in fact I told myself in my heart the most I can give her is a china iPhone. So it ended she walk off which means she dun trust me?

So Mr Professor, how to avoid buying something expensive? And yet you hook up with her? Thanks.



Best rgds.

Hey bro...

Thanks for asking...

Three questions for you bro...

1) is she a WL?
2) how long have you known her?
3) how are you going to handle the husband should he come into the picture?

Give me more details so that I can help you with it ok?

Cheers bro...


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[samsam]

great posts

i am being with a frd who is a PUA,he is really smooth talker.able to charm girls

i wanted to be like him but yet cant.
always tink if the girl put in feeling then it is like playing her feeling.
feels bad in playing others feeling

dont u guys feel it?

i can be contradicting but i agree in hooking is much better. at least they didn did it purely for money

[nukebomb]

Originally Posted by Wizrd

Hey bro...

Thanks for asking...

Three questions for you bro...

1) is she a WL?
2) how long have you known her?
3) how are you going to handle the husband should he come into the picture?

Give me more details so that I can help you with it ok?

Cheers bro...


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Way, you so fast, thanks.

1) She is not a WL, she just someone I met every morning when I go for my breakfast, she is attractive got the look n figure, she is 30+.

2) so initially just follow your method and stalked her, like say " Hi " " Hello ". In about 3 weeks, I manage to have a meet up with her, that's where she wants to trade a iPhone 5 with sex, she even make an effort to write a letter to me but I told her I can't read her writing so she go to the extend to read out for me, what she said in the letter is she is married with kid and to show that I love her, I must buy her a iPhone, so as to maintain a long term relationship with her.

3) I also dun know mayb Kenna whack by his husband. Only can blame him since he cant afford to give his wife a good living, therefore his wife must get from other man. I know Professor what you mean but sometimes the harder to get the more thrill will be. So Professor will you be like me to choose a Milf?

Best regards.

[Wizrd]

Originally Posted by samsam

great posts

i am being with a frd who is a PUA,he is really smooth talker.able to charm girls

i wanted to be like him but yet cant.
always tink if the girl put in feeling then it is like playing her feeling.
feels bad in playing others feeling

dont u guys feel it?

i can be contradicting but i agree in hooking is much better. at least they didn did it purely for money

Hi bro...

It is not so much about smooth talking...it is more about sincerity....if she feels that you are sincere in wanting to be her friend...she will warm up to you...
Smooth talking can only get one through the door but harder to gain her trust because she knows about playboys and smooth talking...

The best method I have found is the blur blur friendly anything-will-try type...disguise as a pig to eat tiger is the best way to go...friendly enough to be trust worthy but not so friendly until kenna put into the friend zone...a bit cute and cocky plus funny...make sure lots of funny to make her laugh...this combination will gain her trust, yet allow her some room to imagine you as adventurous and maybe a bit dangerous...cocky enough to be sexy but not so much that it becomes arrogant and annoying...

Women eat this shit up...

Never play with feelings...playing with feelings means...I have no intention of being with her for anything other than use her for sex...that is playing her feelings...but if I spend time with her, make her feel good, both emotionally and physically, bring her out to eat well and show her a good time...then I am not playing with her feelings...

Never build dreams with her that you are not able to fulfil...like marriage, have a baby and share a house and all that...then you are playing with her feelings...if you keep it clear...go where to play...go where to eat...go where to party...and all the time, you take care of her and make sure she has a good time...how can that be playing with her feelings??

At the end of the day...you want to be the person she wants to have fun with...to enjoy life a bit...no promises of forever, and once she accepts that...you are in for a good time...just don’t half way turn sentimental and confuse yourself and her with words of love and crap...
She will figure out very quickly that you are her friend and for fun only and not for marriage...and when she is ready to settle down...she will move on and you just have to start again...I guarantee you that she will not have any hard feelings against you if you are a true gentleman and be nice and upfront all the time..

Keep it simple and have fun...



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[Wizrd]

Originally Posted by nukebomb

Way, you so fast, thanks.

1) She is not a WL, she just someone I met every morning when I go for my breakfast, she is attractive got the look n figure, she is 30+.

2) so initially just follow your method and stalked her, like say " Hi " " Hello ". In about 3 weeks, I manage to have a meet up with her, that's where she wants to trade a iPhone 5 with sex, she even make an effort to write a letter to me but I told her I can't read her writing so she go to the extend to read out for me, what she said in the letter is she is married with kid and to show that I love her, I must buy her a iPhone, so as to maintain a long term relationship with her.

3) I also dun know mayb Kenna whack by his husband. Only can blame him since he cant afford to give his wife a good living, therefore his wife must get from other man. I know Professor what you mean but sometimes the harder to get the more thrill will be. So Professor will you be like me to choose a Milf?

Best regards.

Alrighty bro...

Walk away!!!

In all my time of hooking...the genuine ones will never ask for things upfront...if they do...likely she will disappear after you hand over the gift...or her husband will suddenly show up after you give it to her and then you lan lan watch them walk away with your gift...or maybe he will demand more things to 'cover his shame'...


The genuine ones want your affection and will never play the gift card unless they are used to scamming or has worked as WL...it is almost as unacceptable as a guy befriending a girl and on the first meeting suggests that he will pay for the meal only if she has sex with him....only a pro will go the direct route...

Something is up if you guys haven't been together for a while before she starts asking for stuff...don't even waste your time bro...just walk away...

Plenty of fish in the ocean...give this one up...don't try anything with her...


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