Gers Are Still Gers

[Kyser Soze]

Originally Posted by nickygoh

their mood even harder to predict than the stock markets. they suka suka treat sg men like dirt.... play them out... F*!#.

i met this sg ger, highly educated, somemore in legal profession.... suka suka said meet up... being nice, i went thru the planning for the session and smsed her on the details. somemore sms'ed her one day in advance to remind her of the appointment.. In the end, reply came on the actual day itself "sorry. i slept early and missed your sms. and i thought the appointment was called off.... shall we meet another day? lunch on me." this happened not just once.... but couple of times. i got so fed up that i made her do the planning, late to turn up, thruout the dinner, spare no face for her, seize every opportunities to said "you have put on weight.... etc..."

maybe i not yan dao enuff or not as rich as her lah.... BUT the feeling of being treated like dirt is not fun and not good at all. i do not know if she is genuinely interested in staking out in this relationship.... she gave many misleading signs, can't interpret her intention... What's worst. She has a boyfriend and nvr told me anything on this...

Mind games from girls are very taxing on a guy's mind. I encountered this girl, whom I find her quite pleasant in terms of personality and character. I took the chance to send her flowers and bear. She accepted it quite well. In fact, she SMSed me saying the items I sent are 'kinda cute'. I took it as a positive remark. Later, I continued my courtship within the next few weeks. Soon, she became rather 'black-face', ignoring my eye contact, refusing to reply to my SMSes or reply without much heart. All these from heaven-to-hell happen within weeks.

I wonder what really happens. She refused to tell. I asked her to spare my misery by telling me if I still stand a chance directly. She refused to give a straight-forward answer, citing she's trouble over her work commitment.

This is a pain, really is. I wished that I have never started wooing her. In the end, I'm in all kinds of emotional troubles. Ladies, pls spare a thought for the guys. If you are not interested, pls give a direct answer. So as not to waste each other's time.

[no_faith]

bro kyser, apologize if i being blunt.
she accepted it quite well, the gifts are free.
kinda cute maybe it juz another way to say thank you to u.

she turn black face, imho, maybe she expecting more gifts from u but u nvr give wor.

y ask her/woman qns, u nvr get an answer anyway.

[Kyser Soze]

Bro no_faith,
I agree that it takes more than a rocket scientist to figure out what women are really thinking. In any case, women are women. Now I'm still pondering whether to continue to court this girl.

[suteerak1099]

Originally Posted by _AXL_

double standards nevermind... still expect us to be PSYCHIC enough to know when to treat her as an equal and when to "sayang" her like a little girl!!! they think the world is full of chris angels lor!!!

think what they want is old money, inherited money... not the new money, money we make ourselves!!! how many rich heirs r there in sg??? wonder if they dare to behave like an arse when with those rich people??? confirmed dont dare... cos too much at stake... end of the day, whether they want to behave or not depends on money still!!! got money then the CB mouth will bloody shut up!!! sg women who r like that, pls do us a favour... stop taking us average sg men as alternatives, only settling for us when u cant get a rich heir...

LOL... bro, i like your style. indeed there's not many sg men out there who's parents own a mint. and when she finally lands herself w a rich man's son, she suddenly morphs into the sweet, nice & submissive gf. dont dare to breathe a word of opinion, dont dare to fart even.

Originally Posted by _AXL_

actually, their fathers were not rich and didnt and couldnt provide those material needs... so responsibility fell on the poor husbands... they thought marrying off means she gets away from the poverty.

and talking about princesses... the swallow princess show with her bloody high pitched voice, really personified the sg woman!!! irritating, total lack of manners and totally spoilt!!! never failed to make me want to slap her so hard that she gets stuck to the wall for good...

wat to do? over here, the species is very much just up to that level only. the good ones, already snatched up long ago.

1 of my less social inclined fren was curious & attended 1 of those SDU function once, he got the shock of his life & swore never to attend any of those things again...

reason; sg gals who're past the shelf life (90% CMI) r still typically hanging their noses high up. he even joked about being tempted to massacre the whole lot... hahahah.

[suteerak1099]

Originally Posted by nickygoh

their mood even harder to predict than the stock markets. they suka suka treat sg men like dirt.... play them out... F*!#.

i met this sg ger, highly educated, somemore in legal profession.... suka suka said meet up... being nice, i went thru the planning for the session and smsed her on the details. somemore sms'ed her one day in advance to remind her of the appointment.. In the end, reply came on the actual day itself "sorry. i slept early and missed your sms. and i thought the appointment was called off.... shall we meet another day? lunch on me." this happened not just once.... but couple of times. i got so fed up that i made her do the planning, late to turn up, thruout the dinner, spare no face for her, seize every opportunities to said "you have put on weight.... etc..." ...

fren, maybe its wise to try a target that's within reach & not beyond reach. she's in the legal sector could also mean she's drawing a better wage (not necessarily higher or equal to you), but she's ok on her own ... which puts u at disadvantage.

she could even be taking u as guinea pig to test those misleading signs, maybe to help her hone her skills in netting lawyers, or if not, its just something to boost her own self esteem.... knowing that she's still got something that sets the guy wagging his tail.

but i salute u for using the "u've put on weight!..." on her. well done!

[suteerak1099]

Originally Posted by _AXL_

... secret is no need to behave like we r desperate.

agreed! the more we behave desperate... the more vulnerable we are. its just like fishing... cant get the big catch if we keep reeling in the line when there's no tugging of the line.

Originally Posted by _AXL_

i have always likened dating to playing tennis, which i love!!! idea of the game is not hitting the ball, but making sure that the ball is in her court, not yours. that way, we r not going to lose out. if she doesnt want to play, it helps to have others (friends, buddies) to enjoy yourself with...

nice analogy, bt as refered to the movie "kate & leopold" which quotes: "... have the ball in your court.... leaving her in suspense & anticipation..." watever the version may be, i think the idea in general is to be in control of the situation. let her anticpate your actions, not us anticipating her's.

[suteerak1099]

Originally Posted by Kyser Soze

Bro no_faith,
I agree that it takes more than a rocket scientist to figure out what women are really thinking. In any case, women are women. Now I'm still pondering whether to continue to court this girl.

be reminded, the costs involved in courtship is peanuts, compared to the costs of maintaining the relationship for the long haul.

[surfer888]

Originally Posted by suteerak1099

LOL... bro, i like your style. indeed there's not many sg men out there who's parents own a mint. and when she finally lands herself w a rich man's son, she suddenly morphs into the sweet, nice & submissive gf. dont dare to breathe a word of opinion, dont dare to fart even.

ROTFL. But her fart would be raspberry scented, eh?

Originally Posted by suteerak1099

reason; sg gals who're past the shelf life (90% CMI) r still typically hanging their noses high up. he even joked about being tempted to massacre the whole lot... hahahah.

Their noses are held high for a good reason... they can't stand the smell of themselves.

[surfer888]

Originally Posted by _AXL_

and talking about princesses... the swallow princess show with her bloody high pitched voice, really personified the sg woman!!! irritating, total lack of manners and totally spoilt!!! never failed to make me want to slap her so hard that she gets stuck to the wall for good...

Swallow princess of Mediacorp got high pitch voice meh?

[suteerak1099]

Originally Posted by surfer888

Swallow princess of Mediacorp got high pitch voice meh?

i think he refering to 小燕子 personified by zhao wei.

[surfer888]

Originally Posted by suteerak1099

i think he refering to 小燕子 personified by zhao wei.

OIC... thought it was Imedeen.

Zhao Wei most welcome to swallow as well.

[84gunner]

Originally Posted by surfer888

Their noses are held high for a good reason... they can't stand the smell of themselves.

chow chee bye? chee bye 2 smelly?

[84gunner]

Originally Posted by Kyser Soze

Mind games from girls are very taxing on a guy's mind. I encountered this girl, whom I find her quite pleasant in terms of personality and character. I took the chance to send her flowers and bear. She accepted it quite well. In fact, she SMSed me saying the items I sent are 'kinda cute'. I took it as a positive remark. Later, I continued my courtship within the next few weeks. Soon, she became rather 'black-face', ignoring my eye contact, refusing to reply to my SMSes or reply without much heart. All these from heaven-to-hell happen within weeks.

I wonder what really happens. She refused to tell. I asked her to spare my misery by telling me if I still stand a chance directly. She refused to give a straight-forward answer, citing she's trouble over her work commitment.

This is a pain, really is. I wished that I have never started wooing her. In the end, I'm in all kinds of emotional troubles. Ladies, pls spare a thought for the guys. If you are not interested, pls give a direct answer. So as not to waste each other's time.

I believe she's dating another guy, but she's not able 2 make any decision yet, she doesn't really exactly know wat she wants, etc. She's oso abit afraid of dating more than 1 guy at the same time, cos she's worried she can't handle, wat if they guys find out, etc etc.

By rejecting u, she lose all her chances wif u. By not rejecting u yet, if things dun work out wif the other guy(s), she still have u as a reserve, a spare tyre. Usually, such sudden changes, especially within a few weeks only, happen when another guy sweeps her off her feet (probably she oso dun expect tat).

The other possibility is, she's intending 2 end the r'ship wif the other guy, but hasn't totally resolved it yet. She wanna date u, but gotta tie up those loose ends in the other r'ship.

[nickygoh]

Originally Posted by suteerak1099

fren, maybe its wise to try a target that's within reach & not beyond reach. she's in the legal sector could also mean she's drawing a better wage (not necessarily higher or equal to you), but she's ok on her own ... which puts u at disadvantage.

she could even be taking u as guinea pig to test those misleading signs, maybe to help her hone her skills in netting lawyers, or if not, its just something to boost her own self esteem.... knowing that she's still got something that sets the guy wagging his tail.

but i salute u for using the "u've put on weight!..." on her. well done!

yoz bro ! her bf same age as her... but not in legal sector. she's avg looking only, but if able to net her will mean a good bbbj free... thick lips.....

well... when it comes to the ultimum.. it means spare no mercy... she do lunar calendar 1st day, i will do lunar calendar 15th day.

don't treat sg guys like dirt ! is the message sent across to her...

[_AXL_]

Originally Posted by suteerak1099

LOL... bro, i like your style. indeed there's not many sg men out there who's parents own a mint. and when she finally lands herself w a rich man's son, she suddenly morphs into the sweet, nice & submissive gf. dont dare to breathe a word of opinion, dont dare to fart even..

thanks for the compliment. totally agree with u... rich man's son, suddenly become the submissive slut. end of the day, still must use $ to stuff her mouth!!! isnt that the modus operandi of a high class whore??? but bear in mind, still a whore nonetheless...

wat to do? over here, the species is very much just up to that level only. the good ones, already snatched up long ago.

good ones married long time ago, faithfully attached already or died liao... which is why even the crappy ones also getting their time and day from desperate men...

1 of my less social inclined fren was curious & attended 1 of those SDU function once, he got the shock of his life & swore never to attend any of those things again...

reason; sg gals who're past the shelf life (90% CMI) r still typically hanging their noses high up. he even joked about being tempted to massacre the whole lot... hahahah

boy, why m i not surprised???

but please ask yr pal not to do anything hor!!! just leave them be, CMI and all. still hanging their noses up in the air and let them make lots of $ and die alone in their nice little condos. no one would notice until the smell becomes unbearable!!!

Originally Posted by suteerak1099

agreed! the more we behave desperate... the more vulnerable we are. its just like fishing... cant get the big catch if we keep reeling in the line when there's no tugging of the line.

that's what i have been saying... acting desperate will come back to haunt us all!!! think about it, if the girl accepts a desperado, that doesnt portray her in a very positive light either. and she would be expecting the same kind of treatment and men cant live it up for the rest of their lives trying to be an eunuch to their princess wives.

which is why i always tell my potential gfs, what u see is what u get. i cannot and will not treat her like a princess all the time... maybe only once in a while. cos i respect her as an equal. i m not interested in women who wants me just to pamper her like a little girl all the time. that would mean she is in it only for the material gains or just in between relationships. but what i can promise is that i can always treat u just as well as what i m doing now. the ball is now in her court to make me WANT to treat her even better...

nice analogy, bt as refered to the movie "kate & leopold" which quotes: "... have the ball in your court.... leaving her in suspense & anticipation..." watever the version may be, i think the idea in general is to be in control of the situation. let her anticpate your actions, not us anticipating her's

hey, that's my meg ryan u r insulting!!! kate in the show was interested in leopold as well... and i dont think there r more than a handful of girls who will give up their glittering careers for their men, unless well, if their men owns the mint, i guess... (remember, in the show, leopold was going back to a broke household hor...) hahahahaha...

Originally Posted by surfer888

Their noses are held high for a good reason... they can't stand the smell of themselves.

ha, can always trust u to come up with such comments. think yr wifey must be having high blood pressure with yr retorts... damn, i m pitying her more and more each day...