To stay in or out of a relationship with a KTV gal

[Steadyman1]

Originally Posted by Fatjumbo

2 weeks ago, she issued royal edict that when I cheong KTV...only her and no other gals allowed to sit with me with condition, I don't have to give her any tip. But if I sit any gals, I got to pay the number of gals tip ( eg 5 gals at 20 tip = 100 bucks ) plus I got to give her additional 100 bucks too. ( think she is trying to control and contain my lust to her only in this instance) Same reason like if I getting free bonk now...and prefer to pay for freelance or other KTV gals...why not pay her instead as extra allowances !!!

Next time go don't tell her and when see her there, just say you are here for freedom... hahahahha.. Who the boss man!!

[Fatjumbo]

Morning dear Bro EtherC

Thanks for the kind compliments in the morning.

We bros are all out to have a great time, be it fustration at work or away from the family pressure etc etc...lots more reasons, some of them could be personal. I don't know.

>>What humble opinion I wish to offer is that in relationships such as these no one owes each other a living. There is no need for you to give her a lump sum for compensation. Get her a nice gift which is reasonably priced as what you would give a close friend for housewarming or events of similar proportions. Something for her to remember you by. A nice parting will do you and this WL much good. Cheers!

Absolutely true, in actual fact we own them nothing. She's a WL, and probably forever could be one earning a living in her own special way be it moral or not depends on one's belief.

I think the KC part kicked in when I felt I kiam her for so many memorable pleasure companionship throughout this mth plus. Giving me back those GFE. Yea probably I will do that, a gift that she will remember me.

I hope to have a good parting too with her really. Treat it as a fond memories rather than turn it into hate and misery for her.

Thanks for the advise

jumbo

[Fatjumbo]

Originally Posted by Steadyman1

Next time go don't tell her and when see her there, just say you are here for freedom... hahahahha.. Who the boss man!!

Hello Bro steadyman1,

nah....might not go liao...see how.. maybe follow our "botak"
upgrade to higher joint lor...since he complaining too liao

Catch up soon

[genzgenz]

Originally Posted by Fatjumbo

Morning Bro,

>>Hey from what I see....you avoid her sms, panicky, forcing yourself not to fall in love with her and turn to be a bastard......blah blah blah, hey u are KCed, and still are, and may go deeper - u din notice it only................if not, why avoid this avoid that, it should means nothing to you if you are not KCed.

I avoided her sms cos I wanted to test her reaction. Panicky is her...not me, for quite a few occasions, she almost freaked out and thought I dump her quietly. I cannot fall in love with her ( I am not single ). Can only be kept as mistress/companion.

Avoiding can be a form of testing for her affection and so call love real bor !!
I told her she wants to leave now, i am also fine with it...in fact happier cos I can go back to my own self.... more new gals and rubba sessions.

Whats yr take on my views ?

of cos she panicks. so many weeks of effort all pao-tang (dissolve in soup).

many of the KTV girls long to be 'bao' for maybe 2k or 3k per month. In this market, its probably better than their daily earnings.

assuming she gets 3 table each night, just 60$ for tips 1 session, another 60$ for the next. unless she gets 'booked out' every night.

else, 2k per month wld give her stable 'taitai' life..

so of cos she panicks!

[jojogigi]

Originally Posted by Fatjumbo

I hopeto have a good parting too with her really. Treat it as a fond memories rather than turn it into hate and misery for her.

Thanks for the advise

jumbo

this bold letter thing will kill you. careful. learnt from my jedi master one.

btw its advice not advise.....

[Absolute]

Originally Posted by Fatjumbo

Dear Bro DT23 and all bros who is tune in to this thread,

Me too, after a whole sunday loboing, pondering over all that has happened over the past mth or so with this gal.

My final conclusion,

1) It would be more appropriate for me to move on back to the client/ktv gal formula instead of GF/BF relationship despite KTVing together and bonking FOC. Like u mentioned bro, better to pay and bonk, companionship and then forget move on.

2) It's becoming uneasy for her to vomit out all the details of her day's work( old man touch her here and there etc etc ) and for me to listen to all the bo liao stuff including nag nag nag remembrance of old customers how nice they were to her etc etc.

3) Why picked me instead of the banker guy who could afford to buy her time without blinking an eyelid and booked a Swissotel room on one of the highest floor for a night. Isn't he the better guy to date than me..... FCUK !!!

4) Why last night comment during the meet up, compared me to her previous long time customers or potential BFs that even though I am financially and income level more solid than the rest but I am not as generous as the rest earning much lesser than me !!!! I am bloody angry at this comment !!! Felt like asking her to get out of my CAR and look for that pampering gentleman BF. Another FCUK feeling !!!

5) I feel I don't want to waste anymore of her precious time....Kiam her too long liao....guilt hurts for her not working and wasting time bonking me or accompanying me whenever I am free.

Wish me luck in the final finale to break the news to her bros. I don't know what sort of curse or swearing I might have to go through eventually. Time to be a real bastard !!!

jumbo

Fatjumbo,

Your reasons should be:

1) My family
2) My young marriage
3) My wife
4) My children
5) My KTV gal

You should always adopt the fuck and forget if you really insist on having fun outside, you dumbhead!

[Steadyman1]

As what Bro Fishcer has mentioned, please bring your debate in the new TCSS forum.

Originally Posted by Absolute

...You should always adopt the fuck and forget if you really insist on having fun outside, you dumbhead!

Originally Posted by Fishcer

Guys, this is a never-ending discussion/debate....so shall we just leave it out of the picture? As long as males and females co-exist, irregardless of whether are there any vice activities available, there will always be issues of bigamy...so let's just leave it out of the forum.

Sure, ur allowed to have ur freedom of speech, but pls try to look at the situation/thread b4 posting ur thoughts.

[Fatjumbo]

Originally Posted by Absolute

Fatjumbo,

Your reasons should be:

1) My family
2) My young marriage
3) My wife
4) My children
5) My KTV gal

You should always adopt the fuck and forget if you really insist on having fun outside, you dumbhead!

Dear Bro Absolute,

I don't know what I have done to cause you to have an egoistic view on me. If I am a dumbhead as you described.... you might be just a 15 yrs old nincompoo with the way you are posting. Ps: till now u are still bloody RUDE Please get a life and move on lah.

[Fatjumbo]

Morning Bro genzgenz,

Thanks for the feedback and response.

>>of cos she panicks. so many weeks of effort all pao-tang (dissolve in soup).many of the KTV girls long to be 'bao' for maybe 2k or 3k per month. In this market, its probably better than their daily earnings.assuming she gets 3 table each night, just 60$ for tips 1 session, another 60$ for the next. unless she gets 'booked out' every night.else, 2k per month wld give her stable 'taitai' life..so of cos she panicks!

Hahaha....she can always find a better catch lah, me just a small housefly. Not worth all the effort and time at all. Not sure what u gentlemen think if she willing to give me BBBJ and CIM as a whole package ? Does it mean she is darn serious of the relationship ? Many a times, she mentioned she "Fan Jian" rich boss /Tao kay jio her she don't want....prefer to be with someone she loves than to be with someone who shower her with the money and gifts. Overall, to her it's not just about the money ( have or don't have doesn't matter cos she can earn it herself) , feeling and trust also is very important for her to be with a particular person. That's her feeling not mine...so don't blame me for sharing this.

Nevertheless, the Pat Toying ( dating ) will have to be over sooner or later. The railway line will always come to a stop at the other end.

Jumbo

[genzgenz]

well,

1. other better guy would probably have better choices of girls.. its the same transaction... demand and supply, unlimited each side.

2. either way, a few months of effort coming to waste! i'd be panicky if i am her... not necessary devastating but definitely upset and trying to get back on track

[alwayseatout]

Originally Posted by Steadyman1

Next time go don't tell her and when see her there, just say you are here for freedom... hahahahha.. Who the boss man!!

Or mayb he can say go there for Sotong Balls?

[alwayseatout]

Originally Posted by Fatjumbo

Seriously bro colins,

I don't know what the freak she sees in me ? I mentioned before I am no big Tao Kay or Ah Sia kia.... She is free to go and look for others bigger fish if she ever can find one to take care of her ( meaning no need to work anymore ).

Maybe u hv something big tat she likes?

[Fatjumbo]

Originally Posted by alwayseatout

Maybe u hv something big tat she likes?

Ahahaha....sotong balls... wait she go supermarket buy 10 big packs and fry for me.... u help me eat them ok bro ??

Big ?? haha.... my tank on the road where everybody better give way u mean ?? hee hee hee

[Fishcer]

So Bro Jumbo, u haven't finale with her yet ah? Me super k-poh man....waiting for the finale to c fireworks leh...

[Fatjumbo]

Originally Posted by Fishcer

So Bro Jumbo, u haven't finale with her yet ah? Me super k-poh man....waiting for the finale to c fireworks leh...

Hinted very obvious liao end is nearing or here ( if she agrees ). Said she will not let me go, pleaded me not to be so hardhearted. Will be a disgrace for her at work since many colleagues plus her flatmates all know she's got a BF liao.

My Kakis advice me to let go slowly not immediate like dropping a stone into pond. Anyway, I get to enjoy all the bonks still