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[Zoick]

I think you forget that you betrayed your wife too. But now you hated that young girl so much because she betrayed you? In relationship, no right and wrong. You want to play the game, then you are either the Winer or Loser. So why must take such revenge on that girl? Because she ruin your life? Or you are the one who actually ruin your own?

[Spytheman]

Trusting man was i felt i was in the past. i tend to trust and believe people and not doubting them first . after that incident with her, i lost every trust on evryone cos all seems like liar to me. she can lie and just fake everytik. anw i realise when love is gone , woman sometimes are more bastard to men. This is what i hated most. if you want to play bastard games with me , i am on. This is why i am here.

[medicheng]

TS, what you really get if you really ruin her life? Does life still the same for u after your revenge? Does your life remain as broken as now after you successfully have your sweet revenge?

Haiz.

Sometimes you got to let go, and pursue your own life and happiness. Even you can totally wrecked her life, so? You will be still the same as now.

No point, bro.

[asdfghjkl]

this competition still continues ah?

[no_faith]

i tot end liao?

[Spytheman]

no one up her yet so not over

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[no_faith]

bro spytheman, w r u?

[asdfghjkl]

she look familiar to me.. erm..

[8888]

have anyone turns out to be a winner yet?

Mayb threadstarter can PM me her contacts..Will want to give her a try..see whether my hunting skills still sharp or not.

[simple-minded]

hey bro spytheman, just hope i can say a feel words here.

first of all bro you need to calm down. in life, we hurt people, and we will get hurt as well. since you say that she came into your life when you were already married. yes i have to say that she is wrong, but i cannot say that you are not wrong as well. its true, cause if your will power is strong enough then you would have resisted her.

everybody makes mistakes in life. and everybody gets hurt by a girl or girls sometime in their life too. i have found out things about my current gf that would have made me not wanna be with her if i knew about those things at the start of the relationship, but i have already fallen in love with her, and since those things are the past, there is only 1 thing to do, and that is to let it go. forgive and forget. and everything feels so much better now.

same for you bro. there is no point taking revenge. even after you get your revenge. i can tell you that you wont feel much better. ya you may feel good at first because you ruined her life after she ruined yours. but after awhile you will start thinking whether it was worth it. just forgive and forget. and continue to live life. go on a holiday or something. and just do things to get your mind off.

i dare to say this because previously my ex also hurt me alot as well, and i hated her alot for that. i actually made her life a living hell. (she was one of the sg idol contestant actually lol). then one day i dunno why i was drunk and i went up to her and apologised to her. after that when we started talking again, it just felt sooo good. maybe bro you should try that too. give yourself and her a cooling off time. then if can then be friends. if cannot then just stay away from each other. dont have to take revenge.

just a few words of my thought here. hope bro dont flame me or something. just saying what i really really think. and hope things go well for you bro.

[birdie8819]

Originally Posted by simple-minded

hey bro spytheman, just hope i can say a feel words here.

first of all bro you need to calm down. in life, we hurt people, and we will get hurt as well. since you say that she came into your life when you were already married. yes i have to say that she is wrong, but i cannot say that you are not wrong as well. its true, cause if your will power is strong enough then you would have resisted her.

everybody makes mistakes in life. and everybody gets hurt by a girl or girls sometime in their life too. i have found out things about my current gf that would have made me not wanna be with her if i knew about those things at the start of the relationship, but i have already fallen in love with her, and since those things are the past, there is only 1 thing to do, and that is to let it go. forgive and forget. and everything feels so much better now.

same for you bro. there is no point taking revenge. even after you get your revenge. i can tell you that you wont feel much better. ya you may feel good at first because you ruined her life after she ruined yours. but after awhile you will start thinking whether it was worth it. just forgive and forget. and continue to live life. go on a holiday or something. and just do things to get your mind off.

i dare to say this because previously my ex also hurt me alot as well, and i hated her alot for that. i actually made her life a living hell. (she was one of the sg idol contestant actually lol). then one day i dunno why i was drunk and i went up to her and apologised to her. after that when we started talking again, it just felt sooo good. maybe bro you should try that too. give yourself and her a cooling off time. then if can then be friends. if cannot then just stay away from each other. dont have to take revenge.

just a few words of my thought here. hope bro dont flame me or something. just saying what i really really think. and hope things go well for you bro.

Clasp Clasp , well written bro . If everyone in this world like you it'll be a peaceful world liao .

[hubber27]

Originally Posted by Frankiestine

killing myself...ok that i never did takes a lot of guts to stare death in your face...
but i got myself drunk silly so many times and yes also fucking fls to vent my fustration after she decided she could not put up any more with such a abnormal relationship...
as for vengeance, believe me i was much more vindictive then you, thou i did not know the other guy personally, he was single successful and had all the 5cs...but i am a very resourceful person, found out where he worked, stayed, what club membership he owns, which condos he has...whenever i knew she was going out with him....sometimes i will stalked her at her block, then go over to his place and waited for the "bastard" to arrive at his place...i had thoughts of ambushing him and whacked him up real good...even sabotaging his car cutting his brakes etc...many many evil thoughts came in...some times i would trail his parents....thinking how i could hurt them to get back at him for "stealing" my gal away...i would call his place and like a psycho say nothing but breathe heavily over the line...putting the fear into him...finally we actually met...he was real scare believe me....i was even nearly arrested by the police for being a public nuisance at her place cos i was so piss drunk and creating a scene...but becos of how i acted towards them...it push any chances of a reconciliation with my gal out...she was terrified of my behavior....

like you i wanted to ruin all chances she had with any guys....but then when i think back...what right did i had to demand anything from her...i was a married man with a family and she was a eligible single woman who had many potential suitors and at one stage she was turning them down as she was waiting for me...

the hurt and so call betrayal takes time to get over, i wouldn't term what she did as betraying me of cos at that point of time i felt it was but now thinking back, did i have the same rights as a single guy?

So bro take it easy dun let your hurt and hatred consumed you until it distorts your judgment.....i nearly allowed it to destroyed me..

Your experience is really scary. When I read your post, its seem like going to be me posting such an experience. True now that my wife and kid duno yet and my gf A is... well already knows about my marriage before we were together. All the while, i have been planning to divorce my wife, leaving my kid to her. Giving all alimony I can afford so I can be with A. But A insist that I mustn't do that and A will be even more stress from our relationship if I'm divorced.

At present, me and A are at cool off period. She is too stress up with her uni stuffs, frens and parents. She had to lie to all ppl in the world just to come out with me and keep having the fear of someone she knows seen me and her together everytime we go shopping.

i know I will go berserk like Spytheman and Frankiestine if she ever betray me. Well she almost did it once and she told me about it. I had haunting nightmares about it. This guy got drunk, she help him to his room, he grab her and start kissing and caressing her but A push him away although A was yearning to have a guy's hugz while I was stuck at home with wife and kid.

I hated the incidents so much that I started to stalk her guy friends to find out who is the BLOODY BASTARD!! A never told me cos she knows that I will explode and could kill him. The incidents still haunting me now.

A's parents will never let her be with me even thou i'm divorced or what. I'm just not good enough for her. But still MY entire KC is for A, willing to let go anything for A. Now we are at cool off period due to her uni's stuff is too heavy and I miss her alot.

I might be going to the path of the senior here. haiz.... What to do when it comes to real KC.

After reading thru the post of spydertheman, Bro, I really having the same feeling and thought. I just duno when will this going to happen to me and will I have as much hatred as you do now. I sincerely empathise your feeling and hatred. I would curse the sky "why you so CB to us?" Why Is it so hard just for two love birds to be together? Why Would it have to end up like this?

[Kunotz]

Originally Posted by hubber27

I might be going to the path of the senior here. haiz.... What to do when it comes to real KC.

Bro, how come never tell me the story when we go BS .... n u never tell A about it ..

[darke]

Originally Posted by hubber27

Your experience is really scary. When I read your post, its seem like going to be me posting such an experience. True now that my wife and kid duno yet and my gf A is... well already knows about my marriage before we were together. All the while, i have been planning to divorce my wife, leaving my kid to her. Giving all alimony I can afford so I can be with A. But A insist that I mustn't do that and A will be even more stress from our relationship if I'm divorced.

At present, me and A are at cool off period. She is too stress up with her uni stuffs, frens and parents. She had to lie to all ppl in the world just to come out with me and keep having the fear of someone she knows seen me and her together everytime we go shopping.

i know I will go berserk like Spytheman and Frankiestine if she ever betray me. Well she almost did it once and she told me about it. I had haunting nightmares about it. This guy got drunk, she help him to his room, he grab her and start kissing and caressing her but A push him away although A was yearning to have a guy's hugz while I was stuck at home with wife and kid.

I hated the incidents so much that I started to stalk her guy friends to find out who is the BLOODY BASTARD!! A never told me cos she knows that I will explode and could kill him. The incidents still haunting me now.

A's parents will never let her be with me even thou i'm divorced or what. I'm just not good enough for her. But still MY entire KC is for A, willing to let go anything for A. Now we are at cool off period due to her uni's stuff is too heavy and I miss her alot.

I might be going to the path of the senior here. haiz.... What to do when it comes to real KC.

After reading thru the post of spydertheman, Bro, I really having the same feeling and thought. I just duno when will this going to happen to me and will I have as much hatred as you do now. I sincerely empathise your feeling and hatred. I would curse the sky "why you so CB to us?" Why Is it so hard just for two love birds to be together? Why Would it have to end up like this?

i understand all ur feeling... everyone hv to go thru this headache...

[Hostage down]

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