Gers Are Still Gers

[thaivisitor]

Originally Posted by OceanEleven

Ya ya....KNN think all like you like that "eng eng cheng cheng" read paper own time own target......

Bro, mai luan luan kong leh...

In between I also need to take breakfast, lunch and dinner too mah... kekekekeke

[MoonBlaze]

Originally Posted by Tomahawk

OceanEleven, you're the best! *high five*

But seriously, I have been spending too much time on Sammyboy nowadays, especially after my recent sad encounter. So much so that boss spoke to me. Kekeke... better cut down my surfing time liao!

Tomahawk

Is your boss tracking your internet usage?

How are you recovering from the heart break feeling incident?

[Tomahawk]

Originally Posted by MoonBlaze

Is your boss tracking your internet usage?

How are you recovering from the heart break feeling incident?

Nah, my boss is the company head cum sales manager. It's my fellow engineer colleague and myself who are the kings here. Kekeke... my company is a very small one. But boss did realise that I've not been doing my stuff. Like not being proactive in things, not doing reading-up when I need to.

OK lah, feeling better now. I still call Tingting up, hoping to keep in contact with her and hoping that we can see each other in future, but dun get me wrong. I'm not going for a long-distance relationship. Dun have that sort of patience or money. Just keep in contact as friends, and hopefully in future if I have a chance to be posted to China, we can have some fun there.

Tomahawk

[MoonBlaze]

Originally Posted by Tomahawk

OK lah, feeling better now. I still call Tingting up, hoping to keep in contact with her and hoping that we can see each other in future, but dun get me wrong. I'm not going for a long-distance relationship. Dun have that sort of patience or money. Just keep in contact as friends, and hopefully in future if I have a chance to be posted to China, we can have some fun there.

Tomahawk

Good. As time really heals the wounds.

If you get posted to China, guess there will be more option opened to you.
Too many choices and that will really put your feelings for her to a test.

Me also hoping for a posting overseas (but to Vietnam) cos miss my gal there.

Guess we are all emotional fools at times.

Take it easy on yourself.

[OceanEleven]

Originally Posted by Tomahawk

OceanEleven, you're the best! *high five*

But seriously, I have been spending too much time on Sammyboy nowadays, especially after my recent sad encounter. So much so that boss spoke to me. Kekeke... better cut down my surfing time liao!

Tomahawk

Hoi, KNN, NS time never learn cammo properly izzit?? Ask Uncle Thaivisitor to teach you lah, surf can surf but must act as if still working mah.....

[OceanEleven]

Originally Posted by Tomahawk

Nah, my boss is the company head cum sales manager. It's my fellow engineer colleague and myself who are the kings here. Kekeke... my company is a very small one. But boss did realise that I've not been doing my stuff. Like not being proactive in things, not doing reading-up when I need to.

OK lah, feeling better now. I still call Tingting up, hoping to keep in contact with her and hoping that we can see each other in future, but dun get me wrong. I'm not going for a long-distance relationship. Dun have that sort of patience or money. Just keep in contact as friends, and hopefully in future if I have a chance to be posted to China, we can have some fun there.

Tomahawk

Bro, first thing first, must fill own tummy before any relationship comes into the pics, Singapore is almost a developed country, there are no kampong or farm where you can turn to. Unlike Uncle Thai, he can quit and go farming in Southern Thai (The puying there lagi chio). Back to this, work hard, you will get a gal who appreciate you.

[Tomahawk]

Originally Posted by OceanEleven

Hoi, KNN, NS time never learn cammo properly izzit?? Ask Uncle Thaivisitor to teach you lah, surf can surf but must act as if still working mah.....

Hoi, where's devaju huh? I miss his story about Stella leh...

I've finished my story about Tingting liao, and he's still not back...

Tomahawk

[OceanEleven]

Originally Posted by Tomahawk

Hoi, where's devaju huh? I miss his story about Stella leh...

I've finished my story about Tingting liao, and he's still not back...

Tomahawk

Good question. I think must ask Hoodlum.

[Monkeybiz]

hmmm... just wondering... how did you guys manage to deal with girls who talk too much?

honestly, I'm in a middle of a fucked up relationship and the focus is always on her. But whatever I do, she always saves up shit to complain...

like a dinner...
"Why do you have to spend so much money in this restaurant? Just take me anywhere eat can liao...."
one day, I took her to eat fastfood "Why you wanna eat this? so fattening..."
took her to a hawker... "Why eat in this stuffy place?"
took her to a foodcourt... "Why must we eat the terrible food here? expensive somemore"

in sex... lagi best
20 mins "Why u make me cum so soon?"
50 mins "why can't u cum sooner?"

and for the 'pick her up' incident, almost the same as what you guys are going thru...

i felt that i'm a handicap when it comes to arguement... and of course, whenever we're arguing, her reasons just don't make sense... as if she's not going to let 'SENSE' fucked up her arguements...

[ryanlim]

Sigh.......what to do......

Gers are still Gers

[Five Stone]

Originally Posted by Monkeybiz

hmmm... just wondering... how did you guys manage to deal with girls who talk too much?

honestly, I'm in a middle of a fucked up relationship and the focus is always on her. But whatever I do, she always saves up shit to complain...

like a dinner...
"Why do you have to spend so much money in this restaurant? Just take me anywhere eat can liao...."
one day, I took her to eat fastfood "Why you wanna eat this? so fattening..."
took her to a hawker... "Why eat in this stuffy place?"
took her to a foodcourt... "Why must we eat the terrible food here? expensive somemore"

in sex... lagi best
20 mins "Why u make me cum so soon?"
50 mins "why can't u cum sooner?"

and for the 'pick her up' incident, almost the same as what you guys are going thru...

i felt that i'm a handicap when it comes to arguement... and of course, whenever we're arguing, her reasons just don't make sense... as if she's not going to let 'SENSE' fucked up her arguements...

Sometimes silence is the best treatment. Heck care what she say, no need to talk back, no need to argue, no need to get angry, no need to ask her if she need this or want that. You are with her physically but behave as if you are alone. She will feel the pinch sooner of later. You must be able to tolerate, especially when she look ever so pity dont she come 'sai nai' you then you cave in......

[XuMeiFong]

[QUOTE=Monkeybiz]hmmm... just wondering... how did you guys manage to deal with girls who talk too much?

Actually, talking much is not really a problem to me... It must make sense and common sense dont change by the hours nor the minutes. I fully understand you...

A phase for all to think about :
"Man married expecting their wife not to change.. Woman married expecting their husband to change" .. The source of problem

[XuMeiFong]

Originally Posted by Five Stone

Sometimes silence is the best treatment. Heck care what she say, no need to talk back, no need to argue, no need to get angry, no need to ask her if she need this or want that. You are with her physically but behave as if you are alone. She will feel the pinch sooner of later. You must be able to tolerate, especially when she look ever so pity dont she come 'sai nai' you then you cave in......

Not too sure it works.. maybe for a gf that you are prepared to dump... but not your wife... You keep quiet for 10 min, she will keep quiet for the whole day.. Just agree with what they says.

Sometime, i just learn to give in to nonsence.. for the eventual peace..

[OceanEleven]

Originally Posted by Monkeybiz

hmmm... just wondering... how did you guys manage to deal with girls who talk too much?

honestly, I'm in a middle of a fucked up relationship and the focus is always on her. But whatever I do, she always saves up shit to complain...

i felt that i'm a handicap when it comes to arguement... and of course, whenever we're arguing, her reasons just don't make sense... as if she's not going to let 'SENSE' fucked up her arguements...

All due respect to ladies, sometimes what they do or say does not really make sense, it is also not sense they want to talk about, it is VICTORY they want. They speak forthe sake of talking back . Nothing more, nothing less.

[MoonBlaze]

Originally Posted by Monkeybiz

hmmm... just wondering... how did you guys manage to deal with girls who talk too much?

honestly, I'm in a middle of a fucked up relationship and the focus is always on her. But whatever I do, she always saves up shit to complain...
i felt that i'm a handicap when it comes to arguement... and of course, whenever we're arguing, her reasons just don't make sense... as if she's not going to let 'SENSE' fucked up her arguements...

Like the case of picking the place/food to dine/eat, ask her where. If she say anything will do, then you suggest and get her to agree. Later she complain, tell her she already agreeded what. Next time, tell her to suggest.

Think she belongs to the naggy type. Very difficult to accomodate and please. Guess it's her personalities. Think about it, is your love for her strong enough to take her personalities

Have a good talk with her on what you think about her. Ask her for her opinion about you. It should be both ways. Dun bottle all "unhappiness" up inside your self. Talk to her in a nice manner, tell her you love her and want to make thing works, if she really loves you, she will appreciate and hopefully put in efforts to make the relationship a happier one.

Choosing a "right" partner is important especially after all the "honeymoon period" is over. Shortcomings of each other starts to appear and problem will arise. These are testing moments of the relationship, pass it you will move forward, fail it move on with life.

Cheer up and Good luck!!